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Memories and Condolences
for E. Enix
Sponsored by Dr. Virgil Medlin, student, friend, colleague.
Kelly McGlamery Davis
January 1, 2025
I was only blessed to be a student for a semester, but I was BLESSED. We always called him "E Paul" and he was a leader amongst leaders at MCHS. His wife also taught me 6th grade English, and for her I forever grateful. Everyone at Monroney knew HER former students because we were a step above other students in English. TWO great educators, so thankful they devoted their lives to us.
Mona Owen-Davis
August 6, 2024
Mr Enix,
My husband, Leslie Stephen Davis, was your student from 1964 - 1967. He's mentioned you through the 16 years we've been married. You were an important, trustworthy adult in his life and I want to thank you. He's nearly 75 now and when he talks about his days in highschool, he always mentions you with a smile. Thank you. I pray for peace for your family.
David Goodwin
December 26, 2016
I was a student of his in 1972. Because of him, we got to play a concert with the Oklahoma city symphony.
September 2, 2009
Well, I recognize that I am well over two years late in acknowleging the influence that Mr. Enix had on my life. I just became aware of his passing. Being a graduate in 1960 of Chickasha High, I can state that it was he who insired me to pursue my BMEd, play in the AF Band, and achieve the success of having a top band of my own. Though my career eventually changed from music to criminal justice, I have never forgotten the tremendous influence and my affection for E. Paul Enix, and have compared every director to him since. A truly great person indeed. Thanks to Virgel Medlin for getting me back in touch.
Ted Paddack
Mary Lou (Dickey) Lowe
June 12, 2007
Dear Jim Enix Family,
Just finished watching and listening to the DVD set of the Memorial Celebration for Mr. E. Paul Enix which was held on April 21, 2007. I was much moved. Mr. Enix instilled in all of us who were privileged to be his students such discipline and good rehearsal behavior that brought, under his guidance, the most amazing and lasting legacy of the finest music. My prayers and deepest condolences are sent to the Family.
Gayla (Hall) Barker
May 5, 2007
Mr. and Mrs. Enix were as special as they come. Every day of my life I reflect on the learnings of these exceptionally gifted people. I still get tears in my eyes when I hear a good downfield march! Take care Jim and thanks for sharing your parents!
John Pedersen
April 26, 2007
I too was greatly influenced by both Mr. and Mrs. Enix. In 6th grade at Ridgecrest Elementary, I was introduced to Mr. Enix as our band director. We knew he was the High School band director but had no idea how much influence he would have on our lives starting at age 12. Mrs. Enix was my homeroom English teacher that year also so I went straight from before school with Mr. Enix to first hour with Mrs. Enix. I played trumpet through elementary and Jr. High and again found myself following "Papa" on the marching field in early morning practices, on the stage for concert band performances and occationally around town.
There are so many memories we all have of his leadership, his guidance, (some discipline), etc. Times when we suprised he and Juanita in Crossroads Mall by gathering the band on a weekend and marching through the mall ramps playing our memorized marching music of Grandioso, Trombones Triumphant, Oklahoma, Bomber Fight and of course, the bands favorite, In the Mood, which I am sure he got sick of but was always accomodating to our desire to play it again. I can see him now making a muscle and pointing his baton at it to signal us to play "Man with the Golden Arm" from James Bond when the football crowd was too loud.
I didn't stay with the band at Oklahoma State, which I did regret, but continued to visit him at home when I was back in MWC. My parents both worked with him often and band parents and band trip sponsors. Even when the band of 1978 went to SanAntonio for the Festival of Flowers parades and some of us seniors got a little rowdy, he only had to point or look at his band to get us to attention. How many of us have imitated his saying "People!" when it was time to get serious about what we were doing, or think of him everytime we hear someone sqeal a bullhorn like he did from atop his marching band ladder.
In 1999 when my Dad had a major accident, I had to stop by his house and tell him about it and he made it a point to go by the hospital to see Dad as they often walked in the mall after they both retired. I usually heard when Dad saw Mr. Enix loading up his golf clubs in front of his house. I also had to tell him that my son was starting on my old Bach trumpet in 5th grade and continues doing that today (new trumpet), partly because of the stories I told him about all the wonderful times the Bomber Band had. He thinks my Bomber Band letter jacket looks pretty funny though.
Not till the accident in 1999 did I find out that I had yet another tie to Mr. and Mrs. Enix. I found a handwritten reference letter from Mr. Enix in my parents files where they had written to an attourney on behalf of my parents describing how long they had known me and what kind of man I had turned out to be. I found out this to be the adoption attourney that handled my private adoption when I was born! I was a little embarrased to read the wonderful things they wrote about me, knowing that I spent a lot of my band time in high school being a typical teenager having fun. Now, almost 30 years later, I can strive to be all the things they wrote about me as a 17 year old member of "The Bomber Band".
John Pedersen, Trumpet/French Horn Class of 1978
Myron (Mike) Humphrey
April 24, 2007
I would like to add a 2nd entry: this is the personal tribute to Paul I wrote for Virgil Medliln & Debbie Trammell, who spent prodigious time & energy researching & organizing the Memorial/Celebration for Paul, 04/21/07.
Thanks!
Mike ...
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Personal Tribute to E. Paul Enix, 1953-1959
By Mike Humphrey, Trombonist
Paul Enix was a remarkable man, musician’s musician, conductor, music educator, and private teacher. He had a major influence on many of his students and my dedication to music & pursuit of a career as a trombonist. Paul's excellence as a musician, bandleader, and teacher sparked my life-long ambition to be the best possible musician and trombonist. The benefits of his thoughtful, thorough & detailed teaching extended far beyond music, molding habits such as: self-discipline, attention to details and nuance, drive for perfection, & dedication to group goals - all very helpful in many fields. He strongly encouraged dedication to artistic expression in music, which strongly resonated with me.
Thanks to the dedicated research of Virgil Medlin & Debbie Trammell, we now have a collection of Paul's notes, plans, thoughts, and newspaper interviews. This collection reveals the depth of Paul's thinking & planning, his musical sensitivity, teaching philosophy, focus on nurturing his students, intelligence & talent in extracting the best from a diverse set of students, thoroughness, and dedication to the final product: fine, artistic performance of music, and the development of students as musicians, and assisting their maturation as young men & women.
As Virgil & Don Wilcox have noted, Paul had a keen & sensitive musical understanding of his concert band transcriptions of classical works, such as Brahm’s “Variations on a Theme by Hayden”, and Mussorgsky’s “Pictures at an Exhibition”, Bach’s “Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring”, and he was a virtuoso conductor, extracting the best possible, artistic performance from high school bands, no mean feat. We’re fortunate, thanks to Virgil Medlin & Debbie Trammell, to have today many Enix recordings of the Chickasha & Midwest City concerts bands. The artistic achievements are clear, though the recording quality of the 1950’s understandably is lacking. These recordings illustrate the remarkable artistic expression Paul was able to produce from high school bands.
