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Robert Helfant Obituary

Robert Allen Helfant, of Key West, died in Miami on August 10,2022, following a courageous battle with cancer. He was the son of Jack and Shirley Lipsky Helfant, of blessed memory. He is survived by his wife Robin Helfant. They have been together for twenty-three years and have a beautiful blended family with Robert's daughter Holly Helfant and Robin's daughters Jenny Stanton (Josh) and Lisa Peterson. Their grandson Liam Stanton was a joy in his grandpa's life. Robert is also survived by his sisters Sheila Josephberg (Bob), Joan Irvine, (Bobby Dolsey) and Rebecca Saunders. Nephews Tobin Irvine (Aditi), Jaime Irvine (Kristina) and niece Jennifer Josephberg, great nieces Indira Irvine and Effie Irvine and step mother Dorcas Helfant Browning.

The Virginia Beach Fire Department mourns the passing of Master Firefighter Robert Helfant who joined the department in October, 1984 and retired in May, 2010. While with the VBFD, Robert was assigned to the Haz-Mat team, Fire Instructor and as a member of the FEMA VA-TF2 Urban Search and Rescue Team which included the Oklahoma City Bombing and The Pentagon on 9/11. In addition, Robert served honorably with the PACHVRS from 1977 in many roles for over two decades and obtained life membership in 1988. He served as Rescue Captain (chief), VBEMS Dive Team Commander, VBEMS Duty Chief (Field Supervisor) and was the former Technical Rescue Operations commander (TechObs1) . Robert was awarded the VBEMS Medal of Honor in 1993.

A celebration of Robert's life will be held on Thursday, September 1, 2022 at 5 p.m. at the Harry E. Diesel Fire Training Center, 927 South Birdneck Road, Virginia Beach, 23451. Our family welcomes you to join us.

Donations may be made In Robert's memory to the John H. Burbage Cancer Center 9919 Stephen Decatur Highway, Ocean City, Maryland 21842

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Aug. 21, 2022.

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Ken Knowles

August 15, 2023

Hard to believe it's been a year already! You are missed, but we know that you are there with us always.

Avram Shekhtman

April 26, 2023

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Carol Melatti Konze

September 9, 2022

A donation will be made to the John H Burbage Cancer Center in Ocean City, Maryland in Robert's Memory.

Carol Melatti Konze

September 9, 2022

Robin,
My sincere sympathy on the death of Robert. I was so saddened to learn of his passing. He was such an awesome guy. My heart goes out to you and your family. I sure do miss seeing the Helfant Family. I have many great memories. I'm certain that Jack was there to Welcome Robert. Two great men!
Love and Prayer,
Carol Melatti Konze

Donna Dana

August 30, 2022

It was such an honor to have known Robert. Such a kind and caring man. My condolences to his family.

Michael & monica rosenberg

August 29, 2022

Sending heartfelt sympathies to roberts family.

Love. Michael& monica rosenberg

The MacTaggerts

August 25, 2022

Robert will always hold a special memory along our journey! Robin and family, we are so sorry for your loss, our hearts are with you!

Benny Lane

August 24, 2022

Robert was one of the
"good" guys of Va. Beach. We use to play so hard on our Guns and Hoses Ski trips. RIP my brother!

Bonnie B Perugini

August 22, 2022

I have been following your journey and my heart goes out to you and your wonderful family. If you recall, I had the pleasure of meeting you both at The Cove and sharing Friendsgiving. A memory of you and Robert and your beautiful grandson, Liam. Blessing to you.
Bonnie Banks Perugini

Mary Trotter

August 22, 2022

So sorry to learn of Robert's passing. May his memory be a blessing.

The Ackaway Family

August 22, 2022

Rest in peace dear friend!

Dave Hicks Sr

August 21, 2022

Great Guy...And Firefighter May he Rest In Peace.With no more Pain.

LouAnn and Dwight McGraw

August 21, 2022

We send our deepest condolences, love and prayers for the loss of Robert. He was such an amazing and caring person. One of our heroes. We are so proud to have known him. Robin, know we are here for you! Love you both!

Paul and Kimberly Iwanowski

August 20, 2022

We were so sorry and sad to hear this. We send so much love to Robin, Holly, Jenny and Lisa xx

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