Michele Heidenberger
Michele M. Heidenberger, 57, a flight attendant on the plane that struck the Pentagon, worked for the airline for 25 years.

Family members said she was trained five years ago in how to deal with a hijacking. "Knowing Michelle, she was probably the one who would have approached them first and said you can't go into the cockpit," said sister-in-law Betsy Heidenberger.
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Yesterday 17 July was your BD.. Yes, I thought about you; remembered all our fun times & those times you were there for me..... Dont know why, but I could not write..... You were so on my mind that I just felt incapable of facing another BD date without you here.
Happy Birthday
V Crawford-Robinson
July 18, 2019
Dear Mr Heidenberger and your family..I tried last night to send a few other pictures..I do not believe they went thru..there was some lovely tributes in our flight attendant union APFA magazine..I know I have more pictures..I will find them..my email [email protected] phone number 617-369-2444..I will keep you advised for plans for NYC September 2019..we are going to start this year for honoring all our families and friends killed on September 11 2001 3000 souls..we are talking about a musical venue for the 20th anniversary in 2021..songs that were special to our loved ones sung by Broadway and musicians..we are just starting to talk about it..its a couple of years away..our family crewmembers will NOT ever be forgotten god bless Charlene Marie Jones Flight attendant American airlines BOS Logan international airport BOS Massachusetts
Charlene Jones
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Charlene Jones
July 2, 2019
Dear Mr Heidenberger and your family..a few more pictures for sweet Michele legacy..she loved being a flight attendant..we have a passion for our career..Michele dedicated her life to her own family and her airline family..I was blessed to have known a beautiful soul as Michele..there are a few more my phone is on red meaning put it on charge..enjoy...feel free to call and ask any questions..I will keep you posted on NYC..I know BOS DCA and shanksville PA all have their own memorial..God bless love Charlene marie jones American airlines flight attendant BOS Logan international airport BOS Massachusetts
Charlene Jones
July 2, 2019
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Charlene Jones
July 2, 2019
Dear Mr Heidenberger and family..a few pictures remembering Michele..I am sorry a couple of the pictures are not turned around..I have most of my picture's in my house..in my pocketbook..I am going thru my storage bldg and found more pictures..I was known to take a lot of picture's..I know when I look at my picture's it makes me proud to say we are all friends..it took me year's to go to NYC 2006..DCA was 2009-2010 when I lived there..I was in such an emotional state I took no pictures not in NYC either..my world stopped on September 11 2001..the stories of our families crewmembers first responders civilians 3000 soul's that were taken from us way to soon..Michele was doing her career she loved..I am planning on going to NYC for September 11 2019 .I have spoken to Tony Gardner vice President of the 9/11 museum.I have spoken to several family members..I believe Cathy ong will be in NYC..captain Beverley bass our first female captain for American airlines has her Broadway musical in NYC..captain Beverley will be in NYC on September 10 2019..we are hoping to have the families join us at the come from away musical about 9/11..its in Toronto LHR and Sydney Australia in 2 weeks..I keep in contact with Beverley..my email is up and running [email protected] my phone number is 617-369-2444..please call anytime..god bless Charlene Marie Jones American airlines flight attendant BOS Logan international airport BOS Massachusetts
Charlene Jones
July 2, 2019
Dear Mr Heidenberger and your family..the first picture is the original picture of me and betty on a layover flight 11..the next is the original picture of mine of President George Bush with our DFW crewmembers..I was also based in DFW international airport..President George Bush charted American airlines for his presidential campaign in 2000..this picture was before September 11 2001. God bless Charlene Marie Jones Flight attendant American airlines BOS Logan international airport BOS Massachusetts
Charlene Jones
July 1, 2019
Charlene Jones
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Charlene Jones
July 1, 2019
To the dear Heidenberger family..I do hope this message finds you and your family well..thinking of Michele today..I have found some pictures I thought you would like to see..being a flight attendant we all know one another somehow..training..traveling passing in the airport..also during interviewing I have remembered several friends from different airlines..in my world we are all family and we stick together thru good and bad..please know Michele will NOT ever be forgotten..Michele is missed everyday..knowing she is watching over you and your family is her gift of enduring love..God bless your family Charlene Marie Jones Flight attendant American airlines BOS Logan international airport BOS Massachusetts
