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Ettore Tomassi Obituary

Tomassi, Ettore

Ettore Tomassi (the barber), 90, of Endicott formerly of Strangolagalli, Italy died peacefully surrounded by his family Friday, October 10, 2014. He was predeceased by his wife Louise (Sementelli) Tomassi; his parents, Vincenzo and Stella Tomassi and a brother Carlo Tomassi. He is survived by his two daughters, Vivian and Wayne Tidick and Teresa and Edward Slavetsky; three grandsons, Kyle Slavetsky, David (Stacy) Tidick, and Michael (Lori) Tidick; four great-grandchildren, Milo and Ella Tidick and Lorin and Tyler Tidick; sister-in-law, Mary (Sam) Scarrapicchia; special nieces, nephews and cousins. Ettore was a member of St. Anthony of Padua Church, Endicott. He was a veteran of WWII serving in the Italian Army for three years. He came to the United States with his family in 1956 and work at Endicott-Johnson for a short time until he landed a full-time job as a barber at Mike Lockett's Barber Shop. He started his barbering career when he was 13 years old in his hometown (Strangolagalli). His hobbies were gardening and making wine in the fall. He loved his work very much especially when it came to solving all of the world's problems with his customers whom he enjoyed so very much. Many thanks to Father Jim Serowik, Sister Anisia, the staff at Wilson Hospital, Ideal Nursing Home and Dr. Jonathon Harris. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated Tuesday 1 p.m. from St. Anthony of Padua Church, 306 Odell Avenue, Endicott. Entombment will be in Calvary Cemetery. The family will receive friends at church Tuesday from 11 a.m. until 12:45 p.m. In lieu of flowers expressions of sympathy in his memory may be made to St. Anthony of Padua Church Food Pantry or St. Francis Ministry, c/o of Sister Anisia, 906 Jenkins Street, Endicott, NY 13760.

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Published by Press & Sun-Bulletin from Oct. 12 to Oct. 14, 2014.

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Margaret

October 6, 2024

It´s been a decade, but feels like yesterday.
We still miss you, we still love you, and will still remember every moment with you.

Margaret

October 6, 2023

After all this years you are still missing and never will be forgotten!
Margaret R

Al DiRusso

October 16, 2014

Dear Theresa, Viv, David and Family, my very first barber and my father's for 55 years, a long-time, dear friend, your father/grandfather was one of the best men I knew. He is the true role model of how to live a good and honest life. Resta in pace, carissimo amico nostro. - Alfredo

D. Longo

October 15, 2014

Teresa and Vivian and family, so sorry to hear of your loss. I have many fond memories from my youth of your Dad while he worked for uncle Mike. He was a kind individual with a wonderful personality. May he rest in peace.

Matt Decker

October 13, 2014

So sorry to hear this...Ettore was my neighbor for many years on Odell Ave. And my barber. Rest in peace Ettore.

October 13, 2014

Ettore gave my son his first haircut 43 years ago which is how long he cut my hair. I will miss the many stories. Tom T, Maine, NY.

Thomas Clark

October 13, 2014

To Ettore's family my sincerest condolences. He was a nice man, excellent barber & good friend. Proud to admit he gave both my son's their very first hair cut with Ettore being understanding to the crying, kicking & screaming handling it with just a smile & "there, there, relax" calming the boys. Everytime I drive by the shop I think of that & smile. He may be gone, but he will never be forgotten. God bless your entire family at this time of sorrow.

October 12, 2014

Dear Vivian,Teresa,and Family,our deepest sympathy and thoughts are with you. Your Dad,loved His family,His work,and the people of Endicott. We will always remember His wine, and garden.May God Bless Him,and may He Rest In Peace.
Bob and Carrie Kulle. Port St. Lucie Fla.

margaret r

October 12, 2014

God saw you were getting tired, and a cure was not to be,
So he put his arms around you, and whispered, "Come to Me."
With tearful eyes we watched you, and saw you pass away.
Although we loved you dearly, we could not make you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands at rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us, He only takes the best.

Mayor John Bertoni

October 12, 2014

Ettore was a longtime friend to many on the Northside of Endicott and his personality and love of his Family and profession was exemplary .May he rest in peace and always be remembered by those who knew him well as I did. My condolences to you Teresa and Vivian and Families.

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