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Brian Mann Obituary

Brian Scott Mann, age 52, of Virginia Beach, passed away on August 31, 2019 after a long, hard fought battle with cancer. Over the past three and a half years he fought fearlessly and flaunted his sense of humor in the face of cancer on a daily basis.

In the words of his hero, Jim Valvano: "Cancer can take away all of my physical abilities. It cannot touch my mind, it cannot touch my heart, and it cannot touch my soul. And those three things are going to carry on forever." Brian lived this motto flawlessly.

He is survived by his wife, Dasa Mann and their two sons, Josh and Kyle, his sister Cindy Mann Greenert, her husband Craig and their two children Jordan and Carson, along with many extended family members.

Brian began his successes while at Princess Anne Middle School when he won city and state titles in wrestling. He set the record for the fastest pin (3 seconds) as a junior in high school and held a city record for shot put and discus. He played football throughout all of his middle school and high school years and was a dominating offensive lineman (left tackle) that was heavily recruited by numerous recognized universities.

Brian was a graduate of Green Run High School and earned a Bachelor's Degree in Special Education from Old Dominion University and a Master's Degree in Special Education with an emphasis in Autism and Severe and Profound Disabilities from Hampton University.

In 1986, Brian began working in the world of concert security. By age 19, he was the Security Director at The Boathouse in Norfolk, VA overseeing some of the world's most famous artists and musical groups. He served in that capacity for a decade in addition to working numerous concert venues throughout the state.

After earning his education degree, Brian began teaching Special Education for Norfolk SECEP Autism Spectrum Program. He was awarded Teacher of the Year for the 1990-1991 school year; his first year as an education professional. He also taught Special Education at Lake Taylor and Maury High Schools. In 1997, Brian began his twenty-two years of dedicated service at Ocean Lakes High School where he served as a teacher and Department Chairman for Special Education, and a valued member of the Leadership Team. While teaching and leading at Ocean Lakes, Brian created an exemplary Work Experience Program for students with disabilities. He developed a functional curriculum for students with Intellectual Disabilities providing them with the skills they need to be independent. As a Department Chairman, Brian's efforts were often admired by colleagues in the division for establishing and sustaining an exceptional Special Education program. While at Ocean Lakes, Brian was designated a Distinguished Teacher and Exemplary Leader award. In addition, he served on the Board of Directors at Sugar Plum Bakery, supporting and promoting employees with disabilities.

As a professional educator, Brian was not only a beloved colleague and teacher but also a friend to everyone he met and a source of strength for all who knew him. Brian combined creativity and enthusiasm in his teaching and leading. Brian was kind, confident, and capable, especially in stressful situations. The confidence he displayed calmed all around him. Brian had a refined sense of humor and an easy-going manner. He showed empathy, and he cared about you, your work, and your ideas.

Throughout his career in education, Brian remained optimistic and dedicated to his students. He had both passion and concern for students with special needs. Regardless of their capabilities or behavior, Brian respected and treated them as unique individuals with unique gifts. Brian always had a wonderful rapport with his students; they respected, admired, and loved him.

In the late 1990's through the mid 2000's, in his spare time, Brian was a little league football coach. In the words of his fellow coach, "Brian was the brains behind our team but never took credit. As he was prone to do in life- he was always putting others first." Brian taught respect for others and how to have fun whether they won or lost. He celebrated undefeated seasons and championships with the players, many of whom went on to play high school and college ball and would call Brian their hero.

In 1996, Brian was appointed the position of Security Director for the newly built Virginia Beach Amphitheater. He remained in that position until his passing, completing twenty-three seasons hosting some of the world's top notch entertainers. He was a revered leader that stepped out of the box of Security Director on a daily basis. He led the way in preparation for crowd control, staffing, training, communication and personalizing each event for the entertainers as well as for the staff members. He created a one-of-a-kind rapport with the band's security teams, all the while making the concert experience a magical one for each guest. Every supervisor and staff member looked to Brian as their leader, their role model, and their loved one. He created an atmosphere that has remained bar none and is the true Rockstar of the amphitheater.

