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Jeff Miller
July 5, 2010
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I had the honor of being coached by Mr. Goodall at Hoban. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.
John Misitigh
May 12, 2010
My deepest sympathies to the Goodall family. Living in the Houston area, I just became aware of Tom's passing. Although it has been some 23 years since I last saw Tom at a Hoban reunion, I remember his dry wit, warm personality and tremendous outlook on life. He touched so many lives and will be missed.
Dave Rottinghaus and family
February 22, 2010
Our deepest condolences go out to the entire Goodall family. My wife and kids got a taste of the incredible person that was Mr. Goodall this past summer in Hilton Head meeting over ice cream. Even my littlest (3 years old) months later would ask about the 'tall, bald coach and friend' we met at the beach. Tom was such a special man that could impact lives even with very brief interactions. To know him is to have truly been blessed.
bruce abdenour
February 18, 2010
although i only saw tom once in the last 40+ years(at our class reunion in 1987),i will always remember him as a great guy.he was in my class at st.paul's from k-8th,and in many classes at hoban.he will be missed.
Edward Sivak
February 15, 2010
My sympathies to the Goodall family.
I new Tom professionaly. I worked for LTV Steel Tom was my GE rep. He was a joy to work with, I all ways looked forward to his visits. We talked of work a little and family alot. I will miss him.
Joseph Congeni, MD
February 15, 2010
I feel so fortunate that I got the opportunity to get to know Coach Goodall in the last few years since we worked together with Hoban athletes. I remember getting a chance to be at the CYO Hall of Honor Award Banquet several years ago when he was placed in the Hall. It was a great night.
Most recently, I have a great memory from summer of 2009 with Tom. On a very beautiful early summer day, we got the opportunity to visit at the Annual CYO Golf Outing following the dinner at Chippewa Country Club. We had a great visit with Tim Lucey, Coach Orsini and others that came and went by our table. We talked for well over an hour and it felt kind of a like playing hooky from school. We covered a range of topics and I felt a great kinship with Tom because of our shared love for working with young athletes (particularly basketball players) and for Hoban High School. I will forever remember that beautiful day. I'm sorry for your loss.
With warm regards,
Joseph A. Congeni, MD
Medical Director
Sports Medicine Center
Akron Children's Hospital
teresa haller
February 14, 2010
Carol and Family
I just wanted to offer my sympathy, I took care of him in the hospital, what an outstanding man and individual. He fought the fight with dignity.
Pat and Mick DeJacimo
February 13, 2010
Dear Carol, Gina and Bob, Alex, Andrew and Lily,
Words cannot express how sorry we for your loss. Our heart aches for you, Carol. Tom was more of a brother than a brother-in-law.We grew even closer to both of you this past summer with our "dinners" together after each chemo treatment. We are blessed that we had him in our lives. He was such great Uncle to our children and always had interest in what was going on in their lives. They were blessed they had him in their lives. Tom has left his mark on us and everyone that knew him. We will truly miss him.
Our love to all of you ,
Pat and Mick DeJacimo and Family
Tom and Rochelle Haas
February 13, 2010
Our deepest sympathy to the Goodall family on your loss - you are all in our thoughts and prayers. What a wonderful man who did so much for so many.
Tom and Rochelle Haas
Mary Fickes
February 12, 2010
Dear Goodall Family -
My heart goes out to you in your loss. There's something comforting about our creed's "communion of saints." I picture Tom shoulder to shoulder with his Dad in the heavenly heights, perhaps cheering on the Knights?
With love and sympathy,
Tom and Kathleen Daugherty
February 12, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time.
Trish Ostroski
February 12, 2010
Carol And Family,
What a wonderful eulogy posted as well as many other sharings. You have many wonderful memories. Tom has left a great legacy.
February 12, 2010
Rosie,
So sorry to hear about Tom. I had heard he was sick a few weeks ago, come to find out Gordon worked with him at GE. I've been trying to get a hold of you. Please call me. 330.714.2898. You are all in my prayers. Johanna (DiSpina) Miller
Bill Wayman
February 11, 2010
To the entire Goodall famiy, like most of us when we think of our family and friends our remembrances in our mind makes those thought seem as though they were a day, or just a few week in the past. My thoughts of Tom go back to our CYO days at St. Paul's when we played baseball and basketball. I tell you as a former catcher Tom could hum a pretty good fast ball. In fact I use to use extra padding in my mitt. It still use to sting on every catch. Even in those days St. V's was a rival as it continued into our Hoban days. Everyone knew of his kindness and guine interest in people. When you spoke to him he gave you his attention and at those moments you had a friend who truly cared. I to grieve at his loss and wish for you all nothing but fond memories to carry you through out your days. God bless you, Tom as you blessed all those who called you friend.