Charlene Jones
July 1, 2019
Dear Michele family..it has taken me 17 years to write to you..Michele and I had passed often in the terminals of airports..she had such a beautiful smile..lovely to me..I am Charlene Marie Jones Flight attendant American airlines based in BOS Logan international airport BOS Massachusetts..my flight always was flight 11..a senior flight..betty was with me almost all the time..I take VC in September so I was not on flight 11..the guilt I still hold..knowing my friends were on the plane..I lived in DCA from 2009-2010.so yes..I have visited you many times at the Pentagon.I cried..I still cry..may your family always have tailwinds behind them..may they always feel your bright light shine everyday from heaven..I honor you Michele..and salute you..love Charlene Marie Jones American airlines flight attendant BOS Logan international airport.BOS Massachusetts
Charlene Jones
August 3, 2018
Always in our hearts.
September 12, 2017
Michele. I think of you often. A few times I will see a women and for a second I think oh is that Michele . I still have no words after 16 years to express the lose of such a wonderful person,. Both our families now are all grown up with their own children, yet It seems like yesterday we were at swim meets and playing tennis ❤
Lisa Garvey
September 12, 2017
Remembered. May God bless your family with peace, this day. And provide joy from memories of love shared.
September 11, 2017
Will always remember you Shelly, that's the name I knew her by, one of my older sister's friends growing up. Thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Sheila Shuska Gasper
September 11, 2017
i'm sorry for your loss. i cant imagine the pain for your loss one. i hope you have closure and everlasting peace and hope
September 11, 2017
September 11, 2017
Kim Burgamy
September 16, 2016
My thoughts and prayers are with Tom, Allison and Thomas always. You will never be forgotten. God Bless
Marie Bradford
September 14, 2016
15 years, no it seems like 15 minutes since we said, "....I'll see you on Friday!"....... but Friday never came for you..... Veronica
Veronica Crawford-Robinson
September 13, 2016
September 11, 2016
When ever I spot a gorgeous pair of size 9 1/2 or 10 shoes, I think Michele would love these...must call her! But alas, her phone is off...but I am sure she can hear me!
Dear friend I shall never forget....
September 16, 2015
You are not forgotten. We will always remember and honor you.
DCA crew members
September 15, 2015
I will never forget this caring mother, nor our conversations as she sought the best school for her daughter's education. I was the Director of Admissions at Stone Ridge, Bethesda, MD and her questions for her 4 year old were as probing and full of concern as the Upper School parents' !
I had to move to the West Coast not long after that and never returned. But I still remember, and I have Faith that Michele is still a caring presence for her family.
May they be comforted.
Mary Jo Sharkey
September 11, 2015
You are remembered
September 11, 2015
My heart still aches for you and your family along with all families this dreadful day. Look over all of us please. Love Lisa
September 11, 2015
I lift up a special prayer today for Michele's friends and family. We will never forget. With much love from Texas.
Del Newberry
May 7, 2015
As I have every 9/11 since you've been gone, you are thought of with love and appreciation. We will never forget!
Marie Bradford
September 12, 2014
September 11, 2014
Such a, caring friend ,well thought of by many. God knows how we feel about our love ones. He promises to resurrect our love ones.
Joyce Skipper
April 29, 2014
9/11.....I/we shall never forget!!...... Still/always missing you. Veronica
Veronica Crawford-Robinson
September 12, 2013
Sheri Madden
September 11, 2013
Dear Michele, Happy Birthday! I will always love you and miss you! You live in my heart! Love, Sandy
July 17, 2013
Dear Michele,
Today would be your birthday. I shall raise a glass of champagne & toast you, your smile and our happy times together. Still missing you...... & always shall. "V"
Veronica Crawford-Robinson
July 17, 2013
To The Family,
When tragedies strike us without warning, it makes it that much more devastating. 9/11 will always bring devestation and tears. How we all long for the day when Bible prophecy concerning a paradise earth filled with love and happiness is fulfilled. When Ms. Heidenberger is awaken by the Lord Jesus she will not have to worry about dying at the hands of evil terrorists. I am so sorry for your loss. God bless you.