Adept at managing his students, he assessed each one, and had a detailed game-plan for achieving his desired overall goal. Paul offered private lessons to those who had enough interest, talent, and the motivation to benefit themselves and the band, strongly encouraging those who were gifted & sufficiently motivated. In his notes he also delineates those who were “trippers”, whose main interest was band trips to football games or other events. He “sifted”, knowing that many could contribute and benefit, too. He was a relentless “driver” in achieving his goals, and most of the less interested players eventually found themselves part of a band garnering honors, and they became dedicated to the group & helping to achieve more. It was a win-win situation.
Paul helped to instill in me, in my teenage years, a keen awareness of artistic musical interpretation, a self-discipline focused on achieving the best possible level of musical performance, detailed concepts of phrasing & articulation, and an awareness of rhythm, intonation, dynamics, and the balancing of those elements in order to produce fine music. Music with emotional content and fine artistic, nuanced expression.
I’ve studied privately with Robert Marsteller, principal trombonist of the LA Philharmonic, Robert Gillespie of Eastman, Joe E. Davis of San Jose; Bill Tole and Britt Woodman, fine studio players in LA. Britt was Count Basie’s jazz trombonist for about 15 years. Paul remains the best & most influential trombone teacher I ever had. Two anecdotes: Once I put some real feeling into a section of an etude Paul had selected from Voxman. I felt I had played it perfectly. He gave praise with several specific comments & I was elated. Then, as a closer, he said, smiling: “I can always forgive some intonation problems when you play so expressively.” I was still elated, and I also knew I could do better. The drive to perfection resonated.
Then there was articulation. I had a natural ear for the nuances, and I got compliments for that. I volunteered my thoughts during one lesson, describing the mental images I summoned up for various articulations. A constant tone was a horizontal, hollow, “bar”, looking something like a blank horizontal yardstick. For smooth legato there was just the tiniest “notch” cut in the top edge of the bar, at the exact time of articulated note. Heavier legato was a bigger notch, dipping down further into the bar. Staccato was a complete, clean, wide vertical cut all the way through the bar, separating into distinct segments. A thinner cut would represent 2 notes of longer duration. And all other articulations lay in the continuous spectrum between the 2 extremes, an infinite number, theoretically. (This is a lot easier to draw than to describe! ? ). Paul responded with an energy & enthusiasm that propelled me through travails that lay ahead in my attempts at professional playing. I never gave up. Eventually, I needed oral surgery to solve some of the physiological problems that bedeviled me, and Paul’s earlier energy, direction, and enthusiasm went a long way in carrying me through to my goals.
Examples can be supremely instructive & effective: Paul was an accomplished trombone player. He organized a small dance band and illustrated the Tommy Dorsey style by playing his theme, “I’m Getting Sentimental Over You”, in the original Dorsey key, D, which sails up to a high C#. He sounded just like Dorsey, the super-smooth legato, rhythmically perfect slide vibrato, rich sound high or low – I was super impressed, a 13 year old aspiring beginner. When I became intrigued with JJ Johnson, Frank Rosolino, and other jazz players, as well as classical, Paul encouraged that, too, and suggested balancing my time, rather than specialize, tough advice for a teenager to follow, but follow it I did. It made sense. At 65, I still play a lot of theatre work, orchestral, brass choir, and jazz big bands in the San Francisco & San Jose areas. In the past year: Sweet Charity (Broadway Tour), Gypsy, and The King & I were shows I played in San Jose (AMT) productions, also 42nd Street & Crazy for You by Gershwin. I enjoyed my several years as a studio trombonist in LA, recording TV commercials, cartoons, & TV programs & others. I’m fortunate to still do recording work in the Bay Area these days, as well as a variety of other live performing. Music is truly the love of my life, and I’m keenly aware of the major contributions that Paul made to my lifestyle.
We now see in his notes that all the basic elements: rhythm, very detailed notes on intonation, section blend, overall balance among sections, phrasing, articulation, dynamics, & artistic expression, were components in his thoughts and plans as a bandleader. He attended to the most minute details, aimed at achieving the most subtle possible nuances in order to evoke the maximal artistic expression. A master bandleader, conductor, musician, music educator, and private teacher. A very intelligent, sensitive man who wanted to help his students achieve their very best individually, and make a maximum contribution to their band’s performance. Paul’s methods helped to instill self-discipline, dedication to group goals, and a work ethic, all of whose benefits extend far beyond the scope of music in the lives of his students.
Evelyn Elliott
April 20, 2007
We share the loss of Mr. E. Paul Enix with all who loved him, especially Jim and his family. Our family, as many of you, were blessed by our association with him, both during the time our daughter, Nadine, played flute with the MCHS Band (1966-1969), and as a friend from that time forward. I miss seeing him. Sincerely, Evelyn Elliott
Marvin Stice
April 20, 2007
I was fortunate enough to Mr. Enix as my band director twice, once at Ardmore High School and once at East Central. He was a wonderful Director and Band was my favorite class! I am 80 now and still cherish the fond memories.
Kevin Rollin
April 19, 2007
Jim, I can never say thank you enough for sharing your Father with all of us. The lessons that he taught us go so much farther than just being a member of the Bomber Band. I will always remember his gentle and sometimes firm guidance, but I will treasure the pride that he instilled in each and everyone of us. I will miss you "Papa", but you will still influence me forever.
Kevin Rollin (68-71)
David Ellis
April 19, 2007
I was once a rival of the Midwest City Band, having played in the Norman High School Band. We were fierce competitors but we always had the utmost respect for their director, Mr. Enix. He was a legend already.
In 1966 while attending Oklahoma University, I student taught the Midwest City Band under the supervision of Mr. Enix. My complete awe of being assigned to him quickly changed to inspiration and confidence. He let me spread my wings.
I have retired and returned to Oklahoma after teaching 36 years in Michigan. I truly believe all of the awards and accomplishments in my career were in no small part due to the influence of Mr. Enix.
Mr. Enix will be missed by all who were touched by him. He will also be remembered.
Tom Mangus
April 19, 2007
I graduated in 1971.There are few people that had a lifelong effect on me. Mr. Enix is the model I seek to follow. I went to UCO earning a music ed degree and worked 31 years teaching band. I recently have retired and working at UCO on the faculty. Mr. Enix has never left me as I stood on the podium for rehearsals, contests, and performances all these years. He is gone from us, but he lives on in me and all those people he touched. Thank you Mr. Enix.
Tom Mangus
Brass and French horn instructor
University of Central Oklahoma
Edmond, Oklahoma
Robert Spinks
April 18, 2007
In 1973, I had the privilege of practice teaching with Mr. Enix. What an amazing experience, both musically and personally! Any musician who had the opportunity to spend time with this great man was forever changed. The best musical link to him, however, belongs to my daughter who had one of Mr. Enix's former students, Walter Pitts, as her band director in high school. What a wonderful musical experience she had! Our family will be forever grateful for the influence of E. Paul Enix.
