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Mary Ann Kilpatrick Russell

Mary Ann Kilpatrick Russell obituary, Virginia Beach, VA

Mary Russell Obituary

Mary Ann Kilpatrick Russell, 72, of Virginia Beach went to Heaven May 24th, 2020. Mom was born in Atlanta, GA to Martin Edward (Buster) Kilpatrick and Mary Hurt Clayton Kilpatrick. Mom attended and excelled at the Westminster School, received her BA at Emory University, and a double Masters at the University of Virginia where she began her French teaching career. Madame taught at Cape Henry Collegiate initially, and most recently as an adjunct professor at TCC Norfolk. Madame not only taught the language but shared her love of French culture and history, having studied and lived in France as a young woman. Mom was a lifelong athlete and fitness enthusiast, enjoying getting exercise and meeting new friends everywhere she went. Mom was a member of St. Aidan's Episcopal Church, volunteering as an usher, Christmas Ministry and food pantry coordinator. Whether at school, church, or around town, when Mom met someone in need, she was driven to make sure they received help, and often created lasting relationships in fulfilling those needs.

Mom was especially proud of her three children: Anne Martin Davis(Macon), Clayton Russell(Lindsey), and Dr. Derek Russell(Tiffany) all of Virginia Beach. She was a loving Nana to her four grandchildren: Duncan, Charlotte, Magnolia, and Gareth. Mom never introduced herself by her name, but as our Mom or Nana, deriving pleasure in the connections her entire family created. Mom leaves behind a brother Mart Kilpatrick, and two sisters Melissa K. Davenhall and Nancy K. Rose. Mom also was a dog lover, enjoying many furry companions over time. We know that her previously deceased family and friends, as well as her furry friends, are all with her now in Heaven.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on May 31, 2020.

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Charles Hugo

November 16, 2023

Madame Mary Russell était la meilleure, comment est-il possible que quelqu'un se souvienne du nom de tout le monde dès le premier jour d´école. Elle était jolie, pleine d'esprit et intelligente.

Kathleen Blair

August 1, 2022

I met Mary at the tidewater community college in Norfolk. Sorry to hear of her passing.

Pam Butler

June 7, 2020

To your entire family I wish to extend my sincere sympathy. From the first day I met your mother she spoke so proudly about all of you. I am sorry for your pain. Know that we at St Aidans' loved her also.

Christopher Seamon

June 4, 2020

Ms. Russel was an amazing neighbor, teacher and friend. Our families grew up together for several generations. Ms. Russel was always there to listen and offer advice. I remember spending days during the summer hanging out with her family within the neighborhood.
She had an amazing smile and a gentle voice and was always there to help. Our family considered her family. Words cant describe the pain that comes with losing a loved one. Hold onto the memories and share stories with others.

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Br. David Cassell

June 3, 2020

I met her at St. Aidan's and she was always very nice and kind.

Sharon Seamon

June 3, 2020

Mrs. Russell was a very nice and friendly woman. She always had a smile on her face. She was willing to help her family, friends and her neighbors. She raised 3 wonderful children who are now fine adults. My family lived next door to the Russell family. I watched Derek, Clayton and Anne grow up. I am sorry for the lose of your wonderful mother. Peace and many blessing to you during this trying time.

Sheila Gordon

June 2, 2020

Mary Ann was a wonderful neighbor. She was always positive and friendly to all of those around her. She will be missed

Brande Rumpf

June 2, 2020

Derek, Tiffany and family, It is always difficult when losing a parent. Hold tight to the good time and the laughs that you shared and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jeanette Hamilton

June 1, 2020

Derek, Clayton & Anne,
I was so sorry to hear about your mother. Ive known your mom for many years through St Aidans. She will certainly be missed. Her service to church was greatly appreciated. Ellen & Joe Newsom are my dear friendS & I always enjoyed keeping her updated. With sincere sympathy.

Fran Tiger

June 1, 2020

So shocked and saddened at the passing of Mary Ann. She always had a welcoming smile and a cheerful greeting whenever we met. She will be missed greatly. My sincere condolences to her family.

Debi TeWalt

June 1, 2020

Mary Ann was the first person I met at St Aidans and she was everything I needed. I was struggling and her light showed me I was home. She touched every part of me and I will deeply miss her.

Elizabeth Goulart

June 1, 2020

I remember Mary Ann fondly from our days together at Cape Henry - a wonderful and gracious lady who could always bring a smile to my face. Sincere and heartfelt sympathy at your time of loss.

Sharon and Tom Metz

June 1, 2020

Our love, thoughts, and prayers are with you during your time of sorrow. We share many fond memories of this lovely lady and our church community will miss her smiling face. Peace and love, Sharon and Tom Metz

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