Whether in education, sports, or concert security, Brian was one of the best in his profession. He touched the lives of so many and had the biggest heart. One of the most generous, selfless, kind, and caring people you'll ever meet. A true gentle giant but as tough as they come. His presence filled a room, his infectious smile, his hearty laugh could light up any face. He was so genuine and made every single person he talked to feel important. He somehow had the power to make us want to be a better person without even realizing it. He was a constitution of strength, a magnificent, beautiful soul who made the most of his time here and left an indelible mark on the world.

In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to LivOnFoundation.org.

LivOn has been instrumental in providing Brian with financial aid for cancer treatments for the past three plus years.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, October 12, 2019 at 6:30 PM at the Virginia Beach Amphitheater. Condolences may be offered to the family at www.hollomon-brown.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Sep. 15, 2019.

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Annie

June 11, 2024

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Timothy Nash

January 6, 2021

Timothy Nash

January 6, 2021

Dear Brain,

Hi This is Timothy Nash i am brain Former Coach for Wrestling.. I want to tell you Brain you are so Awesome that teaching me how to wrestling in high school (Ocean Lakes High School) in 2000-200...

Sherry Boyd

October 14, 2019

We were very sad. to hear of the passing of Brian. Mann
He had such a wonderful way with special needs kids! Our son is autistic and was going to the parks and rec camp during the summer.
On the first day one year he came home and started to talk about his councler Big Brian
he was so excited about him Scott never talked about any councler before but he sure did talk about Brian Mann

Brian asked if he could take Scott out for an outing I said yes and he came and got our son
Then to our surprise he had him as his teacher at Ocean Lakes!
At one time during a Special Olympic eventhe carried Scott on his shoulders!!
We send our. thoughts and prayers to his family. He was a very special man

Bree Farrell-Biechlin

October 5, 2019

My heart is broken for all of you. I'm praying for you Dasa ..

September 20, 2019

Dasa, Josh, and Kyle--I was saddened to learn that Brian had passed. It was a long journey, but I never saw anyone so brave and steadfast in his resolve to carry-on. God bless each of you. Les Lilley

529 Broad Street powers

September 18, 2019

After this wonder uplifting history of Mr. Mann , I cried..tears of pride and wonderment, tears of thanksgiving. It is the Manns in this world that make this planet really golden and worthwhile. Mr. Mann's family have every right to hold up their heads with pride and joy. Yes, there will be tears of sadness, but let the tears of pride, honor, and strength flow also. Let the memory of Mr. Mann be long remembered and revered. May his fellow educators and associates carry on his work in tribute. May God embrace his soul and cover his family with His love and comfort..

September 18, 2019

Dasa and Family,

We love and miss Brian dearly - thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family . . . in so many ways, Brian touched us all - always know this . . . heroes are always remembered, but legends like Brian NEVER die!

Betsy Fertucci

September 18, 2019

Mr Mann was my sons special ed teacher back 20 years ago. We were having so many issues with Robert and Mr Mann helped us get Rob into city programs designed to help. Without that help, I dont know where wed be today. He was a God send. God Bless you Mr Mann, and Gods peace with the family.

Ron Ross

September 16, 2019

Brian was a great man, husband, father and friend. Many of us that knew and worked with Brian strived to be like him. I can hear Brian quoting Jimmy Valvano and meaning every word.

To the Mann Family, I am so very sorry. Rest easy my Friend.

Carol Koceja

September 15, 2019

Brian was smart, articulate and generous! His smile and kindness will be remembered forever! God bless his family!

Aimee Demers

September 14, 2019

I had the pleasure to work with Brian at the amphitheater and as a special education colleague. He was truly an angel on earth. He made everyone he met feel special and better for knowing him. Condolences to his family. The Dolphin family will truly miss Brian.

Troy Breathwaite

September 14, 2019

My condolences to the Mann family. Brian was one of the nicest people I ever met at Green Run High School and he will be sorely missed.

Bonnie Thiele

September 14, 2019

Suzi Dunn

September 14, 2019

I am 1 of Dasa manns best friends for over 20 years. I remember when she got the job and met Brian at the amphitheater. They have had a true amazing love story. He was an amazing husband to Dasa and a great father to Josh and Kyle. He was such a nice, funny and intelligent guy. He is very loved and missed. He will never be forgotten.......love and support and prayers to his family and friends....