Robert Spinks, Ed.D., President, United Way of Central Oklahoma
Rebecca Scherr
April 9, 2007
I left a post this morning, but I have thought of a few more things that I would like to say since then. Mr. Enix was a once-in-a-lifetime musical mentor for me. I was thinking about the Dan Fogelberg song "The Leader of the Band," especially the line "My life has been a poor attempt to imitate the man. I am a living legacy to the leader of the band." I have never ceased to remember him over the years. I would like to say how very deeply saddened I am that Mr. Enix is now lost to us, but at the same time I feel so blessed to have studied music under his direction. There are just not enough words to say what a positive influence he was in my life. He taught us not only wonderful music, but also how to be a decent person who has respect for other people. We who were in his band learned many a valuable lesson about life from him. Some of them were lessons that noone else ever taught me and that I would never have learned so well if not for him. Now, as soon as I finish this entry, I am going to get out my soprano saxophone and play for awhile in his honor. So, every time I play from now on, Mr. Enix, I want you to know that I will remember you and every song I play well is thanks to you. I don't feel like saying "thank you" could ever be enough for all you did for me. Your direction inspired me to be a decent and honorable person. You are that inspiration who comes along only once in a lifetime. To me you will always be THE one and only leader of the band.
Rebecca Scherr
April 9, 2007
I attended Monroney JR HS and Midwest City HS when Mr. Enix was there. I played the clarinet and saxophone. He was a wonderful inspiration. He truly was a "second father." I am still playing today because of all the inspiration he gave me. I will never forget what a wonderful person he truly was. I now live in North Georgia -- a long way from my beloved Oklahoma -- but never in a million yeras will I ever forget all that Mr. Enix did for me and my music. May God bless you all for creating this memorial to a truly inspirational person who deserves it more than anyone else I have ever met.
Harlan Rogers
April 5, 2007
To all former students of Mr. Enix and alumni of Midwest City High School Band;
Regrettably, I won't be able to attend the Memorial Celebration in honor of E. Paul Enix in April. Please give my respects and regards to the family of Mr. Enix, all the Bomber Band members, and his many friends who will be in attendance.
Mr. Enix was a very special man and a tremendous influence in my life, both musically and personally. His attention to detail and emphasis on the pursuit of musical excellence instilled within me qualities that served me well throughout my musical career.
I believe all of us can attest to his desire and commitment to help us become the best band and the best individual musicians that we could be.
He was a good man. He impacted many lives for the better, and he will be missed by all those who knew him, studied under him, and respected and admired him.
Thank you Mr. Enix for all that you imparted to us as we were beginning our lives in the joyous world of music. We benefited greatly from your instruction and we all appreciate you more than we could ever express. Farewell good friend...and keep those heavenly musicians in tune!
Harlan Rogers - Trombonist
Midwest City Bomber Band
Class of 1961
Stan Olsen
April 4, 2007
The legend of Paul Enix began growing for me in the 4th grade at Ridgecrest Elementary in the presence of his wife Juanita, Ridgecrest's music teacher and one of my 5th grade teachers. Bragging would have been totally out of character for that classy woman. Highly complimentary would be a better way of describing her occasional references to him. In hindsight, she was extremely proud of the man she loved.
I had the pleasure of learning from him for only a semester before my family moved to Aurora, Colorado in January 1966. That move was an eye-opener in many ways. In particular, it became very apparent at the ringing of the first bell for my new band class that things would never be the same again.
My new home would quickly provide ample evidence of the strength of the program I left behind. Leaders like Paul Enix, supporting parents at MCHS, Monroney, Jarman, etc., dedicated school officials and enthusiastic student musicians were far fewer in number, if not non-existent in some cases. Band was a class without the discipline I had known in Midwest City. Beyond 55 classroom minutes a day, there was very little asked of band members in the way of training and preparation. Attention to the little details was lacking. Although he, too, was a very good person, the new band director approached his task more in the fashion of trying to lead (and, sometimes, plead with) the herd. There was no effort to focus on the fundamentals nor to train at the level of the individual participant.
While growing up in Midwest City, I never had any doubt that we had a fine band program. Only with my move to a new school did I learn that such programs were more likely the exception rather than the rule.
The accomplishments of the Bomber Band and those of the feeder junior high bands are direct reflections of the leadership of Paul Enix. I have always remembered my days in the system with great fondness.
Michael & Gayle Davis
March 28, 2007
Please accept our deepest sympathy on the loss of Mr. Enix. Few high school band directors have achieved the position of respect and high esteem which he enjoyed. His love of music which he instilled in so many, will be passed on for generations to come.
Patti (Creason) Sparkman
March 20, 2007
My deepest condolences to you and your family in the loss of your father. Of all the teachers I remember, your father is the only one I remember with such fond memories. He was a true model of dedication and professionalism. I was so very proud to have been part of his MCHS band 66-68, and still remember the pride I felt when he would take the podium prior to a performance. He made a significant and lasting impression on my life and he will be truly missed.
Gus Blackwell
March 14, 2007
My heartfelt condolences for the family of Mr. Enix. He was simply the best at what he did and always brought out the best in those he taught. You are in my prayers.
Don Wilcox
March 12, 2007
E. Paul Enix Memorial
Presented at the 2007 ABA Convention
by former student, Don Wilcox
“It’s all the fault of your high school band director”. This quote from Dr. William D. Revelli is familiar to many of us in this room. As my college band director, it usually was a part of an unflattering evaluation of some facet of our playing at the time. The connotation was definitely negative.
However in my own case, my high school band director was a positive factor rather than a negative one, because my high school band director was a gentleman named Paul Enix.
I want to mention five simple things about Paul Enix in this brief tribute:
1. Paul was both musically gifted and also extremely intelligent. He graduated from high school at the age of 16, and from college only 3 years later as the outstanding music graduate of Oklahoma A&M (now Oklahoma State University). When he took his first high school band job, he was 19 years old, the youngest certified teacher in the state of Oklahoma.
2. There was at that time a connection between Oklahoma A&M and the tiny community of Konawa, Oklahoma down south of Norman. Boh McKovsky (the KKY members among you will certainly know that name. He was Paul’s college band director at Oklahoma A&M, and Konawa was the first band job for many of his top graduates over the years.) In 1937, it was Paul’s first job, and he followed three years after my father, Everett Wilcox.
3. Paul was a musician’s musician. You can read all about his many honors in the written memorial, so I will recite all of that here, but for one thing: he was taken into the Oklahoma Music Educators Hall of Fame while he was still teaching – which is simply never done. He was that good.
He was recognized primarily for his band work, but he was also totally at home in front of an orchestra or choir. He played trombone and cello, and spent many years as the founder and conductor of the Oklahoma City Community Orchestra, as well as conducting his church choir for many, many years.
4. Those members of the American Bandmasters Association who were present at the Wichita convention in 2001 had the opportunity to meet Paul and hear him speak of the experiences he had in 1937 in Ada, Oklahoma copying the parts for “The Immovable Do” for composer Percy Grainger, then playing the first trombone part in the premiere performance which was conducted by Grainger. The first two trombones in that performance were Paul Enix and Leon Brown – the trombone teacher for many years at North Texas (who my dad had started on trombone at Konawa
5. And Last….. Mr. Enix was a total gentleman, married to his childhood sweetheart Juanita for about 60 years, and a gifted teacher of great patience - who threw me out of band at least twice. I realize that it is hard to imagine a 15 or 16 year-old kid needing some “tough love” occasionally! But he was willing to provide that when needed, and after my Mom made me go apologize, he always took me back.
