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Carlos Hightower Obituary
PEORIA - Carlos Ramon Hightower, 31, of 2912 N. Mission Road, Peoria, Ill., passed away at 4:50 a.m. Sunday, May 27, 2012, at his home.
Carlos was born on July 22, 1980, in Peoria to Tisha Wooten and Larry Hightower.
Carlos is survived by his mother and stepfather, Tisha (Marcus) Burnside Sr., and his father, Larry Hightower, all of Peoria; two sons, Keagan Belk and Mykai Parks, both of Peoria; two daughters, Alexa and Kemry Hightower, both of Peoria; one brother, Couri Hightower of Peoria; three sisters, Quanita (Stevie) Hughes Jr., Chautauqua Hightower and Shaneice Fields; one stepbrother, Marcus Burnside Jr.; five stepsisters, Natasha and Chantal Burnside, Chayana Thomas, Tekeia Davis and Dyiamend Jones, all of Peoria; and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, other relatives and friends.
He was preceded in death by his maternal and paternal grandparents.
Carlos was a 1998 graduate of Woodruff High School.
He was a machinist with the Parker Vansco Electronic Controls Division in Morton.
Funeral services will be at 10 a.m. Saturday, June 2, 2012, at the Greater City of Refuge Worship Center, with a visitation one hour prior beginning at 9 a.m. Bishop Timothy E. Criss, Pastor, and the Rev. Jimmie Burnside, Pastor of Mount Moriah Missionary Baptist Church, will officiate. Carlos will be interred at Swan Lake Memory Gardens. Family and friends will be received at 2127 W. Cindy Lane.
Simons Mortuary has been entrusted with arrangements.
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Memories and Condolences
for Carlos Hightower
Barbara Brown
May 30, 2023
May you still find peace and comfort .Carlos will always be remembered .never forgotten .Prayets up for the family
RATONDA IRBY
May 26, 2019
I miss you so much. Your kids are beautiful, handsome and amazing.
Shar'Ron Ford
June 7, 2012
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Deacon Darrell Thomas, Sr.
June 5, 2012
Larry my childhood friend and Brother. May our LORD Jesus continue to be your strength in this time of lost and that you and the Family will always be in my prayers. Darrell "Big D" Thomas 651-797-9846
Christine Westerlund
June 4, 2012
Tish and family,
Holding you all in my prayers.
Ratonda Irby
June 4, 2012
I will always love you cousin...R.I.P. Carlos!
Barbara Brown
June 3, 2012
06-03-2012
Tish :
so very sorry to hear of the loss of your son . God is our refuge and strenght Psalms 46 . He promises to keep our mind in perfect peace .
Been where you are at today dealing with loss of child at 19 . I know how you feel and know what you are going thru , But trust in God , he will bring you and family thru it all .
Tony Lee
June 3, 2012
may GOD's perfect peace be upon you during this difficult time. Love you!
Cindy Johnson
June 3, 2012
So very sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Words cannot express the pain and sorrow we feel with you. Asking God to provide you with the strength you need. Praying for comfort and peace. As the days, weeks and months pass continue to trust, lean and rely on Jesus. You have our deepest sympathy. May God be With You, The Johnson Family, Peoria, IL
Jennifer & mark Moore
June 3, 2012
Our prayers are with you and your entire family. God Bless
John and Karen Covington
June 3, 2012
Tisha,
Words can't express the sorrow we have for you and your family. Our prayers are with you,and his kids during this time. Always remember you are never alone,the lord will give you strength when you think you can no longer go on....
Gordon Family
June 3, 2012
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Robin
June 3, 2012
Carlos- Ill miss your smile and your laugh.. it was a shock to learn about your death.. I pray for your family and kids every day.. RIP Carlos..
B>Anthony Ambrose
June 3, 2012
We offer our condolences. Ambrose family Peoria ILL, Rancho Cucamonga Ca, Savannah Ga. May god bless you with strength during this troubling time.
Rose Norman-Collins
June 2, 2012
Mr.& Mrs.Burnside: The Norman Family are extending prayer to your family at this time of bereavement. Trouble doesnt last always. Read Psalms23 for strengh. May God bless your family at this difficult time.
Sarah Updike
June 2, 2012
I didn't personally know Carols, but my prauers ns thought are with the family and the kids.
