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Kyle Palermo Obituary

On November 27, 2009 my beautiful son, Kyle, ended his own life while under the influence of drugs and alcohol. We are all devastated at the loss of him and our lives will never be the same. We will carry him in our hearts forever and ever.

Calling hours are Tues, Dec. 1st from 4 to 8 p.m. at the Cox Funeral Home, 1376 High St., Wadsworth, Funeral Service is Wed., Dec. 2nd at 2 p.m. Deacon Roger Klaas officiating. In lieu of flowers you can make donations to Cox Funeral Home in care of the family to assist with funeral expenses.

COX WADSWORTH (330) 335-3311

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Published by Akron Beacon Journal on Dec. 1, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Kyle Palermo

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s r

February 8, 2010

I know its been a while, but i figure it still wouldnt hurt to write ya. I miss you soo much, I have your card set up with roses, and candles at all times. I love you kyle. Your still my boy!

KAYLA THOMAS

January 5, 2010

iM A DAY LATE BUT STiLL WANTED TO TELL YOU HAPPY BiTHYDAY KYLE! i THOUGHT OF YOU A LOT YESTERDAY AND iTS CRAZY HOW FAST TiME GOES. i LOVE YOU AND MiSS YOU LOTS. XOXOX

Krista Patterson

December 20, 2009

I can't begin to express how deeply sorry I am to hear about the young life that so many shared so many memories with is no longer here with this world. I have never met Kyle nor the family, but I am dealing with the shock of suicide myself. I lost my husband, Josh Patterson, Sept 1, 2009. We have two beautiful daughters together that is a part of him. I have been grieving for what seems like years, but has only been 3 1/2 months. You will find so many different feeling throughout your rough journey of dealing with this. You will never have answers and that is going to be the hardest! Stay strong! Easier said than done. But my biggest advice I can give is support groups, counseling and speak with ones that have lost someone in this "unanswering" way. My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to you and everyone that Kyle touched in his short time here.

John & Marlene Poda

December 11, 2009

Dear Lori and family,

We were deeply saddened and shocked to hear about Kyle from our daughter, Jill. May God wrap his loving arms around you and your family and comfort you and bring peace to all of your hearts. John and I would like to offer our sincere condolences. You and your family will forever be in our thoughts and prayers.

The Ridenour's (Ron, Jill, Katelyn, Courtney, and Nicholas)

December 10, 2009

All of us are at a loss for words. We are so shocked and deeply saddened to hear about Kyle. We just heard about it today from our neighbor. All of us would like to offer our sincere condolences. May God give all of you strength and comfort you always. Lori, that is a beautiful and very touching obituary that you wrote about Kyle. Your family will forever be in our thoughts and prayers.

Dave Clouser

December 6, 2009

Sorry for your loss and may god wrap his loving arms around your family and bring peace to your hearts

Beaudee Cline

December 5, 2009

kyle we shared so many memories over our many years of friendship. none of which i will ever regret. one of the most memorable ones that comes to mind is the time over at mikeys house when we were shadow boxing and you accidently puched me in the nose. it hurt really bad but i have never laughed so hard in my entire life.i love you and your family very much. your mom was the nicest lady i have ever met and she supported all of our little games and never would say no to me, josh, aharon, mike, scott, and tyler she supported us as much as any mom would support there own children. i will never forget you nathan julie or lori for as long as i shall live.BPH for life RIP kyle thanks for everything.1love i miss you so much man!see you at the crossroads! Love, Beaudee Cline

Linda Lucas

December 4, 2009

Dearest Lori and Family. I am grievous at your loss. I am so sorry that you've had to suffer this tragedy. I lost my Grandson to suicide nearly two years ago, and it's a long arduous journey.

Just know that you are being lifted up in prayer for a reprieve from the grief that grips your heart right now.

God Bless,
Lin Lucas

Still praying in

December 4, 2009

I hope your family continues to find comfort and strength through these tributes to Kyle. This time of year seems to leave people thinking there is no way out. This year especially, I know of 3 other lost souls that took their own life. They are at peace but the families suffer and live with wondering if there was something that could of been said or done to prevent such a desperate choice.

To Kyle's brother, your words to Kyle touched me just as your mother's did. I pray for comfort and peace to you and your entire family. It seems that people who take their own lives will succeed one way or another no matter what loved ones try to do or say to help them.

