Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
BORN
1951
DIED
2013
Hank Asher Obituary
Officials at TLO, Asher's Boca Raton company, said he ""died peacefully in his home"" Friday.
""He was a wonderful human being who, through his philanthropy, saved thousands of children,"" said former Florida Attorney General Bob Butterworth, who worked for Asher for a time.
Asher's database work also led to the arrests of the Beltway snipers who killed 10 people in the Washington area in 2002.
Asher pioneered data mining software that was sold to businesses but also sped cops' ability to connect the dots in criminal investigations. Work that once required months could be done in a few minutes, Butterworth said.
When Asher arrived in South Florida in the 1970s, he gave little indication he'd become a data guru or a national crime-fighting figure. He was a high school dropout in search of a better climate for his commercial painting business than his Indiana home offered.
The painting company flourished, and Asher later founded Boca data firms Database Technologies and Seisint. After the Sept. 11 attacks, Seisint developed software that identified terrorists.
Asher owned 40 percent of Seisint in 2004, when it was sold to British publishing giant Reed Elsevier for $775 million and became part of LexisNexis.
""I really thought I'd wind up on a 200-foot yacht down in the South Pacific,"" Asher said in a 2009 interview with The Palm Beach Post. ""But I decided to go back to work.""
Asher's final project was TLFO, later changed to TLO, an acronym for ""The Last One."" Part of his business model was to build a supercomputer that could track child pornography as it traveled over the Internet, then give police free access.
Asher traced his passion for fighting child pornography to 1993, when he donated his database software to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. The first time his creation helped rescue a child from a predator, Asher said, he felt like he was cashing ""a paycheck for the soul.""
After that, he immersed himself in the underworld of child predators. Asher said he wanted to catch ""the worst of the worst,"" men who rape infants, toddlers and young children.
""He really wanted to rid the world of pedophiles,"" Butterworth said.
Asher donated his computing power to law enforcement agencies. And he paid for police and prosecutors from around the world to travel to Boca to learn about his crime-fighting software.
Even after years of fighting pedophiles, Butterworth said, Asher would get tears in his eyes when a police officer from somewhere in the world called to let Asher know about a child molester who had been captured through Asher's software.
Asher also was driven by memories of his own checkered past. For about seven weeks in the early 1980s, Asher flew loads of cocaine from the Bahamas. He was never charged with a crime and later cooperated with drug warriors.
""He was very open about his past,"" Butterworth said. ""He never hid it. It bothered him.""
Portly and profane, Asher was a tangle of contradictions. He dropped out of high school, yet Butterworth swears his IQ was on par with Einstein and Edison.
After his brief foray into crime, Asher devoted two decades to helping cops catch killers and child molesters.
He was a high-powered businessman who never wore a tie or socks. A white guy who grew up on an Indiana farm, Asher liked to say he imagined God as a black woman.
""The guy was complex, to say the least,"" Butterworth said. ""Colorful is not the word for it. He was double, triple colorful.""
Never one to shy away from a fight, he seemed to relish legal battles with business rivals. And he loved to make bold pronouncements.
""I'm going for the gusto,"" Asher told the Post in 2009. ""I don't want to check out of this planet without building the world's most valuable company.""
He fell short of his vow to turn TLO into the world's most valuable company. Asher laid off most of the company's workers in May. However, those layoffs were temporary, and the company has bounced back, said Bridget O'Connor, TLO's executive director of human resources.
""Since May we have rebounded nicely and recalled most of those same employees by October,"" O'Connor said. ""We had a record revenue week last week and will more than likely have another record week this week.""
Butterworth said Asher should be remembered not for the ups and downs of his businesses but for his willingness to give of his wealth, not just to crime-fighting causes but also to cancer research and to earthquake relief in Haiti.
""He was the most generous person I've ever met in my life,"" Butterworth said.
Asher is survived by his wife, Judith, their two children, Desiree Asher and Carly Yoost, and his son-in-law, Wally Yoost.
John Walsh, host of the America's Most Wanted television series, likewise recalled Asher's generostiy.
""Hank was the most charitable man I ever met,"" Walsh said in a statement released by TLO. ""He was larger than life, but the biggest part of Hank was his heart.""
Staff researcher Niels Heimeriks contributed to this story.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Hank Asher
Sponsored by Someone blessed to have been Hank's friend.
Norma Carrasquilla
May 9, 2025
Happy Birthday in Heaven, Hank.