LYNTEE & MARIE CURLEY
June 2, 2012
YOUR FAMILY IS IN MY PRAYERS
June 2, 2012
Tisha and family: This is Susan Vee (Teo's mom) from Hedgehill Apts. Remember us even though you haven't seen us for many years? We moved away when Teo was 12 yrs. old, I believe. I was shocked and saddened by the news. You all have been on my mind and wanted you to know you are in my prayers and thoughts right now. Sending out love or rather sending Jesus' love to you...Words can't express the grief I feel..love you and stay close to Jesus! Susan and Teo
gail kimbrough
June 2, 2012
To the Hightower family I did not know him but I know his father and aunt and uncle and some cousin so I am just sending my prayers to each of you. Bobbie Gail a former Taft Home family that grew up together.
Berlyn Garner
June 2, 2012
Your family is in my prayers
June 2, 2012
Your family is in my prayers
Aramayna Kelly
June 2, 2012
Tisha, may your faith in the Lord be of comfort to you and your family during this difficult time.
Sincerly with Love,
Dorothy
June 2, 2012
The Tisha and Carlos Family;
May GOD give you peace and comfort during this sorrowful time.
Tish and Elsie, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know that Carlos is in the hands of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. May GOD continue to hold you up through your grief.
I Love You
Dorothy Criss & Family
Lura Kramer
June 2, 2012
Tish
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Look upon the sky and smile for he is smiling down on you today and always. God Bless You and you are in my thoughts and prayers.
June 2, 2012
Tisha & Mark~
When words alone are not enough, continue to stand on God's promises. For He will never leave nor forsake you...we pray for peace that surpasses ALL understanding and that you may find comfort in knowing we care.
With deepest sympathy,
Troy & Rita (Vinson) Burns
Monica Carroll
June 2, 2012
Tisha and Couri I am so sorry for your lost. Remember, the good Lord doesn't put more on you than you can stand. My heart truly goes out to you and your family at this time.
Jamesetta Porter
June 2, 2012
Tisha & family you have my deepest sympathy. I am praying for your strength at this difficult time.
DONALD & Dierre MALANE
June 2, 2012
From Da MALANE FAMILY DONALD & DIERRE!!
June 2, 2012
My Lord
Anna Marks
June 2, 2012
Tisha and Family
I pray that the peace of God will help you through this time of sorrow.
Smith
June 1, 2012
Towards the Hightower Family, May God Bless All.
Jacques Hatchett
June 1, 2012
I didn't know you very long but you was kool kat ! R.I.P LOS
Sheila Johnson
June 1, 2012
To the family I am praying for you all. R.I.P Carlos!!
Michael & Sharon Rudd- Collins
June 1, 2012
Tisha and family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You and all of your family are in our prayers.
Alycia Thurman
June 1, 2012
To Tisha and Carlos' Loved Ones,
I've been praying every day. My prayer is that Our Almighty Father God will reach down from the portals of Heaven and wrap His Loving Arms around all that are grieving and pained. I pray that you can find love, peace, and comfort during this difficult time. Our Savior Jesus Christ is offering that right now; you just have to accept it.
I am so sorry for your losses!! Tisha--I love you and my heart is continuously hugging your neck. Your "new/other" family is also loving and praying for your heartache. I hope you are feeing our love.
Dianne Jackson Allen
June 1, 2012
Tisha, Larry and family -
Our thoughts and prayers are extended to you during this most difficult time. May God continue to bless you and keep you!!
Dianne, Bru (James) and Judy Jackson
Kijuana Compton Marks
June 1, 2012
Although my cousin's life was short, he had a great impact on everyone he encountered. He will live on trhough his parents, his children, siblings, and many friends and family.
Stormy Hodge
June 1, 2012
Tisha,
How my heart is breaking for you and your family. I pray for you, his children and everyone else that Carlos touched. Know that you raised an amazing son and he will forever be remembered. I still remember the picture he sent me when I was having an extremely sad day with him wearing reindeer ears on and hopping all around, he most indeed got a smile out of me that day. May God comfort you all in this very sad time. RIP Los...love ya boy...til I see you again!!!
Cheryl Candie Simms
June 1, 2012
Dear Larry, thinking of you always. Candie
Missy Griffin
June 1, 2012
R.I.P CUZ
Jeff & Chelle (Parker) Morris
June 1, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Brian&Vanita Hollingsworth
June 1, 2012
Tisha and family, We are so sorry for the tragedy that has came upon you and your family ,you have our condolences and we will be praying for your family.
