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Lt. Gen. Charles Joseph "Chuck" Cunningham Jr.

1932 - 2022

Lt. Gen. Charles Joseph "Chuck" Cunningham Jr. obituary, 1932-2022, Va Beach, VA

Charles Cunningham Obituary

Lieutenant General Charles J. Cunningham Jr. passed away on 17 November 2022 at the age of 90 surrounded by friends and family following a short illness at his home in Virginia Beach. His life exemplified one of love, service and dedication to his faith, family, friends and nation.

Chuck was born 19 July 1932 in Philadelphia to Charles Cunningham and Lillian Felden. He earned a bachelor's degree in political science from Florida State University; a master's degree in business administration from The George Washington University; and a doctorate in public administration from Nova University. He is a graduate of many Service schools including the Army War College.

Lt Gen Cunningham entered the Air Force through the aviation cadet program in June 1954 at Harlingen Air Force Base for navigator training. Upon receiving his wings, he was commissioned a second lieutenant and was assigned to various bases where he flew the C-124 Globemaster II. In 1957 he took time off to marry the love of his life, Letitia Delores Tamburino, at the Little Flower Catholic Church in Coral Cables, Florida. A family of six children and many assignment driven moves soon followed, including predawn departures, road map reading instruction for his little "navigators", and memorable roadside picnics.

The general continued his lifelong military calling and love affair with flying when he entered pilot training in 1959. From there, he began his piloting career as an instructor at Vance Air Force Base. In June 1965, he was assigned to Luke Air Force Base for F-100 training. In 1965, Chuck transferred to Hahn Air Base, Germany, where he served as a squadron pilot and flight commander.

Chuck was subsequently qualified in the F-4 Phantom and in 1967, he joined the 389th Tactical Fighter Squadron at Da Nang Air Base in Vietnam. After completing 100 missions over North Vietnam, he was assigned to Headquarters 7th Air Force at Tan Son Nhut Air Base as the F-4 combat tactics officer, and continued to fly combat missions until 1968.

Upon conclusion of his first combat tour, Chuck was assigned to the U.S. Air Force Academy, where he served as an Air Officer Commanding and member of the commandant's staff in the Airmanship Division under Brig General Robin Olds.

In 1970, he was assigned to fighter operations at Holloman Air Force Base and returned to combat operations in 1971 as commander of the 480th Tactical Fighter Squadron at Phu Cat Air Base, Vietnam. He completed his second tour of duty in 1972, bringing his total number of combat missions to 366.

Following graduation from the Army War College, he was assigned to Headquarters U.S. Air Force as executive assistant to the undersecretary of the Air Force. Following that assignment, Chuck went on to command the 56th Tactical Fighter Wing, at MacDill Air Force Base in Florida.

In 1979, the general took command of the 57th Fighter Weapons Wing at Nellis AFB, Nevada where he also served as commandant of the Air Force Fighter Weapons School. In 1980, he returned to the Pentagon as director for Air Force programs and evaluation and in 1985 he took command of 12th Air Force, Tactical Air Command at Bergstrom Air Force Base, Texas.

In addition to the F-100 and F-4, the general was also qualified in the F-15, F-16 and the prototype F-20 Tigershark. When he retired from the Air Force in 1987, he had more than 6,000 flying hours. His flying did not stop however, and he logged many more hours enjoying his Stearman and Piper Cub aircraft.

Chuck's military decorations and awards were numerous, and include the Distinguished Flying Cross with seven oak leaf clusters, Bronze Star Medal, and Air Medal with 27 oak leaf clusters.

Following his Air Force retirement, Chuck's many career accomplishments continued in both the public and private sectors, including Director Defense Security Service and executive positions within the Office of the Secretary of Defense and the Defense Intelligence Agency. He culminated his long and distinguished career as a professor at the Joint Forces Staff College in Norfolk, where he was inducted into the schools Hall of Fame in 2022 following his retirement in 2017.

Chuck was predeceased by his loving and devoted wife of 60 years, Tish, and their third child Christine. He is survived by five children: Patricia LaForge (Phil), Mary Balog (Mike), Charles III (Melani), John Michael (Jim), Timothy (Mindy) and his brother Phil (Margaret), along with ten grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.

The family will receive friends on 7 December from 5-8pm at Altmeyer Funeral Home Southside Chapel on Rouse Dr in Virginia Beach. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church in Norfolk the following day, 8 December at 10:30 AM. Following a short reception, burial with full military honors will take place at the Albert G. Horton Jr. Memorial Veterans Cemetery in Suffolk.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Nov. 27, 2022.

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Sevana Lake

November 22, 2024

It seems only recently that I by chance came across his obituary....Time is as a mist some days and a rushing creek on other days!
May the shared memories of the years be treasures in your hearts. God's comfort.
Sevana Lake

John Stack

November 21, 2024

I still miss his guidance and his suggestions. And most of all, I miss the inclusion in the Cunningham family, especially around the holidays. What fun. Miss all of you tremendously. Happy holidays to all the Cunningham clan.

