Benjamin Orlando, 17, of Albrightsville, died early Saturday morning, May 1, as a result of injuries sustained in an automobile accident in Luzerne County.
Born on March 9, 1987, in Staten Island, N.Y., he was the son of Antonio and Rebeca (Rambay) Orlando Sr. of Albrightsville. He lived in Monroe County since 1990 moving from Brooklyn, N.Y.
He was a student in the junior class of Pocono Mountain West High School where he was a member of the school's varsity cheerleading squad and in the stage crew for school musicals and plays.
Ben was a member of St. Peter the Fisherman Roman Catholic Church, Lake Harmony.
In addition to his parents, he is survived by two brothers, Mario Orlando and Antonio Orlando Jr., both at home; maternal grandparents, Manuel and Julia Rambay of Scranton; paternal grandparents, Mario and Annunziata Orlando of Brooklyn, N.Y.; four uncles, Nunzio Orlando, Guiseppe Orlando, Leonardo Rambay, and David Rambay; five aunts, Filomena Cavaliere, Tomasina Arcabascio, Gabriel Rambay, Victoria Realpe, and Christina Sierra; and many other aunts, uncles and cousins.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Thursday, May 6, at St. Peter the Fisherman Roman Catholic Church, Lake Harmony. The Rev. Anthony Drouncheck will serve as celebrant. Entombment will follow in Mountain Laurel Mausoleum, Laurelwood Cemetery, Stroudsburg.
Visiting hours will take place from 7 to 8:30 p.m. Tuesday and Wednesday, May 4 and 5, at William H. Clark Funeral Home, 1003 Main St., Stroudsburg.
In lieu of flowers, the family has requested that memorial contributions be made to the Varsity Cheerleading Squad of Pocono Mountain West High School.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Sponsored by Benjamin's parents and brothers.
Antonio Orlando
May 3, 2019
15 years little brother. Its crazy to think about how long youve been gone. The pain never goes away, you just learn to live with it. One of my biggest disappointments in life will be that my children will never get to meet their Uncle. They wouldve loved you. And you wouldve loved them.
I think of you often and love you always.
Jessica Martinez
May 2, 2019
I love you, Benny Bear. I have a little boy now, and he loves dancing and laughing as much as you did. You were such a gift. Ive never stopped missing you.
Devin Greco
May 1, 2014
I love and miss you.
Sarah D'Andrea Germain
May 1, 2012
Ben- I can't believe its been 8 years. My favorite year of highschool is the year I spent cheering next to you. Still to this day, whenever I cry.. I remeber you saying "don't cry, girls look ugly when they cry!" and it always makes me laugh. I know your watching out for all of us up there. RIP.. You'll always be in my heart.
Christopher Mercado
August 22, 2008
Ben, I don't know if you would even remember me, but I hope that you would. Though we had only known each other for such a short time, you literally changed my life forever. You might not know this, but you taught me so much. You were so strong and so secure with yourself, which was something that I wished I could be. I wish so much that I can speak with you again and thank you. Thank you for opening my eyes and helping me become who I am today. I am sure that you and I would have become best friends. Maybe one day, we will get that chance. Until then, I hope you are happy and at peace.
Valarie Lopardo
May 1, 2008
I still think about you everyday. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family and friends especially today
Daniel Maffia
May 4, 2007
Well I guess it has been a while since I last wrote in here, but I must say that you really were a role model to me. Even though we weren't the best of friends I still considered you my friend. You taught me to be myself without fear or worry. You taught me that it was okay not to worry about what anybody else thought, and for all that you taught me I thank you. I still have the paper you gave me with your number on it that night you invited me out and I will cherish that as part of your memory. Just once again I would like to thank you for all you have done for me, and for molding me into who I am today.
Suzanna Davis
May 2, 2007
Its been a very long time since I last wrote.. I still think about you every day.. I wasnt a friend of yours but you still had a major impact on my life. I use to admire the way you had courage to be your self and not worry about what eople think or said. you were awsome. I miss you so much. I always like being around you. No matter what mood i was in you made me smile and laugh. I moved about a year and a half ago and I talk about you all the time about how awsome you were and how you didnt know it but you made me smile.. you never had anything bad to say about anyone. I love you for that. I miss you so much... I just wish you were still here with all of your friends and you family who loved you so much... You meant so much to so many people. It was like the world stopped when you left us. I love you ben...
Danielle Policastro
April 15, 2007
BEN BEN!! I miss you so much. I can not believe in three weeks that you will have been gone for 4 years. It seems like the other day that I would walk down hall and I would see you. I wish that you were here with us, because it is hard to think you are not with us and I hate it. But I know that you are looking down on us I protecting us. I just cann't believe that in a month that most of us are going to done with our 2nd year of college and go home for the summer and you are not going to be there with us. I miss you so much, but i know that things happen for a reason and you have to just believe. I hope that you are in a great place. I LOVE YOU!!
Valarie lopardo
April 6, 2007
Unfortunatly I just finished signing my Boyfriend's guest book. I miss you so much as I will miss him and I just wanted to say that ever since then I have thought about you at least once every single day and will continue to do for as long as I am alive. I love you.
