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Beverly Bodom
May 14, 2021
Ray was my "Maternal "1st cousin. He was actual there when I was born and told me the details of my birth in Henning Tennesee.Today we receive a message his older Brother has died on this Monday May 10, 2021. This is challenging for me. My sister and I are the only two of full blood heritage that are left on his mother side . I give great love to his young sister Arnetha who now is the only one left to carry the banner. May God give all of us the strength and courage to carry on. I also want to say that Ray's wife has been in my life since I was 10 years old and now I am a woman in her
Sixties! Amen, She truly loved her husband and was a blessing to our family. Miss you cuz!!
Cynthia Mitchell
May 22, 2013
To Sleadie Ingram and family;
As the days pass and everyone and everything returns to normal, be comforted in the fact that he is with the Lord. I know my mom, Lula, wanted very much to be there with you but was unable to, however, she was there in spirit. You and Mr. Ingram have been a special part of my family's lives for years and know that we hurt deeply with you. The bible says he that finds a wife finds a good thing and finds favor with the Lord. Ms. Sleadie, he found favor with the Lord because he loved you like Christ loved the church. Be comforted in these days to come of the love you shared with one another. Please let us know if you need anything whatsoever; we will be glad to help you and your family.
Love you always,
Cynthia Renea Mitchell
Ozella Kelley
May 22, 2013
To the Ingram Family,
My body may not be with you in Gary, Indiana while you go through your loss of your love one, but I assure you my spirit is there with you always. Ray was calm spirited man whom the entire Gildon family loved, Stay strong my cousin Sleadie, God will hold your hand and rock to sleep at night. May God continue to bless you all.
Cousin Ozella Kelley
Ersula Gildon
May 18, 2013
My prayers go out to my aunt and her family at this time. The lord have you all in his hands and he will continue to hold you and guide you on in your time of need. Love Annie Wannie
Carleen Smith
May 16, 2013
Arnetha,
You have my deepest sympathy in the loss of your brother. May fond memories of him lighten your grief and ease your sorrow. God bless and keep you.
Love "Skeezer"
Bridgett Potter Cody
May 16, 2013
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
jesse williams
May 16, 2013
words cannot express my sadness.may the comfort of god help you through this difficult time.one of the good guys gone home
May 16, 2013
My sincere condolences to your family during this grievous time. God, who is a refuge and strength, provides abundantly during difficult times. May God give you the peace and comfort you need to endure the days ahead.
C Johnson
May 15, 2013
Arnetha,
We lift you and your family up and know that we love you.
The Roosevelt High School Class of 1977
Alfreda jones-Brodie, President
Linda O. Harris-Webb - Bereavement Secretary
Valerie J. Tate, Reunion Chairperson
May 15, 2013
Arnetha and family,
We were sorry to hear about the passing of your brother Ray, Sr. Our prayers are with you.
We love you,
Larry and Linda Webb
VERONICA SCOTT
May 15, 2013
TO ARNETHA AND FAMILY,
My condolences to you in the passing of your dear brother. Be encouraged that you've had a blessed opportunity to experience and build preciuos memories with your brother. May God comfort your heart whenever you miss him.
YOUR STATE FARM AGENT

Deepest Sympathy
Mr. & Mrs. Hugh Blackwell, Sr.
May 15, 2013
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you as you celebrate a life well lived. May God comfort you all during this difficult time.
Ellana Ingram
May 15, 2013
To Uncle Ray,
It's very hard for me, Erika and the kids to say goodbye to you and we will miss all the good times that we had together and your unique laugh.
I love you very much Uncle Ray Ingram
See you later,
Erika, Ellana, James, Micaila, Octavion, Gabby and Shaniya
May 15, 2013
Dear Ray
Saying good-bye is very hard for us to do
For no one knew how much We loved you
The call was sudden, the shock severe
We never knew that was death was so near
So sweet one take your well deserved rest
For you were truly one of the best
Love your Sister and Brothers
Sonny, Nita and Sam (nothing but death can separate us)
Beverly Johnson-Bodom
May 15, 2013
My Dear Cousin, you will be greatly missed. You helped to encourage and support me throughout my life. I will miss that infectious laugh of yours and the faithful telephone calls on my birthday. With all my love, dear cousin my you rest in peace....
May 15, 2013
I miss you very much uncle ray
love ya much
signed,
tina
Danny C. Brewster,Sr.
May 15, 2013
My God Bless the family of Arhur Ingram, Sr. I did not know him, but I did know his brother Sam, who is still someone I can call a friend. The Ingram Family has my prayers in the loss of your loved one.
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