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Eddie Lee Hackworth Jr.

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Eddie Lee Hackworth Jr. obituary, 1941-2019, Hampton, VA

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Eddie Hackworth Obituary

It is with great sadness that Eddie Lee Hackworth, Jr US Army Maj. (ret.), passed away unexpectedly on April 9, 2019. Ed (Butch affectionately called by his family) was born on May 5, 1941 to Mabel (Kennedy) and Eddie Hackworth in Lynchburg, Va. His mother was the Director of the Student Health Center at Lynchburg College, but he decided not to go to Lynchburg College but to Clemson University from where he graduated in 1964 with a BS in forestry and biology. After graduation, Ed was drafted into the military, went to OCS and then to the Defense Language Institute to learn Vietnamese. Upon course completion, he served as a Vietnamese Advisor in Vietnam, often being in the jungle for a week at a time with his platoon. Upon his return, he was at Fort Sill, Oklahoma and assigned to the 82nd Field Artillery, where he had training in Pershing Missiles. His next assignment was in Neckarsulm, Germany, where he became the S2 officer in charge of three Pershing missile sites. While in Germany, he met the love of his life, Heide, who was a student at the University of Heidelberg. They married in 1975. He then pursued an MA in International Relations and Law from Boston University. After spending three years in Germany, Ed and Heide transferred to Fort Monroe, Va. where Ed worked at TRADOC in different positions. After that, they spent another tour in Germany. This time, in Heidelberg at the USAREUR Headquarters and CENTAG NATO until they transferred to Fort Meade, MD. Ed decided to retire from the military after 20 years of distinguished service and start a new career as a Civil Service employee working 24 years for the military as a military mobilization and training analyst at Fort Monroe, Va. and Fort Eustis, Va. During his military service, he received many honors including the Bronze Star, Meritorious Service (Oak Leaf Cluster), Army Commendation Medal, National Defense Service Medal, Vietnam Service Medal, Vietnam Campaign Medal, Armed Forces Reserve Medal, Combat Infantry Badge, 2 O/S Bars, Vietnam Gallantry Cross with Bronze Star, Vietnam Gallantry Cross with Palm, Overseas Service Medal, Vietnam Staff Service Medal (1 Oak Leaf Cluster), Marksman Badge Pistol .45 Cal, and Expert badge Rifle M16. Ed was an avid outdoorsman and an active member of the Southwark Hunt Club. He loved to fish and hunt. He enjoyed taxidermy and was very talented in this hobby. He was a skilled gun stock engraver and an excellent target shooter. He and his wife belonged to a skeet shooters club in Germany. He loved all animals, especially his grand dog Ollie, who misses him. Ed was pre-deceased by his parents, his mother-in-law Helene Bernecker Stock, father-in-law Kurt Stock, and brother-in-law Helmut Stock. Ed is survived by his beloved wife Heide, and his son, and best buddy, William, who adores him. He is also survived by two brothers Gerald Hackworth (Gail), Virginia Beach, and Robert Hackworth (Frances), Forest, Va. and a sister, Kay Arthur (Wayne) Forest, Va. Ed is also survived by his beloved German family Conny Stock (Jurgen), Maria Stock, Uli Stock, Robin Stock, Julia Fuchs, Thomas Fuchs, the Sipeer and Dompert family, and many cousins, nephews and nieces, too numerous to mention.The family will receive friends from 4-5pm Monday, April 15, 2019 at Gloria Dei Lutheran Church, 250 Fox Hill Rd, Hampton, VA. A memorial service will begin at the church at 5 pm followed by a reception. The interment with full military honors will be held at 11:00 am, Tuesday in Peninsula Memorial Park, 12750 Warwick Blvd, Newport News.Services are entrusted to R. Hayden Smith Funeral Home, Hampton.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Apr. 14, 2019.

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Brian, Syd, and Lilly Hackworth

December 26, 2020

Dear Heide and Will,

We'll miss Butch! We saw only a small sliver of his life, but particularly remember the sparkle in his eye and the mirthful grin he'd get when talking about some of his childhood exploits. He was a great man.