Once again I am taken back by your heartfelt words. Your strength and courage will touch many lives, you may never know how many so please continue to reach out. I truly believe God works through people and there are Angels is heaven. Kyle is one of them!

December 4, 2009

I didn't know the family but was moved by Kyle's mother's courage in sharing the true cause of her son's death - addiction. So many are still suffering and perhaps reading this will allow them to take the seat Kyle may have had at a recovery meeting. God Bless your family and may you find comfort in the memories of your child.

KAYLA THOMAS

December 3, 2009

HEY THERE KYLE, i MISS YOU TERRiBLY.. MORE THEN WORDS CAN SAY. i AM VERY THANKFUL TO HAVE HAD YOU AS A GOOD FRiEND, EVER SiNCE WE MET iN MiDDLE SCHOOL AND ALL THE GREAT YEARS WE HAD AFTER. YOU ARE ONE OF THE MOST SWEETEST AND FUNNiEST GUYS i EVER MET.
iTS HARD TO THiNK THAT YOUR NO LONGER DOWN HERE WiTH US AND SOMETiMES i DONT WANNA BELiEVE iT., BUT ALL I CAN DO iS THiNK OF ALL THE UNFORGETABLE MEMORiES AND i'VE COME TO REALiZE THAT YOUR iN A BETTER PLACE NOW WITH NO MORE WORRiES. i LOVE YOU MUCH KYLE AND MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR VERY STRONG FAMILY!

Joe and Georgeann Palermo

December 3, 2009

The Palermo Family,

Could someone please send me Lori's address. Joe and I would love to send a card of sympathy. Thanks

Lori, Joe and I were at the funeral home and although we've never gotten to know you well...we feel so sad about your Kyle. Please know that you, Robert and the whole Palermo family are in our prayers at this difficult time..Much love to all,

Cheryl

December 3, 2009

Hi to all I just had to write and tell you that Kyles loss is moving hearts even in Florida. My memories are good ones like the day he was born then, came home to Canal Fulton only to grow up enough to invade his sister Julie's room. He would run in and steal something and run as fast as he could laughing the whole time. He was so cute with his grandpa Mullinax's chin dimple. I pulled out pictures from x-mas at grandpa's house with Santa Clause. Here again being center of attention, wanting to open everyone's gifts. So cute no one could really be mad at him for long. Please remember the "good times" everyday. He will always be a joy in my heart. Thanks for sharing your heavy heart I'm sorry for his short life. Have hope each new day will bring a bright thought, to lighten your load. He was just a chemically sick little boy in an adult body and was to confused to see tomorrow. Now his tomorrows are bright and many others will be too. Thanks for sharing your sorrow. Love and support to all that loved Kyle, for his loss will be great!

December 2, 2009

The Lord is my Shepherd; I shall not want.
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures:
He leadeth me beside the still waters.
He restoreth my soul:
He leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for His name' sake.



Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I will fear no evil: For thou art with me;
Thy rod and thy staff, they comfort me.
Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies;
Thou annointest my head with oil; My cup runneth over.



Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the House of the Lord forever

Look to God in this time, I hope that you are blessed with all of the good memories of your son, in this time. He will live in your hearts forever.

December 2, 2009

Dear Lori and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very difficult time. May God give you strength and peace. Rod and Sue White, Bill, Dan, Becky and T.J. (Canal Fulton)

Amy

December 2, 2009

I am sorry to hear of your loss. May the good memories always keep your heart full. I hope he is at peace.

Ashley

December 2, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of loss. It feels like just yesterday we were still neighbors in the backyard playing wiffle ball. Now every time i look at that bare spot close to where our yards would meet i will always think of you Kyle, it can be your spot. I stood outside and looked around and all the memories we had just came rushing back. The days where we were young and care free and had fun doing anything. You were an amazingly funny person who always made me laugh no matter what kind of mood i was in. Its a tragedy that this had to happen and i keep thinking that i'll wake up and realize its just a dream. But its your turn to be our guardian angel. God only takes the best and i thank him everyday that i got the privilege to know you and your wonderful family. And even though you are no longer with us your memory will remain with all the lives you have touched. But it's not goodbye, because we will see you again one day, so for now its see you later.