There are people who leave quietly, and there are those who leave a mark that never fades, you were the latter. On your birthday, I find myself smiling through the ache, grateful for the time we shared and wishing for just one more conversation. You are missed in ways words can´t hold.
Always in my heart,
Norma C
Norma
May 9, 2024
On this day, your birthday, Hank, I'm thinking of you. Not a day or year passes without you on my mind . You are loved and profoundly missed.
Norma
Mac. William McCauley
January 6, 2024
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Norma Carrasquilla
June 14, 2023
Hank, a truly remarkable man, left this world several years ago, but his memory remains etched deep within our hearts. He was an exceptional man. a rare gem with a heart of gold.
His infectious laughter and playful nature illuminated the lives of all who were fortunate enough to be in his presence. Hank possessed an incredible sense of humor and a contagious zest for life. He had an extraordinary ability to uplift spirits and find joy in even the simplest of moments.
Even now, the longing for him lingers deeply within me. The impact he had on our lives is immeasurable. Hank held a special place in my heart, one that I will forever cherish. His kindness, compassion, and unwavering love made him an extraordinary person.
Forever grateful for knowing Hank and receiving his unconditional affection.
With everlasting gratitude and cherished memories,
Norma Carrasquilla
Chris Niemir
January 6, 2022
A true pioneer. His innovation is missed.
joyce lewis-bass
January 6, 2022
Hank, but not forgotten! Your legacy lasts in the industry and with every child that is protected by Child Rescue Coalition!
Roy Brubaker
January 8, 2021
Miss ya bro, always thinking of you!
Joyce lewis bass
August 9, 2020
Hank Asher will never be gone or forgotten because of all he did for the world! I was one of the lucky people to have ridden on his magic carpet!
Jessica Ann Warner
August 7, 2020
Hank saved my life twice in 2009. He saw a person struggling and in deep emotional pain. He saw my potential when most would close their door.
I wish you were here to see that I’m now qualifying as a therapist myself. Throughout my training I have met many hurdles and felt overwhelmed at times. I carry on as my way of paying It forward for your generosity of supporting me through treatment and rehabilitation.
Hank, I’m sorry I wasn’t well or strong enough to have been a better friend when you were here. Thank you for guiding me to a better place.
Jessica Ann Warner
Roy Brubaker
January 7, 2020
All these year later, I'm still thinking of you bro! Fold-up tables, instant coffee and dreams and schemes. From UL to IIC to DBT and beyond, we always had a blast figuring how to do the impossible. Still enjoy our chats in the dreaming. Looking forward to the next time.
joyce lewis-bass
January 6, 2020
Hank, You are gone but certainly not forgotten by your loyal tribe and for those that you helped while you were here!
June 12, 2018
Another birthday goes by and you are still missed.
Last year I was in Great Harbor for your birthday. Chester and all the gang say hi. I liked the picture of you and Rudi Giuliani on the wall of Chester's restaurant in Little harbor.
Your pal,
Lawrence
J Smith
June 10, 2018
A good indiana boy class guy. Worked for him painting @ asher painting little did i know we grew up not far from each other in indiana only to meet in fla. Great guy.
Jacqueline Palkovich
April 18, 2015
Hank Asher and his sister sari I met in MN when sari was being treated for bone cancer. Hank gave her his bone marrow. He stayed at the hotel I concierged at. God told me that sari would not die but live to declare the works of the Lord. She lived. Hank said he would get on his knees and ask God what He wanted him to do and for God to give him the power to do it. Hank Asher was a great man!
December 16, 2014
I am a first cousin of Hank Asher. We were occasionally in touch, especially after the death of his sister, Sari, and then his mother, Lucille. I just learned of his death. I would so like to be in touch with his children. My name is Phyllis Loeff, M.D. My phone number is 847-432-5620. Can you pass this on to his family? Phyllis Loeff, M.D. 3212 Woodland Road, Highland Park, Il. 60035
May 9, 2014
Missing you so very much today on your birthday.
It is simply amazing how many lives you profoundly touched during your time on this earth. In a world where there is so much greed and self-dealing, your generosity and charitable good deeds continue to stand out as truly remarkable.
There is no doubt you were a gifted genius who made the world a safer place with the technology you developed but in the end so many agree that what made you extraordinary, and truly unforgettable, was your magnificent, over-sized heart.
