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Heather Bellows
August 16, 2025
Thinking of you always, Hannah, but especially on your birthday. This past week on Aug. 14th, I started the day off with thoughts of you. I know you are in the presence of Jesus, and I'm very grateful for that, especially knowing that one day, we will hang out together again. In the meantime, you are greatly missed! You are forever in our thoughts and hearts!
Love always, Aunt Heather
Lori Alspaugh
August 15, 2025
Birthday love from the Alspaugh´s.
Jenna (Schwarz) Garcia
August 15, 2025
Happy Belated Birthday Hannah! Miss you each and every day. Thankful for all of the memories we shared growing up. Know that I will see you again one day.
Happy Birthday!
Candace Dudek
August 14, 2025
Happy Birthday in Heaven, dearest Hannah! I miss you more each passing year. I'm just so thankful for having you in my life, and always in my heart. I love you so much, and will see you soon!!
love always,
Aunt Candy

Hannah's Birthday Memories
Jack and Pam McCarty
August 14, 2025
Dear sweet Hannah,
Your birthday is here once again. The days till we see you again are less than they've ever been.
We miss you more each passing day, and love you more than words can say.
We're sharing some birthday memories here, and wishing you a Heavenly birthday, dear....
Love you always,
Dad and Mom
Gwen
July 25, 2025
Dear Hannah, happy belated birthday! Remember to send some beautiful dreams to your parents! You left a hole in their hearts no one can fill, and so many beautiful memories that no one can steal! They miss you every day! I wish I can do something for them, but I am also a bereaved mother who knows nothing can reduce the pain until the day of reunion. Your parents are doing so much to keep your memory alive! They are my heroes
Love from your stranger neighbor
Gwen
Karthik E
July 24, 2025
Hi Hannah,
Another year has passed away but not as usual. Challenges galore and dwindling strength.
Pray to god for it shall pass. Please pass the message to the almighty for you being so close to him. His favourite.
Remembering you as always,
Karthik

Thane Mize
July 22, 2025
We go way back, don't we, sweetie? Missing you as always, but happy you're with our Lord & savior. I hope to be one day (Though I'm not as virtuous as you!) All my love, today & always...
Uncle Thane

Hannah's Garden at UCO
Pam and Jack McCarty
July 22, 2025
To our Hannah,
Another year has passed, and we miss you more than ever... Your scholarship at UCO continues to inspire young dancers and actors to follow their dreams... So, we're posting a recent photo of 'Hannah's Garden' with inset of the plaque by your bench there, a lovely reminder that your dance never ends, because of Jesus... We love you always,
Mom and Dad
Lori Alspaugh
July 20, 2025
Love to you all, always.
Lori & family

* Hannah 2-14-2001 *
Jack and Pam McCarty
February 15, 2025
Hannah,
Happy belated half-birthday and Valentine's day once again. We're a day late posting this but we sent you wishes to Heaven yesterday, and every day, as always...
Love you always,
Dad and Mom

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Mom and Dad
December 25, 2024
Merry Christmas, Hannah...
Wish you were here, as always... Last Sunday, Pastor Muse and Shirley presented a gift to us for your library. It is a beautiful puzzle-art picture, with your photo in the frame as well. We are posting a picture of it here. (Stacy was there too!) We hope you can see it from Heaven.
We love you and we'll see you soon.
Candace Dudek
December 25, 2024
Merry Christmas in Heaven, sweet Hannah! You are missed here by so many who love you so much!! You are always in my heart!
I love you always,
Aunt Candy
Candace Dudek
November 28, 2024
Hi sweet Hannah! Thinking of you today, as I always do. As we celebrate Thanksgiving, I give God thanks for you. Your light still shines bright here, and I'm sure you are shining brightly in Heaven! I sure miss your beautiful presence and your fun laughter. With you, every day is special! I so much look forward to seeing you and hugging you when we are together again
My love always,
Aunt Candy
Jenna Garcia
August 16, 2024
Happy Belated Birthday! Been missing you and thinking about you more and more lately.
Friends since day 1 and forever,
Jenna (Schwarz) Garcia
Heather Bellows
August 15, 2024
Hannah,
I´ve thought so much about you over the last couple of days. I thought about you a lot on your birthday yesterday! You made a lasting impact on my life and in the life of my family, and you will always be missed. I know you are brightening up to heavens, and I can´t wait to see you again one day, not too far from now!
Love,
Aunt Heather
Lori Alspaugh
August 15, 2024
Birthday love from the Alspaugh family.

