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Charles Gaylord Neelley

1928 - 2023

Charles Gaylord Neelley obituary, 1928-2023, Sheridan, VA

Charles Neelley Obituary

Charles Gaylord Neelley, Captain, U.S. Navy (Retired), passed away on June 10, 2023 in Sheridan, WY, at the age of 94. He was born on December 31,1928 in Pleasant Garden, NC to Ralph G. Neelley and Annie Jo (Butler) Neelley.

Growing up in Pleasant Garden, CAPT Neelley took on many different jobs helping neighbors with the numerous country chores needed to run farms and small local businesses. His proudest achievement from his pre-college years was earning the highest rank possible in scouting, the Eagle Scout. A 1952 graduate of Guilford College with a degree in economics, CAPT Neelley entered the US Navy. Not long afterwards, in 1954, he married his sweetheart, the former Mary Catherine Coble. They were married for 22 years before Catherine passed after a long struggle with cancer.

During his early years in the United States Navy, CAPT Neelley was a supply officer aboard the aircraft carrier the USS Oriskany, serving both in Korea and completing two combat tours in Vietnam. Due to his exceptional performance, the Navy sent him to George Washington University where he earned an MBA. His military career culminated after 30 years of service as the Senior Supply Officer, Naval Air Station Norfolk.

After retiring from the Navy, CPT Neelley returned to college at Old Dominion University, in Virginia, to pursue the study of art. There his passion for Western art led to regular trips to visit the Western United States. In 1992, he followed his dreams and found a new home in the small town of Story, WY, located in the foothills of the Big Horn Mountains. A lifelong avid golf and tennis player, artist, horseman, dog lover, and outdoorsman, CPT Neelley was outgoing, gregarious, and loved by all who came within his social circle. He is survived by his three children, Rebecca (Neelley) Rundle, Charles "Chuck" Neelley Jr., and Cynthia (Neelley) Musco. He also leaves five grandchildren, one great grandchild, and his partner of many years, Cindy Perciful.

A graveside service will be conducted at 2:00 PM on Saturday, June 24th, 2023 at Pleasant Garden United Methodist Church Cemetery. The family will receive friends immediately following the service at the church. The family requests that in lieu of flowers memorial contributions be made to Pleasant Garden United Methodist Church.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jun. 18, 2023.

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Andy Wolchko

June 28, 2023

Cyndi, Thinking of you and praying for your family. Miss and love you. God Bless you and your family.

Steve Zahn

June 20, 2023

We were so very sorry to read about his passing. My brother and I grew up around the corner and he was an occasional guest, not to mention the time I spent at his neighbor, the Marrs. My father´s first question when I passed on the news was....did he make it to Wyoming. Glad to convey he did. Our condolences to the family. Richard (Dick) and Frances Zahn, Rick (Kerry) Zahn, and Steve (Angela) Zahn. Baycliff, VB.

John Vaughan

June 18, 2023

Remember Capt Neelley well as my XO at Naval Supply Center Norfolk 40-some years. His emphasis on manual management by objective listings pre-dated the computer age and related commercial products that followed. Unrelated, recall frequent auto battery charging problems would bring him to the Code-900 compound for assistance of our ET´s. A good man has left us. Rest in peace.

Lynn Goodbody Davidson

June 18, 2023

Becky,

I was so sorry to read your dad´s obituary in today´s paper. May peace be with your family and you.

With condolences,
Lynn Goodbody Davidson

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