"While we are mourning the loss of our friend, others are rejoicing to meet him behind the veil."

R.I.P Kyle you will be missed soo much, but will be forever in our hearts <3

Alan & Zsuzsanna

December 2, 2009

Lori and family: Our hearts grieve with you for your loss. We pray that you and your family may find peace and comfort during this difficult time. Our deepest condolences...

Ryan & Angie Norman

December 2, 2009

Hello! We've never met, but we felt the need to reach out to you and your family during this sorrowful time.
We lost our brother-in-law, Joshua Patterson, three months ago, yesterday. He was 28 years old with two young daughters, one of which, will never remember him, except through stories and pictures. He was having a rough time, not sleeping, eating, and resorting to alcohol. He, too, took his own life. It is the worse thing we have had to live through, to this day.
Don't give up! Everyday is hard and slowly it gets better. One thing that can't be taken from everyone is their memories.
We have a little advice, just keep talking and sharing. Everyone mourns differently. You are all here to carry on Kyle's memories. Hang in there & take care!

Carolyn Conley

December 2, 2009

We lost our son, Kevin, to suicide in 2006. He too was involved with drugs. We tried everything possible to help him...but he didn't want the help. He took his own life by jumping off the Y Bridge. Since then, we have worked tirelessly to get the bridge fenced. Work on the bridge will begin in March. We know your pain. May God bless you with his comfort, for everything happens for a reason. We will keep your family and Kyle in our prayers. God Bless You.

Margaret Musgrave

December 2, 2009

Dear John & Joyce,
Please know you will be in my thoughts and prayers for along time to come, as I have also suffered suicide in my immediate family.I pray Jesus will carry you as he still carries me.
God Bless You,and take comfort in the knowledge Jesus is holding Kyle and keeping him safe until you see each other again.
With deepest Sympathy,
Margaret Musgrave (ccs med).

December 2, 2009

What a brave and moving tribute you have written to your son. I read it a couple days ago but was moved to return and leave you my own thoughts. Alcoholism and drug addiction is a horrible, controlling, insidious disease that makes us do things we would not normally consider. It gives us a skewed view of ourselves and others. Clearly Kyle was a wonderful, funny, loving friend, brother and son with a terrible disease. I am sorry for you and him that he never found sobriety. There is no doubt that, as you wish, lives will be changed due to the words you have written. I am 13 years sober and I have an 18 year old son that I love more than life. My greatest fear is that he will be genetically predisposed to my disease. People need to know that there is hope and recovery ready and available right here locally. Start with the phone book. Make a call. It can save you life.
My heart aches for your family. God Bless you all.

December 2, 2009

I didnt know you very well. But i remeber meeting you a few times. You were always real nice to me:) And usually had somthing hilarious to say. I went trough your comments on here and everyone cares so much for you and your mother wow she seems really great and strong! i know its hard to find the good out of somthing bad and it seems like thats what shes trying to do. you may be gone but youll always be with us. and your mother is right. your helping out so so many people! You being gone will never come as a good thing but in what youve done youre going to save alot of live even if you didnt relize it. Im going to sleep now. You and your family are and will be in my prayers! Rest in peace.

jessika gosen

December 2, 2009

my heart breaks when i think of kyle and said previously, this untimely tragedy. i see how much it affects my brother nick gosen, and johnny peterson, which are two very important people in my life. i got to know kyle pretty well, and he was always smiles and had things to say, and was ready to back me whenever i needed him. im in shock, and cant really find the words. i just hope this opens peoples' eyes. it surely has mine. kyle i will miss you greatly! RIP. Lori, Julie, Nathan- you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Michelle

December 2, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You're honesty is sure to help people and encourage people to talk about this. Hopefully your candidness will bring attention to this and ultimately prevent someone from doing this. Please accept my sincere condolences!

Jaime Ludle

December 1, 2009

I do not know you but I just want to let you know that my heart goes out to you and your family!!!

December 1, 2009

Dear Palermo Family;

I am so very sorry for your loss, and applaud your strength in being able to share your grief with so many others so that Kyle's death may help even one other person seek help. Please think of all the wonderful times you had with him.


There is a poem called When I'm Gone.. It reminds us to remember only the good things, and none of the bad. Please find a moment to google this "copyrighted" poem. It helped me overcome the death of my sister when she was murdered.

