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Robert E. Clay Jr.

1938 - 2019

Robert E. Clay Jr. obituary, 1938-2019, Smithfield, VA

Robert Clay Obituary

Smithfield:Retired Owner, Clay Insurance Agency DiesRobert Edward Clay, Jr., a native and lifelong resident of Smithfield, Va. died January 15, 2019. He is survived by his wife of 59 years, Lucy Langhorne Gwaltney Clay, who was his kindergarten sweetheart. He was born on July 8, 1938 and was the son of the late Robert Edward Clay and Rosa Lee Johnson Clay. In addition to his wife, he is survived by sons Robert Edward Clay, III and wife Laurie, Howard Gwaltney Clay and his wife Leigh Anne, daughter Katherine Langhorne Clay Willis and husband Ros, a sister Claire Clay Amott, six grandchildren, one great grandchild, and numerous nieces and nephews. An honor graduate of Smithfield High School in 1956, Mr. Clay entered Virginia Military Institute and graduated in 1960 with a degree in civil engineering. In 1962 he received an MBA from the Darden Graduate Business School at the University of Virginia. After school, he served two years with the United States Army. Returning to Smithfield, Mr. Clay joined his father as owner of Clay Insurance Agency from which he retired after forty-two years. He was also active until his death as President of Gwaltney Realty Corporation. During his years in Smithfield, he enjoyed and felt privileged to serve on various boards, both public and private. A lifelong member of Trinity United Methodist Church, he served as a member and past Chairman of its Board. Mr. Clay was a Charter Member of the Smithfield Kiwanis Club, a member of George F. Dashiell Post 49 American Legion, past member of the Smithfield Rotary Club, past President and member of Smithfield Chamber of Commerce, a member of the boards of the Bank of Smithfield, Isle of Wight Academy, and Historic Ivy Hill Cemetery. He was a long-time member of the James River Country Club. A graveside service will be held on Tuesday, January 22, 2019, at 11:00 AM at the Ivy Hill Cemetery. The family has requested that in lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Smithfield Volunteer Fire Department or Ivy Hill Cemetery. Online condolences may be registered at www.littlesfuneralhome.com

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jan. 20, 2019.

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Terry Vaughan

January 24, 2019

Lucy and family, I'm sorry I was not with you when you said goodby to your best friend and father. Bob was a great guy and welcomed me and treated me like he had known me for years. I'll always be here for you Lucy, if you ever need me. I love your humor and your zest for life. Love always...Terry

January 23, 2019

To the entire Clay family,
I offer my sincere condolences to each of you. Mr. Clay was always so kind to me at Farmers Bank. He always made a point to stop in my office and tell me about his winter travel adventures....truly a highlight in my day. It was obvious to me how much he loved his family. May God's grace bring you comfort..
Jennifer "Jen" Harris Hogan

Jack Miles

January 23, 2019

Lucy: Very sorry for your loss. Will forever have the fondest memories of Bob and our golf loving days. His sense of humor brought much joy and laughter to his family and friends. May you fond memories sustain and comfort you during this difficult time. May God Bless you.

Julia & Tim Hillegass

January 22, 2019

Lucy--
So sorry for your loss. We will miss this Keydet about town!

Ken Brown

January 21, 2019

So sorry for your loss during this difficult time Bob and your family have a special place in my heart and I will be preying for well being.

Robert Huff

January 20, 2019

To the entire Clay family, I send my prayers and thoughts of you all during this great loss. It was a honor and great pleasure to have grown up knowing and spending time with Mr Clay, Lucy , Bob,Katherine and Howard. I have many childhood memories to include our RV trips to VMI games. Heaven has surely gained a loving Angel of a man. Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your family, love you all.

Paul Pruitt, Jr.

January 20, 2019

Mrs. Clay, Our prayers are with you and your entire family. Times like this remind me of John 3:16 - "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.". We pray that the Lord will bring you comfort and peace, and keep Bob's memory close to your heart.