Sami Franz
April 30, 2006
Tomorrow is May 1. And it is 2 years since you left us. Tears are rolling down my cheek as i think of you, and the fact that you are gone. Even now i realize your gone its seems like your not. I was writing a poem for you, But i couldnt even express it in words how much i miss you. I wish you were here to see us win Nationals in Myrtle, Stauffer was really happy. I wish you were here for all the drama, and i wish you were here to cheer with me. I miss you so much and i think god made a mistake takeing such a light away from us all. I almost have my round off tuck, and everytime i do it i think of you. "Say your whole name when you flip over""Samantha Franz", it really does work infact :}, Oh man ben i wish you never letf us. This weekend is the cheerleading banquit. And one senior gets the Benjamin Orlando Award. Yes, Ben you have and AWARD! :] tomorrow to school i think im going to were my blue scrubs in memory of you. I dont even know why i am typing. I wish you were here to talk to. After i got my black belt, i didnt go back, and i watched some tapes, and i miss it. And i saw when i was at my first nationls i got knocked out and you were screaming then sat down :]. it was the higlight of the tape. Stauffer says next year is her last year coaching and meg is going to be graduating next year, and everyone will be going seperate ways. I wish you were here to still talk to, joke around with, spend the summer with, and do everything with. I miss you so much and i will never forget you.You and your brothers were like my brothers. I love you & i miss you so much.
Rest in Peace <33333
Sami
samii franz
July 1, 2005
wow..it has been so long since u have been gone.but i still cant take the fact that it is actually true.I still have so many fond memories.they never leave my head. i still remeber every summer,when we went to mrs halls pool.ben always used to show offf his flippign skills off the diving board.u were so awsome.and then on the trampoline it u were even awsomeer.lol.gosh i miss u so much.u fact has still never drew a buzzer and i think it never will.ben ur always with us.i love u so much..i cant wait to see u when its my turn to go: ] i love u
<33 sami
Mario Orlando
May 10, 2005
It's been a year and ten days sent you were taken from me and everyday feels like the first day it happened. Everything feels wrong without you here. I hope that I get to see you again when it is my turn to go but until then I just want you to know that I love you with every beat of my heart and with breath that I take. I'm sorry I don't have anything else to say or write, just that I miss you baby boy!!!
Mandi Venturino
May 2, 2005
Ben,
Wow a whole year has gone by without you... it really is hard to believe... i really do miss and think about you every day... I hope that you and Becca are watching over me and everyone else who loved you very much. You know I was thinkin about you and her the other day.. and I remember one time me and her were talking about you and all she would say was.. "I know that someday I'll see him again.. but until then he's my Guardian Angel"... and I used to agree with her.. and when Becca just passed I looked up and knew that she was going to be okay.. because she found you..
Hopefully you two arent causing too much trouble up there... because you know thats what you guys were known for :) Please keep watching over all of us...
Until we meet again, I Love You Ben
Holly Kowalick
May 1, 2005
May 1st,
Ben, its been too long, a year. Can't believe your gone, I wish i can see your smile, right now. In a way I do, in everyone around me. Because thats where you are, in everyone's heart. We miss you Ben, I miss you. Hope you can see this and know I think of you everyday. I saw you the other day, I swear it was you. Thanks for letting me know your alright. Love ya Ben!
Kristen Fitch
March 15, 2005
Ben..almost a year later and i still think about you and miss you everyday. I cant believe you're gone and i would do anything to have you back here with us again. But i know that you are watching over us everyday. I cant wait until i see you again. I love you.
Val Lopardo
March 9, 2005
Happy Birthday Ben my Love. I know you you're having a great birthday. Don't give them too much trouble because I know that's your middle name. I wish I could be with you to celebrate. Thank you for always watching over me especially the past few weeks. I love you dearly. I hope God gives you everything your precious heart desires. I miss you babe. Happy Birthday
Judy Kennedy
December 17, 2004
I know its been 7 months since that horible day but i could just never bring myself to sign this but i just recently lost another friend David Sigmund and im starting to come to terms with all the death surrounding my life right now and from the past. i still remember the veiwing like it was yesterday standing in line for hours to say goodbye to my friend who was in a closed casket. i think that saying goodbye to Ben Megan & Tyler were the hardest days of my life and now i have another one in store i know Ben will give me strength. i love you been god bless i know your looking down on us! "do a little cheer for me!" lol i love you!
mini
November 8, 2004
Ben was one of the first people i meet here at west. He will always remain one of the sweetiest people I've ever known and i will keep him in my heart for ever.
Tiffany Rotondella
July 21, 2004
I Still cant believe this. I wish that it wasnt true.
I've never lost a friend before, but this was def. the saddest lost of anyone close to me.
It's going to be the hardest thing to go into the sportsplex and not see Ben's happy and cheery voice as I walk in the door. I will never forget the time when I was running in for soccer practice and splitted on the ice, fell, and bounced rite back up. And of course Ben just happened to be standing rite there in the lobby and saw the whole thing. So he just had to tell everyone that I fell on the ice running in. And when I broke my wrist in indoor and had to wrap it to play so my arm was HUGE and Ben made fun of me calling me Popeye.
Goodbye
by Penny
God took you away.
It doesn't seem fair,
but in the back of my mind,
you will always be there.
You were too young to die, and
too innocent to feel that pain.
Only heaven benefits,
because you it has now gained.
I wish for you eternal peace;
that's what you deserve my friend.
I hope I lead my life well enough
to meet up with you in the end.
I will never forget Ben, he will always be missed.