John Stack

March 22, 2024

Still thinking of this wonderful man. He was a great mentor an friend.

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March 21, 2024

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Sevan Moumjian

March 21, 2024

I was a Cadet in Civil Air Patrol and first met Chuck Cunningham III and became fast friends. Later by mere chance, Chuck's father was selected to present certain awards and I was one of the recipients. I quickly noticed where Chucks good all American looks and heart came from.
I am sure his presence will be missed deeply.
May God glorify his soul and may his Memory be Eternal!

If it's not too inconvenient. I would like to hear from Chuck and catch up with all his wonderful years!
[email protected]
Thank you....

John Fairfield, Lt. Gen. USAF (Retired)

November 21, 2023

He's "still flying" in my memory. Thanks to Mary - his F-5 photo is now in it's rightful place at Nellis AFB. There was never a better boss nor a more caring Airman who considered the Air Force as part of his family. I owe every promotion from Captain to Lieutenant General to this friend and mentor.

William Faust

November 21, 2023

We will miss his friendship and guidance. He was truley an original person and the mold was broken after his birth. He is surely missed but is with his wife and daughter.
Bill & Gini

John Stack

November 21, 2023

General C was a mentor, and a friend, impossible to put into words. His presence in my life continues to be missed.

Jim Stead

January 2, 2023

I didn't have the opportunity to work for the General, but I got to know him when a good friend became his son-in-law. There were weddings where I got to know him and the family, and had meals at an oyster bar when he came to Tallahassee, but one thing stands out because it makes me think of him often. At a wedding when I feared he may be concerned about the late arrival of a key contingent, I said "don't worry, General, they'll be here". He turned to me and said "no problem, Jim, I had a pad built in". As someone who was habitually tardy that turned out to be a revelation; I have use for that constantly, and remember him every time.

Timothy G. Teltow

December 12, 2022

I was assigned to the 56th Security Police Squadron back in 1977 when General Cunningham was at that time our Wing Commander. I actually met the General very early one morning when I made a traffic stop on him because his Staff car did not have any tail-lights. Having only one (1) strip on my sleave at the time, in was scared to to high heaven. When we made contact, the General was absolutely wonderful and extremely respectful. That was the moment I realized if you act honestly, respectfully and professional in the U.S. Air Force, you'll be fine. I have since retired from the U.S. Air Force. General Cunningham was a very, very fine man. I am very, very sorry to hear of his passing.

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Jennifer Scholl

December 8, 2022

Mary and Mike,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Chuck was exceptionally kind, intelligent, accomplished and had a great sense of humor! You both showed devotion that is rarely seen and Chuck was so proud of you. He is with your sweet mother, rejoicing as we speak! It was an honor to know him.

Amanda Nesmith

December 7, 2022

I only met Chuck a few years ago. He was a close friend of my father in-law. I didn't know him as a general -- just a guy, a husband, a Catholic, and a decent man. He welcomed my husband and I as if we were old friends. Reading his bio, I'm impressed with his accomplishments, but you never would have known how much he had done because he was so humble and gracious. Tish was always so kind to us and our boys as parishoners at Pius. It was difficult to watch him navigate through that loss -- our solace lies in knowing that he is now with her. Our prayers to his family.

Andrea Tolbert

December 7, 2022

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

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John Wilkinson, Brigadier General (ret.), USAFR

December 6, 2022

I met, and worked with, General Cunningham while he was Commandant of PGIC and I was the commander of Air Force Intelligence Reserve Detachment 50 at DIA. An outstanding mentor and friend, he was excellent at motivating, guiding and developing the talents (hidden and otherwise) of those of us who were fortunate enough to work with and for him. His vision and foresight in creating the weekend Master's Program for the Post-Graduate Intelligence Program has paid enormous dividends both to the intelligence community and to the individuals who were able to take advantage of the program. I have always considered it an honor to have known, and worked for, General C. I will miss his friendship, his intellect, his enthusiasm...and the twinkle he would get in his eye as he was about to give you an assignment to further develop and implement one of his priorities.

Lorna Tumelaire

December 5, 2022

Lorna Tumelaire, Cemetery Representative with the Albert G. Horton, Jr. Memorial Veterans Cemetery. I had a brief conversation with Mr. Mike Balog and his wife, Mary, and was happy to review Mr. Cunningham's obituary. What an amazing person. Just wow!

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Lt Col Lynn High, USAF (ret)

December 4, 2022

I served on the wing staff when he commanded the 57FWW at Nellis AFB. His leadership was exceptional and an inspiration to me.

