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Andrew J. Thorson

1981 - 2020

Andrew J. Thorson obituary, 1981-2020, Oshkosh, WI

Andrew Thorson Obituary

Andrew J. Thorson was received into the loving arms of Jesus on August 15, 2020, the Feast of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary, surrounded by loved ones and the prayers of hundreds who were praying for his healing. Andrew, age 38, died from complications after being stung multiple times by hornets in his yard in rural Oshkosh on August 2.

Andrew was born in Milwaukee, Wisconsin on October 18, 1981 to John and Amy (Hillen) Thorson. The oldest of eight children, Andrew attended St. Bernard Elementary School in Wauwatosa and graduated from Marquette University High School (MUHS) in 2000. In high school, Andrew was a leader on the football field, excelling as an O/D lineman and was a proud member of the Hilltoppers' 1999 WISAA State Champion football team. After graduating, he continued his commitment to MUHS football, helping coach the freshman team from 2003 - 2007.

Andrew graduated from Marquette University in 2005 with a Bachelor of Science in Civil Engineering. While attending Marquette, Andrew met the love of his life, Heather (Josephson) Thorson, whom he married on November 4, 2006. While living in the Milwaukee area after college, Andrew was a licensed engineer at GRAEF, working on the designs for many athletics and recreational facilities. In 2009, Andrew received a Master of Business Administration degree from Cardinal Stritch University.

In 2011, Andrew and his young family moved to Oshkosh, where he started working for the Neenah Joint School District (NJSD) as their Director of Facilities/Engineer. When Neenah's Director of Business Services position opened up in 2015, Andrew transitioned into the role at the encouragement of district leaders and completed his license in School Business Management from UW-Whitewater. Andrew was a visionary behind the creation of the NJSD's $114.9 million referendum and played an instrumental part in its passing in April 2020. In 2019, Andrew was named the New School Business Manager of the Year by the Wisconsin Association of School Business Officials.

In addition to his work and commitment to public education at NJSD, Andrew was equally devoted to advancing the mission of Catholic education at Lourdes Academy in Oshkosh. In 2012, he joined the Lourdes Academy Board of Trustees and served as Chair since 2015. During his tenure as chairperson, Andrew led the system through the development of a comprehensive strategic plan, a long-term plan to preserve and enhance facilities, and a vision to bring all Lourdes Academy students onto one campus in an expanded facility.

While he was so much to so many, most important to Andrew was his faith and his family. He, along with his wife Heather and their 4 daughters, was a member of St. Jude the Apostle Parish. There was nothing Andrew enjoyed more than spending time at home with "his girls." He loved teaching them the finer points of gardening, cooking and grilling. He enjoyed playing in their pool in summer and cuddling together on the couch while watching a movie during the winter. Andrew enjoyed camping and sitting around the campfire with friends and could always be counted on for a good laugh. He gave the best bear hugs and told the worst "dad jokes," and no one could question the pride and love he had for his family.

Andrew is survived by his wife Heather; his daughters, Abigail (age 11), Lydia (age 9), Emily (age 7), and Vivian (age 2); his parents Amy and John; his brothers, Louis (Jessica), Paul (Mary), John (Sara), and Alex Thorson; his sisters, Maria (Matthew) Feeney, Molly (Eduardo) Naylor, and Beatrice Thorson; his brother in-law, Dewey (Cheryl) Josephson; nephews, Eliot Thorson and Hugh Feeney; nieces, Hannah, Margaret and Brigid Feeney, Kate and Lucy Thorson, and Mia Josephson. He is also survived by his grandmother, Jacqueline Thorson; mother- and father-in-law, Lynda Kleinschmidt-Johnson and Greg Johnson; along with numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, and close friends.

Andrew's family would like to share their appreciation to the nurses and doctors at Mercy Medical Center for the care and compassion they provided him and their family during this very difficult and heart breaking time. They would also like to thank the hundreds (maybe even thousands) of people who have been lifting Andrew and his family up in prayer the last few weeks, especially their St. Jude, Lourdes Academy, and NJSD families. It means so much and is a true testament to the impact Andrew had, and will continue to have, on the communities in which he lived and worked.