T.K. Griffith
February 11, 2010
Many of you have asked me to post the eulogy. Thank you for appreciating it--it was my debt to Tom and all he did for my life...here it is:
Tom’s Eulogy:
I thought I was unique…I thought I was special when I lost Tom Goodall because to me Tom was everything—a second father, a best friend, my hero, my head coach, an assistant, a sounding board, my comedian and comfort zone, the guy who laughed at my jokes, sent me the funny articles, knew the trivia fact, watched the Grammy’s and knew way too much about Beyonce, travelled to Columbus to watch states…. and he was the first there to comfort me in times of crisis…but I’ve learned this last week that I certainly was not unique…because Tom was this and more to countless people in his life. Whether it was a CYO player he coached twenty years ago, a co-worker, a student he substitute taught, a Hoban basketball player or teacher, a niece, nephew, cousin, sibling, or his wife Carol and daughter Gina, Tom was all of this and much more.
Tom went by many titles: Mr. Goodall, Tommy G, Thomas, Tom, Coach, Grandpa, Teacher, Uncle and Dad …but to us Griffith boys growing up he was always Mr. Goodall. Tom and my Dad, Tim Griffith, shared a lifelong best friendship—coaching together, joking together, emceeing together, supporting Hoban and raising children together…taking us to Hoban and Notre Dame games and confiding in each other during tough times…. and appropriately they will be buried next to each other at Holy Cross Cemetery later today… the Griffith boys—well, we were wowed and in awe of Mr. Goodall….he was an icon, a mix between David Letterman, Clint Eastwood, and Norman Dale from Hoosiers…. He was the first guy we ever knew to have a mobile phone ala Michael Knight in Knight Rider, and his sleek new company cars with the hard hat in the back seat dwarfed our Dad’s cheap rides (only the stylish Tom could pull off the hard hat look on one of his sales calls by the way), the well dressed and dapper Mr. Goodall always had us entertained with a new musical group he listened to or his well crafted questions about school, sports and life…but that personality and image was not just reserved for myself and the Griffith boys—all of you experienced that too…all of you saw that in Tom Goodall…
Because regardless of the nature of the relationship, his presence automatically made you feel comfortable, accepted and at ease…you could be yourself around Tom because his own security emanated outward and his charm evoked confidence. Kids loved playing basketball for him because he treated them with respect and kept basketball in perspective. His trademark facial expressions, one-liners, quick wit and outlook on life made him engaging, unique, a one-in-a-million. I could go on with personal stories—but it’d take away from the lessons Tom left behind.
You see, Tom was teaching us how to live, how to engage others, how to touch people and spark interest, energy and vibe, and he even taught us how to die…and I think these are the lessons from Tom Goodall:
Lesson One: Be genuine and real
Tom never dabbled in phoniness or put on airs. He got right to the heart of the matter and cut right to the tough questions—like the hard-liners he’d ask former Zip basketball coach Coleman Crawford at the Zips luncheons he’d take me to—Tom once asked, “Coach Crawford, why do run so many sets?” referring to Coleman’s phonebook-thick playbook— Or when he and I golfed with Browns great Jim Brown and asked the legendary running back, “Jim, what do you really think about Bill Belicheck?” Only Tom had the courage to ask those direct questions and cut right to the chase without offending. He was genuine and real with all of us…and for that lesson we are grateful.
Lesson Two: Be a great husband and family man:
Tom made it clear to me on many occasions that he never ran the house or pretended to run the house…that Carol was in charge…the “lovely Mrs. Goodall” as he called her…and he respected and loved her deeply… he gloated about Gina and Bob and the grandkids…upon each trip back from Troy we would get full details on Alex’s last game or Andrew’s new gadget…or Lily’s funny statement…and he loved his nieces and nephews and in-laws like they were his own…stories about David’s job, Lisa’s wedding...the list goes on... and how many times would he skip pre-game meals to visit his mom and report back to us about her day. He taught us how to be a great husband, father and family man…and for that lesson we are grateful.
Lesson Three: Practice and live your Faith:
Growing up at Holy Family, I can’t recall a Saturday evening mass where Tom, Carol and Gina weren’t right over there… he taught his teams to have faith too, not only with prayer before CYO games but also by respecting the dignity of the individual…his attendance at First Friday Club’s with his Mom and his involvement in the Catholic elementary schools as a substitute teacher were roles he cherished. He was so holy, in fact, he received the anointing of the sick three times…and according to Father Rosing it was not for its cumulative effect. He taught us how to practice our faith without using a hammer…and for that lesson we are thankful.