Mr. Terry of NC
November 29, 2012
September 12, 2012
September 11, 2012
Dear Tom and Children,
Michelle and I had not been in touch in years, but I always knew she was a friend you could call and just pick up where you left off no matter how much time had elapsed.
My heart goes out to you. What sticks with me was that Michelle was always smiling or bursting out with her raucous laugh whenever we worked Mexico trips together. I have to laugh myself when I remember what a great time we had when you and Michelle visited us in Munich. I'm so sorry we fell out of contact for so many years.
My prayers go out to you and for Michelle. I still have her pound cake recipe which I cherish.

Karen Roelke (fka Varenhorst)
Karen Roelke
April 18, 2012
Your a wonderful person and I miss flying with you and hearing about your family.You now have your Gold wing's in heaven and are watching over your fellow family with AA you will all ways be in my thought's
Fst Officer Dave Jones
February 5, 2012
I was, like every year, in NY on 9/11. I'll never forget you. With love, and tears in my eyes, Nici

Nicole Heinemann - Flight Attendent Lufthansa/Germany
Nicole Heinemann
September 17, 2011
May God bless Michele and her entire family at this time and always.
The Trout Family
September 11, 2011
Thinking of you Tom- and your family- on this day
Denise (former DCA USAirways Crew Tracker)
Denise Hundley
September 10, 2011
Your AA family will always remember. You will never be forgotten.
September 10, 2011
Thinking of you Michele,Tom,Allison and Thomas today all of you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love The Purcell Family.
sharon purcell
September 10, 2011
A 10 year anniversary. I think of anniversaries as celebrations. 9/11 was not a celebration; it was a tragedy; one that our country will never forget. Tom, Allison and Thomas, know that Michele touched many lives and that we are grateful. God Bless and Keep each of you!
Marie Bunting Bradford
Marie Bradford
September 6, 2011
Rest in peace Michele. Although I never knew you, you are always in my thoughts and prayers. They finally got him. God Bless you Michele.
Steve Willis
September 4, 2011
I recently visited the Ground Zero Memorial with my family. The 3 of us purchased bracelets from the gift shop. Each bracelet held the name of a person who lost his/her life during the events of 9/11. Inside my blue velvet bag was the name Michele Heidenberger. I wear the bracelet which bears your name every day, and say a prayer for your family every time I put it on. I am a teacher in the Chicago suburbs, and I have been able to talk with my students about the magnitude of the events on 9/11, and share your name and your story with them as well....so that this tragedy is never forgotten.
Megan Lavery
August 27, 2011
They got him
A fellow f/a
May 4, 2011
Michele -

You are remembered. With honor and respect. I remember you today. I pray your loved ones feel the true presence on the Lord Jesus - and find strength in His unyielding love. I pray you know, we will never forget you. I celebrate your life and know your spirit remains in the hearts of countless Americans who honor you today. Rest in Peace, in the arms of God almighty.
September 11, 2010
Tommy --

I have thought of Michele, you and your family often since that tragic day on 9/11/2001. Michael and I knew, as soon as we saw Michele's name, that you had suffered a tremendous loss.

I don't know if you will ever see this but I wanted to let you know that the brief period of time we shared together as young couples in Whitehaven were truly magical. We think of those days often -- how carefree we all were, with hopes and dreams for the future. Michele was a beautiful soul and was very deeply in love with you.

On the anniversary of 9/11 I especially think of you and your children. How proud she would be of all of you. Know that you remain in our thoughts and prayers --
Vicki Kozlowski
September 11, 2010
Still in my thoughts and prayers! God Bless you and your family.
Marie Bradford
September 10, 2010
In loving memory of a beautiful person....
Marie Bradford
April 21, 2010
Bob Elbin
April 20, 2010
Tom -

I was only a teenage girl when I first met you and Michele. You were neighbors to my grandparents, Reds and Alice Bunting. I remember how nice you both were to my family and a breath of fresh air in such a small little village town. Michele was a beautiful and gracious woman. My thoughts are with you and your family and I wish you peace.
Jenni Dennis
September 13, 2009
Tom, Allison and Thomas,
Each and every year I think of the courage and sacrifice Michele made for all of us on September 11th. I feel blessed to have known her. Eight years does not take away the pain of her loss; but I pray that all of you have found a way to live your lives in honor of her. We must never forget!