I learned a lot from Paul Enix, and one simple example is appropriate to mention. Lucian Calliet’s masterful transcription of “Elsa’s Procession to the Cathedral” by Richard Wagner was one of our contest pieces one year and I first learned that work by playing it in Paul’s band at Chickasha. I also played it later in the University of Michigan Band under Dr. Revelli, and also under Lucian Calliet himself. I can tell you that Mr. Enix’s knowledge of that score and his musical interpretation of that work were as thorough and as musically comprehensive as anyone’s.
A “once-in-a-lifetime” musical and personal highlight for me was the opportunity to conduct that work with the Oklahoma All-State Band a few years ago dedicate it to Paul, who in the audience. That was a very special case of “what goes around, comes around”.
I can say with complete honesty that a lot of what I have managed to do professionally over the past half century in the band business is definitely “all the fault of my high school band director” - Mr. Paul Enix.
Don Wilcox, Director of Bands Emeritus
West Virginia University
Chickasha High School, Class of 1954
Past President of the American Bandmasters Association
david humphrey
March 3, 2007
Mr Enix's passing is a benchmark
moment for those of us who were in
his bands. I first met Mr. Enix
in 1954 ( SW Grade School in Chickasha )
I know that you (in Midwest City )
knew him most recently and am not
surprised at the praise you have
given him.
I still remember the party we had
for him at Shannon Springs after he
accepted the job at Midwest City.
We didn't want him to leave but it
was not possible for a small town
like Chickasha to keep him. We take
pride in "sharing" him with Midwest City.
Mike (Myron) Humphrey
March 2, 2007
My brother David & I were in the Chickasha High School marching & concert bands, 1953-1959. Paul Enix inspired to me to chase a career as a professional musician, and I learned a great deal from him: musical expression, the art of trombone performance (taking private lessons from him for 4 years), and the importance of self-discipline and dedication to details. Some of this training had benefits that applied to pursuits far beyond music.
We won many 1st place honors during those years in Chickasha, playing challenging music: e.g. an adaptation to concert band of Brahm's Theme & variations (clarinets including my brother Dave playing transcriptions of the original string parts) - these were great musical experiences for Jr. HIgh & High Scool musicians. I'll never forget the experience of the Tri-State band contest in 1953 (Aaron Stewart, Jimmy Smith, Bert Merx, Leroy Zigenfuss, Deborah Gallager, .... are you still out there? :-)
I've played trombone professionally since 1959, and also got degrees in math & worked in the aerospace & computer business, took sabbaticals several times to continue playing, and finally retired for good from the computer biz, and I'm now a full-time musician again, doing recording work, playing the theatre circuits in San Jose & San Francisco, some orchestral work, and a variety of jazz groups.
I'm sorry to say I lost track of Paul later in life - I would like to have visited him in Okla & regaled him with some stories of my ultimate progress in the world of trombone playing, playing in LA studios in the early 70's, etc. I think he would have appreciated seeing some payoff from those 4 years of private lessons, and knowing how I conquered some of my own personal demons.
Rest in peace E. Paul, you were an inspiration to many, many young people...
Mike Humphrey ...
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Retired computational scientist
Trombonist, private teacher
Sharon Howard
February 27, 2007
It was with great sadness that I learned of the passing of E. Paul Enix. My deepest sympathies to his family. I was part of one of the last classes (75-77) that were blessed to be in the Bomber Band with "Papa" Enix. I often worried that some of our pranks, especially for his birthdays, led to his retirement soon after our class graduated. I'll never forget his face when he gave the downbeat for our final formation on the football field and the band spelled out PAPA and played "Happy Birthday".
What other high school band director could take an unruly mob of students and get them to play "Scheherazade" at the state competition? Numerous people told Mr. Enix that the piece was too difficult for a high school band but he didn't listen. He had faith in us and, as usual, he was correct. Band was the only class I had every day for all three years of high school. Mr. Enix taught me perseverence, discipline, and a love of classical music. Our loss is certainly heaven's gain. He will be greatly missed!
Ronald Carter
February 24, 2007
I remember Mr. Enix for all the great pleasures he has had with all the band members. Taking time to talk with each of us was a great inspiration for all. The time he would spend with myself to encourage me to do better was a great memory I will always have about him. I do thank Mr. Enix for all the memories that he has given each and every one of us. Heaven has a new director for the band now.I hope God likes "In The Mood".
Neil Livingston
February 22, 2007
Without a doubt Mr. Enix was a living legend. I have very fond memories of Mr. and Mrs. Enix. Mrs. Enix was my music teacher at Ridgecrest grade school, and of course Mr. Enix was director at MWC Highschool during my time there from 68-72. Midwest City has always had a tremendous spirit for its highschool football team, and without a doubt the Bomber Band under Mr. Enix was just as outstanding as the football teams during my time there. There were few highschool bands that could come close to the skill of the Bomber Band in those days, whether doing a half time show at a football game or playing in an auditorium. I don't know how Mr. Enix was able to bring out the best in every one of his students, but he did. I think it was the pride he instilled in us for doing our best. He was a treasure to the students who were lucky enough to study under him and will be missed.
Janice Wolf Casteel
February 22, 2007
I still feel pride when I see the Band marching down the street for Homecoming. There was pride in everything we did because of Mr. Enix. I still have albums we made of the concert band and listen to them quite often. My condolences to Jim and his family.
Paul Sampang
February 19, 2007
My condolences to the Enix family. I carry the fondest memories of Mr. Enix. He was a rock, an anchor, during those turbulent teenage years. He leaves a legacy indeed: of dedication, discipline, and passion. Over the years I've thought of him often and cherish the memories and lessons he passed down, not only of music, but life. I am forever and deeply grateful for being honored by his acquaintance.
Barry Tyree
February 18, 2007
The loss of your father is a loss to many. Mr. Enix was a second father to thousands of young people through the years. I can think of no other teacher that so touched my life and I am a better man for that experience. Our loss is Heaven's gain. God's speed "Papa", God's speed.
Karen Yoachum Curran
February 17, 2007
My condolences to the family of Mr. E. Paul Enix. Band was always my favorite subject. Mr. Enix taught us to love music and to do our very best. May God bless your family in your time of loss. Mr. Enix will be missed by many.
Karen (Yoachum) Curran
Class of 1965
Brenda (Mills) Hyde
February 16, 2007
Mr. Enix touched our lives on so many levels beyond band. I was a proud member of the MCHS Bomber Band from 1965-1969 and a Thunderbird Band member before that.
Mr. Enix taught me that hard work and self discipline pay off. And, he also taught all of us to have fun while we are working hard. We were proud to play in the band and represent our school.
I can truly say I walked a mile to school every day no matter what the weather to arrive before dawn and practice so I could perform for Mr. Enix and my school. When he walked to the podium and tapped his baton on the stem of the music stand, we sat up straighter, stopped talking (mostly) and looked him in the eye.
We learned the value of a team effort, the pride of a job well done, and the enjoyment of good music. We learned to take care of our possessions (remember those marching uniforms and plumed hats?) and we learned the value of hard work.
Sincerely, he touched us beyond the joy of a good marching routine. We were truly blessed to be given the opportunity to be in his band.
He touched so many and he will be missed.