All our love,

Bill Godina

December 10, 2020

I was shocked to hear of Eddie’s
Passing. He was an outstanding officer, but more importantly he was good man. It’s sad how we sometimes loose track of friends.

Charlie and Pattie Bye

December 6, 2020

Heide and Will, Eddie was a great man-- Loyal to his family and to his country. It is our honor to have known him and to know you and Will. The Last Salute is such an honor and tribute to a very fine person! Love is all around you and always will be! Pattie and Charlie.

Tom Markham

November 29, 2020

Dear Heide and Will,

John and I were shocked and dismayed at learning of Ed's untimely death, certain that his absence from your lives continues to be painful and enervating for you both. And we are certain also that though he is not there with you, he is still present in your lives every day. Please accept our deepest sympathy for your loss and for the sadness that it has brought into your lives.

While we have been away from Hampton Roads for quite a while now, we still remember with great fondness how friendly and hospitable Ed always was to us whenever we were entertained in your home and how well you and Ed complemented each other, Heide. Our time working together as colleagues in VBCPS provides many fond memories, too. Will, we are so sorry for the loss of your father.

Fondly,
Tom Markham and
John Carbaugh

April 9, 2020

Dear Heide and Will,

Our hearts are so very sadden by your loss. They say time makes everything better. It doesn't take away the missing holidays and great events that he has missed for this last year. It is still a shock and void after a year of Ed's passing from this earth.

Our memories will never fade seeing the twinkle in his eyes when he asked about a family member. The pride he had for his family for their hard work and kindness they showed to others. Hopefully, he knew the respect we had for his service in the military and being a great neighbor.

We wish we could say thank you Ed for being a wonderful neighbor and friend. We wish we could share a moment or ask a question. One year later all we can do is reflect and let your family know we are here for them. Also, during this time of the pandemic gives us time to reflect on our freedom, thankfulness for our friends, neighbors and loved ones.

The Ghaffari family

Catherine Gooding

June 15, 2019

Heide y Will,

Estaré orando por ustedes. Deseo que la memoria de Ed esté siempre con ustedes y que los recuerdos les traiga felicidad y paz.

Cathy Gooding

Michael Drake

June 13, 2019

Dear Heide and Will,
We are so sorry to learn about Ed passing. We will miss him dearly. I recall his wry sense of humor and our after work times at the Chamberlain. Good times we had. God's blessings to you at this time of mourning.
Michael and Evelyn Drake

Rubicelia Weitzner

May 30, 2019

Estimada Heide,
Mi familia y yo les mandamos a tu hijo y a ti, nuestro más sentido pésame. Esperando que en estos momentos de luto, encuentres paz en la vida que comparieron con Ed. Con todo nuestro respeto y cariño. Rubicelia Weitzner y familia.

Hiromi Lamberson

May 30, 2019

Heidi and Will,
I am truly sorry for the loss of your husband/father.

Jim Clements

May 28, 2019

We were proud to call Eddie a member of the Clemson Family and an outstanding Clemson alumnus. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends.

Wendy Hackworth

May 27, 2019

Heide and Will, We offer our love, prayers and thoughts during this difficult time. Butch was always so kind to all of us. We will miss him! All our love,
Greg, Wendy, Jake, Megan and Luke

Felix Robles

May 21, 2019

Mrs. Hackworth, Green Run NJROTC are truly sorry to hear of the loss of your husband. Please accept our condolences and may our prayers help comfort you. You have been a great supporter of our program and will always be part of our family.

Montse Dickerson

May 21, 2019

Querida Heide y Will,
Sentimos tanto el fallecimiento de tu marido y padre.
Nuestras oraciones y pensamiento están con vosotros.
Con mucho cario
Montse y familia

Tiffany McFadden

May 21, 2019

To the Hackworth family and all those that knew and loved Mr. Eddie Hackworth, Although I never met the gentleman, may his memory live on through those who did and knew and loved him well. May the Lord grant you His perfect peace that goes beyond understanding, the comfort of support and love of those who remain, and the strength to go on from day to day without him here with you but forever in your hearts. Heide, you already know that I love you and that I will be here with you and for you along with the rest of our world languages department for whatever you and Will need. God bless you all!