I cannot imagine a life being lived more completely so as I remember you today, and every day until we meet again, I will smile and feel blessed to have been your friend…
Adrenaline Junky
March 14, 2014
Hank, I am truly bummed, like a brick. Say hi to Chuck Sr., keep the Iz's cold and I'll catch up. This time, I promise not to chum the water. You are one of the realist people I ever met, definitely my brother from another mother. I had a lot to learn from you, still do: time. We'll catch up. Peggy, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Hippy Girl, I know you lost your brother. Hank I am honored to be “your kind of ---“, I'll see you soon…
Diane Adams
January 6, 2014
It has been almost a year since your passing. I knew the world felt less full, less good but had no idea you had left this plane. This explains it. Thank you for inspiring me to be helpful and more importantly thank you for all you have done for others. God's grace was shown through you.
jimmy Ivey
October 11, 2013
Some times friend's forget each other, This one here ( Hank ) will never be forgotten, he left us with a serious job to do and some unbelievably tool's to work with ( TLOXP ). Rest in Peace my friend.
Jim Ivey
September 11, 2013
Thinking about my friend hank. Who will never be forgotten.
September 9, 2013
missing you.
September 7, 2013
To a man I only met once, but whose wit, wisdom and actions have impacted me in ways that will stay with me forever: Thank you Hank for a random act of kindness no one would ever witness or know about. I will never forget the hope that dawned into my dark world that day you helped me without a second thought. Your gesture restored my faith in people, luck and even myself. It was enough to make me wonder if I shouldn't give up...right when I was ready to. How can this not be known as good karma?
I know you struggled with a lot. A big heart will do that to a person. But I believe your biggest thirst that could never be quenched was the joy you got from protecting people who were struggling and didn't have the power or voice to change their destiny. No one is ever perfect, but when people remember you they should know you were trying real hard to do whatever, wherever you could...and you did.
And that alone...is pretty amazing when you think about it. You were right, meeting you was unforgettable..and I wouldn't have it any other way. Love and peace to you Hank, an imperfect being who possessed the most perfect will to love unconditionally. I pray this grace will stay with you in your next season.
Terence J NEWELL
July 9, 2013
It is said.."A person lives as long as their name is spoken by others", your name will be spoken for a long time
Gina Guest
July 4, 2013
I miss you more than I would have imagined. I wish I'd told you that more often. Thanks for inspiring.
jim ivey
May 13, 2013
Thinking about a good friend..rest in peace brother..
JoAnne Miller
May 11, 2013
Great man, fighting his own personal demons through helping others. Always helped others. Generous of heart and wallet. Will always love him.
March 24, 2013
We just heard of your passing. Although we only met you once, we enjoyed the time we spent getting to know you. Our deepest sympathy go out to your entire family, we wish you renewed strength and hope for tomorrow. Love, The Casale and Berger family.
Cheri Adamson
March 17, 2013
Thank you Hank!!
Jim Carden
March 17, 2013
Thank you Hank!
Larence Livoti
March 14, 2013
Hank, buddy, I miss you. Looking back it doesn't seem that long ago that I met you during the days of Asher Painting and Waterproofing. It was then, we began our friendship as your lawyer and friend. I fondly recall the PCs lined up on bread racks at the old Sample Road address. Lets not forget your venture into the distillery world and the variety pack of exotic island drinks. Weren't you the pirate with the eye patch on the box? Who can forget or maybe who can remember User Lovable, the dawn of a new world yet unrealized. I shared your enthusiasm through DBT, DBTO and its evolution to TLO.Thanks for all the fun, the dinners and good times on What It Is.I still hear your boisterous belly laugh and the twinkle in your eye. The lives of all you have touched are richer for having known you.
Jimmy Ivey
March 10, 2013
I am proud to have met such a great and kindhearted person. You will be greatly missed.Rest in peace my friend.
March 7, 2013
I first met Hank when I was installing electrical services for his company (DBT). I was working one day and he asked me to join his company and work for him. I didn't quite know what to think or do, so I told him I would take a leave of absentance from my current job and give DBT a chance. To my suprize I became the eleventh employee at DBT. During my years working with Hank we became great friends and well as employer and employee.
Thanks to Hank I was able to do and see so much of the world I otherwise would have never seen. The trips to the Bahamas were always filled with fun and adventure. Fishing on his boats with him and friends and family was a wonderful time to remember always.
I am proud to have been a part of Hanks world of fighting crime and missing children he founded by the Amber alert.
