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James M Scott
November 1, 2021
I went to high school with Sari. Good to see she has not been forgotten.
James Scott
November 2, 2020
She was a beautiful happy girl. Liked by everyone who knew her. Very sad that she's gone.
James Scott
March 27, 2017
I knew Sari in High School. Only just learned of her death. Very sad. She was a beautiful and popular girl. A tragic loss.
September 18, 2013
I was looking for sari on Facebook then found this. I knew her briefly but in that time she left such a great impression she worked on spinal cord where I worked. She was not your typical nurse. I used to hang out with her when she lived on cedar st. She had so many shoes and clothiers. She was the most generous person. Fun to bewith and an unforgettable laugh. How sad .
Dawn Briner
February 6, 2012
I worked alongside with Sari at many fashion shows as a makeup artist for the models. I light this candle tonight for you Sari. Love you girl! Dawn Briner
February 6, 2011
Sari,
She was a first love. We met when I was at Culver Military Academy. I thought of her oftern and saw her about 10 yearsw ago when my mother passed. She was as beautifiul as I remembered. I did not know she was sick or had passed away. My very sad condolences to her mother and brothers.
Bill Miller.
Betsy (Dreyer) Brunette
October 17, 2008
Being freshman roommates with Sari Asher at I.U.was an experience that I continue to talk about to this day! Sadly, we missed about 25 years of staying in touch but I am grateful to have gotten reacquainted in the past 5 years. Everyone who knew Sari learned something from her. She kept her life positive to the point that I never realized how serious her illness was. When I didn't hear from her for a while, a daughter of ours suggested that perhaps she had passed. It was then that we found the obit and I felt such sadness and loss. Would still love to hear from Lu or Hank. I have written to the Boca address but don't know if you ever got my letter. I will be thinking of your family as the anniversary of her death is approaching. Fondly....
Tamara Davenport Jagla
August 10, 2008
Dear Asher Family:
I was not aware that Sari had passed until tonight. I was Sari's Office Manager for over 9 years - right up until she sold the business. The first time I met her (and interviewed), she was barefooted in the Valpo store. We took one look at each other and I knew that we would get along so well and we did!! She allowed me to take my work to TN while my Dad was sick (and ultimately passed). I will never forget her kindness. I am deeply saddened by her passing.
Love,
Tamara Davenport Jagla
Judith Brownstein
January 9, 2008
I knew Sari when I worked in the fashion industry. I thought that she was the grandest person and always lit up a room when she entered it. It was a good day when Sari came to visit. I actually did a trunk show in the Valpariso shop. The customers were like family coming to hang out and chat and perhaps try on and buy, a concept that worked quite well. I adored Sari and am shocked to hear of her passing. I send my condolences to all of her family and friends.
L White
December 7, 2007
Dear Hank and Family -
Heartfelt condolences on the loss of your sister, Sari. I only met her once but the wonderful impression she made was a lasting one. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.
Poem Written by - Mary Frye
Valerie Booth
November 27, 2007
Dear Hank and Family,
I am so very sorry to hear of Sari's passing. There aren't enough words of condolence to make your loss easier to bear or to convey my sincerest hope for peace within you.
Eileen Quenin
November 26, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. Sari was kind, helpful and a wonderful mentor.
She was and is an inspiration to me.
Marilyn Hanson
November 25, 2007
How Sari could make each person feel special in everyway...through her amazing smile and sincere spirit! Her life has and will continue to touch many.
My deep sympathy and celebration of her life,
Dani Kubiak
November 20, 2007
Dear Lu and Family~
We are so saddened to hear of Sari's passing. As many others have noted, Sari's enthusiasm was contagious! She was engergetic and full of spunk. Sari offered Bill and I many opportunities to share in the creative aspects of her business; we learned and grew as a result of those very rewarding times.