Martina Stock

May 21, 2019

Liebe Heiderose und lieber William,
ich habe Ed fast gar nicht gekannt und bedaure das sehr. Ich bin ihm nur einmal in Deutschland begegnet und habe ihn als humorvollen und warmherzigen Menschen empfunden. Ich hätte ihn gerne näher kennengelernt. Er war mit Sicherheit ein liebevoller Vater und Ehemann und der Verlust für euch ist gro. In unser aller Gedanken wird er weiterhin da sein und nicht vergessen. Wir hier denken an ihn, aber auch in Verbundenheit an euch beide.
Martina

Sipeer

May 17, 2019

Liebe Heiderose und William,
von Uli haben wir die traurige Nachricht erhalten vom Heimgang von eurem lieben Ehemann und Vater Ed.
Es gilt euch beiden unsere herzlichste Anteilnahme. Wir hoffen und wünschen euch dass ihr die schwere Zeit gut übersteht. Wir denken an euch. In stiller Anteilnahme Ursula und Günter Sipeer mit Nicole und Marah

Mason Tarkenton

May 17, 2019

I never had the privilege of knowing Mr. Hackworth but I had the amazing opportunity of having Heidi as my German Teacher in high school. I offer my deepest condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Mason Tarkenton

Curt, Natalie, Addison, Brady Lique

May 15, 2019

Dear Miss Heide and Will,
We want to let you know how sorry we were to hear about your husband's/dad's passing. He was such a nice man.
Love,
Curt, Natalie, Addison and Brady Lique

Germaine Curtis

May 15, 2019

Dear Heide and Will,
Please accept my sincerest sympathy in the loss of your husband/father.
May God bless.
Sincerely,
Germaine Curtis

Pat Curtis-Lique

May 15, 2019

Dear Heide and Will,
I feel so lucky to be able to say that I knew Ed. He was truly a Southern gentleman. I will miss seeing him each time I visit your home. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Pat

Ron Lique

May 15, 2019

Ed,
Twenty-five years of deer and dove hunts, fishing trips, gun shows - buying and selling; twenty-five years of Navy and Army stories; and of course all the times you explained why Clemson football was the best. So many things we still had to do. I miss you! We were friends to the end and I know we will re-connect down the road.
Ron

Michele and Larry Linn

May 14, 2019

Dearest Heide and Will. I worked with Ed from 1995 until 2004, when I retired, and not only was he my mentor but my friend. As you know, we socialized every Friday night and really got to know each outside of the work environment and remained friends until life decided otherwise. Visiting Ed in the hospital meant the most to me as I could tell how much you and Will meant to him and reminiscing with you, Heide, brought back the Ed we knew and loved. We will stay in touch.

Donna Obrzut

May 14, 2019

Je ne connais pas Eddie, mais je travaille avec Heide, et j'ai fait la connaissance de leur fils William. Heide et William, je suis si désolée. Je vous adresse mes sincères condoléances.

Jakob Bradshaw

May 14, 2019

Although I've never met your husband, I could tell how great of a person he was by the things you've said about him. Thank you for everything you've done for me Frau. You have my prayers and you're in my thoughts always

May 13, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. bob and joan hudgins

Maria Nuzzo

May 13, 2019

I did not have the privilege to know Eddie, but I have known his wife, Heide, for many years. Heide, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your son. God bless you!

Cornelia Stock

May 10, 2019

Lieber Ed,

wir vermissen Dich alle sehr und hoffen, es geht Dir gut, wo auch immer Du gerade bist.
Du warst ein toller Mensch, ein loyaler und grossherziger Mann für Heide sowie ein grossartiger Vater
für William.
Wir werden Dich nie vergessen.