Hank gave me some many opportunities and experiences that I will always be grateful for. (Thanks Hank)
I met so many people thur Hank's work,
like John Walsh,Jessie Jackson,F. Lee Bailey, President of Venezuela, and so many others.
Hank was always helping during times of diasters, like hurricane Katrina.
John Walsh and I drove to New Orleans in a amphibious vehicle that Hank had designed hoping to capture news and conditions of the aftermath of Katrina.
Thank you Hank for supporting me and my family during the passing of my late wife Pam. And your generosity during this time. I will always be grateful for your help.
I could go on and on about my times with Hank, but just know (Hank) that my memories and stories of us are told to others all the time.
So farewell my friend,I will truley miss you!!
William W. McCauley III
(Mac)
A Sincere Friend
March 3, 2013
Hank Asher, a bit gruff at times, but always thinking of others, reaching out a hand to help, accepting people as they are, dreaming big dreams and solving problems in his sleep. By being him, he taught me so much and showed me how perfect I really am.
I consulted Hank on a computer "venture" and got pulled into his world. My excuses for why I was not "normal" were not accepted by Hank. Having grown up a foster child, I felt very broken, yet willing to take charge of my life. My 'life story' didn't phase Hank, instead it inspired him to show me all the really successful people with my 'exact story'. Hank accepted me wholly.
I think he wished I was a 9 or a 2 :0), but both of us were 8s. I love this man, this is a person who did great works and helped a lot of people. I'm sad I didn't get to tell him in this lifetime how special, perfect and amazing he is....one last time.
REMEMBER TO reach out to those you love, you never know when they will be gone. Thank you Hank. Thanks to his family too...by allowing Hank to be Hank (always thinking, workaholic, independent), you allowed him to change the world. I say thank you for the multitudes of people.
Hank, I miss you! Thank you for adding additional inspiration and clarity to my life.
Frank Irwin
February 21, 2013
I met Hank in '76 as an employee of Asher Painting, I was just a punk kid having fun in sunny Florida. He inspired and mentored me into his top forman and then supervisor (even fixed my broken teeth). Later brought me to Great Harbour "to get some work done" and a party or 2. A few years later he found that I was going to start a database company so he hired me at DBT to help teach me what that business was all about. Then he gave me a stake and sent me out to create Power In Data, Inc. He changed my life and I owe this great man everything as many many do. Thanks Hank. Please don't give God too much trouble about his database LOL. We will all miss you. Condolences to all his family and friends.
Dallas McElheney
February 19, 2013
I first met Hank on a windy day while attempting to dock a Cruiser at North Andros Beach Hotel dock over thiry years ago. He alone saved the boat and my day. I did not know then that this guy in cutoff jeans, long black curly hair, a diamond earring, barefoot and shirtless would one day be the Capitan of his Industry. The Hank I knew then was the same you all have described to date, a strong caring man who always took the time to help those in need. I spent a total of two hours with Hank that day, more than enough to know the quality of the man. With a profound sense of loss, until we meet again.
Faye Wagner
February 3, 2013
We'll always have wonderful memories of all the great parties for your children and my daughter at your house in Great Harbour Cay. We all loved you and will miss you dearly.
Your friends from Great Harbour Cay, Bahamas,
Faye and Rachel Wagner
Joy Fogarty
January 30, 2013
I met Hank in 1979. I was only 23 and he was 28. For years after we met he was a very dear friend and he showed me how to love life! We lost touch for many years, but after the death of my husband a few years ago, we spoke several times. His sense of humor and the way that he lived his life hadn't changed. I've heard many people refer to him as “colorful”. I guess that's a great way to describe him! He was like a rainbow of many components,but he was unlike anyone else that I've met in my life. Hank was a very generous and caring man who will be missed by all of those who really knew him. I'll miss you Hank!
jackson ballard
January 29, 2013
met u flying and my brother gary, who passed away 8 years ago worked with u when painting contractor, we flew to great harbour cay, several times, you guys are finally back together, God bless you Hank, miss all those clear beck beers together, my best to your family
Geraldine engold
January 25, 2013
Asher family, It's with deep regret to hear that Hank has past you have my deepest symathy, Hank gave me a chance,i was his Chauffeur for a short time and enjoyed he's Spirit.