We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Scott and Jenn Wagner
November 19, 2007
Hank,
While we never had an opportunity to meet Sari in person, the stories that have been shared make us feel like we knew her well. Our condolences on the loss for your family and those whose lives Sari touched. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Jim Carroll
November 17, 2007
I got to meet Sari three times in the past few months. A very sweet, joyous person who I'm sorry I was not able to get to know better. She seems to have been all about being positive and optimistic, and was a great sister to Hank. I know especially from those who knew her best that she'll be greatly missed.
Butch Gast
November 16, 2007
Lou,Hank,Charlie, and Tommy:
My deepest heartfelt condolences. Sari will be missed by everyone. My thoughts are with your family.
Anne Arvizu
November 16, 2007
Hank and Family,
Jaime and I met Sari only once at your home, but once is enough for a person to make an impact. I have thought about and have prayed for her often. We are sorry for the loss of your precious sister.
Love, Anne and Jaime Arvizu
Jeff Portz
November 15, 2007
Hank and family I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Laurel Izard
November 14, 2007
I feel so blessed to have had the opportunity to know Sari as a friend, teacher and fellow spiritual pilgrim.
Dominican League Against Cancer
November 14, 2007
On behalf of the Dominican Rep. team, we want to express our sorrow about your lost. We saw how you put all of your efforts and dedication for Sari´s health recover.
Please recieve our sympathy, in this tough moment of sadness. Hugs,
Brian, Gaylene, Bob, Joyce Rhoda
November 14, 2007
My mother said she spoke with you recently Lou. Our condolences.
Jennie Barlow
November 13, 2007
Lu and family and especially Sarah, Sari taught me so much when I worked for her. Most memorably she taught me to be proactive rather than reactive in my life - I still tell my kids this all the time! She never ceased to amaze us. My prayers are with you all.
John Puhl
November 12, 2007
Lu, Tommy, Charlie and Hank,
I am very sorry to hear about Sari. She was so much fun to be around, full of life and her laughter was contagious. Sari had an impact on everyone she met and I am very fortunate to be one of those people. My deepest sympathy to you all.
Alane Summers
November 12, 2007
As a teenager, Sari not only employed me, but taught me so many lessons: the importance of generosity, the power of a laugh, the value of going the extra mile, the greatness in being open minded. Thank you, Sari. You're missed by all.
David Thorn
November 12, 2007
Lou and family, I want to express how sad I am to hear about Sari. Our days together in college were some of my best. Her enjoyment of life, her deep laugh and sense of adventure has stuck with me always. I was in Bloomington over homecoming and walking campus. Every where I walked I saw Sari and the fun we had there. I had no idea at the time she was ill. Lou I want you to know your kugel was the first and best I ever tasted. I have been a caterer for 25yrs. now and have been making it for clients but yours is still the best. Take Care. David " Thorn"
Allison Wolford
November 11, 2007
Sari is one of the nicest people I have ever met. My mom and my aunt worked for her when I was a teenager. I remember I always wanted her to adopt me, because she was so nice to everyone. She was and always will be an angel.
Susan Risk Bottum
November 11, 2007
It is clear from reading the guest book that Sari touched many many lives. I had the pleasure of working for her at her Valpo store while in high school and college. Saris was a wonderful boss, a true mentor and had a zest for life that we should all try to emulate! She as always upbeat - and the twinkle in her eye was present each and every day. My sympathy to the family. God Bless.
Sue Davis
November 10, 2007
Lou,
I was very sad to hear of Sari's passing. It has been a long time. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Mary and Stu Brust
November 10, 2007
I will always remember my cousin Sari's captivating smile and charm. She made everyone around her feel so special.
We will continue to keep the Asher family in our thoughts and prayers.
Wyn (Froberg) Hyzer
November 10, 2007
Dear Lu, Charlie, Hank, and Tom:
I was so sorry to hear that Sari had lost her battle with cancer. Life doesn't seem fair sometimes. I will always remember Sari as the young girl who made the Passover Seder at your house so much fun ! My thoughts are with all of you.