May God Bless You

Carol

December 1, 2009

Gods bessings to your family. My son is waiting to go to rehab and I told him about Kyle today. I know the pain and hurt that Kyles mom must feel. I know Kyle is with Jesus and I thank you for sharing your sons life. God will wrap his loving arms around his mom and family. My prayers are with you

Patricia Reinhold

December 1, 2009

I too, like many others, do not know your family or did I know your son. My heart ached when I read Kyle's obituary. I certainly can't say I know how you feel loing a child. I would like to offer my my deepest sympathy to you and your family. My mother passed a few years ago and this poem helped me through some of the most difficult times....maybe it will bring you just a little comfort.

“Safely Home”

I am home in Heaven, dear ones;
Oh so happy and so bright
There is perfect joy and beauty
In this everlasting light.

All the pain and grief is over,
Every restless tossing passed;
I am now at peace forever,
Safely home in Heaven at last.

Did you wonder I so calmly
Trod the valley of the shade?
Oh, but Jesus’ love illumined
Every dark and fearful glade.

And He came Himself to meet me
In that way so hard to tread;
And with Jesus’ arm to lean on
Could I have one doubt or dread?

Then you must not grieve so sorely,
For I love you dearly still;
Try to look beyond earth’s shadows,
Pray to trust our Father’s will.

There is work still waiting for you,
So you must not idly stand;
Do it now, while life remaineth-
You shall rest in Jesus’ land.

When that work is all completed,
He will gently call you Home;
Oh, the rapture of that meeting,
Oh, the joy to see you come!

Sarah & Mike Repella

December 1, 2009

Lori and family: Our hearts go out to you at this very difficult time. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We are deeply sorry for your loss.

Donna Pellikan

December 1, 2009

To Kyle's Family,
We are so very sorry to hear about your dear son. We fondly remember Kyle hanging out here with Jordan and the gang (and visa versa). Funny stories...As evidenced by the postings, Kyle brought laughter to many!
May God's love continue to give you strength during this difficult time.

lisa baker

December 1, 2009

dear kyle thank you for being a person in my daughters life you will be remembered by our whole family kyle was part of our family thats how i feel you greif now laurie and nathan and julie . kyle you are gone far to soon but you can now find some peace with god and watch over all of us and im still remembering how your hands shook as you put the flowers on marissas wrist for homecoming you looked so handsome ill never forget that day. so much of your life was good those are the memories ill be keeping. laurie im so very sorry for your loss there are no words at all i will think of you all everyday and only hope that the pain from these past few days eases for you laurie nathan and julie my prayers are with you in this very troubled time may god bless you and keep you close to him

Steve and Lisa Cochrane

December 1, 2009

Lori and Family,
You will continue to be in our prayers. May God give you the peace that passes understanding at this difficult time.

Erin (Hopkins) Maroon

December 1, 2009

Lori, it's been years and I know I lost touch after I stopped babysitting the kids, but I was at a loss for words when Mandy told me about Kyle. My memories are of him dancing around and making funny faces trying to get Julie or Nathan to laugh...and they usually did. :) I am praying for all of you and pray that now Kyle is at peace.

December 1, 2009

I don't know you, nor did I know your son. However I felt I had to say how sorry I am for your loss. I said a prayer for you, the rest of his family and friends. I hope you all find peace in the days ahead. Also said a prayer for Kyle. I know God will keep him in his care.

Amanda Grohe/ Westfall

December 1, 2009

To Kyle Family,
I am very sorry to hear about the loss of you son. I see that my mom has already left you a note. I lost my uncle almost five years back from depresstion. My grand mother was touched and saddend when she read this. I still think that he is out in Vagas, even though he is not. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of healing.

Pattie Price

December 1, 2009

Lori, Julie & Nate: I cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. Lori, I remember all our talks about our kids and the stuff they put us through. I never thought it would come to this. I am so sorry and my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

A Mom

December 1, 2009

Palermo Family: I am so sorry about Kyle. While he is physically gone, his spirit will continue to be with you.
I do hope his death will bring families closer and open the lines of communication among family and friends. I hope people will remember it is OK to ask for help - ask for guidance - and ask for someone to listen.
Rest peacefully Kyle.. Be the angel God knew you were.