Lawana (Coiner) Perrault
February 15, 2007
My sincere condolences to the Enix family. I was in the Bomber Band 1960-63. It was the best band in the state. Mr. Enix was a man of great character and dignity. He had all the qualities of a great teacher. He was so gifted musically. I remember how he always spent time making us tune our instruments to that little tuner machine he had. I played flute and was very competitive and so proud of our band. I remember how we had to learn precision marching for football games. We learned a new one each week. It was great. Mr. Enix brought out the best in us, musically and behaviorally. He expected us to do our best. Being in the band was what I loved about school. I still have some of the marches memorized, Stars & Stripes especially, and remember how proud I felt marching onto the football field playing March Grandioso. When I see a marching band in a parade, I tear up. Mr. Eugene Smith, Jarman Jr. High director, and Mr. Enix were my favorite teachers. They really cared about us. Mr. Smith and Mr. Enix were at my father's funeral 7 years ago. That meant so much to my family. My father, a musician, had great respect for both men. Band is my best memory of school. Mr. Enix was a talented, fantastic teacher.
Yes, I too t.p'd. his house, out of love. What great memories!
Russell Townsend
February 14, 2007
Mr. Enix was a great person, I had him for High School Band at Chickasha Ok, class of 58. A real Christian man and wife.
David Cates
February 14, 2007
Mr. Enix shared so much music knowledge with me. I still carry it with me throughout my life. My sympathies to his family. He will be missed.
elizabeth hawkins norton
February 14, 2007
I remember Mr Enix with all of the love in the world.I think my love of classical music came from his selctions for the band in contest or concert.(Tristan and Isolde comes to mind).I was usually the only girl in the drum section. The guy's favorite trick was to untie the straps on the cymbals, so that when I picked them up to do my big solo, they fell to the floor creating a huge clatter. Mr Enix would scowl toward us,but seldom said anything.For several years before he died I would run into him at Crest. He always remembered me,although he had taught many, many students.I don't think it was for my talent,but for the trouble the drum section got into. I loved Mr Enix. He was a good and descent man.
JIM SCHOELEN
February 13, 2007
Words cannot express completely the magnitude of the loss of Mr. E. Paul Enix. I have never in all my years since MCHS met anyone quite like him!
Instruments up!
Roger Vick
February 13, 2007
Jim and Family, After all these years I will confess that it was Robert Brewer and I who T.P.'d your house on Halloween night in 1960. We did it out of love of course.
Bomber Band 1959 - 1961
Edward White
February 13, 2007
I'm so sorry to here of your loss. I played Baritone in the Bomber Band
73-75. My Best memory of High School, is marching onto the field every Friday night playing Grandioso. Mr. Enix will be missed.
Sheryl Hopkins Hendricks
February 13, 2007
I am saddened for the loss of such a remarkable and talented person who was able to enrich the lives of all he came in contact with. No one can fill his shoes.
Bob Ard
February 13, 2007
I am so sorry to hear about Mr. Enix. I played baritone horn in the MCHS band from 1967-69. Mr. Enix influenced me to continue with my studies in music and a long career as a opera and symphony conductor in Europe and the US. He inspired me to be the very best I could be and to bring out the best in every musical ensemble. I fondly look back to the years I spent with the band and Mr. Enix. I will try to attend the memorial.
David Stetson
February 13, 2007
My absolute best memories of High School involve the time I was allowed to spend under the watchful eye of a true legend of High Scool Band, E. Paul Enix. Who will ever forget playing Grandioso as we marched down the middle of the football field, not I for sure. He is truly missed.
Oklahoma Today, Sprg '72, p. 38 (Post: Medlin)
February 11, 2007
Bill & Lindsey (a.k.a Linda Sue Hurst) Kapella (MCHS '65)
February 11, 2007
Our condolence to the E.Paul family. God has blessed us by putting Mr Enix in our lives. Mr Enix was well respected by many student, friend, and colleague, more than he will ever knew. You didn’t have to be in the MCHS Band to appreciate what he did for the school and the community. Although I did not play in the band, I did play football on Friday nights at Rose Field. The spirit of the all his band members, fans, students, parents, players, and Mr Enix himself, was always there just like it is today. Down on the playing field when I heard that good ‘ol BOMBER FIGHT SONG, it really got us ‘In the Mood’. Mr Enix always seemed to know when we needed to hear the song to get us that extra boost. Thank you Mr Enix, your spirit has lived with us all these years and will continue for many more years by all the people you’ve touch. May God bless you. Thank you Dr Virgil Medlin for keeping this page alive for us to reminisce together as we recall our knowing such an awesome man. Thank you Debbie Jenkins Trammell and the many members working on the committee for Mr. Enix's memorial celebration honoring his life April 21, 2007 at 2:00 p.m. in the MCHS Performing Arts Center. Lindsey and I regret we will not be able to attend. Please pass our regards to the family.
Bill Williams
February 7, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow. Mr. Enix made a lasting impact on my life while in high school (76-78). I still remember his heart for music and for bringing out the best in people.
Tom Furlong
February 6, 2007
I've not seen any submissions from my class. I was a junior the first year E.Paul taught at MCHS. We were used to "happy Jack" Erwin who preceded Mr.Enix. E.Paul wasn't near as much fun, but we started winning competitions everywhere in short time. We found out that there was something more to life than just fun. We began to take immense pride in our organization. Still, I think E. Paul was glad when we graduated and he had a band that was all his with no remnants of the past.
I graduated in '61 and was glad to have been a drummer in E.Paul's band
& orchestra.
Steve Beeney
February 5, 2007
Dear Mr. Enix,
You inspired me. You brought great art and personal dignity into my life. You affirmmed my family's value that art is a worthy goal and source of human energy.
I prefer to think you can hear us as I can still hear your baton tapping on your music stand and see your arms and eyebrows raised ready for the the pick up. Because of you, I love Shostakovitch, Grainger, Brahms, and Vaughn Williams now and am a richer person.
Something else. More. You loved us. Thank you, Sir.
Sincerely,
Mary Stone
February 4, 2007
I had the great opportunity to study under E. Paul Enix 1965 and 1966. He was truly, as everyone has already said, one of the finest conductors and friend to all his students. He was also a member of my parents' church and when I visited he always remembered who I was and asked how I was doing? This is so rare in people today, but what a fine quality. I am truly blessed to have had this teacher's influence in my life and picked up a clarinet about 2 years ago after 39 years of never even seeing one and was able to play with my niece. My heart goes out to his family but I know their hearts are full of wonderful memories of a dad and musician who taught all of his students to study hard and always at your best. I fondly recall teepeeing his house one night with several of the other kids and his coming out, catching us and naming each and every one of us as we were trying to get in the car and had us all come in for hot chocolate. He was wonderful and he and Mrs. Enix made a wonderful team. I appreciate all he did for me and my love for music. Mary Meeks (Stone) Oklahoma City
Randy Poe
February 4, 2007
I am saddened to hear of Mr. Enix's passing. As a Bomber Band member (67-70) it was a privilege to study under his guidance. I have seen the words "strict" and "discipline" in others' remarks here, and those were certainly true. I also remember his extreme tolerance and patience with those of us who did not know much about music! Of all the lessons I learned from him, I think "professionalism" remains the strongest in my memory. He indirectly taught all of us that, back when we did not have a clue what the word meant. Of course I cannot forget the cold 7am mornings when I thought that trumpet mouthpiece was going to freeze to my lips :) While I did not pursue a music career, the years in Band undoubtedly influenced me in many ways throughout my life. My continuing love of music is only a small part. Jim, may I extend my condolences to you and your family. On a positive note, it has been rewarding to see so many familiar names on these pages - they bring back great memories. I am proud to have been a Bomber with all of you!