Public visitation will take place from 9 - 11 a.m. on Saturday, August 22, at St. Jude the Apostle Parish - St. Vincent site (1225 Oregon Street, Oshkosh). Masks must be worn in the church, and guests are asked to maintain physical distancing. To maintain capacity limits set by the Diocese of Green Bay within the church, a private memorial Mass for invited family and friends will take place at noon, with Fr. Louis Golamari officiating. A public burial service will take place immediately following Mass at Calvary Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, please consider contributing to the tuition assistance fund that has been created at Lourdes Academy (250 N. Sawyer Street, Oshkosh), which will help support Andrew's wishes for his daughters to continue to have a Catholic education.

While we may not understand why Andrew was called home so early, we know that God's plans are perfect and that He loves Andrew (and all of us) more than any of us can imagine. And so, we send Andrew off with love and peace, as well as sorrow - not for him, but for those of us who will miss Andrew so dearly...until we're able to join him in eternity.

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Published by Appleton Post-Crescent from Aug. 18 to Aug. 19, 2020.

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Larry and Alice Palank

August 26, 2020

We are so sorry to hear about your son. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Tom and Valerie Miller

August 23, 2020

John and Amy,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your son, Andrew. There is nothing more tragic than the loss of a child, at any age. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you, his wife Heather and their children. May God be with you all,

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Harry Blobaum

August 21, 2020

Heather, Abigail, Lydia, Emily, and Vivian: Although I do not know you as a family, I feel that the loss of your husband and father tugs at my heart in a couple of ways: I was a career math teacher at NHS until 2000 AND Dick Basham is a former roommate of mine at Wartburg College. Please take solace in knowing that Andrew could not have made better choices than working for the NJSD and playing and coaching at Marquette High! Please accept my sincere sympathy. I encourage you to continue to remember your husband and father in all the positive ways he has influenced your lives and those of many others. May God bless you in the days ahead.

David Vander Linden

August 20, 2020

The Oshkosh Area Humane Society would like to extend its condolences to Heather, and to his daughters, and his entire family. We are sorry for your loss.

Our special thanks to his family members who have been supportive and so giving of donations through the years to the Humane Society.

Our sympathy to each of you at this very difficult time.

Vernon Green - Neenah Menasha Fire Rescue

August 20, 2020

I just today learned of the passing of Andrew and I was absolutely shocked. I have known Andrew and worked with him through NJSD for years. He was without question a very pleasant and enjoyable man. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family, friends, and co-workers. He will be greatly missed. RIP Andrew

Margaret Zold

August 19, 2020

I did not know Andrew, but sounds as though he was a wonderful man, husband and father. May the Holy Spirit surround you with His love and peace. "May the peace that surpasses all understanding guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus our Lord. God's blessings in the days ahead.

Cindy Bauer

August 19, 2020

I had the privilege of going to college with Andrew. What a loss of an amazing person. Prayers for you all in this tragic time. Cindy Salm Bauer

Greg Kerr

August 19, 2020

John& Amy,
I am so sorry to learn of the tragic loss of your son Andrew. Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. May the goodness of the Lord comfort you and may His loving presence in your lives soothe you heart and ease your pain.
With deepest Sympathy,
Greg Kerr

Gerrymandering Jochman & Mary Jo Pankratz

August 19, 2020

John, Amy & family,
Words cannot express the heartfelt sorrow I feel for you as parents of Andrew. No parent should have to experience the death of a child, but God must have a plan that we cannot know now but will one day when we join him. Please accept my prayers for you guys to remember all the good times and look forward to sharing his life with his daughters. I only met him at age 4, when you all came to Sheboygan for a 10th anniversary MSOE reunion, but will always remember how a little boy, scared of our little poodle ran pell mell right through our back deck screen door! It was quite a site and hopefully did not traumatize him about dogs! God bless you all and hope we can get together in the future as the world returns to some kind of normal again.

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Anne Lang

August 19, 2020

I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I was fortunate to work with Andrew at NJSD. He was an exceptional young man who was an integral part of the administrative team. I especially remember his quiet sense of humor, kind-heartedness, keen intellect, and work ethic. May your wonderful memories of Andrew and your strong faith comfort you during this difficult time.

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Erika Thorson

August 18, 2020

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Diane Galow

August 18, 2020

Andrew was the epitome of a gentleman. He was brilliant, professional, and a pure joy to be around.
Heather and family, may your memories comfort you at this time of sorrow. I am better for having known your amazing husband and father, please know that he had a strong impact on all whom he touched in his short life.
May God watch over all of you on this journey.

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