-always Tiffany-
nicole angelica
June 22, 2004
A day doesn't go by that I don't think of Ben. It's hard to put into words the type of person Ben was. It's so hard to put words down about him because there are no words that can describe him. Ben was the type of person who always made me laugh. No matter what was going on he was always there to listen and help me out. When I begin to really start to miss Ben I think about all the good times we had. I can't image anyone else that I would go out to eat with that would have such a problem with coleslaw(inside joke). lol. Or who else would go with you to spy on your friends. Or who helps translate a movie for you because you don't understand that language. Every time I go places where we were before I just laugh at all the stupid things we did there. Ben was what you really can describe a true friend as. Reliable, trustworthy, caring, and always there to make you laugh. I'll miss him truly.I will keep in my thoughts everyday and carry him in my heart.
My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Meghan Franz
June 5, 2004
O:-) I had sooooo many memories with Ben... I've known him forever! From playing hide n seek, to cheerleading, we were always having tons of fun together! I don't think anyone will ever beat Ben's record for the farthest chocolate chip shot out of his nose. The next time when you watch the movie "The Wedding Planner", when a certain piece of the statue falls off, just imagine Ben sitting in the movie theatre eating a puond of cookie dough. He was laughing soooo hard, that a chocolate chip flew out of his nose and hit the woman in the head that was sitting in front of us. You had to be there!! And we will Never forget about "Thornburry Circle" OuChy!! Ben was like a brother to me. We spent so many times together. We will remember him always when were shopping, driving, cheering, flipping, singing and in our dreams, He will always be with us! I miss him Soooooo much!! Hopefully he's not giving God too much trouble!O:-)
*God Always Takes The Best of us!~
*Cheerleaders are angels, they're the only people who can fly!
*Ben, now you get your chance to fly!*
Here's a Poem I wrote in Ben's memory:
I met you when I was three or four, Why can't I see you anymore?
The many times we have spent,
You've gave my hand a permanent dent.
I've helped you cheer, you've made me tumble,
Even if my mind was in a jumble.
We've practiced stunts, we sometimes fell,
Luckily Stauff wasn't there to yell.
When we performed them, they looked great,
The stunts were something no one could hate.
I remember this as a funny time,
It's the cheese story that you tried to rhyme.
And no one can forget about cankles,
This occurs when your calves meet your ankles.
Remember the cake mix that fell on the floor,
Teale didnt care she made it our chore!
From singing "Toxic" in the car,
to pushing me out on the tar,
We've had so many times that were great,
Especially before stunting when I would meditate.
While your in heaven watch over me,
It was all because of you that I dislocated my knee!;o)
I miss you now, my heart grows sore,
As time goes by, I will miss you more.
I look for you more everyday,
Why did God take you away?
I loved Ben so much and he will never be Forgotten!!!
Hugs n Kisses to the whole family!!
I love you guys so much!!
Love,
*~Meghan~*
Sami Franz
May 26, 2004
There is really no words to explain how I feel about loosing someone that had so much influence on my life. I knew Ben ever since I could remember. Whenever we saw each other or whenever our families hung out, I'd would always see Ben standing out or trying to show-off. Who could ever forget him? I looked up to him in so many ways. I remember everything we talked about, gymnastics, cheerleading, fashion.... Oh!!! hand modeling! I still don’t understand why...why did this happen? So many questions popped in my head that I can't explain or answer. My heart was and is broken when I heard the news. Ben was always like my older brother. He was the older brother I never had. He was just an amazing person that you had to get to know to understand. Ben and my family had many memories together, just driving, singing and talking in the car. Ben will always be in my heart. It kind of feels like there is a piece missing, and I can't really seem to find that missing piece. I miss him so much. I would give anything just to see him one more time.
I love you Ben!
*~*SaMi*~*
Kayla Crosson
May 26, 2004
me and ben were never really close. we occasionally talked while we sat at the bus stop. as i got to know him i learned to love him. i am still having trouble realizing that he's gone. everyone tells me that he's in a better place but what better place is that without friends and family. i think positive and know that he's looking down on me. i know that we'll all be together with him someday.
Ashley Lovell
May 20, 2004
Ben...I don't know what to say! We weren't that close..but the time I knew you and what I knew of you..always made me smile. I met you on one of the hardest days of my life..I had so much going on, and things to deal with in my family..but you some how put a smile on my face! I dont know how..it was at lunch time..you just told me life was to short to frown it all away..and then off you went singing Brittany Spears! And you were the highlight of every peperally our school held..flipping all over the place..with your curly hair and your glowing smile! You will truly be missed..and my thoughts and prayers go out to the orlando family!
shadzadul yousuf
May 19, 2004
Dear Orlando family,
Not too long ago in 2000, my brother Tony Yousuf died in a car accident almost similar to the one your son/brother was in. At the wake and funeral I recall Mario being there and crying with me. I did not know Ben but I knew of him from friends. I did not piece the name with the family until I was told by a coworker. I am deeply sorry for your lost but as they say you did not lose a person. You gained an angel. Ben is your angel as my brother is mine. He's not gone he's just watching over you. He loves you more than you will ever know. Don't forget that the time for mourning him is over the time for celebrating has begun. Celebrate Ben's life and the people he touched. If there is anything you need Mario or Antonio I know what your going through and will help in any way I can. Feel free to contact me. Shadz Yousuf
Mandi Venturino
May 19, 2004
Dear Ben,
Even though you’re gone
Your memories are still here.
It seems that it’s all wrong
Now that you’re not here.
I know I must continue living
And I must stay strong
Your last words were given
But they seems to stay for so long.
Your laughter and your smile
Soft words that sounded loud
Your words and your styles
Your grace made us proud.
Our dear Ben, we love you
Your memories, they still remain
Yet god knew you were done
And we know it’ll never be the same.
