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Ruth Thomson
February 13, 2025
Griffin! Can´t forget her sparkling personality, always with music. A sister and a husband...... best wishes. Ruth
Daniel G Sokol
February 13, 2024
Rest in peace!
I still sing some of the songs I learned from you when I was in elementary school.
Pam Emerson
February 13, 2023
Gone 10 years, but definitely not forgotten. I knew her as 'Mrs. Cahill', my elementary school music teacher and ardent advocate for kids' joy, expression, sense of humor, and voice <3 Your light lives on, Mrs. Cahill! Still singing... and still in love with the music of the world, thanks to you.
Pam Emerson
GHN 1977-1984
Mary Susan(Sue) Megelick
February 19, 2021
Dear Griffin,
I think of you often...
I so miss our long talks about everything under the sun on your breezy side porch.
Birds chirping, wine, snacks, bruschetta(my fave!!),complete with your homegrown tomatoes & garden herbs, opera playing in the background, gentle Henry nearby...
I so miss your ready laugh, wise counsel, good humor, wonderful stories and your lovely friendship.
Until we meet again my friend...
Love,
‘Mary Susan’❤
(Sue Megelick)
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Martin Zeccola
March 4, 2013
I had Ms. Cahill as a music teacher at a very young age (while living in Endicott), maybe 4th grade. I still remember her from those days and love music to this day. She was a very kind woman, I'm sorry to hear of her passing. May God's grace comfort you in this time of sorrow.
Lynda DeLuca
February 28, 2013
Jim, Family,and Friends
Finding the right words to offer you escape me. Knowing that Griffin leaves behind a husband, family, and friends who are so much richer in spirit for having known her....is the only way we can go on without her. May peace settle on you all as we keep her alive by remembering her ability to make us smile and be just a little bit better for having known her.
Lynda DeLuca
February 28, 2013
My thoughts go out to the family of Cahill and Griffin. Such a beautiful family.
February 27, 2013
To the Griffin and Cahill families; My deepest sympathies. I met Linda a few time with her sister Patti. The one thing I remember the most is her unending enthusiasm for music, especially Opera. She will be missed greatly. Sue Hunsinger
Bernadette Gransbury - Bailey
February 26, 2013
To the Griffin and Cahill families, I am so sorry for your loss. Linda and I were in school from early grade school through graduation from high school. She was always an intelligent happy & fun friend. I have a picture with her in it at my 9th birthday party. Linda's mom gave me piano lessons at an early age. Linda was also a terrific music teacher and taught my granddaughter at GWJ. Linda's life was shortened here too soon. Prayers for all that God gives you peace during this difficult time.
Linda Gorman Sebastiaelli
February 25, 2013
Griff and I became friends in Grade School and shared many years of friendship. Love ya Griff! RIP
February 24, 2013
As an adult friend of Griffin's, I knew an incredibly unique and indefatigable person. On our annual summer visits home, my husband Miles and I would see Griffin & Jim at our family gatherings..Griffin was the life of the party..no...she WAS the party...the hearty laugh, the red hair flying and the big smile-we all gravitated to Griffin. Only she could talk Miles and me into leaving balmy Florida in March to watch her in the FREEZING NYC St. Patrick's parade. The parties will be quieter now in Endwell/Vestal but Heaven will be rockin' with Griffin on her pipes and piano. Maureen Hanafin Dearden
February 23, 2013
You will truly be missed! I remember having so much fun in your class singing songs like "Don Gato", "Shave and a Haircut, Two Bits", and "I Lost my Poor Meatball". It's amazing how much you enjoyed your job! Your spirit lives on, you will always hold a special place in my heart!
With Heartfelt Sympathy,
Kati "Staib" Wilkins (GHN alumni)
Nicole Alger
February 23, 2013
She was my favorite teacher from GFJ UE school. She brought out my passion for music at my young age and made class incredibly fun.
Ruth Frawley-Thomson
February 23, 2013
Dear Jim: I am shocked and saddened to hear about Griffin. She was such an amazing spirit. Thoughts and prayers...... Ruth F T
February 23, 2013
You have inspired so many people Mrs. Cahill. You taught me Music, character, self respect, and believed in all of your students. Thank you for making my Elementary school years a pleasant memory. I will continue to inspire others as I teach my Elementary students what you have taught me. Thank you for being a remarkable person who touched the lives of so many.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Kari Staib (GHN alumni, '83-'90)
Kerri Lightner
February 22, 2013
Four years ago I had a little boy... if he had been a girl, his name was going to be "Griffin", after my most favorite teacher of all time and the woman who inspired me to become a teacher.
John J Havholm
February 22, 2013
We can only imagine what beautiful music Linda is making with her Mom in Heaven with the Angels! My prayers are with you all!
Cindy Brigagliano
February 22, 2013
Our sincerest sympathy to the entire familiy in the loss of a beautiful spirit. May your happy memories comfort you as you grieve your loss and in the future.