Mom and Dad
August 14, 2024
Hey Hannah,
Many of your friends and family are thinking of you today on your birthday once again. We appreciate hearing from everyone and knowing that they remember. And so, reflecting on the good times and looking forward to celebrating with you in Heaven one of these days, we wish you a happy birthday... (Sharing a photo of you in Branson in 2000.)
Love and happy birthday,
Candace Dudek
August 14, 2024
Hey sweet Hannah,
Thinking of you today on your birthday! I miss you so much and love you always!!
Til we meet again.....my love,
Aunt Candy
Mom and Dad
July 22, 2024
To our Hannah,
It's hard to believe another year has passed since you were here with us... We miss you more than ever... We look forward to seeing you tap dancing on the streets of gold in Heaven one of these days...
We love you forever...
matthew griffon
July 22, 2024
sweet Hannah, we have never met but you can think of me as your brother that you never had and your biggest fan, oh ... patrick my brother should be there too hope you guys get acquainted
with love Matthew
Candace Dudek
July 22, 2024
Just to say I love you and miss you very much, sweet Hannah.
My love always,
Aunt Candy
Lori Alspaugh
July 20, 2024
Thinking about you all today.
Candace Dudek
February 14, 2024
Happy Valentine's Day Sweet Hannah! And Happy half birthday too! Thinking of you today and sending you love and hugs!
My love always,
Aunt Candy

Mom and Dad
December 25, 2023
Merry Christmas Hannah,
Remembering the good times... Looking forward to the best times in Heaven, with you someday...
We love you always...
Candace Dudek
December 25, 2023
Merry Christmas in Heaven, sweet Hannah! I love you always!!!!
love,
Aunt Candy
Candace Dudek
November 23, 2023
My dearest Hannah girl,
I'm thinking of you today and missing your sweet presence. I will always love you and be thankful for your life.
My love,
Aunt Candy
Gwen Li
September 1, 2023
Dear Hannah, my name is Gwen Li and you don’t know me. We lived across your house and didn’t meet your parents until after you went to heaven! You probably know already how much they miss you! Send them your love and dreams! I love you even we have never met! If you see my little baby Tian Tian there, just tell her that I miss her so much! Happy belated birthday!
Love
Gwen
The Alspaugh´s
August 17, 2023
Birthday love to all.
Jenna
August 16, 2023
Happy Belated Birthday Hannah! Sorry I am a couple of days late. Remembering all the birthdays we would celebrate together either at Grandma Sylvia´s or hanging out together. Lots of memories together. Until we see each other again!
Heather
August 14, 2023
Hannah,
Thinking of you today on your birthday. I keep thinking about your Earnest impressions and your April Fools jokes! Can't wait to see you again.
Love,
Aunt Heather
Nikki Cardone
August 14, 2023
Happy birthday Hannah. I can´t believe it´s been 20 years I´ve been missing you. I have a picture of us on my vanity and I look at your face every morning. I know you are still with me but I sure wish I could squeeze you and ask for your advice often. I love you and hope I am making you proud most days.
Candace Dudek
August 14, 2023
Dearest Hannah,
Happy Heavenly Birthday, sweetheart!! I know Heaven is celebrating your precious life today! I miss you so much, Hannah. I thank God for the wonderful memories we have of you here on earth, your sweet smile, your contagious laughter, watching you dance on stage, and the many birthday parties, and holidays we had you with us here. You have touched so many lives here in such a positive way, and you still do. I treasure all of my memories of you.
See you soon, Hannah!
My love always,
Aunt Candy