Cheryl Key
February 4, 2007
Your letter regarding the memorial celebration of Mr. Paul Enix arrived at my desk today addressed to my late father, Bob Key, who died Dec. 22, 2004. If Dad were still living he would be thrilled to have a chance to attend the memorial celebration of Mr. Enix even though more than 50 years has passed since Dad had been a student of his at Ardmore High School. Dad spoke of Mr. Enix with reverence, awe and as a living legend. As music was my father's passion, he found Mr. Enix' leadership in the field among the best of those whom he admired. When Dad reminisced about his younger years he always mentioned Mr. Enix' name. Mr. Enix instilled a love of music, discipline and a desire to do one's best, according to Dad. Blessings to the Enix family. The love of music he instilled left a life-time of memories for those whose lives he touched.
Sharon Myers McAnear
February 2, 2007
I have just learned of your loss, the passing of your father. My memories of high school are memories of the band with Mr. Enix on the conducting platform, baton in hand- demanding and receiving our best. Thank you for sharing him with me.
Linda (Williamson) Fiesel
January 30, 2007
I am saddened to learn of the passing of Mr. Enix. What a wonderful person and teacher he was. My years in the Bomber Band (1964-1967)were some of the happiest times in my life. Reading through the other expressions of sympathy brought back fond memories of March Grandioso, Rose Field, my dad raising the flag to the Star Spangled Banner, Kappa Psi Kappa, pledging, contests, marching in parades, early morning practices. The list could go on and on. And Mr. Enix right there alongside all of us, coaching, teaching, and being our friend. Truly a sad day for so many who knew and loved Mr. Enix. My deepest sympathy to his family.
Gary Provine
January 21, 2007
My condolences to the Enix family. I have many fond memories of Mr.Enix. I was in the Bomber Band ('76-'79) when he became ill and had to retire. We missed his outstanding leadership during those years. I remember marching to his house one Saturday while he was recovering and playing Happy Birthday. He and Mrs. Enix were so excited and all the neighbors came out to wish him well. Some 20+ years later, Mr. Enix would run into my parents at the grocery store, call them by their first name, and always ask about me. He was an amazing man and educator! We will miss him.
E. Paul Enix (Post: Medlin)
January 21, 2007
David McMurry
January 19, 2007
I always look back on my years at MCHS ('68 - '70) as rather tumultuous and challenging. That is, until I remember my memories of The Band. I remember asking my parents if I could forgo continuing my rather amatuer musicianship after graduating from Jr. High. They encouraged me to "try it at least one more year in High School". That was probably the most important decision that was ever made (for me). I've often thought: "What would I have done had I not had the experience of being in that proud institution." And, that proud institution was led by one of the most incredible human beings that I would encounter in my life. Strict, focused, intense and dedicated to the highest quality in musicianship, his students and everything he did. As we all know, hormones run rampant in teenagers and we were no exception. But with his guidance, disicipline and tenacity, we were all able to focus, with our eyes on "the prize". And, we achieved that "prize" over and over again, at marching contests, at state championships, and just about everything we did. I believe I am who I am today because of those years under his leadership. He was a gentleman, an artist, and most importantly, a teacher. One of the most noble professions in the world. E. Paul, I will be forever grateful for your unwavering dedication and, more importantly, exemplarly life.
jack combs
January 19, 2007
The Bomber Band won't be the same.
He was a mentor to hundreds of students who can say that they are truly better people today having learned so much from such a remarkable individual.
Dianne Dunn
January 19, 2007
Mr. Enix was an exceptional teacher. I still remember many of his pet phrases- "About as much spirit as a damp soda cracker" and reminding us to pay attention to "Pitch! Pitch!" Aside from his outstanding musical instruction, he taught us valuable life lessons. He would often tell us, "A band is only as strong as its weakest member," which is a good way to think about community and our interdependence with one another. "March Grandioso" still brings a smile to my face, and a flood of terrific memories. He will certainly be missed by all of us whose lives he touched.
Janice Wolf Casteel
January 18, 2007
Mr. Enix never forgot a face. How he did it, I do not know. He was truly a great teacher, example, etc., and will be missed. I am truly looking forward to the Memorial Service for him in April. I truly hope the word gets out to anyone that whose life was touched by Mr. Enix.
C. Myron Flippin
January 17, 2007
I was saddened to hear of the death of E. Paul Enix.It was my honor to follow him as the conductor of the OKC Community Orchestra when he decided his 'gig' days were over.Shortly after leaving, he quietly asked me if I would teach him 'cello. Most people did not know that in his younger days he studied cello with Maurice Eisenberg,a well known teacher of that era.The mark of a great teacher is to always be a student. That was Mr. Enix. I learned more about music from him than I taught him about the cello. It was an honor to be associated with him.My sympathies to the family and all his students.The music world has lost a great asset.
Jane (Vaughn) Roller
January 16, 2007
I was saddened to hear of Mr. Enix's passing. I did not really enjoy High School, except for band. I have fond memories of band camp and all the places we went and all the competitions we won. My heart goes out to his family and friends.
Desa Dawson
January 16, 2007
E. Paul Enix was a man of wit, intelligence, imagination, and most of all dedication. He was a demanding teacher and much beloved by all of his students because they knew he was molding them into the very best they could be. He expected everyone to live up to his high standards, and I am so proud to have been one of his students. I will remember him fondly and cherish the three years at MCHS as a member of his band.
Thank you Mr. Enix!
Desa Dawson MCHS Class of 1969
Enix's Chickasha High School Band 1959
January 15, 2007
Enix (Chickasha High School old band room 1959)
January 15, 2007
Randy Hurst
January 15, 2007
Paul was always such an inspiration to all of us in the music education field. He was so very talented, yet always had such a humble attitude as he unselfishly shared his musical knowledge with all of us who admired and loved him. He will be so greatly missed.
Roy Combs
January 13, 2007
Beyond parents, the most influential person in my life, I think of you often E. Paul. Music means more to me thanks to your teachings.
Sandy (Smith) Emrich
January 13, 2007
Jim, Citadel, and Jeff, I’m so sorry for your loss. Not only is your father’s passing a great personal loss for you but to anyone who knew him. E. Paul Enix was without equal—a gracious man, wonderful teacher, and a good friend. He has enriched my life and that of my family beyond measure. You spoke correctly when you said as great musicians your parents were, they were even greater people. The Bomber Band (66-68) was only the beginning for me. I was blessed to play under his direction in the OKC Community Orchestra and remain constant friends. He was personally interested in each of his students, and he amazed me with details he remembered about each one. He was truly an artist. When asked how he worked with the ensembles to realize his vision, he said he treated it like a block of marble—know what you want the finished product to be and chip away what doesn’t belong. This was evident with Debussy’s Fetes at contest when he received several suggestions from judges on how the last note should be played but faithfully stayed with what he had chosen. I look forward to the April memorial service where we can all celebrate your Dad’s life.
