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Patricia A. Cole

1928 - 2021

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Patricia Cole Obituary

Patricia A. Cole

OLEAN - Patricia A. Zerby Cole, of Olean, went to be with her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on Tuesday (July 6, 2021).

Born at the Mountain Clinic Hospital, in Olean, on Sept. 30, 1928, she was the daughter of Ralph R. and Anna V. Henry Zerby. On Jan. 6, 1947, in Portville, she married Robert G. Cole, her life-long friend, who became her loving husband and father to her children. He predeceased her Sept. 6, 1998.

Patricia attended St. Mary of the Angels Parochial School, and graduated from Olean High School, in 1946.

She was first employed as a secretary at St. Bonaventure University for many years. In 1967, she and her husband opened Cole's Custom Carpets, later known as Cole's Interiors.

Her 51-year marriage, and subsequent raising of her family, were central to her life that was further enriched by many enduring friendships, some for over 70 years.

She had a strong commitment to community service and was involved with the PTA as its president, and Campfire Girls when her children were young.

She was a lifelong parishioner of the Basilica of St. Mary of the Angels, and served as chairman of the Bishops Committee for Christian Home and Family. She was also on the board of the American Heart Association and volunteered for the Olean General Hospital Auxiliary.

She is survived by three daughters, Linda (Jeffrey) Simms of Allegany, Susan Grosse of Olean, and Diana Folland of Ormond Beach, Fla. Her greatest joy and proudest accomplishment was in raising her children to be loving and caring adults. She loved and enjoyed her grandchildren, Gregory S. Simms, Christopher Cole Simms, J. Michael Simms, D. Joshua Folland and Trisha Ann Stone; and her great-grandchildren, Jessica Simms, Rachael Simms, Andrew Simms, Nathaniel Simms, Jacob Simms, Anna Simms, Gemma Simms, Christian Simms, Ethan Simms, Isa Simms, Lily Georgia, Decker Folland and Zoey Stone.

In addition to her husband and parents, she was predeceased by two sons-in-law, David Folland in 1997 and David Grosse in 2017.

A memorial mass at the Basilica of St. Mary of the Angels is being planned for a future date and will be announced. A private burial ceremony was held at St. Bonaventure Cemetery, where she was interred next to her husband.

Memorials if desired, may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105 or stjude.org/memorial, or to the Basilica of St. Mary of the Angels, 202 S. Union St., Olean, NY 14760.

Arrangements are under the direction of the Casey, Halwig & Hartle Funeral Home, Olean.

Online condolences may be expressed at oleanfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Olean Times Herald on Jul. 14, 2021.

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neil Fogarty

July 15, 2021

Our deepest condolences, Linda and Jeff, on the passing of Linda's mom. Met her years ago in Olean and she socialized a little with my mother Muriel back 'in the day'.
Also, your son, jeff is an fond aquaintence of mine and a friend of my son, Sean, in Charlotte. He is a distinguished member of the Fogarty Golf and Reunion Party in Charleston, SC.
God bless.
Neil

Rita Gowan Blehar

July 14, 2021

Susie sorry to hear of the loss of your mother remember all the good times you had with her may she rest in peace.

Bob & Kay (Forrest) Close

July 14, 2021

Sue so sorry to hear of your moms passing. She was such a beautiful lady. You took such good care of her. She loved her 3 gals.

American Heart Association

July 14, 2021

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

Susan Dillon Vernille

July 14, 2021

Susie, there are no words to express how heartbroken I am to hear of your Moms passing. Our friendships go back 3 generations. Our Grandmothers, our Moms and you and I. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. You have been the best daughter anyone could hope for. May God bless you, DG and Linda.

Judith LeeSuda

July 14, 2021

Linda, Susie and DG.....Dad and I were so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. We always enjoyed her company. Prayers for you and your families during this difficult time. Jim Lee and Judy LeeSuda

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