We will keep living our lives knowing that No one's ever truly gone,
For he is always with you.
Watching and helping with,
Everything you do.
All those times you whisper,
"I love you" to the air,
Know that he is listening,
And know that he is there.
He flies only beyond your sight,
In a kingdom free of pain,
And when you have to leave this world,
You shall see him once again.
~Ben was such a wonderful person filled with life and everytime I think of him I just smile knowing that he has touched my heart in so many different ways. He will always be with us in our hearts and our minds. So do not grieve for him because now he is free~
I Love You Ben *My Guardian Angel*
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Orlando Family.
Daniel Maffia
May 18, 2004
Ben was a dear friend of mine... he was a friend of mine since 7th grade. He always had a smile on his face and brought joy to everyone. In the hallways he would always go up to someone who looked down and asked if there was something wrong. If they said no he would smile at them and make them smile. He helped me in ways no one would understand right now, but always showed good friendship towards me in my hard times. I am sorry for your loss and you all are in my prayers.
Danielle Policastro
May 17, 2004
Soft as a feather, your name
Touchers my lips, my mind, and my heart
Bittersweet, feeling of love
And loss fillies me suddenly.
Joy of friendship that I found with you
I am touched by sadness and emptiness without you.
Yet I live, I breath and go on as best as I can.
I dream of you, of seeing you one more time
Now just memories, but for just one moment you are real.
I cry so long for you to come back here
The helplessness that I feel is terrifying.
Memories of your smile, the look that you give me, your laugh
Floods my mind until I laugh and cry for you.
Oh I wish things could be different
If only for a moment to see you walking down that hall with your smile.
You always looking out for other people and not yourself
I bless your name and God
For God to let me know you even if it was a short time,
But you touched my life for now and forever.
Like music, your spirit surrounds me.
You bear me up when my heart sinks
I thank God for you, My Angel.
Everytime I hear or speak your name my heart melts.
BEN!!
Ben was a person that could make anyone laugh and brighten there day. Ben was a person that you never want to mess with because you did not know what he could did if you did.I will miss the memories we've had together and will regret that memories that we won't have together in the future.I love ya and will always remember you.
becca nelson
May 16, 2004
Dear Orlando Family,
I met Ben at the Sports Complex. I havent known Ben as long as everyone else but ben was the type of person wheather you knew him or not, he stood out in a crowd. I'll never forget the first time I talk to him. He had a huge smile on his face and introduced himself to me. and that smile hasnt left him. Him and I talked from then on. He was and still is an AMAZING person, and I miss him and love him dealy. There are no words to describe the emotion everyone has. We all miss him and Love him so much. Ben will NEVER be forgotten. My prayers and love goes out to your family. Ben is in a better place now watching over us all our gaurdian angel!
Pat and Kathy Patten
May 14, 2004
To the Orlando Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. It's obvious Ben was loved very much by everyone who knew him. Our deepest sympathy,
Pat, Kathy, Kelsey and Kate Patten
Rob Morris
May 12, 2004
I really didn't know Ben, but I deffianately knew of him. He was one of those kid's that everyone loved and talked about in school, students and teachers both. Every time I saw him, he was always smiling and somehow everyone around him was smiling as well. Ben will always be loved and missed by many.
Antonio Orlando
May 12, 2004
They say your sins will be washed away
But my brothers life was the price I paid
So all I do is think and cry
And wait on Earth until I die
Until I see my brother again
I love you always my baby brother Ben
I need someone to tell me it will be ok
So I can be strong for my family just one more day
That was a little something I wrote for you Benji. I can't tell you how much I miss you. I know I am usually good with words but I do not know what to say. I love you so much. I miss you so much. Dad and mamita keep telling me that I should get some sleep and I should start talking to people again. I don't want to talk to anyone and I just can't seem to fall asleep. I am still waiting for you to come home. I love you brother ... always.
BEN, GOD, AND I
Ben, I think of you everyday
Your smile, your face, and the things you'd say
What I would give to hug you again
It hurts to know I no longer can
To be your brother that’s all I know
To watch you laugh, to joke, and grow
But these things were taken from me and I don’t know why
So all I can do now is sit and cry
And think of how you used to be
Because you can no longer be with me
I am God's most depressing movie
A story filled with tragedy
A story of a man who can have no joy
Otherwise he God would be annoyed
So play with my life and give me nothing
But give me loneliness and suffering
You say you love us all the same
Then why do I get all the pain
To see my brother killed by your hand
Yet I must have faith and understand
Well I’m sorry but this I cannot do
I am unhappy, in pain, and I am angry with you
How do I keep my faith and still believe
When it is you who has forsaken me
I would say that I pray for my mother
But why should I even bother
I have been praying since I was small
And never have I heard you call
So I will be strong and take care of my family
Since you will not carry this burden with me
I am sorry if this sounds mean or rude
But it will be some time until I can trust you
I know you exist and you live up there
But your purpose and actions make me unaware
Of what you have planned for my time to come
If I will ever be happy or will I succumb
To temptation and choose the way of sin
I hope this is not where I will end
I will hope for your mercy that is all I can do
And hope that my faith and beliefs I can renew
I want to love you and trust you again
But until that day take care of my brother Ben
.
Larry, Debra and Nia Esposito
May 11, 2004
To "Coach" Tony Orlando, Mrs. Orlando, and family: We were shocked to hear of your terrible loss. Our daughter is a soccer student of Coach Orlando at Champion Sportsplex and always enjoys and learns from his gentle but firm coaching style. Our prayers are with you that God will bring you through this unimaginable tragedy.