Marie Bradford, Salisbury, Maryland
September 11, 2009
To the family of Michele Heidenberger:
Michele gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. My deepest sympathy to you. We must never forget!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
Peggy Childers
August 13, 2009
Goodbye see on the next one
June 7, 2009
To the Family of Michele Heidenberger. She will always live on in all our memories. What a great loss. She is in Heaven with our Dear Lord now. She is at Peace.
COLLEEN wilson
September 17, 2008
My name is PFC Kenneth Fritch, and I'm stationed at Ft. Myer, VA with the Old Guard. It was an honor to be the soldier to Unvail Michele's bench at the Pentagon. God bless her, and may she rest in everlasting peace.
Kenneth Fritch
September 16, 2008
On this anniversary of that terrible day I just want to she may be lost but not forgotten
Robert Price
September 11, 2008
In loving memory of Michele. May God bless her family with peace and grace. I will NEVER forget!
September 11, 2008
To the Family of Michelle Heidenberger. As a former DC flight Attendant I had the good fortune of flying with all the Flight Crew of Flight 77 at one point in time or another. My heart remembers all the happy times and awesome memories of my "first base" with AA and the outstanding Flight Attendants and cockpit Crews it produced. We were family. I miss you all.
Susan Allen
September 11, 2008
Another year has come and gone...but it seems like only yesterday. I know that you are watching from above. At a time when our country, the world, is in turmoil, I pray that our leaders will remember the events of 9/11 and all of the amazing people who gave their lives that day to keep the rest of us safe. You are and always will be a true hero and lovingly thought of for the rest of my life. "We will never forget." Love, Marie
Marie Bradford
September 11, 2008
I want to let your family know that I have been praying for them. Events of that tragic day will be imprinted in my vision forever. What I felt, what I saw; my belief system would never be the same again. I sometimes think that I would have been by your side...

I was a flight attendant for AirTran Airways and in Sept 1998, I got a letter from American Airlines inviting me to KC for an interview- which was what I had dreamed of all my life. God led ME away from that. I was very much in love at the time and chose to quit the Airline and a start a family...

I would have been based in Boston and with a few years seniority....

I have been married for 10 years and am now a real estate agent. I have a beautiful 9-year-old daughter named Lauren. There is not a day that goes by that I do not thank our precious God for every moment. Not that every one of those moments has been grand, but I thank God that I was given the chance to grow and LOVE.

I believe we are all put on this earth to doing something special. You did the ultimate special thing by sacrificing your life for some to gain knowledge of a much deeper threat to life. Thank you.

I appreciate you and and your family for taking on such pain and burden.

We are all blessed that we see another sunrise because of you...rest in peace love.
Lynsey Anderson
September 9, 2008
Tom - thank you for sharing your story with us. Michele's spirit will live on, we are sure of it!

