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Debbie Dillon
February 17, 2021
Wow. It's been 10 years and I can still feel your presence and also hear your voice to this day. I'm 65 this year and have started having some health issues with my body. I miss you and all the family that has passed before me, but you all are lucky not to be here during these troubling times we are having in the world today. It's been a crazy year and I can just hear the talks we'd be having. Your family misses you and loves you so much. John has grown up into a respectable young father which I know you would love and probably can see. Shannon and her girls are doing great and growing like weeds. Shelley is doing great from all I read on FB and so is Steven and the extended family. Love and miss you! Debbie
Peter Workman
February 17, 2021
Jo Ellen, to a great lady. Godspeed.
Debra Dillon
February 17, 2020
Even though it's been a few years since you were with us I still can hear your voice and remember all the talks we had over the years and all the love we shared. I miss you, but know I will see you again one day and that my heart swells with love. I love you Jo Ellen and will never forget you.
Debra Dillon
February 18, 2019
I sure miss Jo Ellen. We would talk on the phone for hours after I moved to So Cal. She always talked about her family and how much they drove her crazy, but how deeply she loved them all. She shared memories of John and Shannons births and how her love for them went above and beyond anything that she had experienced other than the births of Shelley, Steven and his twin sister who unfortunately did not live. She was an awesome fun loving person. Full of Piss and vinegar when needed, but also loving and caring to a fault. I miss you Jo Ellen, but I know one day soon I will see you and all the rest of our family. I love you.
Stephanie Swindell
March 23, 2011
Shelly my thoughts and prayers are with you. I can not imagine the pain you are experiencing right now or how it feels to lose a mother. Please know you are deeply in my prayers.
Shelley Swindell
March 23, 2011
I miss you more then words can say. I will cherish all the wonderful memories especially our times at the beach in the 1990's when you were my best friend. Life has it's ups and downs but, through all of our's. I have loved you with all my heart.
love your daughter Shelley.

mama and I
Shelley Swindell
March 23, 2011
March 21, 2011
Grandma you will be missed! I love you very much. I have a poem just for you.
The roses are dead,
The violets are too.
Just wanted to tell you
That I miss you.
Since the day you died;
I didn't get to say goodbye.
I cry out in anger
in sorrow, in pain
wishing for that one moment
one second to gain. To feel your touch to hear your voice. To let you know how much you mean to me! Grandma I LOVE YOU! You will always be in my heart, And by my side, Because death will never do us part. I will take are memories and store them deep down in my heart. And never let them go!
I LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER!!!!
I wrote that for her. And hope she can see it from where she is!
Love Granddaughter Shanon Swindell and Great granddaughter Madison we love u xoxo
Shanon Swindelll
March 21, 2011
Grandma you will be missed! I love you very much. I have a poem just for you.
The roses are dead,
The violets are too.
Just wanted to tell you
That I miss you.
Since the day you died;
I didn't get to say goodbye.
I cry out in anger
in sorrow, in pain
wishing for that one moment
one second to gain. To feel your touch to hear your voice. To let you know how much you mean to me! Grandma I LOVE YOU! You will always be in my heart, And by my side, Because death will never do us part. I will take are memories and store them deep down in my heart. And never let them go!
I LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER!!!!
I wrote that for her. And hope she can see it from where she is!
Love Granddaughter Shanon Swindell and Great granddaughter Madison we love u xoxo
Susan Eddins
February 24, 2011
Steven and Shelly, no words can express how sorry I'm am at the loss of your Mom. How I wish I could have been there for you, but you know my thoughts and prayers are with you. These weeks and months ahead are gonna be rough, so try not to dwell on your loss but your many wonderful memories you have. Remember all the good times and the laughter she brought into your life and all those she came in contact with. She was a special lady and I will never forget her. She accepted me as part of the family and I will always be greatful for that. Pick out the most special memory you have and use it to get you through the sad lonely times. Your mom raised two wonderful children and I love you both. Don't forget I'm just a phone call away.
Love Susan
February 24, 2011
How sad to lost someone so sweet and good. I have not seen her for a few years but I still remember our fun times at the Barrel and even GE and QVC. We had so much when Frank and Jim lived together. God bless all of you
Darlene Knopp
February 23, 2011
So sorry to hear of your loss. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Peachy Nelson
Peter Workman
February 23, 2011
Jo Ellen was a great lady and will be truly missed.
With deepest sympathy,
February 23, 2011
I am so sorry about Grandma. She meant so much to me and Lil' John. We will miss her so much, she was a amazing woman that we will always love. You'll continue to stay in my prayers. I'm sorry we could'nt make it down there.
Love,
Chrissy and Lil'John
Debra Dillon
February 23, 2011
You will be missed and always in my heart forever. I hope you know how much I loved you and appreciated all the times we talked and laughed about everything from life to love. I'm glad that you had a weekend full of all the things you loved before you left us.
Joe, Steven, Shelley and families rest assured that Jo Ellen will always be with you and loved you all so very much.
Your sister,
Debbie
Anna Wolff
February 23, 2011
Sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. She has lived across the street from mom for so long, it's going to feel so weird with her not being there. May God be with the family at this time. Love you all. Anna
Anna Wolff
February 23, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
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