Lesson Four: Make people laugh:
Tom had a gift with words and humor and never ceased to make us laugh…and Carol was his best audience. Whether it was a facial expression, a coy comment, his hand gestures (spirit fingers was a joke he’d use with the cheerleaders and Marilyn…he’d want to see our spirit fingers now..c’mon let's see them) or just a typical Tom moment...like the story told on legacy.com of Tom and Carol meeting up with friends for a weekend on Michigan Avenue in Chicago..as they were shopping, Tom kept lagging behind and disappearing… when they finally looked back, they noticed Tom peeking his head into the background of every photograph a group of soccer players from Poland were taking—I’m sure Tom’s head was in every picture and definitely in a scrapbook in Poland somewhere today. Tom often mixed humor and sports….he’d tell basketball campers he was an All-American at Seton Hall (he never went to Seton Hall), and once at the Cleveland State Basketball clinic listening to the world reknowned shot doctor, Tom insightfully noted that the key to being the shot doctor was just to talk about shooting the ball and to be sure to never actually shoot the ball…or his famous line about Hoban basketball-- that we were a great shooting team, just not a very good making team. He brought laughter and happiness to our lives...and for that we are grateful.
Lesson Five: Be inquisitive and a lifelong learner:
Tom was probably the most avid reader and seeker of new information that I have ever met. Not a day went by when he did not forward me an emailed news article about hoops, politics, or random current events. And Tom could go toe to toe with just about anybody when it came to meaningless trivia and math computation. He poured through books, loved concepts and ideas, discovered, read and shared. In fact, his brother Pat recalled fondly how when they were young and sent to bed early, Tom would read the sporting news with a flashlight under the covers…and I know what Tom would say to that… He’d say, “Pat, I’m not so sure that was the sporting news buddy.”…He was an eager lifelong learner who shared his vast wealth of knowledge with us…and for that we are grateful.
Lesson Six: Be a great friend:
Tom was a great friend. He took many bullets for me being the older, wiser coach that he was, recommending me for undeserved honors or awards several times without my knowing and being angry when I didn't get them…and speaking way too generously of me at the banquet…Tom would gather friends and family together most July 4 holidays to golf. My dad and Tom would connect at least once a week for an early breakfast when they were both still in Stow at the Greasy Spoon Restaurant—their pet name…which then turned into a weekly phone call once Dad moved to Arizona. And Tom would build another close friendship and mentorship with Coach Tim Lucey—on the golf course, on the bench, on the phone, and in the office. He and I spent 17 years working to build a solid basketball program at Hoban, but it was always more about the relationship than basketball…In November, he wrote me a note of thanks just prior to his surgery, writing that he learned more about himself through coaching than he ever knew before and that he had received much more than he gave as a coach and friend…but we know that wasn’t true. He taught us to be a great friend, and for that we are grateful.
Lesson Seven: Enjoy Life:
Tom always seemed relaxed and happy with life. He wisely retired at the age of 55, dabbled in teaching as a sub, gave his heart to coaching at Hoban, made trips to Italy with Carol and to Hilton Head with the entire family, played play station, went to as many sporting events of the grandkids as possible, read the paper, drank coffee, slept in when possible and loved a good Frosty from Wendy’s—his signature drink to bring into hoops practice with him. Tom rarely seemed in a hurry. He and Carol enjoyed lifelong friendships with the Benders and so many couples…the in-laws and many others….He only bit off what he could chew and taught us to enjoy life…
His final lesson: Die Gracefully and with Courage
Tom fought cancer head on, faced his fears and had an opportunity to spend time with nearly all of us before succumbing to cancer. We talked, we laughed, we gave him hope and he gave us courage to face our own fears and mortality. And even in his last days at General, although he could not speak loudly…he spoke volumes. His eyes said I love you and thank you, they showed gratitude for a life well lived….one filled with love and joy…and he had a final chance at hospice to reiterate those sentiments to Gina and Carol and his family.
And as his mother Patricia rubbed his head before he passed, he smiled one last time—perhaps laughing at his own joke or maybe one of ours, but more than likely a smile that said thank you….it said thank you to Carol and Gina for suffering with him and caring for him, thank you to family and friends for laughing with him and enjoying life, thank you to the nurses and staff for caring for him…the room was filled with more goodness and love than I’ve ever seen…and as we hovered around Tom’s spirit and body for several hours after he passed, I was absolutely certain I knew what Tom’s smile meant…he felt the love and warmth from all of his family and the smile was one of gratitude—for a great life, a great wife, a great daughter and son-in-law, a great family and great friends… and he was passing the torch to us to carry.
Now it’s our turn…our turn to be genuine and real, our turn to be a great husband or wife, our turn to practice our faith, our turn to make people laugh, our turn to be lifelong learners, our turn to be a great friend to someone, our turn to enjoy life… and our turn to live and die with dignity, courage and class.
So the next time you see a group of tourists on the street taking a group photograph, put down your Wendy’s Frosty, poke your head into the background, wave your spirit fingers and smile…and when you smile think of Mr. Tom Goodall and the lessons he taught us.