Mom and Dad
August 14, 2023
Happy Heavenly Birthday, Hannah!
Remembering the fun times when you were here, and posting a photo of one of those times... Looking forward to celebrating with you in Heaven...
We love you and miss you more each day...
Karthik E
July 26, 2023
Hi Hannah,
You left too early to be with heavenly father.
As mom and dad said " Keep dancing and clicking pictures". Will miss you as always.
Earl Raleigh
July 24, 2023
To Hannah in Heaven,
A talented, compassionate and beautiful young lady. Your love and beautiful dancing will always
live in our hearts. We love you and keep on dancing. We will see you soon.
Love,
Uncle Earl, Aunt Joyce
Heather Bellows
July 22, 2023
Hannah,
Remembering your sweet smile and your contagious laugh today. You made an eternal impression on my life and the lives of so many. Love you and looking forward to seeing you again.
Aunt Heather
Jack and Pam McCarty
July 22, 2023
Hannah...
Here we are twenty years later, still missing you as much as ever... We thought we would be with you by now... Until we see you again, please keep taking pictures in Heaven, and don't ever stop dancing...
We love you forever...
Dad and Mom
Candace Dudek
July 21, 2023
My Dearest Hannah,
Thinking of you and missing you very much! I love you and look forward to the day I will see you again!!
My love always,
Aunt Candy
Bobbi Lee
July 20, 2023
Dear Hannah in Heaven, as your birthday approaches I am thinking of you and your mom and dad. Your legacy of love goes on!
Bobbi, Bonnie's Mom
Lori Alspaugh
July 20, 2023
Thinking about you and Jack and Pam. May eternal light shine upon thee. Lori & family
Candace Dudek
April 9, 2023
Dearest Hannah,
Because Jesus is risen, I know I will see you again. I look forward to that day! Until that day comes, I will miss you more and more, but will always hold you close in my heart!
Love always, Aunt Candy

Mom and Dad
December 25, 2022
Hannah...
Twenty years ago, you were here with us on Christmas Day... We miss you still... We always will, till we see you again... Merry Christmas in Heaven...
We love you always...
Candace Dudek
December 25, 2022
Missing you today, sweet girl as we celebrate the birth of Jesus. I can only imagine how wondrous the celebration in Heaven must be. I miss you more each year and I love you forever. Merry Christmas in Heaven, precious girl!
My love always,
Aunt Candy
Karthik E
November 25, 2022
Hi Hannah,
It's Thanksgiving and what an apt day to say thank you to you for sharing such a wonderful parents with one and all to spread Joy and care.
Thank you,
Hannah.
Candace Dudek
November 24, 2022
Dearest Hannah,
I'm really missing you today. As we give thanks today for God's blessings, you are at the top of my list! I thank God for you and your precious life!
All my love always,
Aunt Candy
Steph
September 15, 2022
Dear Hannah,
I wish so much we could had so much more time together... you and grandma and my brother, Chris... I think about you all almost everyday. I wish so much I could have gotten to tell you how much I looked up to you, how much of an inspiration you are to me as a big cousin. All these years I've thought to myself on days that got too tough, if not for myself, for her, because she cannot and if she could, she would find the strength to. It gave me the strength to push through. You live on through so many. You made such an impact in a short time and I can only hope that I can make a fraction of that impact on people in a lifetime.
I walked the annual Choctaw Trail of Tears walk in your memory this year.
I love you and miss you and hope one day to see you again.
Your little cousin.
Jenna (Schwarz) Garcia
August 15, 2022
Happy Birthday in Heaven Hannah!
Been thinking about you and miss you.
Until we see each other again, I will always cherish our friendship. I think about one of the last emails I sent you.
Make new friends, but keep the old. One is silver and the others gold. A circle is round but has no end and that´s how long I want to be your friend.
Again I miss you and will see you again.
Happy Birthday!
Lori
August 15, 2022
Happy birthday Hannah.
Heather Bellows
August 14, 2022
Thinking of you today, sweet Hannah, on your birthday. You are forever in our hearts, and look forward to seeing you again soon.
Love always,
Aunt Heather

