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Raymond Eugene Speer Jr.

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Speer, Raymond Eugene, Jr.
Age 57

Passed away on December 4, 2012 at the Nebraska Medical Center, surrounded by his family. Ray was born November 22, 1955 in Quincy, IL, and moved to Nebraska at a young age. He was one of the state's top debaters, graduating at the top of his class from Papillion High School in 1973. A history major, Ray graduated near the top of his class from Creighton University in 1977. He graduated with high honors from Creighton Law School, with a Juris Doctrate degree in 1980. He was a proud member of the Nebraska Bar Association, having served on committees with them throughout his career. Ray served 2 stints as a deputy county prosecutor, first in Dakota County, and then later in Douglas County. He also worked in corporate law with Berkshire Hathaway in their Home States Insurance division. He spent the majority of his career in private practice in Omaha. He was preceded in death by his father Raymond Speer, Sr.; his step-father Morris Goy; and a step-brother William Goy. Ray is survived by his mother Nancy Goy, Omaha; brother and sister-in-law, Mark and Pam Speer, niece Katie Speer and nephew Kyle Speer, all of Manhattan, KS; step-sister and her husband, Charis and Jesse Cox; and step-sister-in-law Marcia Goy, St. Joseph, MO. Also surviving are several first cousins, and step-nieces and nephews. Ray was a humble man with a big heart. He loved his family and friends, and was very generous. Ray was a large powerful man in stature, but a quite sensitive man when it came to the feelings of others. He took funerals and bad news of his loved ones very hard.
With that in mind, his final request was to go without a Memorial. For those who knew him best, this was pure Ray.
Published by Omaha World-Herald on Dec. 9, 2012.

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Vicki

October 12, 2024

I remember Raymond Speer in High School classes. He was always very studious. I should have made more of an effort to get to know him. I moved away after high school, so I didn't have a chance. But from reading the remembrances of him, it seems that he was a gentle person. As a prosecutor, I'm sure he made a big impact on people. God bless Raymond.

Kristine Flott

December 11, 2012

Nancy and Mark: I am so sad to learn of Ray's passing. When we worked together, we spent many hours talking and laughing. I learned so much from him over the years because of his his love and knowledge of history and politics. He had such a big generous heart. My love and prayers go out to you both and your extended family. Ray will be missed greatly.

Sandi Boswell

December 10, 2012

To Raymond's Family and Friends, I am sorry for your great loss with the passing of Raymond. I graduated with Raymond from Papillion High School in 1973. From the descriptions given in his obituary it seems he remain the same gentle soul I remember in high school. I pray the wonderful memories you share of him help you through this time of sorrow. Sandi Boswell

Jessica Todd

December 10, 2012

Your friends at BHHC were saddened to hear of your passing. You truly were a caring person and have been thought of daily here.

December 9, 2012

RIP Ray, May God be with you and your family at this time, Give them strength to get this heavy loss. God Bless you Ray, It was nice knowing you and being a part of your life back in the days!!!
Leslie Walls Betts
Class of 73

Robin Barr

December 9, 2012

Rest in peace Ray and condolences to your family.

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