Beautiful inside and out - 1980s
Marci Tickle-Bozeman
January 20, 2013
Adrean Allan
January 19, 2013
I met Hank Asher in 2010 at a World Investigator Conference in Dallas, TX. His life, work and dedication to humanity left a huge impact on me. My work desk is adorned with several inspirational writings... among those is Hank's business card. "AVEC SANG-FROID WITH HONOR AND TRUTH, WE PROTECT THE WEAK, THE WRONGED AND EACH OTHER, GENEROUSLY AND FIERCELY"
Hank's words have been one of my guiding lights in my work and my life. Hank will forever remain in my heart as one of the greatest inspirations. May Hank's family and friends rest assured that this Angel now has wings
Kim Muszynski (Norris)
January 19, 2013
Thank you, Hank, for the incredible opportunity to be your employee for many years, starting with DBT back in 1986 and ending with Choicepoint in 2003. Your intelligence, character and heart will be forever remembered by many. I'll never forget the beautiful flower arrangements received weekly, and the great times with you and the DBT family. You were one of a kind and one of the most amazing human beings I have ever met! Your efforts to change the world succeeded and your legacy will leave a footprint forever in every heart you touched! My heartfelt condolences to your family and may you RIP forever!!
Chuck Jackson
January 18, 2013
RIP and thanks Hank. You was a brother to Valerie and she will carry you in her heart forever and you was a blessing to our family. Thanks,Chuck
January 17, 2013
The island of great harbor cay in the Bahamas was in shock n disbelieve,we couldn't believe such a good man was gone so soon, we still can't believe it. He was the nice person in the world and yes he thought that god was a black woman cause he said he was a black man in a white body . Hank saw no color , he just love people. He will greatly be missed. We loved him very much. Our deepest sympathy to his family from Mary knowles and the great harbour cay community.
Cindy Loizzo
January 16, 2013
I will never forget the day Hank hired me at 18 years old. He was so proud of AutoTrack and amazed me with what he knew about me already based on my national dossier! I owe many thanks to him for my 17-year career in public records. He truly pioneered this industry. His brilliance and generosity were incomparable to anyone that I ever met. He touched so many people's lives, and so many friends and spouses met because of the companies that he started. I always admired his entrepreneurship and am grateful to have known such an amazing person. Hank will be missed dearly and never forgotten. I give my condolences to his family; I pray for your strength and peace while you endure such a great loss.
Valerie Jackson
January 16, 2013
Hank I was so blessed to have known you for so many years from Indiana to Fort Lauderdale. My heart is broken. I will miss you dearly. Thank you for always caring and always being there. My prayers and deepest sympathy to your loving family.
Ruth Young
January 16, 2013
My family are so sorry for your lose. Hank came to Ft Laud and started painting for my father. He was so sweet to me and I will always cherish our childhood memories with my family. We lost track after he sold his painting company but my little sister found him again about 15 years ago and kept him up to date by e mail. His generous and enormous heart will be impossible for other to achieve. God Bless RUTH YOUNG
Teera Garcia
January 16, 2013
Hank was a remarkable individual who believed in "doing well by doing good." I am honored to have met and known him personally. His candid manner and commitment to the human community will be missed.
January 16, 2013
I heard you speak at a stock holder's meeting once and had to shake your hand afterwards. Your words were so meaningful. I'm sure your are wearing beautiful wings now.
Cathy DeMarco
January 15, 2013
Thanks for the many positive contributions you made to my life and to the lives of others. So many relationships, both personal and professional, exist today thanks to you. Try not to hassle God too much.
January 15, 2013
RIP Hank. You were such a generous soul....you did so much for my family and for many others...I wish you would have done the same for yourself. Your good deeds will continue to do good in this world.
We will miss your middle of the night phone calls (well not so much) and crazy ideas which really weren't that crazy after all. I will miss hearing the Hank stories. I am so sorry you won't be here to see how well your "other boy" will do in his life but because of you, he will be just fine.
Our condolences to the Asher family. A great soul has been lost.
Ann Lane
January 15, 2013
So sorry to hear about Hank's passing. He was a remarkable person who's talents will be missed.
Art Dude
January 15, 2013
Condolences to his family. May the peace which comes from the memories of love shared, comfort you now and in the days ahead.
Roy Swainson
January 14, 2013
Never met the man, but after reading the obituary,I wanted to say THANKS to Hank! I am a Law Enforcement Officer, 35 years experience, employed in the forth largest city in the country and everyone in my office uses and appreciates the use of TLO!! Thanks Hank for sharing the data base with us.
Sharon Miller
January 14, 2013
Hank truly made a difference in this world and he will never be forgotten. He was a wonderful man in so many ways.