Nathan Palermo

December 1, 2009

Hello everyone this is Nathan Palermo, Kyles younger brother; it makes me feel very upset that Kyle thought that no one cared about him or loved him when they obviously did, acounting on all of the beautiful comments left by everyone. I hope that he looking down and he sees that there were hundreds of people that cared about him. I will always love him and will always remember him. I am thankful for the last day that we had together, I felt that I had my brother back in my life again. I wish that I could have done something but I have to keep telling myself that he is at peace now and he wont have to deal with anymore problems that may have came into his life.

Brenda Grohe

December 1, 2009

To Kyle's family,

Almost 5 years ago my brother became very depressed and took his own life. We were in shock and devistated and wondered "why" for so long. My Mother was very touched by what was written about Kyle. She was thinking of my brother and crying most of the day after reading it. We still think that he cant be gone and for so long already. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you start this journey of pain and grief.

Scott Slimak

December 1, 2009

Kyle I will never forget all the good times we had. Your loss has left many people including me speachless. You and you family will always be in my heart love you bro!

Chris Freeman

December 1, 2009

Palermo family: So very sorry to hear about this tragic day! We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers. I still remember many years of Kyle and my son, Cory, playing baseball together at Northwest and all the fun times we had.......The Freeman's (Troy, Chris, Cory, Brandon, Ashley)

Laura Cochran

December 1, 2009

Although I do not know your family or your son, I felt compelled to send you a message. I am so sorry for your loss. I also think that you are a strong and courageous person to write that obituary. As a Mother it touched me deeply. I am sure that it will also touch the hearts of many others. Undoubtedly, it will save a life - possibly many. God Bless your family.

Nathan Palermo

December 1, 2009

Kyle, I wsh that you were still with us, and I ask the lord to keep you safe in heaven. You were a great person, you could make anyone laugh. I will remember all of the times we had together. Yes we fought a lot but that never changed how much love and care i had for you. I will always love you and will miss you every day that you are not with us. I believe that everyday things will be a little bit easier for everyone, one less tear will be shed, and one less blame will be said.
From your loving brother,
NATHAN

Lori Palermo

December 1, 2009

This is Kyle's Mom - I am reading all of your comments with Julie and Nate and it they are giving us the strength that we need to get through today and tomorrow. You see Kyle - you DIDN'T have everything all messed up - you will accomplish great things in helping others. Everyone loved you! God take care of my boy and let his mind rest and let him be at peace. WE LOVE YOU KYLE! MOM (NOT LORI!), JULIE AND NATE.....

Former Akronite

December 1, 2009

I do not know you or your family, but I can feel your pain in reading the loving tribute you have written to your son. I pray for God's strength and comfort for you in your time of loss and sorrow.
God's peace be with you all.

Karen Forney

December 1, 2009

Prayers are with you. We know the pain you are feeling, having lost someone so young and dear. The words you wrote will help others and your tears are sure to grow more love in many families. God Bless you and your family.

Lori Palermo

December 1, 2009

Hello everyone - this is Kyle's mom - I'm sitting here reading the comments with Julie & Nathan and we are soooo moved. Kyle - you see, you are so special, your sacrifice of yourself has touched tons of people & you are accomplishing so much by helping others. You thought you had messed everything up but we could've fixed it all baby.... But now, we'll help other's fix it, YOU will help others. Thank you all for your support - it is helping the three of us have the strength to get through today and tomorrow. God take care of my boy, let his mind rest and let him sleep in peace....... WE LOVE YOU KYLE!!! MOM (NOT LORI), JULIE & NATE

I D

December 1, 2009

I wish I could write something to help you but I can't. Please accept my sympathy as a mother. I will keep you in my thoughts.

Nick gosen

December 1, 2009

Lori i am still in shock about what happened. i am at a loss of words for words...kyle is in my heart and prayers and will remain.

Justin Bailey

December 1, 2009

I was co worker along side kyle he made a day at work a great day. And when he was not there it was not the same. My condolences go out the the Palermo family.

Elizabeth Schillig

December 1, 2009

Lori
Kyle was a great friend to my son Tyler who spent quite alot of time at your house in Barberton and Julie and Kyle in return at mine. There are not enough words to express the loss I feel today. All the "boys" have been friends for years and I would have never guessed this would happen to one of ours! We are praying that Kyle has found the peace he was looking for and that your family also can someday find peace. The obituary was probably the most beautiful tribute a mother could give to a child. Godspeed and RIP Kyle.