Donna Dana

September 14, 2019

All my love to Dasa, Kyle and Josh. Thank you for sharing Brain. He was and always will be a wonderful presence in my life. Know it is hard now but soon you will laugh and smile when you think of him. He will always be with you. Love you guys. A big bear hug for you all.

Bobb D

September 14, 2019

Proverbs 27:17 As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.He sharpened me.

September 14, 2019

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Jared and Pam Weibley

Lennie Hooten

September 13, 2019

My family offers our sincerest condolences to Dasa, Josh, Kyle, and the rest of Brian's family, as well as to the many, many people who had the good fortune to have met Brian throughout the years. Memories of his generous manner and dedication to others will live on in the hearts and minds of those who were better for having known him. We send prayers of comfort as you find your way through your loss.
Bobby, Lennie, and Jonathan Hooten

Rachel Taylor

September 13, 2019

Gone too soon. Remarkable and wonderful life leaving his mark so positively and selflessly on others. My love to Dasa, Josh and Kyle. May he always be in your heart, mind and soul. I will miss him as we all will.

Lisa Anderson Riley

September 13, 2019

I had the pleasure of working with Brian for over 12 years. He really is a one of a kind. I am going to miss our friendship and times we worked together so much. It's just not the same since he passed away. I always loved our conversations whether it be about work or our pets or life in general. Sending heartfelt condolences to Desa, Josh, Kyle and the entire Mann family as they navigate through these difficult times in their life. Rest Easy, Mann.

Kim Johnston

September 13, 2019

I worked with Brian for a few years at the amphitheatre. He was a great guy. HWe often talked about his work with his special education students. He touched a lot of lives. Rest in Peace

Tanya LeBleu

September 13, 2019

I only knew him from working at the amphitheater, and this was my first year. He always had a smile on his face and he was a great motivator at our pre-work rallies. Going to miss him. #mannup

Heather Fulton

September 13, 2019

Going to miss his Smile, his Jokes and his laughs he was a good man it's was a honor to have meet him

Kathy Peterson

September 13, 2019

To know him was to love him. A big man with a big heart. A smile that would change a gloomy day to rays of sunshine. A tender to those who needed a little extra love. A soul full of kindness and empathy. A spirit from Heaven above. He loved his family and friends with all he had. He found his soulmate in Dana and loved his boys. I'll miss him. I loved him. He'll be a part of my heart always. Rest, sweet Brian. I believe you're all better now.

George Hoppe

September 13, 2019

It is said that a true friend is one you may not see for a long time and yet when you get together it as if no time had passed at all. Brian exemplified this. Every time we would see each other it was as if no time had passed at all.
I first met Brian in the early 80's when we were both lifting weights at Living Well on Holland Road and then when we both started working for Cellar Door. I have very fond memories of car pooling to concerts with Brian either in his Chevy Station Wagon or my tiny Mazda; Brian never complained about the snug fit in the Mazda and ALWAYS made the ride to and from the concerts in either vehicle one of laughter and joy. Over the years, I could always count on seeing that warm and genuine smile and know I was gonna get a hug. The last time I saw Brian was at the Zach Brown concert when he made a point of finding me and giving me that hug and smile and allowing me to share some laughs as we reminisced about days past; he never ever let me know that he was anything but happy to see me and only spoke of his health when I asked....not wanting to take away from our laughs. Knowing Brian and being able to have called him Friend was and will remain to be a true blessing in my life. My heartfelt condolences go out to Dasa, Josh, Kyle and the rest of Brian's family; may God keep you in his care and grant you his strength, love and peace in this difficult time and always. I know that Heaven has gotten a True Angel and will be a happier place with Brian there......I look forward someday seeing you again Brian; I know the smile and hug will be waiting for me.

Kennieth Washington

September 13, 2019

My condolences to the Mann family. Thank you Brain for teaching me how to be a better person .

GARY RUSHWORTH

September 13, 2019

This is a very very hard loss for all of us that had the pleasure of knowing this caring brilliant, Lovely human being. He was a close friend all the years we worked together at Virginia Beach Amphitheater and never far from my thoughts and prayers after. He was kind, Strong, and one of the best bloody Security Directors I have ever known. God Speed my friend your with the Good Lord now..

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