Chris Jacobs

May 9, 2019

Heide and Will,
We are so sorry for the loss of your husband and father. Heide, we have worked so many years together hearing stories about Ed and Will, and it is with deep sadness that we think about you and Will without him. Heide we know you are a very strong woman and we also know that you would not reach out for help but Michelle and I want you to know that our house is open to you and Will anytime. You are more than a colleague Heide....you are a great and honest friend whom we dearly love. We will be thinking of you and Will in the days ahead.
Chris, Michelle, Jack, Emma, and Henry Jacobs

Heide and Bill Ford

May 7, 2019

My wife and I are still in shock and disbelief at Ed's passing.
Ed and I served together in the Army in Germany during 1973-1975. Ed helped me clear the way in 1975 for me and my wife to be married in Heilbronn, Germany and Ed was my official "witness" (Best Man) at our wedding there. We always kept in touch, but, unfortunately, seldom saw each other, which is a great loss to us. Ed was a fine officer and a good friend. We will keep Ed, Heide and Will in our prayers.

Nancy Pindur

May 6, 2019

I was shocked to learn about Ed's passing. I can understand what emotions you and Will are experiencing. Know that you are not alone and have many friends that you can call upon for support. I still have fond memories of our get togethers on the weekends 20 some years ago! Tenez bonne as they say in French...hold on to the fond memories and reinvent your life because you are still in this life! You will be a mother -in-law, a grandma and who knows what more will come! Ed will be with you in Spirit. My prayers are with you.

May 6, 2019

I did not know Eddie, but sang in the choir for many years with his lovely wife, Heide. May the peace of our Lord be with you.
Ann Myers

Robert and Frances Hackworth

May 6, 2019

Dear Heide and Will, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We didn't see you often but it will be hard to know that Butch will not be there when we see you again. It must be hard for both of you but hang in there!

Edna I Perez

May 6, 2019

Praying for his eternal life, and for my friend Heide, his beautiful wife. That the Lord will give you strength until you see him again.

Kirk Komarnicki

May 6, 2019

Ed Hackwoth,
I first started working with Ed in September 2002 at Fort Monroe. Ed had been working for TRADOC in the Training Operations Management Activity for quite some time when I started working for TRADOC. Ed really understood all aspects of the job that I was hired to do, and I am glad, because he really helped me with some issues. Eds character and work ethic was always solid. Ed always worked diligently, and ensured whatever we worked on was accurate, and true. But, he also could make a good joke about some of issues. Ed had earned the respect of so many people we worked with at DA and at the training centers and schools. The people that he worked with never questioned his thoughts on issues he/we were working on. I was fortunate to have worked with Ed, as a team mate all those years until his retirement. But I am really proud to know him as my work mentor, and friend. I knew I could always count on Eds judgment and prof reading of my documents too keep me out of trouble. I guess the only thing I can say I regret about working with Ed; we didnt work together sooner on active duty in the Army. See you on the high ground Ed.
Kirk J Komarnicki

Ulrich Stock

May 5, 2019

I think with a heavy heart of my dear brother-in-law, Ed Hackworth, whose birthday would have been today, Sunday, May 5, and who left us unexpectedly and too early.

Dear God, please take good care of him!

Uli

Ulrich Stock

May 5, 2019

Erinnerungen sind kleine Sterne,
die tröstend in das Dunkel unserer Trauer leuchten.

Dear Ed,

you clearly left us too soon. We were not prepared for your sudden departure.
I wished I could see you one more time to chat with you, have another beer with you as we did so many times in famous and cozy places in Germany, or hold relevant discussions about current events. I wished we could go to Buckroe Beach in Hampton or to the Oceanfront in Virginia Beach for swimming or doing something else.
I wished you, your nephew Robin (my son) and I could go one more time fresh water fishing in the beautiful lakes in Virginia, or simply hang out together and listen to your famous records in your collection. Or, we could just reminisce about your time spent in Heilbronn and Heidelberg, Germany, and think of all the fun family events and gatherings we had and just be together with the family to enjoy life.
You have achieved so much in life and done so much for everyone in the family. Thank you for being a great brother-in-law!

You are in my thoughts and will always remain in my heart!
God bless you!
Until we will meet again ...

Your brother-in-law
Uli
Lindau (Lake Constance), Germany

Der Tod ist nicht das Ende, nicht die Vergänglichkeit,
der Tod ist nur die Wende, Beginn der Ewigkeit.

Carolyn Terray

May 4, 2019

What a remarkable life! We are so sorry to hear of your loss, but so thankful for the happy years you had together. We send our love and prayers to all of you.