Dorothy Achimasi

December 1, 2009

I did not know your son but I wanted to say that you are a brave woman and mother. You message sent tears to my eyes. I hope you have saved more then one. God be with you and your family.

December 1, 2009

Lori and family:
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you at this sorrowful time.

Cynthia Fogle, Barberton, OH

December 1, 2009

Lori, I was very touched by your loving tribute to your son. We have never met, but I want you to know that only Kyle had control of his life's outcome. Although you may not be able to see right now the reason, some day you will understand. As a mother of an emotionally troubled adult child, I have learned through the years to give her and her problems to Creator, for only our Creator can know what is best. Kyle now is in a place of pure love and peace and will suffer no more. I hope that you can find some peace in all of the outpourings of love for you and your family.

a coventry family

December 1, 2009

our prayers are with you during this time...

Praying for you in

December 1, 2009

As so many other entries have been touched by your powerful, courgeous words; I too as a stranger feel compelled to tell you I care. I have struggled with drugs, alcohol and suicide my whole life. I am now sober and in therapy for so many things I never faced in my life and never thought those things mattered. Please if you are a teen or anyone for that matter... PLEASE TALK TO SOMEONE, ASK FOR HELP IF YOU THINK SUICIDE IS YOUR ONLY ANSWER!!!! SUICIDE IS A PERMANENT SOLUTION TO A TEMPORARY PROBLEM!!! I attempted suicide as a teen and again as a mother of two beautiful children..I am so grateful that my God saw fit to keep me here and lead me to the help I so desperately needed. I have a teenager now and daily make sure her emotional and mental health is in check. Nothing is that bad.
To this sweet mother: I thank you for your painful, honest and heartfelt tribute to your son. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling. I will pray for you and knowing nothing will replace your precious son, I hope God's grace surrounds you until you have peace in your life. You are a brave woman and even though I do not know you, I admire your strength and desire to speak the truth.
So many people suffer from alcoholism and drug addiction and it really is a matter of life and death. Words can hurt, but they can also help and I know your heartfelt words about Kyle will save another life! I know your words have affected me in a way that reminds me how precious and temporary this life on earth is...never take it for granted and always be kind to others, no matter what, be kind! You have touched my heart this morning and for that I must say, "Thank you". God Bless You, my friend.

Jane Dilley

November 30, 2009

Lori, Julie and Nathan... Words cannot express my sadness. Please know that you have many, many people who care and are here for all of you. Please reach out to any one of us in your time of need.

Carri Schultz

November 30, 2009

To the Palermo & Schultz family, May God heal your hearts and bring peace and joy to your family.I will always pray for your family,as my family is a part of your family. God Bless!

November 30, 2009

I was moved to tears. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I am forwarding this to my Mom and little brother; he's 15. I've been so worried about him in recent months. Please know that your son's tragic ending will save many. Thank you for having the courage to share about your son's suicide. You will be in my prayers this holiday season.

sharon hoover

November 30, 2009

My heart goes out to you and your family.I am a mother of 4 and our daughter died 9 years ago in a car accident from being served alcohol in a bar and grill.Alot went on that night but at the end the Lord said it's time to come into the Beautiful Heavens Garden.She is forever 18 as your Kyle is.There will not be a Day goes by you wont think of him.A part of you went with him and the other part stayed here.Yes, help others by talking about the sadness and pain that this brings.There is no Stronger Bond between a mother and her Child.I will keep you in my prayers and I know exactly what you are feeling, and going through.Some days will be better than others but keep God close to you and let him be your guide or you see I dont think I could of made it without him.
God bless you and your family.
Another mom who Lost her child Forever Young at 18.
Kimmys mama Forever.From Barberton.

Karen McNeill

November 30, 2009

Dear Lori, God bless you and your family. You are a very special woman and mother! Even at a time like this you are thinking of others. Kyle was blessed to have you as a mother and maybe his last few hours were that of confusion, but he is in our Lord's arms now, seeing your love even stronger and more clearer than he did while on this earth. John 14:1-4 Love you, Lori! Many prayers for you and yours

November 30, 2009

My heart goes out to the family of kyle,drugs are the number 1 that is killing our youth today,I hope that your obit about your son goes a long way i am sure he had a lot of friends,I hope that you all get through this with help from god and family and friends,and the people that are praying for you and your family. you are in my prayers and thoughts. guardian angel

T B

November 30, 2009

I'am very sorry for your loss...I did not knw Kyle, but was moved by the words you spoke, I hope to someone out there.
God Bless you and your family as you try to heal.
God's Speed...