Invest Info Brokers
January 14, 2013
My heartfelt condolences to the Asher family. Mr. Asher remains a leader in the industry & will be missed for his genius business sense.
God Bless.
Elizabeth Danielson
January 14, 2013
Thank you Hank for a career and a lifetime of stories and memories. I can't believe we're not going to get a chance to have a reunion with everyone from DBT, complete with bourbon chicken and vases of orchids.I will never forget sitting in your office with Frank on April 18, 1994 and watching you show off the very first linked files in Autotrak in my job interview; I started the next day and what an incredible rollercoaster it was. From that day forward, everything became history in the making. You were so intelligent that our mortal IQ's frustrated the heck out of you, but your compassion overwhelmed us too. A million thanks and rest well.
Sherree Greenwood
January 14, 2013
I feel so sad that I will never hear him tell any more of his great stories! He had such passion, and humor, and compassion. I will miss him. Condolences to his beautiful family!
Southern Eagle PI
January 14, 2013
Hank was a great man and did so many wonderful things, he will be truly missed.
Internet Crimes Against Children
January 14, 2013
Thanks Hank. We will continue the fight.
Diana
January 14, 2013
Hank helped us when no one else could. I will always remember and be thankful.
David Wertz
January 14, 2013
Rest in peace.
g k
January 14, 2013
Rest in peace Hank Asher. You accomplished many great things and soared to great heights. Well done.
From your old friend who flew with you on many occasions. Sometimes right-side up and sometimes upside down. You will be long missed. Judith and the girls please accept my deepest condolences.
gk
Jeff Dell
January 14, 2013
Hank was one of the most passionate people I have ever met. He touched so many lives and will be missed deeply.
Jessica
January 14, 2013
Hank, Words cannot express the gratitude I have for you! You gave me employment @16 years old. Your extreme knowledge in the database world is unsurpassed! Thank-you for the awesome opportunity I had to work for you! I hope you are living well, in heaven! I pray for much love & peace, for you & your family! :)
Tamara Spalding
January 14, 2013
I am truly saddened by Hank' death. Hank was a true visionary. Working at DBT was so much fun, being part of Hank's dream and making a difference.
His passing will not only leave a void in our lives, but in the hearts of everyone who knew him. Hank's memory will always remain deep within my heart.
Rest in Peace Hank...
Kimberley Berlin
January 13, 2013
My prayers go to those Hank left behind. May the love of this man always be with you, and may your sorrow be eased with the support of many who so admired him.
Don B
January 13, 2013
Sometimes life squeezes out and marginalizes the best among us; and other times a special soul will come into our lives and help us find the confidence in our imagination and creativity -- and the result is that we change the world.
Therein lies the "Lightening in the Bottle" that was the essence of our friend Hank Asher: confounding, conflicted, colorful and complex beyond description because he was the type of person that was so defined by his actions and gestures of kindness.
Generous to others and yet some might observe, unwilling to care most of all for his own personal well-being. Lover of his family, friends or those who just happen to be a passing stranger, yet a maniacal madman if you were on the opposite side of Hank in the courtroom.
Hank was my friend at a distance from nearly the very beginning, when I was one of his first really significant investors at DBT, and then at Seisint, and as a Channel Partner Manager and Solution Provider at Accurint.
Today, while American is at war, Hank brought a little bit of peace into our lives and made this country a safer place against enemies both foreign and domestic. His vision was magical and so too were the people around him -- Hank was truly a conundrum within a conundrum.
As a military contractor, I know that most will never truly appreciate the genius of Hank's developments and inventions when they were married against our federated programs to help all people and safeguard this nation. There are many such stories -- most of the good ones will never be known or told.
But, for me Hank more than anything was someone that allowed me to take my early investment in his incredible genius and buy a home where I raised my family and then developed my own company and trademarks, patents, and products. He was the person on the other end of the phone when I would call him late at night from the hospital and weep as my wife suffered from Cancer, and he encouraged me to not be afraid, but gave me the strength and courage to find solutions and take action -- all of which helped saved her life, the love of my life. He would swear at me, I would scream at him, and when we would see one another again the reunion always began with a bear like handshake and hug, profane greetings -- and we would start all over again.
In my world, where I serve, friends come and go -- people get killed and we move on -- its always the Mission first. Our brave friends are not mourned in the daylight, but during our personal darkness when we are alone with our thoughts and prayers.
But, the loss of Hank is a special and profound wound, one that leaves me with great sadness and yet bewilderment over how life is so fleeting, so precious and for Hank -- so unfairly short.
