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Paula Hoffower Obituary
She was born on Sept. 5, 1948, to Paul W. Samay and Joan P. Samay (both predeceased). Paula was surrounded in love at her passing by her husband of 48 years, Jim, and family.
Paula cherished her family and many friends made throughout her life. She never turned away from making friends from strangers. A highly devoted teacher, she taught second grade early in her career; English as a Second Language while in Japan; and numerous craft classes to her friends everywhere. Her love for volunteering was highlighted through her service at the St. Paul’s United Methodist Church food pantry in Chesapeake, VA.
In addition to her devoted husband, Paula is survived by her two daughters, Kristen Delozier (John) of Virginia Beach; Diane Bandholz (Paul) of Poolesville, MD; and son, Brian Hoffower (Skylar) of Round Rock, Texas. Her six grandchildren include Brooke Delozier, Logan Roadcap, Teagan and Cassidy Bandholz, and Riley and Kaia Hoffower. Her surviving siblings include Fred Samay (Debbie); Tina Wise (Sam); Greg Samay (Denise); and Doris Sheldon (Bob).
The family expresses sincere appreciation to the superior services received from the staff of Intrepid USA Hospice, especially to Susan Peters and Gracey Dise. They would also like to recognize the compassionate care received from Comfort Keepers and heartfelt gratitude for their wonderful neighbors and Church family for all their Love and Support during Paula’s illness.
A Celebration of Life service will be conducted on Tuesday, Aug. 6, at 11 a.m. at Community United Methodist Church at 1072 Old Kempsville Road, Virginia Beach. A reception will follow in the church Social Hall. Interment will be at the Albert G. Horton, Jr., Memorial Veterans Cemetery at Hampton Roads in Suffolk, VA. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial donations be sent to the National Brain Tumor Society, or the church of your choosing. Condolences may be offered to the family at:
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August 6, 2019
Effervescent, genuine - just a couple of adjectives to describe this powerful woman of faith. I recall our great times. My parents, eldest sister, as well as a host of your loved ones are already there to greet you. Rest well from your labors. We'll do our utmost as a faith-family to surround Jim and those closest to you. Love eternally, PastahD
2 Timothy 4:7-8 The Message (MSG)
6-8 You take over. I'm about to die, my life an offering on God's altar. This is the only race worth running. I've run hard right to the finish, believed all the way. All that's left now is the shoutingGod's applause! Depend on it, he's an honest judge. He'll do right not only by me, but by everyone eager for his coming.
August 4, 2019
Jim and Family. Very sad to learn of Paula' passing. She was a wonderful person, great wife and mother, and friend. May god give you all the strength and grace during your difficult time of grieving. I cannot put in words the grief I feel for you all. God Bless Paula and your entire family.
Ron Ericson
Navy Nurse Corps, Retired
Visalia, CA 93277
Fred and Jean Harrison
August 3, 2019
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Amy Wladyka Sirianni
July 31, 2019
So sorry to hear about the death of Paula. She and I were friends in high school and college. My husband Fran and I send our deepest sympathies and prayers.
July 30, 2019
Sending my deepest sympathy to Paula's family. I was one of her classmates at Har-Brack High School.
Arlene Constant
July 30, 2019
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family during this time. It was an honor to care for this beautiful lady. Arlene Constant
Allan Reyer
July 30, 2019
My deepest sympathy for Paula's family. I went to School with Paula from kindergarten through high school. God Bless, Allan Reyer
July 30, 2019
My deepest sympathy for your loss. I graduated from Har-Brack High School with Paula.I will always remember her sweet personality and great smile. Frank Rzomp Frisco, Texas
Mike Rusiewicz
July 30, 2019
So sorry to hear of Paula's passing. Not only were we Har-Brack Class of 1966 classmates, our parents were the best of friends. So many good memories.
Julie Chapman
July 30, 2019
Paula was a reflection of God's love and grace in so many ways. She cared about others, and always had a kind, positive thing to say, even as she fought brain cancer. A wonderful lady who has enriched the lives of a multitude across the globe, her presence will live on in all of our hearts.
Susan Thomas
July 30, 2019
Remembering the shared times together. Paulâ & Jim were some of the first people who welcomed me into their Cell group when I came to Community UMC. Our lives touched in service in Mobile, Al after Katrina, where Paula helped me and stayed with me at the military base due to my breathing difficulties due to the mold in the church where the team was staying. She joined the St Paul's Food Pantry and willingly, joyfully organized the kitchen donations. Always willing to help- with a smile. She was a joy to count as a friend. Truly one of GODs lights in the world.
Eric & Peggy Vaudt
July 30, 2019
Jim and family, may God's peace be with you.
Debi Lupton
July 29, 2019
Paula was a very giving and soft spoken lady. We worked together in the Gulf Coast after Katrina on rebuilding homes and on UMW missions. Always gracious and beautiful. I will miss her smile and always cheerful disposition.
Nancy Hatfield
July 29, 2019
Paula was one of those absolutely precious friends. There are no words for the impact she had on me and so many others. She was an angel on earth and no doubt heaven has welcomed Paula. Jim, Kristen, Diane, Brian and all of your families.....what I know is she loved each of you so much
She will be missed. My love, prayers and hugs to all of you.
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