Kent Schlussel

December 2, 2022

I met LTG Cunningham after he retired from the Air Force and was the Commandant at the Joint Military Intelligence College (JMIC). When he was establishing the PGIP-R program and attempting to obtain full accreditation for JMIC, he interviewed me and became my mentor. Chuck, as he told me to call him, had the foresight to implement programs that made the JMIC a better institution. I also worked with him while he was in Ottawa on several projects Chuck was always helpful and a true gentleman with a drive to make this world a better place. An act of kindness that I remember was the handwritten personal note he sent expressing his condolences when I lost my parents in an auto accident. I learned much from knowing Chuck and I am thankful to have known him. Chuck served our nation well as a role model and leader. Thank you to the Cunningham family for "lending" him to us. We will miss his wisdom and leadership. The Cunningham family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kent Schlussel, Ph.D.
Colonel, USAF (Ret)
Charlottesville, Virginia

Tom Van Wagner

December 2, 2022

General Cunningham served as the 15th Commandant of the Defense Intelligence College from 1991-1994, which is now the National Intelligence University. During his tenure he oversaw a significant growth in part-time offerings, including a graduate program for Military Reservists which met in a typical reserve drill schedule: one weekend each month and a two-week intensive session each summer. He also established a Saturdays-only offering of the Master of Science of Strategic Intelligence degree program, and a satellite campus at Wright-Patterson AFB in Ohio. Although he faced some bureaucratic headwinds to the expansion of after-hours offerings, history has shown that General C's vision paid off in the long term. Today, part-time enrollments account for more than 70% of the University´s total headcount enrollment.

General Cunningham´s legacy endures today through the careers of the students he handed diplomas to at graduation each year, a group that includes current and former heads of U.S. Intelligence Agencies, including the current Director of the National Security Agency.

Brig. General,USAFR-ret John A. Hurley

December 1, 2022

It was an honor and an inspiration to know him and have the benefit of his knowledge, experience and leadership. V/R John A. Hurley,BG,USAFR-ret

Elizabeth Swinford

November 29, 2022

As a close friend of the family, both Chuck and Tish welcomed me to their home for many a holiday meal and always had an honorary place setting for me just in case I could make it. So much love and hospitality has been shared with me by their whole family and I even had the honor of being welcomed by them in Belgium. My thoughts and prayers go out to the whole Cunningham family. I am a better person for being included in their lives. Both Chuck and Tish will be fondly remembered by me for the rest of my days.

Lovingly, Elizabeth Swinford

Lt Gen (Ret) Dave Deptula

November 27, 2022

Gen Cunningham was a mentor and inspiration over my career. He invited me to speak while he was at DIA and at Joint Forces Staff College. He was an insightful leader who understood airpower and had a great way of interacting with others to get them to understand better than before they met Chuck. It was an honor and a pleasure to get to know him. Rest in peace and here's a nickel on the grass for you...and your spirit, enthusiasm, sacrifice and courage.

John Stanley Fairfield

November 27, 2022

This man was my mentor and dear friend for over fifty years. I first worked for him as a Captain in the Pentagon. I was fresh from F-4's from Vietnam, he was my Division Chief already serving three tours in VN. Listening to my compliants about the lack of training he quietly told me to turn a tragedy into a trimuph. Long story short - this was the start of Operation Red Flag which continues today at Nellis AFB. When he called me to return to the Pentagon, he a LtGen and me a Colonel, he challenged me and others to changed the we we trained fighter units (Designed Operational Capability), move front line forces to the Guard and Reserves, and harmonize the POM process with the other services to present a cohesive startegy to OSD and the Congress. He led this effort while giving focus to those doing the work. After our military service and his retirement from Defense Intelligence, I worked with him in DynCorp where he again brought simplicity and effectiveness to commercial support to the government. He was always teaching with the expectation that whatever blesses on blesses all. He was a dedicated husband and father and will always be remembered by me and my family as one whose light will be set on a candlestick for all to emulate. God bless this epitome of a servant leader. John Fairfield, LtGen , USAF (Retired)

Lester P Brown Jr, Major General Ret.

November 27, 2022

Chuck Cunningham was the finest leader I ever worked for. He was the consummate Airman. He led by example in the air and on the ground. He and his wife Tish were devout Catholics and models for everyone. God has taken him to a reward in heaven with Tish.

John Stack, captain, USN ,(ret)

November 27, 2022

Best boss I ever served with. He was known to me as General C, and to my wife Mary as Chuck. Too many great times with General C and his family to recount here. He is finally at his last assignment with Tish.

General C, you will be sorely missed, but forever loved.

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Steve Billings

November 24, 2022

General Cunningham,

We most sincerely thank you and salute you for your many years of service and sacrifices in the defense of these United States of America.

Steve Billings
VP, F-4 Phantom II Society

LTG Patrick M Hughes USA ret

November 24, 2022

It was my great honor and pleasure to serve with Lieutenant General Chuck Cunningham, USAF. He was a great `intelligence executive´ and a superb partner for the Defense Intelligence Agency (DIA) over several years. He supported DIA in many ways including some very specific intelligence and security work that only a man of his experience and ability could have done for our nation. The obituary testifies to his personal valor, to his exceptional record as a combat pilot and senior U.S. Air Force officer. He was a fine man, a complete gentleman, and completely honest. I offer my final salute. See you at the next rally point Chuck. Montana 6 out!

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