T.K. Griffith
Tom and Jeannie Hearn
February 11, 2010
Rosie, Billy, Patty and the entire Goodall family,
We are truly saddened by the loss of Tom. We heard many great things about him and saw the love and closeness in your family. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Scott & Lori Grieshammer
February 11, 2010
Our prayers and thoughts are with Tom, Carol, and family. He was a great neighbor and friend! We will miss his witty conversations. We lost our lawn & garden buddy! Until we all meet again- farewell for now Tom!
Larry Shai
February 11, 2010
Dear Rita Kane,
My deepest sympathy on the passing of your brother-in-law, Tom.
February 11, 2010
Dear Carol and family, I met Tom while playing men's softball in the late 60's. My son met Tom through the Hoban basketball team. We both knew Coach Goodall as a friend with kind words and a warm-your-spirit smile. Our condolences.
Pat and Tom Fisher
Bill & Sue Koch
February 11, 2010
Some people come into your lives for such a short time, but Tom has been in ours through 50 plus years and the one thing we will always remember is his great humor and wit. He always had time for you. I am sure that he and Tim are together planning team strategy or remembering all the wonderful people whose lives they have shared in.
Jerry & Toni Longville
February 11, 2010
Dearest Patti and family,
We send our deepest sympathy to you upon Tom's death. He was truly a very special person who gave of himself in so many ways, touching numerous individuals! I know my brother Sam had many a good time with Tom & Tim Griffith throughout grade school & high school. The many memories you all shared will always be close to your hearts, helping you through the journey ahead. Our prayers and thoughts are with you, and we know that Tom is watching over all of us.
Love,
Ken DeCrane
February 11, 2010
After reading the many posts in this guest book along with the newspaper and comments by fellow caoches at Hoban, I can see why my two sons held Coach Goodall in such high regard.
Tom Goodall was a living manual for life.
God Bless.
Bill Freeman
February 11, 2010
Dear Carol, Gina, & family,
Over the years, Tom and I's paths crossed many times. He and I sat on many Hoban alumni committees together, and coached at Holy Family together. We both shared the love of the game of basketball. It was easy to witness Tom's love for children and for his family. I will miss his quick wit and endless dry humor. Tom was one of life's special people , who thought first about others needs before his own. My life was much richer for having known Tom.
Tim Kirk
February 10, 2010
Mr. Goodall was a real role model for kids (and adults)! Condolences to Mrs. Goodall and Gina. Tim Kirk, formally of Stow, OH.
Cindy
February 10, 2010
Dear Carol: I have delivered your mail for years. Tom always greeted me with a smile. He coached my son, David Appleby at Hoban. He was so good with the boys and had their highest respect. I could see the joy in his face when he was outside with your grandkids. I am so sorry. I'll think of him every day I deliver your mail...but always with a smile! He will be missed.
Susan Bidinger
February 10, 2010
Rose, I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Susan Bidinger (Hoban 81)
Jim Leone Sr.
February 10, 2010
Dear Carol and Gina & Family: Our sincere sympathy in regard to the loss of Tom. He truly was one of those good persons who touched the lives of many. Our family was fortunate to know him, and that he coached our three sons at Holy Family School. His teams did well because the boys liked and respected him. He led by example and is someone that anyone that knew him, will never forget him.
Jim and Patty Leone
February 10, 2010
Carol
I know the sorrow you feel but please know that Tom is in your heart and will be with you and your family.
Wishing you wonderful memories.
Marilyn, Brett & Scott Stripe (Hoban)
February 10, 2010
Mrs. Goodall, Gina and Family,
It has been many years since I've seen all of you, but I had the good fortune to be able to spend some time with Tom as our paths crossed in the coaching world. That said, I want you to know that I don't think there was a finer gentleman in coaching than Tom. He was a knowledgeable basketball guy, but more importantly he was engaging and a lot of fun to be around. I am grateful that I had an opportunity to spend some time with Tom and get to know him in my adult life. The coaching profession is the less today for having lost Tom. My deepest condolences go out to all of you.
Tom's Friend in Hoops,
Matt Kramer
Hoban Class of '87
Matt Kramer
February 10, 2010
Mrs. Goodall, Gina and Family,
It has been many years since I've seen all of you, but I had the good fortune to be able to spend some time with Tom as our paths crossed through TK in the coaching world. That said, I want you to know that I don't think there was a finer gentleman in coaching than Tom. He was a knowledgeable basketball guy, but more importantly he was engaging and a lot of fun to be around. I am grateful that I had an opportunity to spend some time with Tom and get to know him in my adult life. The coaching profession is the less today for having lost Tom. My deepest condolences go out to all of you.