May the Lord Bless you and keep you my friend; in your going out and in your coming in, in your labour and in your leisure, in your life and in your death... God awaits you with His Supercomputer in the heavens ready to rock and roll once again and make "Lightening In The Sky"….
Don
The Wheelon Girls
January 13, 2013
Hank I want to Thank you one more time for all you did for Steve when he was sick. If it wasn't for you the girl's and I wouldn't have had him as long as we did. You were a One in a Million type of Man that has helped so many people.You have a heart of Gold. It was an honor to be related to you. God Bless you now you can be at peace with your Mom and Sari..We will be thinking and praying for Judith,Desiree,Carly and Wally.
Scott Schneck
January 13, 2013
To say Hank was larger than life would be an understatement. He was a dynamic, exciting man to be around and to work with. He was generous in the big things as well as the small things. He will be missed. Hank, here's hoping you found peace. You will be remembered.
January 13, 2013
Hank touched so many lives and hearts. He was so important to our family especially to my husband who loved him deeply and had a bond with Hank that few people ever get to experience.
A true giant has passed this earth and is with a beautiful loving female god.
Miss you
Hippee Girl
January 13, 2013
Hank
You were a brother to me.. A Pirata del Mundo
My heart aches with your passing. I know this is god's floor show.
You are in good loving hands with your dear mother and sister and with God.
You will always be a part of me. See you someday soon.
Blessings to you my friend
Love Kong
Michelle Weisman
January 13, 2013
When I first met you I knew then I would never meet another man so tough, caring, brilliant and buck wild. You invited me into your family and did so much for me and my little fluffy fox. you and i loved our fast cars, sushi nights, bahamas trips and lady gaga parties. most importantly great friendship, so unpredictable my dancing bear you are deeply missed. I didn't expect to lose you so soon and I'm really bummed I didn't ge to see you since 2010. Thank you for coaching me and loving me. You will always have a special place in my heart no one can replace.
Dee Holmes
January 13, 2013
My condolences to his family. this is a terrible loss to our profession. he will be greatly missed, but there is warmth in knowing that his great works will live on and continue to help those that need it the most world wide.
Joyce & Drew Kesse
January 13, 2013
We had the privilege of meeting Hank in 2009 as parents of Missing/Abducted Jennifer Kesse from Orlando,Fl 1/24/2006. Jennifer remains missing. We had never met a more sincere, compassionate, man who cared so deeply about the Missing. His anguish over the heinous crimes against our children was palpable. Hank, rest in piece...with your beloved Mom, sister now you are together. The world has lost a brilliant visionary. Your kindness will never be forgotten. Joyce & Drew Kesse
Antonio Rajan
January 13, 2013
The country is a safer place thanks to your innovation. Seisint was the hallmark of your accomplishments! Thanks Hank!
Grace Luhrs
January 13, 2013
Hank was the epitome of a true friend. He was a diamond in the rough.
Paula Caminiti
January 13, 2013
Dear dear Hank, may you finally be able to rest in peace and walk along side your beloved mother and sister as God welcomes you home. It is a very, very sad day without you in it Hank, and there are no words for the emptiness I feel inside . I will never forget the 1st time I walked into your office at DBT, and met the kindness, most interesting genius who will forever be in my heart and in my prayers. There will never be another Hank Asher and the world is a better place because of you. Thank you for all your sacrifices in making the world a safer place for children and for everyone you touched with your kindness. Rest in peace Hank. My thoughts and prayers be with your family at this time.
Roy Brubaker
January 13, 2013
It was a privilege to know Hank as a close friend and business partner from his first computer, through User Lovable, IIC, DBT and ultimately as best man to my wedding. He was a brilliant man with a huge heart. My thoughts and prayers go out to all those whose life he touched and to his family whom he loved above all else.
Sleep well bro, we'll be needing you back here soon.
Al and Jan Overgaard
January 13, 2013
So sorry for the loss of a great man.
He was there to help anyone in need.
Our prayers and love go out to the family.
Jonathan Brooks
January 12, 2013
I have enjoyed working and being a friend of Hank Asher. When Hanks mother passed he said "Dying is a part of life, not the end of life". He also said "I awoke this morning with the realization that I won't see her until I pass to the other side". May you be in the arms of your mother my friend.