Sandy (Vaughn) Buxton
January 12, 2007
I only just heard of Mr. Enix' passing and am truly saddened. He was such an inspriation, even if we didn't know it at the time. I was priviledged to be in the BOMBER band from '68-'70 and enjoyed every minute of it. One couldn't have asked for a better teacher or mentor. He taught so much more than just music. I will always be honored to have been part of that organization. E. Paul, you will be truly missed.
Terry Hardin
January 11, 2007
I had the fortune of having E.Paul as a teacher in the 5th grade at Ridgecrest Elementary. Little did I know that just a few short years later, I would be a part of a family that stills means so much - the Bomber Band. I too remember the Lincolnshire and Grandioso and marching in the number 11 spot 3 straight years, all under his watchful eyes. We all thought we were just learning music and how to march. Little did we realize that he was teaching us about life and helping us, through music, to discover who we really were then and are today. Jim, may the grace and peace of God be with you and your family in your time of sorrow. Your dad may be gone, but he most certainly will never be forgotten.
Dr. Virgil Medlin
January 10, 2007
We have lost a living treasure. I first met E. Paul Enix (fondly E. Paul) in 1952 when I was in grade school in Chickasha,Oklahoma. From that time until he left for Midwest City in 1959 I had weekly private lessons from him. For several years I mowed his lawn in exchange for lessons and got to know him and his dear wife better than most. I still remember the day that "Jimbo" arrived and how excited the Enix family was. Jim my heart goes out to you and your family.
E. Paul Enix was a master musician. He could play as well as give instruction on almost every instrument from strings, brass, woodwinds to percussion, etc. from first lesson to mastery. He built instrumental programs from the ground up in several cities, including Chickasha, and finally upon arriving at Midwest City had support personnel at the elementary and junior high levels so that he could concentrate on the varsity of bands, the high school concert band. At Chickasha he built the program there to the point that he could perform with first class honors the most difficult of symphonic programs. At Midwest City with its greater resources he built a rich repertoire and won acclaim far and wide. When E. Paul announced his departure for Midwest City, we at Chickasha felt that the world had come to an end but knew that Midwest City was gaining a living treasure. I saw and heard MCHS's fortune firsthand myself when in 1961 E. Paul invited me to conduct his band. I had studied conducting with E. Paul, Dr. Guy Fraser Harrison, Dr. Bruno Walter, and Dr. James Neilson. Of the musical ensembles I had conducted MCHS matched the best in the country.
We, who played for him over the many years of dedicated service, played not out of force or habit, but because he got the best out of all of us who played for him and we got the best out of him. E. Paul Enix, Bruno Walter and one other, Yevgenny Mravinsky were so much alike; all were friendly and warm and knew what they wanted from the music and from each and every player. They all demanded great discipline and got it without applying a heavy hand but all to only one end, to achieve the best in music. And each man never yielded until he got from his players what he knew was right. Never have I found three men more dedicated to the mission of music;literally their souls sang music. But in the end E. Paul Enix achievement was the greater of all those I have been fortunate to know in that he instilled and nurtured music in countless students many of whom followed on his path as teachers or became the best of the best among professional musicians or became patrons of music.
Susie (Baker) Wehrenberg
January 10, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of your loss; however, your dad lived a long and fulfilling life which was truly a blessing to everyone who had the privilege of knowing him and learning from him. My memories of being in the band ('67-'69) are wonderful.
Jim Swiggart
January 9, 2007
I am so sorry to just hear of Pauls'death. He was an inspiration and role model for so many directors. My first memory after receiving a degree was my weekly trip to Sharp and Nichols Music store, where Doc Walker, Al Buswell and Harry Haines and Paul would just happen to be talking shop, and I would stand close by, gazing at music and trying to hear every word they had to say. He was a legend in every respect. Later I jumped at the chance to share the stage at Moore HS concerts with his community orchestra as I wanted my students to see him and hear the orchestra medium His students who had him each day were blessed and I hope they are emulating and passing on his lessons in all they do. I was blessed to be with him occasionally!
Connie Davis
January 8, 2007
I only knew Mr Enix for a short time, but he impressed me for the love of music that he had, and I am sure that he has touched the lives of many students, a very nice man. My Deepest Sympathy for the family.
(Darrel) Patrick Knapick
January 5, 2007
Mr. Enix (E. Paul) is one of two teachers whose influence on my life remains today. His staying the course despite the shenanigans of the percussion section of 69 – 72 continues to be an inspiration to me.
How many times did we win contests?
What other class did we have so much fun in?
Who else taught us so much about life and achieving goals, all the time letting us think we were just making music?
Thank you E. Paul.
May you Rest in Peace
Marianne Harding Roberts
January 1, 2007
My deepest sympathies to Jim and his family. Mr. Enix taught me that the reward for hard work is pride in yourself and your accomplishments. Those runs in Romeo & Juliet were an accomplishment! Both Mr. and Mrs. Enix shared with me their love and knowledge and I am so thankful to have been taught by them.
Steve Downham
December 25, 2006
Mr. Enix was one of those teachers you will always remember because we spent our entire high school years with him.
My favorite memories are getting up before the crack of dawn to practice marching and waking up all the neighbors around MCHS. To this day I still get up at very early to start my day. I value my opportunity to have been one of Mr. Enix's students. Jim, your dad was a great guy.
Kris Hanson-Hinrichs
December 23, 2006
Dear Jim and Family,
Please accept my deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences during this sad time in the loss of your wonderful father. He truly was like a second father to my brother, Eric, and me during our years with him in school. I believe we spent more time with him than our own father sometimes. He taught me how to play the clarinet in 6th grade and continued my music education with him throughout high school. He instilled in me the high standards and values for the love of playing to the best of my ability through hard work and much practice. I have tried to carry those great qualities from him and pass them onto my music students today. I thank you for allowing me to be a small part of your parents' lives. We are all blessed to have known them both. As long as we live, their spirits will live on in us through the stories we tell about them and the love of music we all shared. I look forward to seeing you in 2007. God bless you and your sweet family. With my sincere thanks and deepest sympathy,
Kris Hanson Hinrichs
Nancy (Sadler) Daubert
December 23, 2006
Jim, I was so saddened by the news of your dear father's passing. I'd only recently heard that he was gravely ill. As you well know, your Dad was an amazingly exceptional person, & SO loved by countless people. I'm just grateful that I was fortunate enough to even be a part of his world...& I can't even count all the good ways he influenced my life. My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family, & if I may echo one of the other sentiments & add to it...may the heavenly orchestras be playing Lincolnshire Posy & March Grandioso forever in his honor!!!
Jim Burson
December 22, 2006
I imagine that like many others, for me E. Paul Enix was one of the most influential persons of my life (second only to my own parents). He taught me more than any other teacher and I have only the fondest memories of my years as a Bomber Band member (66-69). He insisted on my best and I am a better man for having the priviledge of knowing him and having been under his tutelage. I wish that all young persons could have a teacher as great as Mr. Enix. May God bless him more than he blessed me with M. Enix's presence in my life. I hope I have honored him in some small way.