November 30, 2009

Lori, You are a brave mother, my heart goes out to you at this most difficult time. May the happy memories bring you comfort in the months ahead.
Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

Tim May

November 30, 2009

To the Palermo Family This comes to you from the May family from canal fulton.Zach my son was on Kyles baseball team.Our hearts go out to you at time time and the days ahead.
God Bless you Tim Deana Zach

Mother of 4

November 30, 2009

To Kyle's Family,
We don't know each other or ever met. I also have an 18 year old. I wanted to give you my sincere condolences, from one mother to another. My heart aches for your situation. God is with you and Kyle will always be in your heart. Always keep your best and fun memories alive. It will be hard but time heals all wounds, no matter how long the process.
May God Bless.....

November 30, 2009

forgot to leave name. cheryl(wallace) phillips

November 30, 2009

to all of you at this hard time... i have first hand knowledge of the pain you are feeling..... today at work i was just sitting at break and picked up the paper..... i always read the obits and saw this wonderful picture of this young man ,kyle.... iwas feeling alittle sad this weekend cause i was missing my own son jensen,,, who passed away over a year ago.... he was 29..... god bless you all..... i cant tell you it will be okay cause it wont.. your lives are forever changed... it takes alot of love.. courage.... and faith to let things happen in their own time..... i am sure he was a wonderful young man. full of life and adventure..... now his new adventures will begin.... we all at times think we can handle anything that life has to give to us.... some of have the tools to work on the understanding that life can be worked through.... all the things we may be able to build on might not be capable for others.....lessons ... tests are easy for some...... others its just to much to bear..... i will forever remember this day..... and i just had to reach out to you to let you know that you are not alone.... god will take care of kyle..... he will learn lessons and pass the tests that was so hard for him here on this earth.... he will reach back to you and he will let you know in ways you may not comprehend yet.... time has a way of not healing , it has a way of gathering up the memories we hold so close to our hearts and we get the comfort we need..... in deed this is one of the most difficult times of your life but just talk and talk.... share the love and memories you have of kyle...... ... one other thing.... just a couple weeks ago i heard a song from rascal flats..... title WHY..... i stopped the car and wept like a child....... please listen to it.... it is wonderful....... god bless ... i will be thinking of you... kyle has a big job to do now...... i hope my son jensen and your son kyle can hook up and study up there together.

Katie Wiggins

November 30, 2009

Kyle, although we were not bestfriends, you were still a friend and it hurts to hear that it had to end like this. I cant tell you how upset Justin, and all of your other friends and family are about this, so dont you ever forget for one second that you were and always will be LOVED!

brandi jodon

November 30, 2009

my thoughts and prayers are with your family...kyle was such a kind ,warm person,he always made me smile anytime i talked to him,this is a tragedy and im at a loss ...your words have touched me deeply , i know the pain of drugs and alcohol as a mother its unbearable...kyle you will be sadly missed !!1

Alex D.

November 30, 2009

RIP Kyle, you will be in my heart forever. Julie, Lori & Nathan, I can not express how sorry I am for you and your family, be strong you will always be in my thoughts and prayers.

Schilling Family

November 30, 2009

You have our deepest sympathies and your family is in our prayers. May God hold you extra close to Him during this time.

November 30, 2009

May God's peace surround you & your family with wonderful memories. Not many people can even imagine what you are going through at this time...you are a strong mother and I'm praying for you all.

November 30, 2009

Please accept my condolences. Kyle's obit will help others, I'm sure. I didn't know him but am praying for your family. Keep the faith and god bless.