Dawn Santos
May 10, 2004
Ben was one of my first friends when i moved to Pennsylvania... he was my friend before i moved here just from visiting all the time. knowing the entire family for 12 years i know that somehow they will get through this and move on but never forget. ben was an amazing person to me always but my words of wisdom for myself since i heard about this has been "only the good die young". critically thinking it doesn't have alot of proof or truth or even wisdom for that matter but it's enough to get me through the day and sleeping through the night.
Ralph Weichand
May 8, 2004
Dear Mr&Mrs Orlando( and Ben's brothers),
With deepest sympathy I express my heart-felt empathy and special prayers for Ben and your entire family! Although only a substitute teacher at PMWHS,I never had the opportunity to meet Ben, but please be assured that he touched the mind,heart and spirit of every student and adult at the school.Congratulations on raising him to be an exceptional young man!
As a deacon at Our Lady of Victory Church(Tannersville),I will continue to offer prayers of thanksgiving that God has welcomed Ben into Heaven and eternal life,and that He will always strengthen and comfort your entire family.
Respectfully and prayerfully,Ralph Weichand
Tony DePhillips
May 7, 2004
Ben, my motivation. Always making me want to be the best person I could be.
Ben, my rainbow. With a word, a signal, a sign, a nod, a smile... brightening up my darkest of days.
Ben, my friend. Understanding me. Knowing me better than I knew myself.
And now, Ben, my guardian angel. I already feel your presence within me. Watch over me...keep me honest, keep me strong...but most of all, keep me your MrD.
Je t'aime, 'jamin.
I miss you.
I know you miss me.
And someday, we'll be together again.
Shejuana sanabria
May 7, 2004
Ben im going to miss you so much and i know that you are doing those flips up there as we speak. Ben's family you had a wonderful son he always had a smile on his face. always led out a helping hand. but know that you are going to be missed.i love you ben and know that i carry your picture all the time. i just wish i was there to help.
you truly made a difference in many peoples life.
Angela Andrade
May 7, 2004
Ben was the kind of person that you would always want to be around. He knew what to do and say at the right time. I miss him so much, to a point where I have no tears left. Ben wouldn't want you to cry for him though he would want you to do a back spring. That was Ben's way. My thoughts are always and forever with the family for this incredible loss. I loved him and always will, just as everyone else will.
Myava
May 7, 2004
I first met Ben this year in Drama class. He really stood out because he had a very energetic, fun, and outgoing personality. He was one of the main reasons why drama class was so fun!! When we were asked to perform monologes and do improvisations, he was always the one that stood up and raised his hand first. Basically, Ben was a truly good person. I am very happy that I got the chance to meet him. To Ben's family, just know that you are in my prayers each night and keep in mind that Ben is always going to be there waiting for you on the other side.
jessica marie
May 7, 2004
to the famliy of ben i would liek to say tht im very sorry for your lost and that now that ben is up in heaven you know that you will always be safe and that he is your angel.....he always put a smile a someones fACE :) LUV YA BEN
GOD HAS A ANGEL THAT IS ON OVERDRVIE
Eirene, Nicholas & Dimitri Malitsis
May 7, 2004
Mr. & Mrs. Tony Orlando, Tony Jr. & Mario:
We are very sorry for your loss. Only time can heal some of your pain but Ben and God will help you all through this.
Our deepest sympathy,
Eirene, Nicholas & Dimitri
Malitsis
Samantha Rist
May 6, 2004
Ben
I would like to say I'm sorry for the lost of someone so sweet. I would also like to say to the family that I'm sorry for your lost. Ben was the kindest person I knew. He always kept everyone smiling around him. Ben was a good person and this should have never happened but hey God dose work in a weird way so once again I am sorry for everyone's lost.
R.I.P.
Ben
Will be missed by many but never forgotten.
Kaitlyn Cherney
May 6, 2004
Orlando Family-
I am very sorry about Ben. We all, as the students of Pocono Mountain, and more importantly the friends of Ben, will miss him so much. He always knew how to brighten up the halls in school, and I'll never forget the look on his face, and the size of his smile everytime he said hi to me. I can't stand the thought that he's gone, but I try to keep in mind everyday that he's watching over all of us, and he wouldn't want us to cry. Thank you so much for welcoming me, and everyone else to the services this week. It means a lot. You're all in my prayers.. every one of you. I love you all and wish you the best of luck. and remember, Ben likes to see people smile :)
Maria Rios
May 6, 2004
Ben was someone who did not like seeing anyone sad. He had such an amazing light that came out of him and made everyone fall in love with such a wonderful person. He was a truly inspiring young man that made life so much better to those around him. My heart goes out to his family and to all who have had the chance to meet the kind of person he really was. He will be missed by all.
lynnann perry
May 6, 2004
Dear Tony Sr., Becky, Tony Jr., Mario, and exteended family, our heart broke for you when we heard what happened, we are sorry we did not hear in time to pay our respects, but know that we adored Ben as so many did. you all will be in our prayers.
Sincereley,
Bob and Lynn Perry
Lia Ayala
May 6, 2004
Ben was a good friend of mine, with a smile always upon his face. He was very talented and its a shame he was taken at such an early age. My condolences go out to his family and close friends.But he is watching over us now, smiling, waiting for the day we will meet again...