Mom and Dad
August 14, 2022
Happy Birthday, Hannah...
Many wishes are being sent to you in Heaven today...
Thanks to your friends Courtney and Amanda for sending us some great photos of you recently, including this one we're posting here today...
Hope you heard Pastor Muse's special prayer for you this morning, as we tried to see a little glimpse into Heaven...
We appreciate everyone remembering you today...
We love you always and we'll see you soon...
Candace Dudek
August 14, 2022
Happy Birthday in Heaven, sweet Hannah! You are Always in my heart!
I miss you and love you very much!
Love you forever,
Aunt Candy
Mom and Dad
July 22, 2022
We miss you, Hannah... We always will... till we see you again... Love you forever...
Candace Dudek
April 17, 2022
Hi Sweet Hannah!
Thinking of you today as we celebrate the day of our risen Lord! Hallelujah! I'm so thankful for His tremendous sacrifice. Because Jesus lives, I will see you again! I miss you so much, and love you always!!
Much love,
Aunt Candy

Jack and Pamela McCarty
February 14, 2022
Happy half-birthday and Valentine's Day, Hannah....
Here's a picture of a happier time, of you and your cat Ariel in 2003. Wish we could see you and take a picture of you today. We miss you more each day.
Love you always,
Dad and Mom
Candace Dudek
January 1, 2022
Thinking of you, sweet Hannah as we start a new year. I remember so many new year's eve celebrations with you and our family downtown OKC at Opening Night. It was always fun, whether we were freezing or just needed a sweater. I always think of those special times on new year's eve.
As always, I miss you and love you with all my heart.
Aunt Candy
Karthik E
December 26, 2021
Merry Christmas Hannah.
We have a new born at home. A Princess like you named Sulakshya. She is holding onto the Tigger doll of yours to sleep.
Enjoy the festivities in heaven. We miss you as always.
Love,
Karthik E(Bro)

Mom and Dad
December 25, 2021
Merry Christmas, sweet Hannah...
We miss you more each day... Here's a picture of the cute snow lamps you made at City Arts many years ago... They still shine but they seem to miss you too...
We love you always and forever...
Alspaugh family
December 25, 2021
Merry Christmas!
Candace Dudek
December 24, 2021
Dearest Hannah,
It's Christmas eve and I'm thinking of you. I'm sure the celebration of Jesus birth is spectacular in Heaven! What a great day it was when Jesus was born.
I miss you and your beautiful smile & laughter. You are precious to me, and I will hold you close to my heart until we meet again!
My love always,
Aunt Candy

Mom and Dad
November 25, 2021
Hannah,
We are thinking of you this Thanksgiving day (as we do every day) and decided to share a photo of you that was taken in 2001 at our friend Marshall's house at one of his traditional November gatherings... We miss you and we love you always, Hannah...
Candace Dudek
November 25, 2021
My dearest Hannah,
We're celebrating Thanksgiving here today. Makes me realize how thankful I am for you and for the many memories we have of you. You continue to bless our lives in so many ways. You are always with us in our hearts..........til we meet again, sweetheart.
My love always,
Aunt Candy
MaryAnne Reckling Harriott
October 19, 2021
Hello Hannah.. I´ve been thinking of you a lot lately.. I remember in 4th and 5 th grade all the wonderful memories that seem to pop up in my mind quite often:) I miss you tremendously! You were my best friend back in elementary school and wish you were here to Reminisce the memories:) Tell my dad I love him and continue to watch down us each and every day! Blessings:)
Candace Dudek
October 1, 2021
Hi Hannah! Just wanted to wish you a happy October 1st today. The season is changing to autumn here and seasonal changes bring special thoughts and memories of you! I miss you, dear one and look forward to seeing you soon. My love to you always,
Aunt Candy
Candace Dudek
September 11, 2021
Dearest Hannah,
I'm just thinking of you this morning and wishing I could call you and talk to you. Missing you so much! I love you always,
Aunt Candy
Lori and family
August 16, 2021
Happy birthday Hannah! Love the Alspaugh´s.
Karthik E
August 14, 2021
Happy Birthday Hannah.... I know that am a little late to wish you on your birthday . You have all rights to be angry but it has to be on my office network for they don't allow access to legacy.
Love you and miss you as always.
Karthik

