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Scottsdale, AZ - Lillian Prane Nakutavicius Ennesser passed away on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013 at the Scottsdale Health Care in Scottsdale, AZ surrounded by her family. Lillian defies beyond any definition of what those who knew her called her; mother, sister, daughter, confident, and most importantly dedicated wife. She embodied a persona solely her own, the 'Five Foot Firecracker,' She lived a glorious life full of world travels and family experiences. Lillian put up a courageous battle with cancer and never stopped fighting. She will be greatly missed by everyone who knew, loved, and laughed with her. Lillian leaves behind her husband, Jay Ennesser; her three daughters Jennifer, Nicole and Danielle Ennesser all of Scottsdale, AZ; her mother Olga Nakutavicius, brothers and sisters in law Richard and Terri Nakutavicius and Kenneth and Sue Nakutavicius and their children Nicholas and Alexandra, Mother and Father in-law Joseph and Eileen Ennesser, brother-in-law Gene Ennesser and his children Samantha and Sarah, sister-in-law Karen Brocato and her husband Michael and their children Joey, Courtney and Kevin along with numerous aunts, uncles and cousins who were also a special part of her life. She was preceded in death by her father Vytas (Vic) Nakutavicius in 2010 with whom she will now join in heaven.
Friends may call on Sunday August 25, 2013 from 4-8pm at Robert H. Auchmoody Funeral Home 1028 Main Street, Fishkill. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday August 26, 2013 at 10am at St. Mary, Mother of the Church, Fishkill. Entombment will follow in Poughkeepsie Rural Cemetery.
The family asks that in lieu of gifts or flowers, a donation be made to the Stand Up To Cancer File 1224 1801 W. Olympic Boulevard Pasadena, CA 91199-1224.
For Lillian's guestbook or to send a condolence please visit www.hudsonvalleyfuneralhomes.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Lillian Ennesser
August 29, 2013
I knew Lillian from John Jay. We too have three daughters, I can only imagine your pain and sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Linda and Michael Tierney
Patricia & Wally Neal
August 26, 2013
We only knew Lillian for a short time. Such a loss to the world of a person so full of life.
Patricia & Wally Neal
August 26, 2013
Jay and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss of lillian.We will continue to pray for you during this sorrowful time and will always remember "lil" with fondest memories.
Bernie & Carol Reimer
Ken Walsh
August 26, 2013
Jay and Family,
My condolences to you and your family at this time, My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
August 24, 2013
Lillian I look at your departure from this earth as a ship sailing into the sunset someday we will all meet again in another port of call. Cousin Charlie
Margie Jackson Oppold
August 24, 2013
Jay, My memory of Lil extends all the way back to High School when she used to hang at the railing by the guidance office. She was a very kind person. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Kenneth Torreggiani
August 24, 2013
Jay
Please accept my condolences for your loss. May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.
Linda
August 23, 2013
Dear Jay and girls, Lil and I have been friends since we were 6 years old. I will miss her terribly.I know she loved her life with you all so very much. I will be praying for all of you.
Steve Thompson
August 23, 2013
Jay, my sympathies and prayers go out to you and your family for whatever comfort is possible in this difficult time.
Christine Kalan Tidman
August 23, 2013
I was so sorry to hear about Lillian. I have really fond childhood memories of her - Lillian and Linda were the coolest babysitters ever :) Sounds like she continued to live life to the fullest and turned into an amazing woman. My thoughts & sympathy.
Richard McHugh
August 23, 2013
We are praying for the Ennesser and Nakutavicius families .
Karen Muler
August 23, 2013
I pray the love of God enfolds you during your journey through grief.
Sending thoughts of comfort to the Ennesser family.
The whole gang of great friends! Aloha.
Cindy Latch
August 23, 2013
Lil cheering on a great meal in Hawaii!
Cindy Latch
August 23, 2013
Such a happy couple, always having fun!
Cindy Latch
August 23, 2013
Good friends in Hawaii at Club
Cindy Latch
August 23, 2013
Lil having fun in Hawaii at club trip
Cindy Latch
August 23, 2013
George Caruso
August 23, 2013
To Jay and family: Having lost my wife, brother and father recently, I understand and feel your sorrow and send my deepest sympathy. You all are in our prayers and may God Bless Lillian, yourself and your kids. ~ George Caruso and family.
August 23, 2013
Dear Jay and daughters,
My sincere condolences to all of you. I met Lil on several occasions when you and I worked together. At that time, we were just starting our family and yours was in full-swing. I remember being astounded by all the balls Lil kept in the air - her family, the girls' soccer, her career, her fitness... She was a great role model to me! I have always looked forward to receiving your family's Christmas card and watching it change over the years. She will be missed by all those who were fortunate enough to have met her.