Brian and Vanita Hollingsworth (Peoria, IL)
Wendy Everett
June 1, 2012
Carlos, you will truly be missed.you made everyone laugh and I wish I could've said bye..much love
Preshell Hightower
June 1, 2012
I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your loved one. I'm sending you a hug from afar.
Cardy and Noni Hines
June 1, 2012
To Tish and the Family
My prayers are with you during this time of bereavement. Matthews 5:3-10 states... 3 Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. 4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. 5 Blessed are the meek,for they will inherit the earth. 6 Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled. 7 Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy. 8 Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God. 9 Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God. 10 Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Place all your burdens and sadness in the hands of our Lord and Saviour for He will comfort you. Amen.
Alycia Thurman
June 1, 2012
Tisha and Carlos' Loved Ones,
I am praying for you all daily and my prayer being that Our Almighty Father God will reach down through the portholes of Heaven and wrap His Loving Arms around all you who are grieving and pained. That He will give you a peace that passes all understanding and a comfort to get you through your suffering. I know He is with you and I pray you can find love, hope and strength from Our Savior, Jesus Christ. He is giving that right now; all you have to do is accept it.
I am so sorry for your losses. And Tisha-I love you and I'm hugging your neck from my heart. I pray you can feel my love. Your "new/other" family are all praying and loving you too!! Hugs, hugs and hugs!!
Tianna White
June 1, 2012
Rip Carlos, High School Friend. You Will Be Truly Missed..
Constance Summerville
June 1, 2012
To the Family of: Carlos Hightower
My condolences are with you all during your time of grief. GOD is there in your time of sorrow, please lean on him for your strength & courage to make it through this day by day. "GOD is a healer". You are all in my prayers and thoughts.
Consatnce (Connie) Summerville
Rev. John H. Lee Sr.
June 1, 2012
Death, be not proud
Death, be not proud, though some have called thee
Mighty and dreadful, for thou art not so;
For those whom thou think'st thou dost overthrow
Die not, poor Death, nor yet canst thou kill me.
From rest and sleep, which but thy pictures be,
Much pleasure; then from thee much more must flow,
And soonest our best men with thee do go,
Rest of their bones, and soul's delivery.
Thou art slave to fate, chance, kings, and desperate men,
And dost with poison, war, and sickness dwell,
And poppy or charms can make us sleep as well
And better than thy stroke; why swell'st thou then?
One short sleep past, we wake eternally
And death shall be no more; Death, thou shalt die.
By John Donne
The Poetry Foundation
Mel Kuntemeier
June 1, 2012
Tisha & Family: I am so sorry to learn of the tragedy that has stricken. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family. God Bless!
Rhonda Jackson
June 1, 2012
Tish, my heart is breaking for you. May you find peace in faces of your beloved grandchildren.
Sexcina Monroe
June 1, 2012
We were so sorry to hear of the loss of your loved one. We're sending you a hug from afar.
Rev. John H. Lee Sr.
June 1, 2012
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Michelle
June 1, 2012
My heart goes out to Carlo's family and children. May God watch over his children and keep them safe. Carlos was a good friend who knew how to make people laugh. He will be truly missed. R.I.P Carlos!
Angela Brophy
June 1, 2012
Sorry for the loss of Carlos. We graduated from school together and we use to have a nickname for him "Yoshi" This is a sad tragady that I cannot believe happened my prayers go out to his family and his kids.
Kyie Hess
June 1, 2012
I love you cuz. May God bring peace to you babies.
LATASHA DAVIS RUTHERFORD
June 1, 2012
PRAYING FOR THE FAMILY
R. Norris Watson
June 1, 2012
Everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, " Paul penned the scriptures give us patience and encouragement so that we can have hope" ( Rom. 15:4) To the families trust and believe and God will grant you strength to see you through. Carlos will always be that ray of sun light in my heart that will never fade. Love You. Uncle Norris
Anna Marks
June 1, 2012
Tisha and Family,
I am praying for God's peace for you and your family. I believe that even in this time of sorrow and pain, God is still able to bring peace and comfort.
LET GO AND LET GOD. HE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN GIVE INNER PEACE THAT SURPASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING.
I will continue to keep you in my prayers.
Mrs Charla King-Jackson
June 1, 2012
May the love of God comfort you during your time of sorrow,and if you need anything please just give me a call,luv you all....
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