Tom Felts

January 20, 2019

RIP Bobby--condolences to Lucy and the family.
I remember as a kid riding one of your ponies that were in a lot next to my house. First time I had ridden one. Fun times back then.
Tom (Laurie) Felts

January 19, 2019

So sorry to hear of Bobs passing. Please accept our sympathies.
Woodie Bell and Joanne Morris

Brad Reaves

January 19, 2019

Our family is praying for your entire family - We are very sorry for your loss.

PEGGY cLEMENTS

January 18, 2019

My thoughts and prayers are with you Lucy and your family. Always enjoyed his smile and he will certainly be missed.

Belinda Underwood Vick

January 18, 2019

Im so sorry to hear of Mr. Clays passing. May God bless you all, with His peace & comfort, during this difficult time. I remember what a close family you are. Mr. Clay was always very kind & had a big smile to share, with everyone he met. I know you have many sweet memories to recall & hold close to your hearts. Prayers & love, for & to the Clay & Gwaltney families❤

Laura Presson Pulley

January 18, 2019

Sending hugs and condolences. So sorry for your loss.

Chip Carter

January 18, 2019

This once-young teacher and coach will never forget the kindness and support from the Clay and Gwaltney families. Those values were not a sometime thing but apparent on a daily basis with daily interactions with everyone. I wish you all peace.

AnnMarie Harrigan

January 17, 2019

Mrs. Clay, Bob, Katherine and Howard. I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jeffrey Powell

January 17, 2019

Mrs. Clay, Katherine, Bob, and Howard. I'm so sorry to hear about Mr. Clay. It's been a long time but I will always have such fond memories of him. He was always a gentleman and truly a pleasure to be around. God bless your family and know that my family are sending prayers your way during this difficult time.

Patricia O'Neal

January 17, 2019

I had the energetic task of babysitting Bobby, Katherine, and Howard when they were little ones. We used to have a great time running through the house before bedtime. I send my sincerest sympathies to the family. I hope the good Lord is your strength and your guide during this very sad time.
Patti K. Chapman O'Neal

Monroe Wells

January 17, 2019

Mrs. Clay, Bob, Katherine, Howard and family, I am sorry to hear of your loss. Know that you all are in my prayers. God bless!

January 17, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Debbie Saunders

Jan Apo

January 17, 2019

Lucy and Family
I am very sorry for your loss. Bob was a wonderful husband, father and grandfather and will be missed. Keeping you and your family in our thoughts during this very difficult time.

Debbie Green

January 17, 2019

Thinking of you all in this time of sadness. Bob was a one of a kind....always seemed to be in his happy place. So enjoyed runing into he & Lucy....Someone who loved life....He will be missed by many...RIP Bob.

Sharon & Elmer Jones

January 17, 2019

Our thoughts and prayers.

Harold & Judy Spilde

January 17, 2019

Lucy & family---We are so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. We so enjoyed visiting with him and you when we were at Copper Mountain. You had such a long relationship---from kindergarten!!! Our thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult days. May many fond memories help to strengthen you during these days ahead.
Blessings to all of you----Harold & Judy

Leslie Bowman

January 17, 2019

My sincerest condolences to the Clay family. Mr. Bob was a very kind man who always made me laugh. He will certainly be missed. He was a fixture in Smithfield!

Tina Henman

January 16, 2019

I am so saddened to hear of Mr. Clays passing. As a former employee, I will always be grateful for every lesson this man taught me. Rest In Peace Bob Clay! Many prayers to the family

Gretchen Heal

January 16, 2019

Lucy, I am so sorry for your loss. I loved you both! My prayers are with you in this time of loss. Please let me know if I can do anything.

Glenie Jones

January 16, 2019

Bob and Katherine,
I am so sorry for your loss. I thought a lot of your Dad. He was always so sweet to me at Farmers Bank and always spoke so highly of you. Please give my best to your Mom. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
God Bless,
Glenie Minga Jones

Debbie & Chuck Owens

January 16, 2019

Thoughts & prayers for family! RIP Bob!

Margaret Moody Jones

January 16, 2019

My sincere condolences to the family. Bob was always kind and always had time to speak. My thoughts and prayers to all.

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