Tom's Friend in Hoops,
Matt Kramer
Hoban Class of '87
C.F. "Andy Anderson
February 10, 2010
I worked with Tom at 1100 Home Ave. I once lived close to him when he lived on Sunset. A really nice fellow. Sorry I couldn't get there today. We will all miss him , Carol. C.F. "Andy " Anderson , now of Richfield ..
February 10, 2010
Dear Carol,
My deepest condolences to you and your entire family.
MEMORIES is the only word that comes to me now.
I remember Tom at St. Paul grade school with fondness.
My memories of you at St. Mary only conclude that both of you together were a blessing for all whose lives you both touched.
Tom, You and your family will be in my prayers.
All my best,
Charmaine Reese (Wisniewski)
alice barger
February 10, 2010
Goodall Family,
I grew up with Tom in Firestone Park and attended St Pauls. I now live in Stow and would often see Tom and his family at Holy Family and we would chat. What a wonderful guy he was, and he certainly led an accomplished life.
My deepest sympathy to his wife, daughter and family.
CECILIA ROSSI
February 10, 2010
CAROL AND FAMILY,
MY THOUGHT & PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS MOST DIFFICULT TIME.
MY SINCEREST SYMPATHY,
CHI CHI ROSSI (YACOVAZZI)
Stacie Dirksen
February 10, 2010
Carol,Gina,Bob,Alex,Andrew and Lily - Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Tom was a great man and we will forever hold many memories of his kindness, sense of humor, telling jokes and his wealth of knowlege (about everything). Tom will be missed deeply, but know he will always be close by watching over all of you.
We love you!
Dan, Stacie, Keri, Hayley, Jenna and Sara
Janice Croasmun
February 10, 2010
My heart hurts to read about the passing of Tom Goodall.When I think of Tom, I think of a smiling ,very happy man!He was always fun to see and talk to.A man who truely loved his family! A very proud man. My deepest sympathy to the entire Goodall Family-God Bless all of you.
Pat Kelley
February 10, 2010
Mrs Goodall, Gina and family - Mr Goodall was a great man. My encounters with him were when I was very young, and he treated me like a man. I have always remembered that and try to do the same. He will live on in the smiles of his family and the good shooting form of his players.
-Pat Kelley (wife Cortney and son Clayton)
Abby Geoghegan
February 10, 2010
Uncle Tom always went above and beyond in the role of "uncle". Not having a father of my own at an early age he was there for me during my t-ball years even giving me his Indians hat to wear in games. I'll never forget him calling the house disguising his voice with a weird accent an claiming things like our windows were ready to be picked up...I always fell for it.
He obviously had a great sense of humor but also a real sensitivity. I feel really lucky that he was a part of my life. Love you Uncle Tom!
Tom Welsh
February 10, 2010
Tom will always be remembered by all of us. I can remember our years of playing baseball together at Akron Univ, one laugh after another. As a former Hoban Knight myself, he will be missed in the community. God's blessing to the family. Tom Welsh
Al Frattura
February 10, 2010
Carol and family, I was saddened to hear about Tom. When I saw him this past summer he shared with me his illness and at that time I thought if anyone could win the battle it was Tom. He had a personality that was very upbeat and would light up the room. In all the times we saw each other over the years he always had something nice to say. He was a positive influence in all the people that he came in contact with and I for one will miss him but the memories will last forever. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Al and Linda Frattura
Julie Dubravetz
February 10, 2010
Gina and family, You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May the strength and support you get from family and friends carry you through this,as well as the knowledge that you will reunite in Heaven someday with your dad's open and loving arms to greet you...he was a great man, whose presence will be missed, but will remain within you and those whose lives he touched, forever. Continue to let his light shine through you. My deepest condolences.
Ron & Kathie Brooks
February 10, 2010
Mrs. Goodall and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. I will always remember Tom's kindness and his willingness to help others. May God give you strength in this time of need.
February 10, 2010
Carol and family:
Tom was such a wonderful man and inspiration to all of us. His wit brightened many a day. He not only helped me at Holy Family but also while we both coached the Knights. He would always speak of Carol, Gina and the grandkids. Many of us called him "Grandpa" and he always smiled. Hold your memories close to your heart. We were all so blessed to have him touch our lives.
Dave and Joan Arbogast
February 10, 2010
Uncle Tom,
Thank you for all of the wonderful memories throughout all of our lives. You will be in our hearts forever. We will miss you.
Love, Megan, Melanie, and Meredith
February 10, 2010
Uncle Tom,
Thank you for all of the wonderful memories throughout all of our lives. You will be in our hearts forever. We will miss you.
Love, Megan, Melanie, and Meredith
Chris & Dana (Koch) Wright
February 10, 2010
Mrs. Goddall and Gina,
Our hearts go out to you and your family at this time. May you find peace and comfort.
