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BOB STEVENS Obituary

November 11, 1923 - September 30, 2012 OKLAHOMA CITY Coach Bob Stevens was born November 11, 1923 and passed away September 30, 2012 at the age of 88. Bob Stevens was the kind of person who loved a challenge. He had lifelong dreams fulfilled because of his persevering spirit. He is survived by his daughter Nancy Barcellus and granddaughter Christine Barcellus of Norman, Oklahoma; son Robert Stevens of Costa Mesa, California; nieces and nephews of Syracuse, Indiana. He was preceded in death by both parents and a sister Mary Stevens. Bob was born on a short horned cattle farm to musicians Alys and State Senator Floyd Stevens in Sydney, Indiana. He was a farm boy forming a work ethic that would continue throughout his life. While going to high school, each day before dawn he worked picking up large cans of milk from surrounding farms and delivered them to the dairy, then go home to do his chores before school. Of course he played Hoosier basketball. Their eighty foot cattle barn had basketball goals at either end where kids from all over came to play. Bob set and held a record at Sydney High for his fast play, scoring more points in less time than any other player. He dreamed of playing on the college level and was recruited by Michigan State College. His playing days were interrupted because of WWII. Always a competitor, he enlisted in the U.S. Marine Corps in 1942. He ended up overseas with one of the first Marine units to go into Nagasaki after the U.S. dropped the atom bomb. After the war he returned to Michigan State where he met Jo Bennigan an Indiana girl in a health science P.E. class. After graduation they were married and returned to Indiana in order to fulfill his dream of being a Hoosier basketball coach. They both worked at the same unified school in Milford, Indiana he as the all sports coach and she the first grade teacher. In 1952, since he remained in the US Marine Corps Reserve he was called up and deployed to the front lines of the Korean Police Action (war). After more than 30 years of service, he retired from the US Marine Corps reserves as a Colonel. Several years later the couple returned to their alma mater MSU where he completed his Master's degree. They were blessed with amazing children, Robert and Nancy. More good fortune unfolded, Bob became a graduate assistant freshmen coach under famed coach Pete Newell and thereafter assistant coach to Forddy Anderson. In 1957 the Michigan State Team went to the NCAA Final Four in Kansas City. They lost to North Carolina in a triple overtime game which spoiled their chance of playing Wilt the Stilt Chamberlain of Kansas University in the finals. This led to the fulfillment of another dream the head coaching position with the Gamecocks of South Carolina University. Gordie Stauffer another Hoosier and dear friend was his assistant. While coaching there he was named the Atlantic Coast Conference Coach of the Year. In 1962 Oklahoma's Bud Wilkinson hired Stevens to coach the Sooner Basketball team. Bob not only found a job but found a haven where he wanted to spend the rest of his life. He loved Oklahoma and its "great people". Gordie Stauffer, Bud Cronin, one of his South Carolina players and John MacLeod assisted him coaching O.U.'s team. There were changes in the style of basketball played in the old field house at O.U. As you entered the gym you immediately saw an oversized banner hanging from the scorer's table describing his fast break offense. It read Go, Go, Go!!! At a coaches' meeting Henry Iba put his arm on Bob's shoulder and said, "Son, you're not supposed to get up and down the court and have fun like you think you're going to do". Steven's players will attest to grueling arm strength fitness drills Stevens included and endless practices rebounding and throwing the ball to the wing man before their feet touched the deck, not allowing the defense to get set. The Sooners did win bedlam in what was known as "Henry's House". Bob ended his coaching career working for Henry Bebe and the Oklahoma City Cavalry. Henry called him "Go". In 1983 to 2003 Bob ran the Waterford Athletic Club in the Edmond area. He was working for the Oklahoma County Health Department until one month before he passed away, which is indicative of his enduring spirit. He especially enjoyed coaching, being with friends, music, flying and driving his boat, "Fast Break" on Lake Texoma. Everyone young and old knew him. He was referred to as the "Legend of the Lake". For more than 30 years he rarely missed a weekend with his beloved Lake Texoma family. "COACH" will truly be missed. Since a funeral was not desired, there will be a celebration on October 26, 2012 from 7pm - 9pm at the Hilton Garden Inn on Memorial Road in Oklahoma City.

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Published by Oklahoman on Oct. 14, 2012.

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February 4, 2013

I met Coach at the Island grill at high port and enjoyed many old stories from this wonderful gentleman over the years.
Jeff Granberry Dallas

Kellie Hooper

October 26, 2012

I am so sorry to hear about the passing of "COACH". One day we were chit chatting and he was telling me about when he coached and that he was an NBA scout! I thought that was so awesome that I got to meet and work with him. He always had a great story and taked about the Lake. Anyways when I asked for his autograph he started laughing and I said you never know it might be worth millons and he just laughed. "COACH" you maybe gone but not forgotten. It was an honor to know you may you RIP and God bless your soul and watch over your children and grandchilden. Kellie.

Sharon Lynn

October 22, 2012

I was so saddened to hear of the loss of the niceset man I ever met I was a co-worker, not in his department, but we interacted. Coach was always happy and smiling. God bless him and his family.

Rob Bennett

October 18, 2012

I was lucky to have Coach in my life at a time when I needed someone of a different generation to wake me up! Coach mentored me on all things Pool Management and also without even trying, taught me about life. He was always honest with me and told me what I needed to hear. I was stubborn and wasn't good with authority. He told everyone the best stories and was always inviting. He was the toughest Man I ever had the pleasure to know! Thank you Coach!

Merilyn, Coach, Deborah at Lake Texoma

October 17, 2012

Coach was a wonderful man who will forever remain in our hearts ~ Oma and Merilyn Alford

Trudi Terry

October 17, 2012

I loved Coach! He was such a special friend of mine and also my son's. I'm a Marine Mom and Coach loved to tell me his stories of his Marine career. He also encouraged my son Conner and we would Facetime talk with him since he's stationed at Camp Pendleton. I work at the Greens Country Club every Wed. night and Coach would come in to get a root beer and some fried chicken before meeting his friends out in OKC.Everyone at the Greens loved Coach!Coach had Conner and me spend a day on the lake with him a few years ago. We had a great time! He also took me to the Marine birthday luncheon last year where we both met the Asst. Commandant of the Marines. I will forever be grateful that I knew Coach and got to share many laughs with him. I remember showing him how to text on his iphone! He was so young at heart! Much love to his daughter Nancy and granddaughter Christine and his son. He mentioned you guys often. What a great example he set on how to live life!

Ronald Drennan

October 14, 2012

Nancy, I want you and your brother to know that Mary and I are here if you need us, your dad was a very good friend to us.

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