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Cookie
May 26, 2025
Gone but not forgotten. Thank you for your service
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FE
February 8, 2025
142
March 5, 2024
You already know. I just found out Alex died. I hope you are both enjoying each other´s company. I think of you still especially on leap day when you died. Nothing changes the truth
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1421
February 27, 2023
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1421
February 27, 2023
1421
February 27, 2023
The eagle still flies by the mountain 1421. Nothing changes the truth
Amyda Heitkamp
February 28, 2021
I still think of Adam so often. A lot of helicopters go over my house being in route to TMC & also Banner & the police helicopters more often than them, but I always raise my head & say, Hi Adam.
What a special person he was & he sure left a good memory within me.
Amyda Heitkamp
Barb Olsen
May 30, 2019
Thinking of you today as I just came across your obituary that I had printed out. Such a wonderful guy...a true gentleman with a heart of gold. I saw him just a week before you passed away. Way too young.
Jean Holle
March 9, 2018
You are missed, Adam. Please always watch over your son, who misses you terribly. Lots of love to you, my friend.
March 6, 2018
1421 my friend. I finally found my pool boy.

Adam (dad) learned to fly helicopters before he passed he managed to get a privet pilot licence flying a robinson 22 helicopter
Alexander Stephenson
March 1, 2016
Dad 8 years ago I lost you and I still don't know how to live in a world without you I miss you and I miss talking to you and sharing my accomplishments and mistakes with you you taught me to be a tough trooper and I am glad. now I just hope you see all the good I do. where ever you are I hope you finally got you VFR and are flying your helicopter

Alex Stephenson
March 1, 2016
8 years ago you passed on and the pain I feel never goes away when I feel joy or pain or sadness all I want to do is call you I remember your cell phone and home numbers where ever you are I hope you know I love you and as sad as I am I will be your one tough trooper and or monkeboy
February 29, 2016
Today was the day your spirit left to visit those you loved eight years ago. I will remember "nothing changes the truth". Rest in peace. I'll see you again. 1421
March 1, 2015
7 years have gone. We still are broken together. Maybe this will be the year of jubilee. 1421
March 5, 2014
Tomorrow we buried you, and I still just want my dad. 6 yers and I still miss you
#MONK
November 13, 2012
It's almost been five years and yes life goes on. It seems like yesterday and I still find something each day that reminds me of you. Keep fighting those heavenly battles
1421
July 7, 2011
Happy Birthday - still miss you 142
Jim Clark
March 2, 2009
Adam my best friend, above all the rest
I miss you the most and I loved you the best,
and now that you're gone, I thank God I was blessed
just to know you.
Alex
March 1, 2009
You have been gone a year. All of miss you and are sad. I miss you all of the time and wish you were here to see me and what I have done.
Alexander Stephenson
December 25, 2008
Merry Christmas dad love you and miss you. Hope you can see everything awful that has happened here.
c e
October 15, 2008
Still missing you - 142
August 27, 2008
You hear my prayers every day. Watch out for your folks, your sisters, your son and me. It still hurts.
August 24, 2008
'To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did' When God takes something from your grasp, He's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands receive something better.
I'm still waiting on the something better and miss you every day. please look out for all of us
Cookie Evans
July 24, 2008
Well my first birthday without you has come and gone just like your birthday. Both days were depressing. God looked out for me though and sent friends like Teresa and Diane to try and cheer me up. I even had the dentist office and the doctor office sing me happy birthday. Thanks for putting in the good word with God.
I knew you were with me in spirit when Teresa ordered Mongolian Beef at the Chinese restaurant. Keep working in Alex's life and keep him safe. I still miss you and cry everyday.
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Alexander Stephenson
July 21, 2008
I really miss you I can not believe you are gone. Things are going badly and I really miss you not being here to help me please watch out for me and I’ll see you soon.
Cookie Evans
July 10, 2008
Well your birthday has come and gone. I still miss you. Fight those heavenly battles for me. I'll see you one day.
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Cookie Evans
May 7, 2008
Hey babe,
It's been over two months now and things aren't any easier. I miss you every day. I wonder if you can see how ugly things have gotten. I miss you. I'll always love you, but know that it hurts every day.
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Cookie (Frances) Evans
March 13, 2008
Thank you for your kind words and expressions of sympathy on the passing of Adam. I will and do miss him everyday. It's hard to go home to our house and know that I won't see him. I am holding a memorial service for him this Saturday, March 15, 2008 at 3:00 PM at Mt. Zion Lutheran Church located at 4520 West Ajo Way, Tucson, AZ. Please keep his mother, father, sisters and his son in your prayers.
Adam - 142 to you
Jeff Bolebruch
March 13, 2008
I would like to pay my respects to the family and friends of Adam Stephenson. I am a supplier to Krebs, and an '85 West Point graduate. I was standing at the front counter and read the notice, and my heart just fell. I did not know Adam at school, but I feel a sense of loss, a little like one in a large extended family might. Godspeed. Be thou at peace...
Chris Gore
March 11, 2008
Adam,
To a man who always portrayed himself as an "Aw Shucks" kinda guy when in truth you had such a
big heart and bigger than life personality. You were generous, intelligent, caring and some times crazy yet humble about it. In fact it was that crazy humor of yours that always made me smile and feel better even on those miserable days we all have from time to time. I feel very honored to have known you not only as a co-worker but more importantly a dear friend. You're missed each and every day. My thoughts go out to Cookie and your family in this very difficult time. I will try to be as strong, funny and kind as you always were. You are truely missed my dear friend.
Mike & Joan Montroy
March 11, 2008
We only knew Adam through our son-in-law Justin, but when he offered to play Amazing Grace on the bag pipes at our father's funeral, we knew instantly that he was a wonderful, kind hearted person. He definitely had a special place in our hearts! May his memories be with his family and friends forever.
Corky and Marge Simpson
March 9, 2008
Adam was a big man with a massive handshake and a kind heart. We sat in the same pew at Desert Skies United Methodist Church. I always wanted to get to know him better, other than occasional chit-chat on Sunday mornings. The size of the wings to fit this angel would be something to see! My wife Marge and I extend our heartfelt sympathy to Adam's family and friends.
Corky Simpson
Amyda Heitkamp
March 8, 2008
Alex, my sincere condolences to you also. Your father spoke of you often, even though you were many miles apart, I know you were in his thoughts often. I'm sorry you had to lose him so early in your life.

