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Barbara Whelan Obituary
September 2, 1942 - February 18, 2025
Barbara (Melia) Whelan, 82, of Rocklin, CA passed away on Tuesday, February 18, 2025. while at home in Rocklin, CA.
Barbara was born in Gretna, NE on September 2, 1942, the daughter of the late George and Mildred Melia. As a child, she was raised on a farm, around the town of Melia, NE. Named after her generations of family that farmed the region. She moved to the San Francisco Bay Area in 1964 with her husband, Duane and raised three children. She loved to travel and was especially fond of Ireland and Scotland. She is survived by her husband Duane Whelan, daughter Michelle Whelan, two sons Scott and Michael Whelan, sister Bernadette (Melia) Dyer and three granddaughters Kelly, Erin and Amy.
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Patricia Whelan
April 7, 2025
Duane and Family sorry for your loss. My hearth goes out to you. Barb was a awesome and caring.
Kathleen Melia
March 4, 2025
I remember Barbara very well and her sister, Bernadette, and beloved parents, George and Mildred. Our childhoods were so much fun. Remembering you, Barbara, and everyone in my prayers and thoughts.
Kathleen Melia
Margaret (Maggie) Melia Ross
March 1, 2025
I'm just stunned at Barbara's passing. We were born the year both living in Gretna. Her father and my father were brothers. I spent a lot of time at there farm, and have lots of fond memories of Barbara. I will always remember Barbara. My condolences to her family.
Margaret (Maggie) Melia Ross
Aggie Campbell
February 27, 2025
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Mary Lou (Melia) Brenna.
February 27, 2025
I am sorry for your loss
God Bless You and your family during this time.
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