RIP Benjamin Orlando
nikki fougere
May 6, 2004
Ben,
You inspired many people with the happiness you always carried.God bless your kind heart.I will always smile when i think of you..R.I.P...God Bless the Orlando Family
Lindsay Noon
May 5, 2004
To The Orlando Family,
My heart and prayers are with you in this tremendous time of need. Ben was an amazing person who had a huge impact on my life. In cheerleading and gymnastics, he never once let me hit the ground. He was always happy and always smiling, and he always managed to put a smile on my face nomatter what the circumstances. Even now, just the thought of him makes me smile from ear to ear. I loved Ben so much and I know hes looking down on all of us. Hes somebody that I will NEVER FORGET and fantastic memories of Ben will be in my heart, and in my dreams forever.
Allison Russo
May 5, 2004
Words cannot express how I am feeling at this moment. I think I speak for everyone when I say that we are all deeply saddened and in shock. People say that God works in mysterious ways and now I believe this is true. Its hard to believe that I will no longer get to see Ben's smile or look for him everyday and get the cute wave he always gave me. Ben was the type of person who no matter who you were he always saw the good in you. He never cared what anyone thought of him and always was there to listen to anyone's problems or give them a hug when they were sad. Ben was indeed an angel here on Earth and will be one in his after life. I believe that he is watching over all of us and when the sun shines I will feel his smile in my heart. Bad things seem to happen to the greatest people and Ben was indeed one of the very best and there will never be anyone like him. He is most definatley IRREPLACEABLE. I will miss you very much and I will continue to keep you in my heart forever and always. I love you Benjamin Orlando! My prayers go out to Tony, Mario, and Mrs. and Mr. Orlando. You raised a spectacular person with a heart of the purest gold. I will forever keep his smile with me.
Rebecca Torres
May 5, 2004
I met ben at the sportsplex and even though i didnt get the chance to get to know him better from what i saw ben was a great guy with alot going for him.i'll always remember his smile.Im so sorry for your loss ben will always be in my heart.
Rich Maglionico
May 5, 2004
To the Orlando family,
We were all saddened to hear of the loss of your son and brother, Ben. Praying for you,
The Maglionico family
Blue Ridge Homes
Luz Salazar
May 5, 2004
Ben, was a wonderful person and friend to everyone who crossed his path. He had a good heart and a smile that will stay in my heart and mind forever. He brightened everyones day no matter what mood anyone was in. I wish I would've seen him one last time, but I have the best memories to remeber him by. My prayers are with you all.
Tiare Nimmo
May 5, 2004
Ben was a funny and loving person. He had so many friends and love from each of them. I hold a prayer in my heart for his family. His spirit will always be with us. It is a shame the best of us have to be taken. God Bless You All!
Rafael and Luz Ortiz
May 5, 2004
We cannot begin to imagine how you are feeling, we can only offer our deepest sympathy for your loss. May God help you through this difficult journey. Our hearts and prayers go out to you. Please let us know if you need anything. The Ortiz family (Taekwondo)
kathi tasetano
May 5, 2004
We are so sorry for your loss.We have seen Ben & his brothers compete many times. May God Bless you and strenghten you til you see him again.
God bless,
The Tasetano Family
World Karate Union
Ronald Godwin
May 5, 2004
To the orlando family,
your son meant an awful lot to me and this poem reminds me of him alot.it helps me out alot. i hope it does the same for you and i also hope that the poem helps you understand just how much he meant to me...
When Tomorrow Starts Without Me
When tomorrow starts without me, and I am not here to see,
If the sun should rise and find your eyes all filled with tears for me.
I know how much you love me as much as I love you,
And each time you think of me I know you'll miss me to.
But when tomorrow starts without me please try to understand,
That Jesus came and called my name and took me by the hand.
He said my place is ready in heaven far above,
And that I have to leave behind all those I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away a tear fell from my eye,
For all my life I'd always thought it wasn't my time to die.
I had so much to live for and so much yet to do,
It seems almost impossible that I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays the good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared and all the fun we had.
If I could of stayed for just a little while,
I'd say goodbye and kiss you and maybe see you smile.
But then I fully realize that this could never be,
For emptiness and memories would take the place of me.
And when I thought of wordly things that I'd miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you and when I did my heart was filled with sorrow.
But when I walked through Heaven's gate and felt so much at home,
As God looked down and smiled at me from his great golden throne.
He said "This is eternity, And all I've promised you,
Today your life on earth is past, but here it starts anew."
"I promise no tomorrow but today will always last,
And since each day's the same here there's no longing for the past."
So when tomorrow starts without me don't think we're far apart,
For everytime you think of me I'm right here in your heart.
Holly Kowalick
May 5, 2004
To his family,
I am a student at Pocono Mountain West and Ben was and still is the best person I ever knew. I have known him a while and we were never closer then this year when we had gym class. We always played volleyball or soccer and we would always laugh at each other for missing. The last thing I said to him was "I'll see ya monday for gym!" Ben will never make it to gym but I know he is watching and now maybe he will help me get the ball. I'll miss him and always love him! I cant think of any memory with out him in it. You raised a great son and be proud for everything he did. God bless you.
"Yea Ben" RIP
Brian Gray
May 5, 2004
Ben: I really didn't know you but i heard so much about you from the girl who is in my life, Jacinda Evans. I just want to say thank you for being such a great guy and companion for her and making her happy. You truly left footprints in everyone's hearts that knew you. Now you can watch over everyone and protect them until the day that you will meet again. GOD BLESS!
tiffany price
May 5, 2004
dear bens family i sorry for your huting and to also knew ben. he used to always make you smile even when you didnt want to. he was always there for you no matter whatt. i hope that you will over come this tragedy well and relize that he will forever be in your heart.i love you ben love tiffany
~*Maggie*~ Routhier
May 5, 2004
TO the Orlando family.....