Adam Stephenson getting Kona coffee 11-6-07
Amyda Heitkamp
March 8, 2008
Adam is gone, but he left us with so many thoughts, teachings, memories, and all those little things which meant so much. His sense of humor and e-mail jokes were enjoyed by many. He could talk about any subject which made him a friend to all. Truly an extraordinary and unique person. I will miss his homemade bread, the Prickly Pear Jelly, and the Raspberry Jelly (with promises of NO seeds). My sincere sympanthy goes out to Cookie, his parents, his sisters and relatives. May God be with you in this sorrowful time. Photo was taken 11-6-07.
Scott Huffman USMA '84
March 8, 2008
Halfway down the trail to hell
In a shady meadow green,
Are the souls of all dead troopers camped
Near a good old-time canteen
And this eternal resting place
Is known as Fiddler’s Green...
So Long buddy.
Brian Edmondson
March 8, 2008
Adam was a great boss and friend. I will seriously miss him. My thoughts and prayers are with Cookie, his son Alex and the rest of his family. God Bless
Karen Proctor
March 7, 2008
My heartfelt sorrow to everyone who is experiencing this great loss.
Adam always seemed bigger than life to me. He was a true leader...humorous, generous, motivated, philisophical, intelligent, passionate about life...I could go on and on. And yet, like all truly great men, Adam was aware of, and honest about, his weaknesses.
What a privilege to have called him a friend for the past three years.
Go with God, my fellow mercenary.
Keith,Trish,Emma Hambrick
March 7, 2008
Dear Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with with you all during this time.May God grant you peace and comfort.
Jess Lee
March 7, 2008
My sincere condolences go out to Adam's family during this most difficult time. Adam was one of those rare souls that went the extra mile to make sure you were okay, needed help or praise you for a job well done. He supported me during a very difficult time in my life. I will miss you greatly, my friend.

Jimmy Clark
March 7, 2008
Adam,
My best friend, Teacher & Brother in Gods Children. The many miles we rode and the jokes we told. You are one of a kind, cause he broke the mold. You will be so very missed but never forgotten.
My Prayer;
Listen to your voice within
and let God be your guiding light.
Reach for the Heavenly stars
be shining and be bright.
Be kind to the many people
you meet along your way
we all learn from one another
to make a brighter new day.
Share your joys and your pain
you will never be alone
someone, somewhere is feeling just the same.
And when your time on Earth is done
and you move on out of sight
you will reap a great reward
to have lived a life so right.
Amen.
Justin & Michelle Freeark
March 6, 2008
We didn't get to know you long or well, nor did I have the honor of serving with you but you were an inspiration. You will be missed. God Bless & God Speed.
BARB COOMBS
March 6, 2008
Adam, your passing has truly left a hole in my heart-I am going to miss your kindness, your sense of humor, and your smile. I am so grateful for the Blessing of having known such a wonderful person. But, you can have all the M&Ms you want now.
God Bless You, Cookie, and the Stephenson family.
Kathy Costello
March 6, 2008
My heart goes out to Cookie & Adam's family.
He loved you very much, it was obvious. You were one of those couples that everyone envied.
I worked at Slimfast Foods with him & Cookie. He was a great influence to everyone who knew him, just a really good guy.
He is now at peace & I have no doubt that he is watching over you.
Don't dwell on the time you will miss with him, but remember the precious time that you had with him.
Keep your faith.
James Fry
March 6, 2008
Adam,
Heavens recruitment; plus one. League of Freedom's Defenders; minus one. Thanks for all you have given. Thanks for being willing to give all you had. Old soldiers don't ever die. The memories of their courage and patriotism lives on. Carry on the fight.
Karen (Lotterhos) Marcucci
March 6, 2008
I am grateful that I had the chance to know and work with Adam. He offered me a great example of work ethic and instilled in me a strong sense of obligation and commitment. I will miss him as a friend and mentor.
Ben Blas
March 5, 2008
Adam, my classmate, roommate and friend, stands out as one of the most memorable people I've had the privilege of meeting at West Point. I share in your loss. God bless The Stephenson Family.