Colleen, Andy and the boys
Colleen Fisher
November 10, 2007

September 11, 2007
It's been six years...that's hard to believe. I know that you are watching over your family from above and I will always be grateful that the families, especially those of the children on your flight had you with them on that dreadful day.
Marie Bradford
September 10, 2007
MEMORIES....I was in Naples, Italy in the Spring, a woman passed by me & she looked so like Michele that I called out to her "Michele"! But a-last she was not you, but oddly enough her name was Michele! They say we all have a double; I may have met yours. She was British - hair a bit lighter; I told her our story (meeting when our daughters began kindergarten, of our life long friendship & of 9/11). I stopped at the Sansevero Chapel & said a prayer in memory of you ...You are still in my thoughts
September 7, 2007
In memory....
P Tabbernor
July 19, 2007
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
November 1, 2006
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Joe Rotter
September 14, 2006
I have a small slip of paper that has Michele's name on it that I selected from a table full of paper slips at my church back in 2001. Each slip named a victim of 9/11. I have that small paper tacked up on my bulletin board and see it every day and remember Michele and her family in my thoughts and prayers. I wish I had had a chance to know her in her life and not just by her unnecessary death. I treasure that piece of paper and will always think of her.
Jeanne Pomenti
September 11, 2006
What a beautiful person you were! Kind, gentle, loving and always warm. Living in Whitehaven was a much brighter place for myself, and my mother and father because you, Tom, Alison and Dortmunder were here. Thank you for your kindness.
Marie Bradford
September 11, 2006
Having worked for your Dad for many years, and knowing you from your fledging years with AA, you will always be remembered for your wit, charm and outgoing personality. My sympathy to the Heidenberg and MacDonald families. God Bless you all. Bob Webster-AA Supervisor (Ret)
Bob Webster
September 11, 2006
Michele, I dont know what to say except to thank you for being you. The good times playing tennis, swim meets, gatherings at your home, craft shows,making angels in your basement. Now you are the angel looking down on us. Love Lisa Garvey
Lisa Garvey
September 11, 2006
Michele was a beautiful human being. It was my pleasure to be her roommate for one year in Chicago with Jaye Butler and Celeste Guadagno. I think of her a lot and all the fun we shared on Rush Street. I hope Tom, Alison,and Tom are able to honor Michele appropriately by finding happiness on the rest of their journey through the world. Michele inspired me spiritually, her devotion to God was so complete. I ache inside knowing she couldn't watch her son reach adulthood. God be with all of you.
janet marks levant mills
August 31, 2006
I too proudly wear a bracelet that bears Michele's name and the number of the flight she died on. It is a constant reminder for me, and everyone who sees it, what an impact 09/11 had and will always have on our lives. Bless Michele, her family and this great country.
Brandi Oaks
February 14, 2006
Michele, we passed in the halls, we spoke business when we were working flights. I was impressed by your kindness and passion. My regret is not getting to know more about you and Renee and Jennifer and Ken. It is still all so unreal, your children should have not grown up with out you. God bless them.
Diane David Riggan
September 10, 2005
I am proudly wearing a bracelet that bears Michele's name. It makes me think of how precious life is. God bless Michele and her family. My thoughts are with you everyday.
Andrea Clark
August 5, 2004
The beauty that has been taken away, is a beauty that will be remembered forever. Remember her in all the good things in life, that in itself will help the bad days seem so much more wonderful!
Gina Cumiskey
March 5, 2004
peace be with you
anne jones
September 10, 2003
She looks like she was a very kind person. It must be so difficult for her family and friends. She must have been very brave and I am sure you are all proud of her. My thoughts & prayers go out to her family.
Angela Kendall
February 22, 2003
Unfortunately, I never had the pleasure of meeting Mrs. Heidenberger. However, I feel as though I know her through witnessing the courage, strength and love that Alison has shown toward her family through these difficult times.
Geoffrey Robson
February 20, 2003
To the MacDonald and Heidenberger families,

My sincerest condolences go to you all. Long ago Michele baby-sat me and my siblings back in Windsor. This tragedy touched almost everyone in some personal way. She was a true hero. I'm sure Michele is looking down proudly on her family.
Stephen Goodale
September 28, 2002
My thoughts go to the flight crews on this anniversary. We will never know what happened on board but, in my heart, I believe they died defending their country.
Mary Lou Hubisz
September 11, 2002
To the Heidenberger and MacDonald families...My sincere sympathy goes out to all of you in the loss of your beloved Michele. Especially today, I know she is smiling down on each one of you and she would want you all to know she is ok. My thoughts and prayers are with you...Patti 9/11/2002
Patti Raffino/Silva
September 11, 2002
To the family of Michele:

Although I didn't know Michele, I am wearing her MercyBand.I know many of the families who have lost loved ones in the WTC and I wear a US flag pin daily to remind me to say a prayer for them and their loved ones.

This bracelet I wear in Michele's memory will remind me to do the same for Michele.

As time passes, may you know that she is not forgotten nor is how she needlessly lost her life. May the happiest of memories you shared with her overshadow those painful ones.
susan tupper
August 4, 2002
May 3, 2002
Today, May 2, 2002, 1 mile was walked to honor the life of Michele & all the family friends and loved ones she left behind. May you find some comfort in knowing that you do not grieve alone.

Michele, you may be gone but will never be forgotten. May you rest in peace.
Kathy Swaringen
May 2, 2002
Michele was a fabulous mother, friend and professional. We think of her everyday. She was faithful,loyal, compassionate, honest, generous, altogether unique and so much fun to be around! God Bless you Michele!
Betty Lou & Brian McQuade
February 17, 2002
To Tom and all of Michelle's family, you are thought of and prayed for every single day. We miss Michelle so much here at American and I know you have a very special angel watching over you now.
God Bless!
Betty Marzoa
February 6, 2002
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