Regina & Glenn Meigel

May 4, 2019

Dearest Heide and Will,
We were all so shocked by the news of Ed's passing. Our sincere sympathy and prayers go out to you both. May God's love help you through this sad time.

He was a wonderful man, friend, husband and father. We talk about our time together in Germany when you sponsored us even though it was a short time before you moved. We have kept in touch with you all since then/1984 (35 years), and will continue to do so.

God Bless you both and love,
Gina & Glenn Meigel

Carol Godley

May 3, 2019

Dear Heidi and Will, I was so very sorry to hear of this great loss to you of a dear husband and father. Please know that I am keeping you in thought and prayer.

Michael Kuykendall

May 3, 2019

Heide and Will, Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, May looking back in memory help comfort you in the future! I worked with Ed for so many years at Fort Monroe and on trips to so many installations that I truly felt he was was my Brother-in Arms. He was truly my mentor in the mobilization arena, and all things about antique guns, hunting and fishing. I remember when Will was born that was all he talked about for years to come. When I left Fort Monroe in 2001 we still kept in touch on a regular basis and he would provide me updates on his family. I may seem partial on how much he was loved by me as I was born in Neckarsulm and have relatives still there and in Heilbronn too!

Maria Still

May 2, 2019

Dear Heide and Will,

I am so sorry for your great loss of a husband and a father. My thoughts, prayers and love are with you.

Kay & Wayne Arthur

May 2, 2019

Butch will be missed by all of us. He was an honorable, humble man and a wonderful brother. Rest in Peace.

Jocelyne Harlack

May 2, 2019

Heide and Will,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences.

Murray Family

May 2, 2019

We are so very sorry about Ed. He was a special friend of our family for many years. Our prayers are with you (Heide)

Chuck and Susan Herbolsheimer

May 1, 2019

Sorry for your loss. Prayers and thoughts of comfort for all the Hackworth family.

Maria Stock

May 1, 2019

Lieber Ed,

ich wünschte, ich hätte dich noch öfters gesehen, öfters mit dir geredet, und dich trotz der kontinentalen Distanz besser kennengelernt. Aber als Conny und ich Dich, William und Heide in Hampton besucht haben, hat mir dieser, wenn auch kurzer, Aufenthalt gezeigt, was für ein ausgeglichener, sympathischer, loyaler und fairer Mensch du bist. Ich hoffe das behältst Du Dir bei, wo auch immer Du jetzt bist. Ich bin überzeugt, dass Du immer ein offenes Ohr für Deine gesamte Familie hast und gut auf sie aufpasst.
Wir vermissen Dich alle sehr.

Bradley Darley

April 24, 2019

For the past three years you have been my German teacher and almost like my in-school mom. You do so much not only for me but every person here in Green Run High School. We all love you Frau, and we wish the best for you. no matter how tough it gets just remember, when life gets hard it's God's way of making you a better person. I wish the best for you, Frau.

-Sincerely your student Bradley.

Tony Alston

April 17, 2019

Heide and Will. I would like to express my condolences for your loss. I worked with Ed at HQ TRADOC TOMA as a DOD Contractor and then a DOD civilian. Ed taught me a lot and is partially responsible for me becoming a DOD civilian. Ed believed in me, and it was his recommendations that help me transition from a contractor to a DOD civilian. He will be missed!

Brittany Horn

April 15, 2019

Frau Hackworth and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I never met Mr. Hackworth, but his obituary details a life well-lived. Condolences on his passing.

Gary Farnsworth

April 15, 2019

Eddie left us with lots of history, well done Soldier.

John Henderson

April 14, 2019

Heide and Will, I am so sorry to hear about my good friend and co-worker Ed passing away. I worked with Ed at HQ TRADOC from the 1980's until I retired in 1997. Ed and I visited many TRADOC Installations including Ft Sill. He was a kind and thoughtful person and I will always remember him. John Henderson

Mel Parker

April 14, 2019

My sincere condolences to Jerry, Kay and their family and friends.

Kenney, Michele, and Emma Hackworth

April 13, 2019

Butch will be missed, thoughts and prayers for Heide and Will.

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