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John O'Brien Obituary

Dr. John T. O'Brien

Do not go gently into that good night - Dylan Thomas

FUNKS GROVE -

Dr. John T. O'Brien, Chevalier passed away at his home on November 21, 2020. John was a longtime resident of Funks Grove, Illinois, where he planted many trees and kept a garden in which he grew his own vegetables and herbs that he generously shared with others. He had seven dogs who meant the world to him, especially Higgins.

John was the father of four: Kathleen M. O'Brien (Eric Christian), Emmett J. O'Brien, William F. O'Brien (Tiffany J. O'Brien), and Kevin B. O'Brien. He was the grandfather of Joshua P. O'Brien, Liam J. O'Brien, and Abigail K. O'Brien. He is survived by his older brothers William F. O'Brien (Joann) and Edmund O'Brien (Mary) and brother-in-law, John White. He was preceded in death by his mother, Ruth F. O'Brien, his father, William F. O'Brien, and his dear sister Maureen White. He has many nieces and nephews that he loved dearly.

John was an enthusiastic world traveler for both work and pleasure, having visited over 30 countries. He loved to cook and bake for others and for himself. He worked at perfecting his homemade pizza recipe for 40 years, and it was perfect. He lived many of his final years in Ireland where he had dual citizenship. Music was very important to him. His most-loved artists include Mick Flannery, Luke Kelly (particularly "Raglan Road"), and Arvo Part. He will be most missed for his humor, his conversation, his willingness to listen, his storytelling, and last but not least, his pizza-making on Friday nights.

John has now joined his father, family, and dear friends. As his friend Gilbert Sorrentino wrote: "They are all gone into the world of light."

Published by The Pantagraph on Nov. 29, 2020.

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Kevin O'Brien

July 3, 2021

There will be a memorial service for John O'Brien on September 19, 2021 at 10AM. The service will be held at Funks Grove Church in McLean, IL.

Mark Axelrod

January 5, 2021

Sadly, I just heard about this and it's tragic news. His kind will be hard to replace. My deepest condolences to the family.

Trish Tilton

December 3, 2020

Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on the snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain;
I am the gentle autumn’s rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft star that shines at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there; I did not die.

We will miss our neighbor, John.
May fond memories help fill the huge void now left in your lives.
With sympathy,
George and Trish Tilton

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