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Rebecca Sowden

1955 - 2025

Rebecca Sowden obituary, 1955-2025, Oceanside, CA

BORN

1955

DIED

2025

UPCOMING SERVICE

Memorial Service

Dec. 8, 2025

3:00 p.m.

St. Thomas the Apostle Episcopal Church

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Rebecca Sowden Obituary

Rebecca "Becky" Stephenson Sowden, beloved mother, grandmother and wife, passed away on November 6, 2025. Born July 19, 1955, in Winona, Minnesota, where she went to elementary school, and moved with the family to Wayland, Massachusetts, then again to Omaha, Nebraska.

Becky was an incredible student and was inducted into the prestigious Phi Beta Kappa Society at Mills College, Berkley, California in 1978. She was a ferocious reader, animal lover, kind friend, and lifetime equestrian – her great love.

Preceded in death by her parents Robert Stephenson and Helen Stephenson, and two brothers Bobby Stephenson (Helen) and Scott Stephenson (Cheryl). Becky is survived by her husband of 40 years, Tom Sowden; her daughter, Nicole Williams (Eugene); brother, Mark Stephenson; brother, Wes Stephenson (Caroline); stepchildren, Mary Stervinou (Louis) and Peter Sowden (Lindsay); step-grandchildren, Luc, Lane, Chloe, Blake and Joe; and two grandchildren, Romy and Olivia.

Becky's grandchildren – the loves of her life – affectionately called her "Gramma".

A memorial service will be held on December 8, 2025, at 3 p.m. at St. Thomas the Apostle Episcopal Church in Overland Park, Kansas.
Published by Omaha World-Herald on Dec. 6, 2025.

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Memorial service

3:00 p.m.

St. Thomas the Apostle Episcopal Church

Overland Park, KS

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