Jack and Pam McCarty
August 14, 2021
Happy Birthday Hannah...
Nice to hear from your friends and family on your birthday. We're all thinking of you. Here's a picture of you opening gifts from Uncle Thane in 2002. We miss you every day and we love you always... Dad and Mom
Earl Raleigh
August 14, 2021
Hannah:
Today is your Heavenly birthday. It is a blessing to know you are in God's hands and enjoying your birthday with all your family members and friends who have joined you in Heaven. We miss you every day and it will be a day of rejoicing on that special day when we
reunite forever. Heavenly birthday. Love, Earl and Joyce.
Candace Dudek
August 14, 2021
HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN, SWEET GIRL!!!
I love you and miss you so much! Your life continues to be an inspiration to so many people. I hope there is birthday cake in Heaven : ) I look forward to the day we are all reunited in that beautiful place Jesus has prepared for us! Until then, I will hold you close to my heart.
My love always,
Aunt Candy

Thane
August 13, 2021
Sweet Hannah ~~
Missing you on your birthday ~
Love you forever!!!
Karthik E
July 25, 2021
Hi Hannah,
Sorry for being late as my office seems to have blocked access to legacy.
So, here I am missing you and keeping you and mom&dad in our prayers. I always so you would be God's favourite child and will remain one.
Missing you,
Karthik E
Michelle Butcher
July 24, 2021
Jack and Pamela,
I wanted to take a moment this morning just to say "Hello". I wrote an article about your sweet daughter, Hannah many years ago now. It was one of my most precious memories of my days as a freelance writer for a small magazine in Moore. I have always followed your stories on this website through the years. You inspire me with your love, faith and hope. I pray you have a beautiful day today knowing that our best days are still ahead of us. We will most definitely be reunited in heaven with our Lord someday soon.
Sincerely in Christ Jesus,
Michelle
Lori
July 23, 2021
Hummingbirds in the garden! How special. Love to you all. You are in my prayers daily.

Mom and Dad
July 22, 2021
Hannah,
There are hummingbirds in your garden at UCO... so we decided to post a picture of one here for you today...
We miss you more each day... We always will, till we meet again...
We love you forever...
Candace Dudek
July 22, 2021
My dearest Hannah,
I'm thinking of you today and missing you so much. I thank God for your precious life, and I am looking forward to seeing you again in Heaven. Sending you so much love and hugs!!!
My love always,
Aunt Candy
Bobbi Lee
July 20, 2021
I am remembering you and your family today, Hannah

* Hannah * Easter 2000 *
Pam and Jack McCarty
April 4, 2021
Happy Easter, Hannah...
The sun is shining on this Easter Sunday, as we remember the good times we had with you, celebrating here on earth, and look forward to the good times we will have with you in Heaven someday, what an exciting celebration that will be... We miss you every day...
We love you always,
Mom and Dad
Candace Dudek
April 4, 2021
Dearest sweet Hannah,
As we celebrate Jesus triumphant resurrection today, I am thanking Him for His gift of eternal life. I am so thankful for your life and the wonderful memories of many celebrations here on earth shared with you! I am looking forward to celebrating with you again in Heaven one day! I miss you so much and I will always love you.
My love always,
Aunt Candy
Bobbi Lee, Bonnie's mom
February 16, 2021
Hi Hannah,
it's a snow day here, which makes me think of my Bonnie and how she enjoyed snow days, as I am sure you did with your family. I am sending love to all of you.
Karthik
February 15, 2021
Hi Hannah,
On your half birthday party you might have come across another addition from here.
My uncle and he is a fun filled guy.You would have a great time in his company and would be a great fatherly figure.
Sorry for missing out on wishing you on your special day.
Regards,
Karthik E
Brother.