Nathan Freedlund
November 9, 2007
Dear Lucille, I would like to express my condolence to you and your entire family. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Barbara Coons
November 9, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of Sari's passing. I'll never forget her million dollar smile & her warmth. She was blesssed with the ability to make everyone feel special. This may sound trite, but just going into any of her stores was pure joy & FUN when she was there...even my young children were treated royally!! My sincere condolences to her family..you are in my prayers.
Bill and Lorraine Freedlund
November 9, 2007
My fondest memories of Sari from the time she was little to adulthood were her radiant smile and joyful spirit. I know she was truly a blessing to you Lucille and to her brothers and family. We think of you all often and know memories of Sari will lift your spirits.
Elizabeth and Dean Danielson
November 9, 2007
Hank and Charlie, I know you loved her so very much. Our deepest condolences to you and your families. Thank you for dedicating yourselves to her life - and the lives of others that will benefit from your efforts.
Dr. Phil Greipp
November 9, 2007
We miss Sari but we treasure the moments we had with her.
Together we fought the good fight against her myeloma. Sari will be remembered - in our battle against the disease that she continues to inspire us to defeat once and for all.
Your Mayo team adds its deepest sympathies to Hank and Lu and the family - and to friends so many of whom have written here.
Tim & Carole McCarthy
November 9, 2007
Our heartfelt condolences to the family.
Gwen Rapley
November 8, 2007
Sari's presence in a room was like turning on the lights. She lit every place she entered by her exuberance and that fabulous smile.
The world will be a dimmer place without her shining presence, but heaven is certainly all aglow from it. My condolences to Lou and the family.
Sharon Beach
November 8, 2007
My sympathy to the family
Marian Jackson
November 8, 2007
My deepest sympathy to Hank, Lou and family. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Many lives have been touched by Sari's strength, courage and determination.
November 8, 2007
While there are no words to ease your loss, Michiana Cancer Treatment Staff want you to know we are thinking of you and wish to express our sincere sympathy at the loss of your loved one.
Deborah Mullins
November 8, 2007
Sari was so sweet and real. I'll
always smile when I think of her.
My prayers are with her family and
millions of friends!
Kay (Campbell) Bale
November 8, 2007
Where do I start? Sari and I were sorority sisters, roommates and best friends during our days at IU. The news of her death hit me hard. I thought if anyone could beat cancer, it was Sari. Lu, Hank, Charlie and Tommy, my heart is broken too. I got out the old scrapbook and had a good cry after I heard the news. The up side of things is that it made me get in touch with some other friends from those days. Even in death, Sari is still bringing us together. My most heartfelt condolences to all of you.
Deb Koeppen
November 8, 2007
So sorry to learn of Sari's passing - know she worked hard to recover. A beautiful gal who left her mark on many here in Valparaiso. Dear family...know you're in my thoughts and prayers.
Jim Woodruff
November 8, 2007
Condolences to the Asher family from the Woodruff family in Valpo. Sari was the most beautiful girl and a smart, generous and strong woman who left a lasting impression on all.
Leigh McMorrow
November 8, 2007
My deepest sympathy to Hank and his family. I only met Sari a couple of times, but she was always very genuine. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Frank, Diane, & Mary Puder & Burrus
November 8, 2007
Asher Family,
Please accept our deepest regrets on the loss of Sari. She touched many people with her courage, and postive outlook. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Alice Puzyk & Diana Knezevich
November 8, 2007
We were very saddened to hear about Sari's passing and pass on our condolences to you,Lou, and family. I've known Sari since high school, and she was always someone you admired for all her accomplishments,and espescially for being such a warm hearted person.
My Mom also sends her deepest sympathy to you, Lou, for your great loss. I remember how kind you were to visit me years ago when I was a patient at Northwestern Memorial.
I hope it is a comfort to know how many people Sari's life touched and how affectionately she will be remembered. How wonderful to leave such a great legacy of life.
Dianne Sullivan
November 8, 2007
I was fortunate to have worked for Sari, in her home in Michigan. This is how I will always remember her....Sari's attitude was like the sun, always bright no matter how gray the day. Even when it rained her rays of sunshine crept through.