He loved you both very much and adored those grandchildren.
Barbara (Popa) Kosa
February 10, 2010
Dear Goodalls,
George and I are deeply saddened to hear of Tommie's passing. He will forever be our neighbor friend. Playing baseball and kickball in the street on Sunset Ave. and freez tag and other games throughout the years will never be forgotten. Our sincerest sympathy,
Barb and George
Stacey Eichelberger
February 10, 2010
Gina, Carol and Family,
I had no idea that your Dad was ill, I just found out yesterday, I was shocked to hear of his passing. Your Dad was a great guy, he always looked out for you. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all. Im sure your Dad will continue to look over Alex, Andrew and Lily as he always did you!
Hank (& Karen) Inman
February 10, 2010
Tom was a class act who touched so many lives. I am honored that he touched mine.
Pat Norment
February 10, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Brian Koch
February 10, 2010
Mrs. Goodall and Gina,
Over the years I had the opportunity to play golf with "Mr. Goodall" in the Hoban Golf Outing, enjoy a beverage or two with him at the Boys Basketball State Championships in Columbus and take his advice on how to become a better salesperson. Regardless of the environment, I always paid close attention so that I wouldn't miss a valuable tip, any words of wisdom or a great joke! May God give you strength in this time of need.
Dan Rafferty
February 10, 2010
Carole & Gina - I had the pleasure of knowing Tom for the past 27 years. He was our Sales Rep for GE Supply. The ultimate professional who always wanted to find ways to help you do your job easier. Tom and I also attended a few Akron U basketball games, Cavs games, and the NEC Golf Championships. He loved sports and I remember him talking to me about coaching - I knew that he would be great at it, and I told him so. Reading some of the other entries has just confirmed what I knew a long time ago - he had a lot to give and he cared deeply for the kids that he coached.
While he loved coaching, he loved his family more - I heard countless stories about things going on at the Goodall household. I will always remember his smile, his kindness, his desire to help others, and the fun that he seemed to have living every day.
God bless all of his family and friends.
Jimmy Leone II
February 9, 2010
Coach Goodall helped instill the importance of team work, fun, friends, and family at a young age for many 7th grade hoopsters. My condolences to the whole family and my thoughts are with you.
Redmon Funeral Home Inc.
February 9, 2010
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
Chris Bott
February 9, 2010
All of the Bott family is going to miss Coach Goodall. He always said the right thing to the kids when they needed it most. Our prayers and thoughts will continue for the Goodall Family
Amy (Burg) Cole
February 9, 2010
Dear Mrs. Goodall and Gina,
I remember your family so fondly from Holy Family. Mr. Goodall struck me instantly as a warm, caring and genuine person who was obviously crazy about his family. I am truly sorry for your loss and the loss of the community. Gina, I am glad you made him a grandpa. I'll bet he was a great one!
Dan DeCrane
February 9, 2010
Coach Goodall touched the hearts and minds of so many people throughout the greater Akron area. His charming personality as a coach, leader, and mentor was never outdone by his unmatching comic relief. Coach Goodall was second to none in delivering confidence and peace into the individuals we worked with, family he loved, and players he coached. I was truly blessed to be coached by and with Tom at Archbishop Hoban. A piece of Tom will always be with me during my future endeavors. I wish his family the best and I know they realize he will always be with them.
Diane Johnson
February 9, 2010
Dear Tim and Joanne, I am so sorry for your loss. Tom's obituary is a tribute to a life well lived, and an inspiration to me to live life to it's fullest. I know he will live on in your hearts and memories and I pray that gives you some comfort during this time. You and your entire family are close to my thoughts and in my prayers.
February 9, 2010
Carol, Gina & Bob, Alex, Andrew, and Lily, We are so sorry for the the loss of someone so very special! I will never forget Tom's smile and humor! I also won't forget the love he showed all of you. I could always see the pride he had for his family. Please know we are thinking of you all so much and wish we could be there. Tom will be missed, but will be remembered in our thoughts and in our hearts.
We love you!
Jeff, Renee, Mitchell, Kyle, Mallory, and Benjamin Subler
Lynn and Joh Balash
February 9, 2010
Carol, Gina and Family: We were so sadden to hear about Tom. He went through so much suffering these last few months, and we are sure it was very stressful on you and your family while facing this devastating illness. The only thought that might help get you through these next few months is that he is with our loving Father in Heaven and is not suffering anymore. We will keep Tom and your family in our prayers. Please accept our condolences. Lynn and John
Jacob Griffiths
February 9, 2010
Mr. “coach grandpa” Goodall was always there for me the 4 years I played Hoban basketball. I looked up to him as a role model and always enjoyed his presence. Coach Grandpa always had something positive to say and was there if I ever needed someone. I wish I went and visited him over Christmas break when my mother was taken care of him at Akron select. I will miss him, God bless him and his family.