Ben.... well what can i say? I've known Ben since i've been like 7. I know that deep down inside that he is in a better place. But i just dont want to believe it right now. I loved ben so much that words can't even explain. I mean i could be hysterically crying and all he would have to do is walk into the room and i would start cracking up.He just had that charm ya know? I also know that he wouldn't want us to be sad he would want us to be happy. I know that right now he is watching over us laughing saying man i was truly loved.And you know what he is! I love you so0o0 much and you guys are in my prayers.
Miesha & Devin
May 5, 2004
We are amoung Ben's many friends who will love and miss him. Though he is gone now he will always be loved and missed. No matter how bad things were going Ben was there to put a smile on amyone's face who needed it. He was also one of th best Guy damncers we knew :), To Bens family we are very sorry for your loss and send much sympahty.
celeste vasquez
May 5, 2004
I am an employee in IMLCA. I am an sincerely sorry for your loss.
alfredo
May 4, 2004
DEAR TONY AND FAMILY,
I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN THIS TIME OF GRIEF. ALFREDO
Mr.&Mrs Charles Fierro
May 4, 2004
words can not express how we all feel right now.it was just yesterday ben was here and now he's gone, but gone to a place where this angel will be watching over all of you.our hearts go out to your whole family and always know we will be there for you.once again deepest regrets and may ben shine down on you.
elika-mai mcleod
May 4, 2004
we are sorry for your most prescious loss.
Kristen Miele
May 4, 2004
Mr. and Mrs. Orlando, Tony and Mario,
Ben certainly grew into an amazing charismatic young man. I remember the cheerful active young boy he was. I am so sorry for your loss and I hope that the brightness that your son still radiates will help you find peace.
Our deepest condolences, the Miele Family.
Stacey Chaparro
May 4, 2004
Our prayers go out to the whole family and that god helps you at this horrible time.God Bless all of you The Chaparro Family
sharleen & Racquel salmon
May 4, 2004
Atonio&Rebecca,Mario, Atonio,Jr., Manuel & Julia.
We are sorry about the lost of Ben, he was truly a great guy. We share your loss.
CECILIA PITCHER
May 4, 2004
TO BEN'S FAMILY:
My prayers are with all of you. Ben was a wonderful person that touched so many peoples life, with his kidness and his beautiful smile. He will be missed. May God bless Ben.
alra and esmie salmon
May 4, 2004
PRAYER: Loving God, thank you for
your protection. We know that by
your power all things,no matter
how painful,can be transformed to
work for good. Amen.
Becky, Antonio, Antonio, Jr., Mario
manuel and Julia,we send our love and condolences.
Love,
The Schneider's
May 4, 2004
Our deepest sympathies to Benjamin's family and loved ones. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
marcella salmon grey
May 4, 2004
OUR SINCERE AND DEEPEST SYMPATHY. WE WILL KEEP YOU IN OUR PRAYERS.
May 4, 2004
ben:
i didnt know you vey well but from what i did know u were a great person i dont know why such a wonderful person had his life taken at such a young age... u were an inspiration to everyone.. im sure alot of people looked up to u.. ont only were u a great cheerleader but u were a great no wonderful person...... u'll always be in my heart.....
Erica Townsend
May 4, 2004
Dear family and friends of Ben,
I am a student of Pocono Mountain West High School and also a fellow junior who was in one of Ben's classes last year. He always had a smile on and even made computers a fun place to be. He talked to everyone and although I wasn't that close with Ben, he was always so easy to talk to or ask for help. He touched so many hearts at Pocono Mountain and beyond, and I know for at least myself, and I'm sure for many others as well..know just how lucky we are to have known Ben. He was an amazing person and I'm sure he is smiling on all of us. I pay my respects to all of the people closer to Ben than I was, and want to thank the family for raising such a loving person who touched us all with his contagious smile. All my thoughts are with you and Ben will always be in my heart.
Brian Kotilis
May 4, 2004
I knew Ben for about 4 or 5 months not as long as everyone else but long enough to tell you and everyone else that ben was of who would light up a room when he would come in. ben was one of a kind i never seen him in a bad mood every time i talked to him he was happy like the world was perfect not as everyone else seen it. ben seen the people for who tehy were and not for who they hung out with, a popular kid hanging out with everyone even people who were not popular, it didnt matter if you were black or white purple or orange as long as he could talk we would and when he would talk he'd sure enough make everyone laugh. R.I.P. ben you will be missed not only by everyone else but also by me and to his family i put my email if you need anything just let me know im here. Brian Kotilis
katie jordan
May 4, 2004
Ben was an amazing kid who put others before him. No matter how bad things were going, he would do whatever it took to make them happy again. He really cared for people which is rare and he always looked at the glass as half full intad of half empty. Its a true loss that he is gone, and i speak for the whole school when i say he will be missed.
RIP Ben... you were really beyond great -- iloveyou
nicole bartell
May 4, 2004
Wow, what is there not to say about Ben? he was such an amazing person. He always made everyone in his path happy. He was so high on life and such a happy person. Hes already really missed and its not fair how such an awesome person had to get taken away. Youll always be in my heart. God takes the best of us...R.I.P Ben I love you
Jennifer Capo
May 4, 2004
A Prayer~
I know that I've just met you,
But it's like I've known you for years. You've always brought all the laughter, but never got to see the tears. Your friends? You have plenty. All who love you so, and we want you to know, that we will never let you go. We will never let you leave, and we will never ever part, because although you are gone in distance. You are never gone at heart. GOD BLESS!!!