Joyce Lewis-Bass
January 12, 2013
Hank changed my life when I started flying on his magic carpet starting in 1999 at Seisint and then at TLO. I am honored to have been with this wonderful, loving, generous genius. What a great loss to the world.
Rest in peace with your family. You will be missed by many, thanks for everything, Hank-much love Joyce
Christopher Niemir
January 12, 2013
A spark of energy,flamboyance, and ingenuity has been extinguished. You will be missed by many. Thanks Hank
Ben Harroll
January 12, 2013
The fuller story about Hank Asher and, more importantly, the deeper meaning of his life for his family, friends, associates and for all private eyes is
one that we should all work to compile.
This will help to ensure that Hank is both remembered and respected for his work to unselfishly help those he knew and the many more he would never know.
Giving Hank Asher his due will provide
future generations a shining example of a purposeful life and will plant a big shade tree for Hank's final rest.
RIP Hank, Ben Harroll - P.I. Museum Founder/Curator, San Diego, CA
Coleen Steele
January 12, 2013
He was such a great influence on so many. He will be missed
Mike Levy
January 12, 2013
Hank Asher was one of the most impressive people I've ever known. A brilliant entrepreneur, a great philanthropist, an effective crime fighter and a person who would go out of his way to help people. He will be missed by all.
The Children of the World
Bill Branscum
January 12, 2013
I am glad to have had the privilege of knowing you. Beginning with DBT, now thru TLO, and everything in between, I do believe you have done more for the investigative community than anyone else we could name. I have five children myself, and I have always appreciated your work and your contributions related to missing and exploited children.
Christopher Niemir
January 12, 2013
A spark of energy,flamboyance, and ingenuity has been extinguished. You will be missed by many. Thanks Hank
Ginny
January 12, 2013
Hank, thanks for your kindness. Peace.
Donna Rosier
January 12, 2013
Hank, You were my hero. Love you forever.
Brian Waters
January 12, 2013
This man was a genius who will be missed. He helped many and always had a soft side for the helpless. I can safely say in my 68 years I never met a brighter mind with such a big heart.RIP Hank.
Paula Caminiti
January 12, 2013
Dear Dear Hank, may you rest in internal peace and forever be with your beloved mother and sister. You were a GREAT man Hank Asher, the world will never have another. Your language might have been rough, but your heart was golden, your compassion for helping some many children and the world will be your legacy. You will foreve be missed by all those who know and loved you. It's so very sad to think I will never hear your laugh again. My thoughts and prays are with you and your family.
Tedi Rockwell
January 12, 2013
It was amazing knowing you and so appreciate the work you did to help children. You are unique and unforgettable! God Bless you and your family. BP
Marci Tickle-Bozeman
January 12, 2013
Never will there be another person like Hank. I worked for him at Asher Waterproof Coatings and dated him for five years back in the 80s. Desiree was just an adorabe 2 year old and was the love of his life. We had kept in touch over the years, but not very much recently once Sari became sick. I know that devastated him because Sari was Hank's hero. Rest in peace, my friend.
Scott of SCANK Thomas
January 12, 2013
Proud to have been a part of your first data company and to have shared in architecting a bleeding edge database. May your soul find peace.
January 12, 2013
I can think of no one who has contributed more to our profession and law enforcement. I'm on the other ened of the continent, yet Hank took the time to call me on a couple of occasions when I had issues with the first opening of TLO. Down-to-earth and personable. One of who I am so sorry I didn't get the opportunity to meet in person, maybe over a beer or something. Much love, prayers & thoughts to his family and close friends. He is undoubtedly wrapped in God's arms now. Bless you Hank .. !
Al Farr
Mike Mittelman
January 12, 2013
Hank Asher was a wonderful person who contributed and helped so many people. This is a great loss. I got to know Hank after he helped me with a problem I was having that no other expert was able to solve. Months later it was my pleasure to return the favor to Hank when he called me and solicited my help for a situation he had in Northeast Florida.
Rest in peace Hank, you will be missed.
Danny Antonopoulos
January 12, 2013
Hank and I were friends and roommates back in Ft Lauderdale in the early 70' Great man and friend'good times. My first sailing trip to the Bahamas was with Hank. He will be missed.
Joan Earnshaw
January 12, 2013
You will be missed by all us Investigators
January 12, 2013
Dear Hank,
Thank you for the time we spend together. Your Friend Carl G
Showing 1 - 100 of 108 results
Make a Donation
in Hank Asher's name
Memorial Events
for Hank Asher
How to support Hank's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Hank Asher's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