Dick Factor & Family
February 9, 2010
Carol and the entire Goodall family...our heartfelt condolences for your loss of your husband, father, and a good friend. I have fond memories of Tom as we all grew up in the the Firestone Park area, went to St. Paul's, and on to Hoban. Tom was always a big part of that clan and that legacy. I had the opportunity to recall some of those days with him as I played a little golf with him and John Ropar over some recent summers. His recollection and detail of our early years was incredible. He always made me smile. We will all miss him. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Goodall family at this time. God Bless You.
Shaun Griffith
February 9, 2010
Tom (Mr. Goodall) was always the voice of reason for me, because I was too stubborn to listen to my own father. Mr. Goodall's opinion about this or that always mattered to me, and I would often think about our conversations together. I guess you could say he was a father figure for me, as I'm certain he was for so many other young men whom he coached. I will miss his hilarious jabs and stories, his laugh and smile.
Carol and Gina, you already know this, but your husband and dad was one in a million.
Katie (Bernert) Finnegan
February 9, 2010
As a Holy Family and Hoban grad and athlete, I had many interactions with Coach Goodall. He was a wonderful man and will truly be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Jim Geraci
February 9, 2010
My condolence to the Goodall Family
Tommy and I were friends from St. Paul's to Hoban to Akron U .I wish I would have stayed in touch...Tom was a wonderful, fun person.
Terry Penrod
February 9, 2010
Carol,
I want to express my sorrow for your loss. Tom, was truely a nice guy and a pleasure to be around. He will be greatly missed. You have such a wonderful family,I know they will be helping you thru these tough times. God Bless you all.
Patty Hrabusa
February 9, 2010
Dear Carol, Gina, and Family,
We are so sorry to learn of Tom's death. Our prayers are with you and will continue during this difficult time. We are sorry that Tom lost the battle in this life but be assured that he is in a better place and suffers no longer.
Joe and Patty Hrabusa and Family
Mary Lou Gault
February 9, 2010
If ever there was a true gentleman and a scholar, it was Tom Goodall. We will miss this amazing good person. God bless. Second cousin Mary Lou (Daugherty) and Don Gault
Judy Seabolt
February 9, 2010
Mrs. Goodall and Gina...I remembered you from Holy Family where Mr. Goodall coached my brother. We met again during Mr. Goodall's hospitalization at Akron General Medical Center. Please accept my deepest sympathy to you and your family. The strength, support and love that you showed for each other will not be forgotten. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Chris DeCrane
February 9, 2010
So Sorry About Coach Goodall, he was a great person and a great coach as I knew him. May Angels Lead you in Coach Goodall.
-Chris DeCrane
Katie Ney
February 9, 2010
Rosie, Bill and family,
We are keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers. We were so sorry to hear about your brother.
Katie and Greg
Anna Marie and John Kelly
February 9, 2010
Our hearts are breaking for you Carol and Gina, and all of Tom's family, as we try to process the reality of all that happened to this lovely dear guy. We are so sorry for your pain for all you've been through and now the grief work ahead. But let us take Tom's lead in our shared faith and be comforted by knowing you loved him into Our Lord's waiting arms. And, as you so eloquently said in Tom's obituary, be assured that "Tom's spirit will remain with all of us as we hold him in our hearts until we meet him again." In prayer, hope, and love, from Carol's North Akron Italian childhood friend, Anna Marie Scarpitti: St. Martha, St. Mary, Akron U., and husband John Paul Kelly, fellow '66 Hoban classmate and sports/coaching lover
Chris Unton
February 9, 2010
I had the privilege of being coached by Tom not once, but twice (7th grade at Holy Family and the '98 Hoban final four team). He was a great coach - as he helped me to become successful in basketball, but also in life. I'm saddened that future young adults won't have the direct experience of his mentoring, but please know that his principles and approach will be passed on through generations. Carol and family, you have my deepest condolences.
Skip & Nora Roberts
February 9, 2010
To the Goodall family, please except our deepest sympathy. May you find peace.
Kelly Kepler (Hirschfelt)
February 9, 2010
Gina and Family
I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your father. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Cheryl Dalehite
February 9, 2010
On behalf of the West Family I send our deepest and heartfelt sympathies. I wish I could be there to stand with you in this time of great sorrow. Tim, my hero , you were there for me in my darkest hour,and I keep you and your family in my heart and prayers, always.
Gary Horning
February 9, 2010
Tom will always be remembered as class act. He inspired many players, coaches, and friends at Hoban by his words and actions. Our thoughts and prayers are with Tom and his family during this time. God bless.