* Hannah * January 2000 *
Jack and Pamela McCarty
February 14, 2021
To Our Hannah,
Today is your half-birthday and we are having a major winter storm...
Here's a photograph of you on a snowy winter day long ago...
We hope you have lovely snow in Heaven too...
Happy Half-Birthday!
We love you,
Dad and Mom

Hannah with Dad & Uncle Pat * Christmas 2002
Pamela and Jack McCarty
December 25, 2020
Merry Christmas, Hannah...
Thinking of you and celebrating Christmas with you, from a distance...
Posting a picture of you with your dad and Uncle Pat, taken Christmas Eve 2002. (Uncle Pat is holding your trophy that you won for your speech presentation, entitled "Laughter.")
Remembering the good times... Looking forward to more of those in Heaven with you someday...
Love you forever,
Mom and Dad
Candace Dudek
December 25, 2020
Dearest Sweet Hannah,
Thinking of you so much today as we celebrate Jesus arrival as a little baby here on earth! I'm sure the celebrations in Heaven are unbelievable!! I miss you so much and I treasure the precious memories of you when you were here with us! Merry Christmas in Heaven! I love you!!
my love always,
Aunt Candy

December 24, 2020
Hannah,
Here we are in a winter wonderland... Christmas Eve & you've been in my thoughts (& Grandma) a lot. Guess what? As a gift to Matt, I'm quitting vaping (finally) at midnight! He quit Dec. 1st & I was s'posed to, but I've been draggin' my big butt. So, pray for me, for strength. I'll always remember the joy you brought to any given holiday or event. I love & miss you...
Thane
Karthik E
November 10, 2020
Hannah,
Of late I have been held up with things nondescript that made me forget 9th November.I am so sorry.
I wish you were around to sort the situation we are in now.
You will be missed as always.
Regards,
Karthik E
(Brother)

Hannah's Garden at UCO, Edmond, Oklahoma - November 2020
Jack and Pamela McCarty
November 9, 2020
Hi Hannah,
We're thinking of you today (as always) and posting a photograph we took just the other day of your lovely garden at UCO...
We miss you...
Love you always and forever,
Dad and Mom
Earl Raleigh
August 18, 2020
Hannah, sorry I missed your birthday. Your lovely family celebrated your birthday with love and precious memories. I am sure your many friends in Heaven joined you for a wonderful birthday celebration.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Jenna
August 17, 2020
Happy Belated Birthday Hannah! I know you had a wonderful celebration in Heaven.
Miss you always.
Karthik E
August 16, 2020
Hi Hannah,
Belated birthday wishes to you dear.
I know you had a very beautiful birthday in heaven.
You are and will be missed forever ❤.
Love,
Karthik Ethiraj
Alspaugh family
August 15, 2020
Happy Birthday!!
Nikki Cardone
August 14, 2020
Happy birthday friend. Thinking of you and your wonderful parents!
Candace Dudek
August 14, 2020
Happy Birthday, Sweet Hannah!! I hope your celebration in Heaven is fabulous today! We are celebrating your beautiful life today! Sending lots of love and hugs to you!
I love you always,
Aunt Candy

Birthday Balloons for Hannah
Pamela and Jack McCarty
August 14, 2020
Happy Birthday Hannah!
Sending lots of love and wishes and balloons your way today...
We love you always and forever,
Mom and Dad
Jayme Reinbold
August 2, 2020
Thinking of you and your sweet parents today. Just 12 more days until your birthday here on Earth! ❤
Bobbi Lee
July 24, 2020
a beautiful life, lived to the fullest, in spite of the brevity. Such a point of light, never forgotten. Thinking of your family with love.
Bobbi, Bonnie's mom
Jenna (Schwarz) Garcia
July 23, 2020
Hannah,
I know it’s been a while since I last posted. So much has been going on but you are always in my thoughts and prayers. I still miss you each day, and cherish all the memories we have from growing up together. We made up so many games during the summer months. Just know that I miss you, you have been my life long friend from the time we were babies.
I will see you again one day. Until then you are an angel to many in Heaven.
Preetam
July 23, 2020
Dearest Sister Hannah,
Someone As Special As My Dear Sister, Hannah ... Will Never Be Forgotten. She Will Remain In Our Hearts Forever...
Missing You My Sister Today & Always. Love You My Sister ...
Candace Dudek
July 22, 2020
My Dearest Hannah,
Thinking of you today and thanking God for your life and how you touched the lives of so many of us in such a special way. I miss you and I love you so much!
My love always,
Aunt Candy

Hannah at the Grand Canyon, June 2003
Jack and Pamela McCarty
July 22, 2020
Dearest Hannah,
We miss you more each day...
We love you always,
Dad and Mom
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