JAMIE POSTEN

November 30, 2009

I'M SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. KYLE WILL BE MISSED VERY MUCH. I HOPE YOUR FAMILY CAN KEEP YOUR FAITH IN THIS TIME OF TRAGEDY. GOD BLESS YOU ALL!
(THE POSTEN FAMILY-NORTON)

Charly & Kay

November 30, 2009

So very sorry to read of the loss of your son Kyle. We do not know his family but can feel the sorrow you have. Read the Beacon online every day, having read your words it brought tears to my eyes and a hurt for his family in my heart.
Pray that his passing will be in vain, am certain that it will help another troubled person. There are reasons in all things, thank the Lord that you do have fond memories of your son.
May the Lord keep you in the palm of his hand and lead you through these defficult times.
We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Paula Cline

November 30, 2009

Julie, My thoughts and prayers are with you, and have been since i heard this terriable news.Kyle had a mind of his own, and was a wonderful kid, i tried intervening several times in his old basement, we spent many hours talking about what took his life, I hope all Kyles friends learn from this.And if anyone of you need to talk, well you all know who i am and my number.

Devin & Family

November 30, 2009

i'm very sorry for your loss..our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of grief..if there is anything i can do just call...julie if you need anyone to talk to call...R.I.P. KYLE you will be missed dearly....love you

Carly Canfora

November 30, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss.
Kyle was a co worker and friend of mine and he will be greatly missed.
My brother passed away 4 1/2 years ago the same way, it is a horrible loss to everyone. You have such great courage and it is admirable that you would want to save others in Kyles name. My family and I have chosen to do the same. This should never be the answer. Great people have been taken from us and my deepest prayers go out to you and your family.
I thank God that i was blessed to know Kyle. He gave you almost 19 Blessed years with your child. Find your peace in the Lord. He will give you your strength.

lori popadopolis

November 30, 2009

to the family and friends of kyle: i was very touched to see that kyles mom wrote that obit about him, for i am a sister and a aunt to my brother and niece that i lost to drugs!!! its very hard to this day. god bless you all at this difficult time of sorrow. i hope his friends read this and think hard b4 doing these things. i didnt know your son but i know he is in a better place now watching over all of you! i'll pray for your family!!!god bless Lori from uniontown

Dawn White

November 30, 2009

I do not know Kyle or your family but just deeply moved by what I read. I have a 17 year old son and can only imagine the pain you are going through. What wonderful people you are to want to help others while going through the worst ordeal in your life. God bless you.

November 30, 2009

GOD BLESS YOU KYLE. I WILL PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
ANNETTE DOWNS ( MIKE VENOY'S GRANDMA ON 29TH ST.)

HENRY SMITH & FAMILY

November 30, 2009

ALOT OF PEOPLE GONNA MISS U RIP

Mike Brannon

November 30, 2009

To the Palermo family. After reading your loving words about your son Kyle I want to tell you Alice (my wife) and I will pray for you and your family. We are sending our son to Rehab today. He wants to go.I just read this to him. I know you don't know us but I feel your pain and truly express my deepest sympathaies. Mike Brannon

November 30, 2009

My heartfelt condolences in the loss of your precious son.

A friend

November 30, 2009

My heart breaks for all of you. God bless you with strength and peace in the days ahead.

November 30, 2009

You have great courage in your hope to help others. God Bless you all.

Lewis Family

November 29, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Sharon Rafferty

November 29, 2009

Im very sorry for your loss.Thought we have not meet Bob is married to my mom i see the pain that he is feeling and i can not even began to know how your family is feeling may god be with you all in your time of need and lean on your family for support . I will pray for you all .And Bob we all love you with all our heart we will be here for u if you need anything dont be afraid to ask even if it just for a hug . take care .The Raffertys ,Glenn,Sharon,Jessica, Ashley,Kay Kay,and Boo

andy passmore

November 29, 2009

rest easy man

Jessica Ladany

November 29, 2009

Kyle I miss you more than you would ever know. Your are a great friend and i will always be thinking of you. We have so many wonderful memories we shared with all of our friends that I can never ever forget. My condolences go out to your family. I love you so so so much, R.I.P K.P

MELISSA NECKAR

November 29, 2009

HEY KYLE..I MISS YOU SOOO MUCH. THIS ALL SEEMS SOO UNREAL TO ME!! I WANT U TOO COME BAK U WERE ONE OF MY BEST GUY FRIENDS EVER I WILL ALWAYS THINK BOUT U..I REALLY WISH U WERE STILL HERE..MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO ALL OF UR FAMILY!! I LOVE YOU KP

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