She was always happy and her spirit alive and everlasting. She was grateful and never needed anything to satisfy her. She appreciated all she possessed and always talked about how blessed her life was. She was never interested in what anyone did for a living, just what their dreams and passions were.
She lived in joy...she was beauty itself. She believed, and used to say there were enough miracles to believe the impossible. She was a celebration of life...that's the way I will always remember her. I am grateful that she was a part of my life.
I would like to offer my warmest and deepest sympathies to Mama Lu, her brothers, and her nieces on their loss.
We will all miss her.
Sherron Pampalone
November 8, 2007
With a heavy heart, I read of Sari's passing. She touched so very many lives with her enthusiasm for life. At the original store, Sari taught me so much about fashion, living, and even about my own weaving talents. Such a sunny personality! I keep her and her family in my prayers.
John Strader
November 8, 2007
My deepest heartfelt condolences go to out to her brother, Hank, and all of Sari's family. Although I never had the good fortune to meet her, I know that she was a fierce fighter who inspired people to great efforts on her behalf. The world is a better place because of her and the people who worked with her and loved her.
Tedi Rockwell
November 8, 2007
So sorry for your loss Hank and family. You all will be in our prayers. Peace and love
Tedi Rockwell
Geri McDaniel
November 7, 2007
Deepest sympathy to Lu and family,Sari our Bossy we will cherish the memories forever of your life so well lived. Kay, Donna, Geri, Pat and all the rest of Trunketts
Cathy DeMarco & Tony Kirk
November 7, 2007
Sari will be missed. Rarely have I met anyone who was so upbeat and happy as often as Sari. Her smile was magic. There's no doubt that her family's devotion to her well-being added years to her life. Our thoughts go out to the entire Asher clan.
Christopher Lowenstine
November 7, 2007
Sari had the ability to let you know by her beautiful smile and a quick wink of the eye you were always welcome.I will always remember the wonderful times at our Flint Lake cottage and for her ability to convince my brother Richard to allow me to hang around with the close group of friends they shared. I very much feel honored to have been able to call Sari my friend. Sari... we will miss you so very much :(
Mama LU-Hank-Charles-Tom- and all of Sari's friends and family- I extend my thoughts and prayers in this sad time in all of our lives.
Tammy Smolen
November 7, 2007
I worked for Sari at La Grande Trunk as her office manager, almost 20 years ago. I still, to this day, consider her to be the best "boss" anyone could've asked for. Her beautiful smile and generous heart are things that this world will miss!! Everyone on this earth who knew her and were touched by her wonderful spirit are better off because of her!
My deepest sympathy and prayers are with Lucille and the rest of her family! May God bless them and help them thru their sorrow at this time!!
Bonnie Turner-Isaacs
November 7, 2007
I would like to offer my deepest sympathies to Hank and the family for their loss. My prayers go out to you.
Tom Moseley
November 7, 2007
I was lucky enough to know Sari. She was a wonderful person, and the world is a poorer place without her. Judi's and my sympathies go out to Hank and the rest of Sari's family.
David Bayliss
November 7, 2007
Ultimately it is not where we finish but how we run the race. I only met Sari a few times but she ran with grace and determination.
I hope and pray that her legacy will inspire and encourage others and that Jari will eventually find a way to spare others this pain.
Don Evans
November 7, 2007
My deepest condolences to the entire Asher family. I met Sari when she was just starting to show her compassion and love for others. I am proud to have met her knowing the accomplishments she has made. Her brother Hank loved her more than life itself, and it showed with his brotherly attitude towards her. I feel the pain of such a loss to the entire Asher family. Please convey my thoughts to Hank. Don Evans
Lynn and Janet Schuchardt
November 7, 2007
My and my sympathies to you Hank. I'm sorry she's gone, yet glad you had time together. We shall keep you in our prayers. I still appreciate our friendship.
S Black
November 7, 2007
I was not fortunate enough to have known Sari but I am fortunate to be a breast cancer survivor. It is through the courage and efforts of people like Sari that others may be able to continue on with their lives. Bless you Sari!!! My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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