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Dr. Asher A. Friedman

Norfolk - Asher A. Friedman, M.D. FAAD, 91, beloved and esteemed Dermatologist, Father, Grandfather, and friend passed away Sat, Dec. 7, 2013. The son of the late Dr. Louis and Lillie Glasser Friedman of Norfolk. He spent his childhood and early education in the Norfolk Public Schools, then went to Baltimore to prepare for his vocation. Dr. Friedman received his B.A. degree in Science from the Johns Hopkins University, then his medical degree from the University of Maryland School of Medicine. While in medical school, Dr. Friedman also was on active military duty. Following his internship at Sinai Hospital of Baltimore, he then completed his specialty in Dermatology training at Kings County Hospital of Brooklyn, New York, followed by a program at Skin and Cancer Hospital of New York City and finally trained with the respected and famous Dr. Francis Ellis of Baltimore, MD. After passing the American Board of Dermatology, he served in the United States Army for two years where he was the Chief Dermatologist in the Korean War in 1951 – 1953. He opened a practice in Dermatology in Norfolk at the Wainwright Building in the fall of 1954 and a second practice several years later in the Midtown Building. Upon retiring from medical practice in 1997, he enjoyed over 14 years of auditing classes at Old Dominion University as he had extra ordinary powers of learning, memory, and observation and was learned in 4 languages. During his lifetime, he was Director of Dermatology at Lake Taylor Hospital for 30 years, was active in the Venereal Disease (VD) clinic of Norfolk, now called the S.T.D. diseases. Dr. Friedman was on the staff of Bon Secours Depaul and Sentara Norfolk General Hospitals.

He was a life time member of Beth El Temple and was active in the Jewish community, B'nai Brith, Norfolk Masonic Lodge No. 1, American Academy of Medicine and Dermatology, American Medical Tennis Association, American Dermatology Association, and other community activities. Dr. Friedman was an avid singles tennis player, playing through out the city from the age of 13 until he reached the age of 87. He and his wife established a scholarship for Jewish Studies at O.D.U. in the Heritage Society.

He is survived by his loving wife of 57 years, Ellyn-Mae Friedman; a son, Neil and Ruth Friedman of Richmond; a daughter, Louise and Dr. Alan Schneider of Potomac, MD; and his grandchildren, Joshua of N.Y.C., Andrew and Samuel Friedman of Richmond, Richard Schneider of Israel, Benjamin and Lindsay Schneider of Potomac, MD.

A graveside funeral service will be held at 12 noon on Monday, Dec. 9 in Forest Lawn Cemetery with Rabbi Jeffrey Aronowitz and Cantor Gordon Pilch officiating. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to one's favorite charity. H. D. Oliver Funeral Apts., Norfolk Chapel is handling arrangements. Online condolences may be made at www.hdoliver.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Dec. 8, 2013.

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December 16, 2013

Dear Ellyn Mae,
We are very deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Dr. Friedman was a very lovely man. He will be missed by so many. If we can help in any way, please let us know. Keeping you close to our heart and in our thoughts and prayers. With our deepest sympathy and love..The Atrium Pharmacy Staff
Jay, Tracy, Julie, Keith, Jacob, and Eric

Peggy Myers

December 15, 2013

Dear Ellyn-Mae: Grant and I were so happy to meet Dr. Friedman recently. You shared your life with an intelligent and dignified companion. We look forward to hearing from you again soon. Until then, you have our deepest sympathy.

Norman Galinsky

December 11, 2013

Dear Ellyn Mae, we were saddened to learn of the passing of Asher. We send our deepest condolences to you and your family. With love, Norman Galinsky

December 10, 2013

What a good and fulfilled life you shared with Ellyn Mae and family, Dear Asher.Where there is sadness there is also tender reflection and wonderful memories.My heartfelt sympathy, Dear Friend. Love Marilyn Eheman

Rhonda Mitchell

December 10, 2013

Although I only knew of Asher from my mother and her family, I know he was beloved by all the Glassers. What a fascinating and full life he led! My sympathies and prayers extend to all who were near and dear to him.

Billy Stevens

December 9, 2013

I wish to offer my condolences on the passing of Asher. I was one of his patients and one of his tennis friends at the Fergus Reid Courts where he played every Wednesday, weather permitting, for years. He was an excellent doctor, an accomplished tennis player and a good friend. When I first started playing tennis at Fergus Reid in the late seventies I was not a very good player. Asher was the first of the good players who regularly played there to invite me to play and pick me as his partner in doubles. One particular event I remember was when Asher was in his late 50s he invited a young man in his early twenties to play. It was obvious that the young man was brimming with confidence and fully expected to win convincingly. Asher beat him in very short order much to the young mans surprise and chagrin. However, there was not the least bit of gloating or preening from Asher. He simply shook hands and thanked his opponent for the match. He was a good player and a better sportsman. He was a credit to his community and family. Sincerely yours, Billy Stevens

Karen Logan

December 9, 2013

I feel honored to have met Dr. Friedman recently. What a vivacious man he was until the end. My heart aches for the void you will feel Ellyn Mae. Time, prayers and good friends may comfort you . Love Karen Adkins

Laurie and Cliff Forrest

December 9, 2013

The words to describe “Doc” would be a scholar, a gentleman, and a true friend with an infectious smile. However, his best quality would be the incredible devotion he had for you Ellyn-Mae and he did not mind letting the world know it. Our hearts go out to the entire family at this time and hope you find comfort now and days to come. Doc, you will be sorely missed and will remain in our hearts forever.
Rest in Peace dear friend.

Deborah Morefield

December 8, 2013

Hi Ellyn Mae, My deepest sympathies for your loss. I will say a special prayer for you and your family. Blessings, Deb Morefield. CMT your massage therapist.

December 8, 2013

I know that Dr. Friedman was a great man, humanitarian and animal lover. I wish that I could have met him. My sincere condolences to Mrs. Friedman and family.

Janine Braun

Geoff Stone

December 8, 2013

To the family of Dr. Friedman we send our prayers and love. Virginia and Geoff Stone, Richmond, VA

Shirley Hoodin

December 8, 2013

Ellyn Mae, my thoughts and prayers are with you now.

Rosalie Sanchez

December 8, 2013

The sky is crying rain today to mourn the loss of such a great man. Dr Friedman certainly left the legacy of a man of intelligence, morals and ethics, respect and honor of his Jewish faith and heritage, devotion to his wife and family, and a medical practice which reflected professionalism and true caring about his patients. His spirit of excellence in all aspects of his life was a shining star.

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