Adam? Is that MY BEER???!!! xoxoxox
Tammy Burlile
March 5, 2008
Someone like Adam never leaves a person. He is forever emblazed (to cause to glow; light up) in our hearts and minds. His laughter was so infectious, I still hear it. I will celebrate the time we had with him; it was just too short.
Adam - your hair smells nice.
Warm wishes,
Daphne
March 5, 2008
Dear Shirley and Brandon, I am so sorry for your loss and for us all who have lost a truely unique and special "individual". There never was and never will be again anyone like Adam. He was always full of fun and made me smile when he smiled, that smile made you willing to forgive most anything. I will always remember him getting on the school bus in the mornings looking half asleep with messy hair, but still having a grin on his face. I will also remember the many times he snuck out of his bedroom after curfew and walked the mile to my house to continue our date. He was always adventurous and willing to take risks, which was what made him the awesome man that he turned out to be. He surprised me by stopping in my store to see me, a few years back and we had a nice visit. As he left that day, my daughter snapped a polaroid of his back as he was going out the door. I didn't know at the time how "meaningful" that picture would be. I was glad to see him that day and will be glad to see him again one day in heaven. God Bless you all, may God grant you peace during this time of grief. You are in my thoughts and my prayers.
Juan Borjon
March 5, 2008
My condolences and Gods peace to Adams family. He was a great leader not only in his military life but public life also. He will be missed. God bless his family and his soul.
Starla & Rodney Jackson
March 5, 2008
Adam was a true Southern gentleman. As his daddy said to me, "He was raised right". He was an incredible friend and co-worker who brightened every day with his humor and that infectious smile.
May the eagle soar with you my friend as the wolf guides you to meet War Woman. Thank you for your service to our country. It was an honor to be counted among your friends. Forever in our hearts.
Paula Butzlaff
March 5, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to Adam's family. I will alway remember Adam. He had a great heart. Keep smiling as he is at peace.
Sam Smallwood
March 5, 2008
Adam was my chidhood friend and a true HERO. God must have needed a strong angel when he called him home. My heart goes out to Shirley and Brandon. May God comfort you as only He can in this time of great sorrow. Thanks for the memories Adam.
Our Love and Sympathy,
Sam, Sharon, Sydney and Samantha
Smallwood
COL Glenn Goldman USMA '84
March 4, 2008
My sincerest, heartfelt condolences for your / our loss.
"well done.....be thou at peace"
Wayne & Sandy Abernathy
March 4, 2008
Dear Shirley & Brandon,
We were saddened to hear about Adam. We share many good memories about you and your children. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ray Mooney
March 4, 2008
Adam was a valued friend. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Adam's family.

Adam Stephenson, USMA '84, turning John Hains '83 into a human pretzel during some free time back in his West Point days. (photo by Keith Matthews)
Randy Lee
March 4, 2008
"Curly" was a West Point classmate & a terrific guy -- a tough prankster with a heart of gold buried way down deep. He was fearless -- didn't mind tying up authority figures in knots (literally, as you can see by this photo of him & an upperclassman I recently received from Adam's buddy Keith Matthews). He'll be missed greatly.
Demetrius Oatis
March 4, 2008
Adam,
Be Thou at Peace.
Dee Oatis
USMA '84
Best of the Corps!
Carol White
March 4, 2008
Kathryn, you and your family are in my prayers.
C.A. & Gladys Thomas
March 4, 2008
We remember Adam, Shirley & Brandon coming to our home when
Adam was selected for West Point
and we shared our memories of when
our son Stephen attended. You have your memories now.
God be with you and your family.
CRISTY DUNCAN OWENSBY
March 4, 2008
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