Brenda Combs-Edge
December 22, 2006
I remember Mr. Enix coming to the Grade School to encourage students to play a musical instrument, and then teaching those who were interested. His guest appeances at the Junior High and then teaching at the High School, but most important was his leadership skills. He was blessing to the community and will be missed by all.
Dan Sealy
December 21, 2006
I was blessed to know Mr. Enix. He helped shape how I see the world as a student and today as an adult. More than just a lasting love of music, he taught me the importance of dedication to achieving a goal. He taught me tenacity by having us show up at Lord knows what hour in the morning to practice marching in the winter and by giving us the courage to compete with others. He taught me the importance of getting on the bus on time, and more importantly, making sure my comrades got on as well….. while remembering to “…keep all the appendages inside.” Perhaps more than anything, by teaching me to be part of the band he taught me how the sum our all our individual efforts and dreams was greater than my own personal accomplishments. My life would not have been as rich if I had not known him. May he and Mrs. Enix rest in peace but may there be a Championship Band playing in the background; perhaps Lincolnshire Posey or The New World Symphony. And Jim, thanks to your dad, you and I got to make fools of ourselves as drum majors together and loved every minute of it! My prayers are with you but you should be so proud.
Peace.
Gary Adair
December 21, 2006
E. Paul Enix provided tremendous influence to many people. He taught me that with determination and work that you can achieve your goals. From taking an arrangement apart and working on a short section till you could play it in your sleep to the final performance and the understanding that every part, no matter how small, contributed to the greater whole. Jim, your Dad has been remembered many times in my journey through life as someone who picked me up and put me on a different path than the one I started on. I know he will be missed by many. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. (EP's Angels - Bomber Band 1967-1969)
Judy (Chrisope) Porter
December 21, 2006
Mr. Enix blessed each student in one way or another. The memories I have of band, trips and the knowledge of music is directly concernine Mr. Enix.
I had the pleasure of actually playing in a band with him at the Monroney Jr High Alumni Band Reunion. Mr. Enix joined us as a member. Even then he taught us (srs) to learn and to appreciate what music was about.
He will be truly missed
Class of 1965
Debby McElreath (Yost)
December 20, 2006
Mr. Enix will be truly missed by all who were blessed with the opportunity to be a part of the Midwest City High School band during his directorship. Some of my fondest memories are of band activities (1970-1973). He will be truly missed, but his memory will continue on.
Dee Ann Hill
December 20, 2006
I have always been aware that both Mr. and Mrs. Enix did more to shape my character than did almost anyone else in my life. They inspired respect in everyone around them without even trying. I can count on one hand the number of truly great people I've ever known, and they are two of them. Thank God that we were blessed with their caring, teaching, and correction. The world is poorer today than it was last week.
Ed Miller
December 19, 2006
Mr. Enix was truley a life saver and believed in the students and expected nothing less than their best. Even though I am pitch and musically challenged. I have a great respect for Mr. Enix in the way he lived his life and lead by example. If we all could have as full of a life as he. Thanks for the lessons and memories.
Kevin Wittrock
December 19, 2006
I met Mr. Enix through my wife (Monica Amis) and I am constantly amazed at the impact a man can have in the lives of individuals! He was always so gracious and feel that the skills he endeared to those he taught were life long, the music was a bonus! A legend has passed this life, but will live forever in the ones he touched. God Bless MR. Enix....Heavy on the MR. he didn't demand it, he deserves and earned it!
Gail Ratchel
December 19, 2006
Mr. Enix made a great lasting impressions in my life. He taught me how important disipline is in life and how to really appreciate music. Band (1969-73)are my fondest memories of high school, even with all the hard work it involved. My heart goes out to Jim and his family for their loss. He was a great man & mentor. He will be greatly missed. Gail (Harding) Ratchel
Derek Box
December 19, 2006
I will honor your name always and always remember what pride I have in receiving the E.Paul Enix awards/scholarships, both Jr. High and High School. I truly regret your passing. I did not know you very well, but you were always an inspiration to me and I am blessed to proudly remember what you have meant to me as a Music Major in college. I will truly miss you, but realize your legend will live on forever.
Derek box
December 19, 2006
I will honor your name always and always remember what pride I have in receiving the E.Paul Enix awards/scholarships, both Jr. High and High School. I truly regret your passing. I did not know you very well, but you were always an inspiration to me and I am blessed to proudly remember what you have meant to me as a Music Major in college. I will truly miss you, but realize your legend will live on forever.
Debbie Jenkins Trammell
December 18, 2006
Mr. Enix was an exceptional man who touched the lives of all his students that had the privilege of playing in the great Bomber Band. I have wonderful memories of my years at MCHS (67-69) and playing in the Bomber Band under his direction. We were like a big happy family who cared for each other and our leader. Thank you Jim for sharing your mom and dad with us and allowing us to all be his "children." You and your family are in my prayers.
Michael Spirgis
December 18, 2006
Mr. Enix was one of those exceptional individuals who touched the lives of thousands of people in so many ways. He was my fondest memory of high school and I am truly sorry to hear of his passing. I hope that he passed to the waiting Arms of the Lord with as little suffering as possible. His life was a shining beacon of love and charity that the world will surely miss. God bless you, Mr. Enix, and may He receive you into His Presence with open Arms and the reward you so richly deserve.
Sheri Ferguson-Thompson
December 18, 2006
Last weekend, I had the privilege to attend the New Orleans Philharmonic for a holiday pop concert. A flood of memories were rekindled as I heard "Sleigh Ride" again and remembered with emotion the meaning of being part of the Bomber Band under the direction of E. Paul Enix. Mr. Enix always demanded discipline, commitment, and punctuality! He never settled for less than our best. And he always inspired me to reach my potential. What a long way I had to go in those days! I shall always treasure those years and the fabulous relationships we ALL experienced, no matter what year we graduated. All that mattered is that we were a part of Mr. Enix's Bomber Band. And I shall always be! Thank you to Mr. Enix for the memories that will always live on because of him. If there were an opus, it would be for him. And I would be honored to pay tribute to the difference he made in my life, and in the lives of hundreds of others. May God bless you, Jim and family, in your loss. I thank God for both of your parents. You mom was my 6th grade teacher!
Steve Hamlin
December 18, 2006
Mr. Enix was truly one of MCHS's Great Leaders. I was not in the Band, but I know he was very well respected and liked. May a young person was influenced by his leadership. My son was helped by him at Monroney Junior High when he was assisting. He will be tuly missed. Our prayers are with His family and all who knew him.
Balinda hopkins-rhinehart
December 18, 2006
A wonderful man and a great inspiration.
RICHARD CUMBIE
December 18, 2006
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Steve Parrott
December 18, 2006
E.Paul Enix a LEGEND in most kids eyes at MCHS. I knew Mr. Enix from pratically the time I was born. Mr. Enix left us with many fond memories he instilled in each and every student the attitude that you can attain anything you have the will to do. He will be truly missed by many of us. I know I will never miss the BOMBER FIGHT SONG at every assembly when Mr. Enix would direct the band to play.It seemed it was played all the time at football games because we had that winning tradition at M.C.H.S. due to the type of people we had like Mr. Enix.
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