Susan Kohler
February 9, 2010
Dear Carol, So sorry to hear about your husbands passing. I never met him, but hearing you talk about him, I felt I knew him. May the memories you shared comfort you, and with time, the pain will lessen. My sincere sympathy is with you and your family.
Dick & Betty Schaaf
February 9, 2010
One of the neatest things that ever happened to me was getting an email from Tom, nearly 20 years ago now, wondering if the Dick Schaaf listed as co-author on a book he was reading was the Rick Schaaf he'd grown up with in Akron back in the '50s. I was. And that email led us to reconnect and renew one of the great friendships in my life, extending it to include our wives and families.
I have a lot of memories of Tom, new and old. Playing the dice baseball game we invented with our baseball cards. Playing whiffle ball Home Run Derby in his driveway on Sunset Avenue. Meeting for Big 10 football games. Talking sports and politics and grandkids and just about anything else.
Mostly, I'll remember him smiling. Even when he was being serious, there was always that little twitch and you knew the needle was coming. I remember walking down Michigan Avenue in Chicago with Carol and Betty a couple of years ago and turning around to see Tom standing in the back row of a group having their picture taken -- a girl's soccer team from Poland, I think it was. When he came back, I asked him what in the world he was doing and he said he just wanted to be in the picture. It obviously wasn't the first time he'd done it. I wonder how many people -- all over the world probably -- have pictures that include a lanky guy with a grin standing in the back row, and nobody knows who he is or how he got there.
That's the Tom I'll remember. I'm sad he's gone -- but grateful he was a part of my life.
Jim McClarnon
February 9, 2010
I was so sorry to hear about Tom's passing. I knew Tom since grade school at St. Paul's. He also coached both my sons (Ryan and Shaun) at Holy Family. Both boys went on to Hoban for high school. Tom was a great guy! Please except my families deepest condolences.
Tom and Juli Ambach
February 9, 2010
Mrs. Goodall, Gina and family: Words cannot express how deeply sorry we are. The world has lost out on a terrific human being. May God bless you at this time. Please know that you have been and will continue to be in our prayers.
Bob Nemer
February 9, 2010
To the Goodall Family....I first met Tom about 25 years ago when he coached my son at Holy Family. What a guy....an excellent coach, a fine and fun person, truly interested in the kids, great role model, fantastic teacher....he not only left little to be desired as a coach, more importantly he left a "lasting impression" with the boys he mentored . He was, to this day, "Coach" and not "Tom" every time we spoke when we ran into each other.Please accept my sympathy and condolences as I recently had back surgery, and am unable to travel. Know that "Coach", and the entire family, will be in my thoughts and prayers....Our family, and all the boys he coached, were blessed, because he was in our lives. Thanks for sharing him with us.
Linda & Gary Anello
February 9, 2010
Dear Carol, Gina & family,
Our sympathy and love to all of you for the loss of such a great guy, loving husband, father and grandfather. May your special memories help you through the days ahead.
Brian Orians
February 9, 2010
My condolences on Tom's untimely passing. Peace and Blessings to you, Carol & Gina and family. May his soul rest in peace.
Ed & Jennie Gruska
February 9, 2010
Death is something we all have to deal with. I whish it would not hurt so much. However, we all know Tom is looking down on us, saying it dose not hurt anymore, and Heaven is a great place to Coach from.
The Archbishop Hoban High School Alumni Association
February 9, 2010
Dear Carol, Gina and family,
The Archbishop Hoban High School Alumni Association is truly saddened by the loss of our fellow graduate Tom. His countless hours of volunteering with the Hoban Alumni Association will always be treasured. Hundreds of alumni will always remember the "Tim and Tom" show when they emceed our Alumni Award dinners. He truly cared for the Hoban Family.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
February 9, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. A wonderful man. He will ALWAYS be with you through your memories and love for each other.
Rich, Connie, Stacy, Scott and Andy
Mary Wolosinczuk
February 9, 2010
Some people come into our lives forever and some for only a short period. I thank God that Tom was there during my sons 4-years at Hoban and for the influence he had on him and his friends. My son made a special trip home to see Tom at Akron General and if at all possible will find a way to get back again for the services. Tom will be missed by eveyone that knew him and our prayers are with his family now.
Rich Thomann
February 9, 2010
Tom will always be remembered as a terrific teammate and classmate. Our days in grade school and high school were always brighter when Tom was there. My best wishes go out to his family as we all share the loss of this great guy and friend.
February 9, 2010
Our most sincere condolences. David and I are so sorry to hear of your loss.
With Love,
David and Candace
Larry Ellsworth
February 9, 2010
I've "never" read a more fitting obituary than Tom's. We played in a lot of softball tournmaments together in the 70's where his talent was paralleled by his wit. My prayers go out to his family. John14:2
Kathleen Rennie
February 9, 2010
Please accept my heartfelt sympathies for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
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