With sympathy,
Annalisa & Steve
August 23, 2013
This note is for Jay and the children they both loved. I only met Lil one time- I remember her as being the most supportive friend that anyone could hope for. This was at Mike Bubeck's funeral. She totally impressed me with all the help she provided while Nanci was grieving. Lil would not remember me, even if she tripped over me - but I do remember her - and everyone should have such a devoted friend as she was. I wish I could have met her at least one more time. That is my loss. Obviously, she made an impression on me, even after meeting only once. I am sure that her bubbly personality was needed in the afterlife. I know that I will meet her again.
Thinking of your entire family - Pat Connolly / Grand Rapids, MI.
August 23, 2013
Dear Jay
we were so sorry to hear of your loss.
Jane and I didnt know Lillian well but have very fond memories of you both joining the i2 Club trip to Hawaii.
best wishes and our thoughts with you and your family.
Ken & Jane Adcock
BILL & ANNA MAE KYLE
August 23, 2013
SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT LILLIAN,WE OFFER OUR
CONDOLENCES
August 23, 2013
I am so very sorry for your loss - my heart and prayers are with you all.
Kelly Smith-Wajda
semmery edwards
August 23, 2013
hello i did not know her but she seens like she was a wondreful person and she will be in my prays as well as her family god bless my name is
Valerie Andryca Carle
August 22, 2013
My sincerest condolences to you & family. There are no words in these times.
Terri Nakutavicius
August 22, 2013
Dear Jay,Jen,Nikki and Dani,
We are so sorry for your loss. Not only was you Mom our Maid of honor, my sister in law, the mother of three of our wonderful nieces but she was my friend. I am so thankful to have known her and had her as part of my family she loved all of you with her whole heart and will be watching over you always. We love all of you and you will be in our prayers We are always here for all of you. Love you Aunt Terri xxoo
Sandy Turner
August 22, 2013
My deepest sympathy to the whole family for such a great loss.
Friend of Nanci Bubeck, Sandy Turner
Gerrie Nolan
August 22, 2013
Dear Jay and girls: I am so sorry to hear of Lillian's passing. My sincere condolences to you all. She certainly was a "Firecracker" and she did love her firemen. I will never forget when she parked her car in front of the Mitsubishi dealership with the lemons on her car to make a point. I will remember her with fondness. God Bless.
Jim Chillemi
August 22, 2013
Jay, I am so sorry for you loss. If there is anything I can do please let me know.
Your Friend,
August 22, 2013
Dear Sweet Jay,
I cannot believe she has left us. I will always remember her fancy electric slide dance moves and her skill at the slots in Vegas! She always knew how to fill the room with fun and laughter! Her energy and love of just enjoying all life had to offer was contagious. She will be missed, so very, very much.
The girls and you certainly were blessed to have her in your lives, as she was blessed to have you all, there for hers.
We love you,
Charlie and Cindy Latch
Plano, Texas
Gerrie Nolan
August 22, 2013
Lillian - You are gone too soon. You were so full of life. I will never forget when you put the lemons on your car and sat in front of the Mitsubishi dealership on your lunch hour. God Bless. Your family has an angel.
August 22, 2013
My sincerest condolences go out to the family and to all who knew and loved her--Wendy Samurin
Carolyn & M ike Muzyka
August 22, 2013
This is a wonderful and fitting memorial to honor her. She was a lovely, funny and fun woman and I feel blessed to have had her as a family member. She is sorely missed.
David Mazgaj
August 22, 2013
I was a neighbor (and friend) of Jay and Lillian when they lived in Vermont. We spent time together at their home drinking homemade strawberry daquiries. Lil was always involved with the group activties and helped made them more enjoyable. I will always remember the time in Vermont when we were out fishing when Lil and I had to teach Jay how to fish.
I will always make a toast to Lil for every strawberry daiquiri that I drink. Lil will always be alive if we keep a small part of her in our heart. I am sure that Lil is in heaven looking over us and guiding our lives to a path of success.
Nanci Bubeck
August 22, 2013
Dear Jay, Jennifer, Nicole and Danielle,
I cannot fully explain how saddened I am knowing that Lil is no longer with us. Seeing her picture in the paper verifies what I already knew, but losing someone like her seems impossible. The definition of firecracker is so appropriate for her, but she was so much more. In her was such a strength, determination, kindness, creativity, sense of humor and so many other wonderful qualities that people can possess. She loved people and life with all of her heart. I know how difficult this is for you all, as it is for my family knowing that she has departed this place. But, rest assured that someday there will be a wonderful reunion with Lillian in a much better place. Her kindnesses and love will never be forgotten.
I hope that soon your feelings of sadness and loss will be replaced by those wonderful memories of Lil's huge influence on so many people's lives. She was truly one of a kind.
August 22, 2013
I will miss you terribly my dear friend...the laughs, the confidences, the sharing of our families and lives. I'm so lucky to have had you in my life, albeit too short. You're light will always shine for those people who knew you. I love you, Karen
bridget tracy
August 22, 2013
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all
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