Nancy Peffer
May 4, 2004
Over these many miles that separate us, please know that our heartfelt condolences and prayers are with you. You are not just friends, you are family. Benjamin will be sorely missed - but most definitely will be your Guardian Angel. Amber, too, has lost a big brother. You know you can call us at anytime, for anything. Please remember to take care of each other.
Dawn Carmeci
May 4, 2004
My squad was very sad to hear the news about Benjamin. We would like to express our deepest symphathy to your family, his friends and the PMW Varsity Cheerleading Squad ~ please know that you are in our prayers.
East Stroudsburg North Cheerleaders
Samantha Donovan
May 4, 2004
Ben has touched everyone in several ways and has made a difference in everyone's lives who knew him. He was always happy and made everyone around him happy. Ben will be one of the most respected, generous and loved people I will meet throughout my life. Anyone who knew him was grateful to be a part of his life. He will be sincerely missed by everyone. My thougthts and prayers go out to The Orlando Family and to all of his friends and teachers.
jackie perna
May 4, 2004
To Ben's Family:
I did not know Ben personally, but I saw him standing by the lunchroom every morning as i walked into school. He was always happy, and I'm sure he is his happiest now. Ben is watching over us all, and he always will. I wish the best for you, I'm deeply sorry for your loss.
Kim and Stephanie Fuss
May 4, 2004
It is always sad to lose someone, especially someone so young and full of life. Ben your smile was amazing, and would light up the room wherever you went. You had a way of making everyone feel special. You brought such passion and excitement to the cheerleading team! Your gymnastics skills were unmatched! You will be greatly missed by many. Be happy and shine! We all know your teaching the big guy up stairs how to tumble... so whenever we hear thunder we'll know whats going on up there. SO many people looked up to you Ben, I know I did. Next year will not be the same without you, but we will NEVER forget you ever. You're not one thats easily forgotten. To the Orlando Family -Our Deepest Sympathy for your great loss. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers,
The Fuss Family
Vincent Neira
May 4, 2004
I am extremely sorry for the loss of your son. He was a great kid, friend, and son. He loved life and everybody that was involved in it. He was always happy and could brighten up anybodys day. He will truly be missed. I want be able to go to any of the sports events and not picture him with all the other cheerleaders and doing his flips. Once again i am truly sorry for your loss.
Jasmine Paige
May 4, 2004
My prayers are with your family. I am so sorry for your lost. Ben was one of the greatest people I ever knew. He was sweet, funny, and just a pleasent person to be around. Benjamin wll truly be missed, but never forgotten.
ashley
May 4, 2004
My thought and prayers are with the family...he was an amazing person who knew how to brighten anyones day!
Mandi Venturino
May 4, 2004
Ben was the most amazing person Ive ever known. He was so full of life and no matter what he always had a smile on his face. I met him at the sports complex and we just talked for what seemed forever! about everything... he will always be remembered for his cheerfullness and his heart of gold and even though he is not here physically he will always be with us. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Orlando Family!
Lauren Freach
May 4, 2004
Ben, WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU!!!! Fourth period will never be the same! I am going to miss your pajamas days!! You made fourth period something i will never forget!! All my prayers go out to you and your family!
Jacinda Evans
May 4, 2004
Ben I miss you so much! I know that your in a better place now, and you can look down and see how much we all love you!! Even though you are not here present, you are in my heart forever! I love you!
patricia sterlin
May 4, 2004
I've never met ben but I went to school with his brother and I wanted to give my deepest condolences to the orlando family.
Crystal Maldonado
May 4, 2004
I would like to just take a moment and say that I'm very sorry for your lost. My prayers go out to the Orlando family. Ben will be missed deeply but never forgotten. God has a very special angel that will be looking over lots of people. Ben's smile will forever be missed.
Shauna Anderson
May 4, 2004
Although I didnt know him well, I know that he was a good person at heart. We will always remember the time he spent with us.
Krystal Alicea
May 4, 2004
To the parents of a well known and well thought of son. He was always the cheerful type and was always energetic he will be well remembered and thought of.
Cathy Cunningham
May 4, 2004
Dear Tony, Rebeca and Family,
Words cannot express our deepest sympathies with the loss of Benjamin. Although we will all miss his smiling face and his endless energy his memory will remain forever in our hearts. May God smile upon him and may he continue to give us all strength until we see him again. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
The Cunningham Family
Jackie Titus
May 4, 2004
We love you Tony & Becky, our thougnts are with you and your family. Love the Titus family
Jasmine King
May 4, 2004
Benjamin, you were an amazing person, and an amazing cheerleader. Even though I didn't know you well, you will always be in mine and all of the other students' thoughts here at Pocono Mountain West High School. Rest In Peace.
Melanie VanSchouwenburg
May 4, 2004
My family and I will miss Ben greatly. Please know that you are always in our hearts, and minds. Mr. and Mrs. Orlando, please contact us if you need anything. Ben is in a better place.
Toni Nofi
May 4, 2004
He was a very nice guy and will be missed...everyday in the hall he would always tell me how he thought my 5 piercings and 1 tattoo were soo cool..and that i was awesome...R.i.P Ben :-(
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