Cindy & Vince Brigagliano
Tonya Olmstead Boezi
February 22, 2013
My deepest condolences to Jim and the Cahill family. I am so very sorry for your loss.
February 22, 2013
Dear Justin,
Aunt Linda was a lot of fun to be around! You use to tell extremely funny stories about her and seemed to love her very much. I am soo sorry for your loss. Sincerely, Paige
Everett, Karen and Amanda Shimp
February 22, 2013
Jim,
Griffin will be missed. She was such a
wonderful person to stop and chat with
when I was out walking our dog or our
daughters dog. She had watched our dog
before it passed away when we would go
out of town. Will miss her but to know that she is resting in peace now in heaven. Our thoughts are with the Cahill and Griffin families.
Gail Volp
February 22, 2013
My very deepest sympathies. Such an amazing person. What a void left in this world.
Karen Farnham (Braun)
February 22, 2013
One of my fondest memories of my childhood was music class at HBE with Mrs. Cahill. She was such a wonderful, kind, creative spirit that created special times and memories for many children. My 6 year old daughter tells me what she does in music class now... no way does it compare to what I experienced as a child with Mrs. Cahill. Such fun times we had singing, listening to her play guitar or piano... my favorite making shadow puppets sing! Creativity at its best and truly learning what music is about. So sad to hear of her passing, she will never be forgotten and for many, many people like myself... she is part of a wonderful memory of what it was like (and should be like) to be a child. My condolences to her family.
Steve & Susan Howard
February 22, 2013
Dear Jim, Pete and Zach, We are so very sorry for your loss. Griffin lit up every room she entered and will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Marie Womack
February 21, 2013
Dear Jim,
I am greatly saddened by our family loss. She was a wonderful person with a vivacious spirit. I know that she will always be with us and we will never forget her. She was a devoted wife, a wonderful and loving cousin and God-mother to me. It is comforting to know she is home with God and family. My heart and prayers are with you.
Ed Abram
February 21, 2013
To The Family,
I remember Linda well from high school. She was always a sweet, energetic girl, and a pleasure to be around. I became acquainted with the family when I moved to Windsor, and played guitar for her Mom's solo in a school operetta.
My thoughtss and prayers are with you.
Tim,Barb, Dan & Clare Osborn
February 21, 2013
Dear Jim and the Cahill & Griffin Familes
We were so saddened to hear of Linda's passing, She was a wonderfull Friend,Teacher and so gifted in music. Please know that you all are in our prayers. God Bless.
February 21, 2013
Dear Jim and Griffin Family
We were so sadden to hear of Linda's passing. She was wonderful friend to all and she will surely be missed by all that knew her. Please know that all of you and your familes are in our prayers.
KATHLEEN CHIN(INCITT)
February 21, 2013
SHE WAS ONE OF THE GREATS WHO CAN NEVER BE DUPLICATED. SHE WAS MY ELEMENTRY SCHOOL MUSIC TEACHER AND GOT A PART FOR MY BROTHER STEVEN AND I IN A CRHISTMAS CAROLE.I HAVE NOTHING BUT FUN, HAPPY LASTING MEMORIES OF HER AND HER MUSIC CLASS. SHE WILL BE MISSED.SHE CAN NOW SING WITH THE ANGELS.
February 21, 2013
I was fortunate to work with Griffin at GHN for many years and had the room next door to her. As I am also a Linda, I give her credit for changing her name and making it easier for both of us! She would come into my classroom often singing, or asking 5th grade students about their ideas of recent music and was always there to listen and inspire others. She was a fine example of how music and life intertwine and she will be missed. Linda Wheeler (Watson)
Eric and Nina Brugel
February 21, 2013
Jim,
Please accept our sincere condolences. We were terribly saddened by the news of Griffin's passing. She had a wonderful spirit and it was a delight to spend time with her. The outpouring of sentiment in these messages is testimony to how much her friends and students loved her. We were all lucky to have known her. Her spirit lives on. Love, Eric and Nina Brugel
February 21, 2013
I was so sorry to hear of Linda's passing. I went to school with "Griff" and have many fond memories of her antics and wonderful sense of humor. She will be missed by all who knew and loved her.
Linda (Roberts) and Norman Quinn
February 21, 2013
Dear family of Griffin Cahill,
We are deeply saddened to hear of her death. She was such a good neighbor and colleague. She will be sorely missed, especially her walks in the neighbor with her dogs. Martie and Gerry Smith
Lisa Lee
February 21, 2013
Jim & Family,
Words cannot express how sad we are to hear of Linda's passing. She was my music teacher when she first graduated college and started her career at GHN school. I have many wonderful and fond memories of the chorus and plays I was in that she directed. She and I would often reminisce about those days. Later, Linda became my three children's music teacher at GFJ school as well as their piano teacher for many years. They loved going to your home to take lessons, to visit with her and hear her stories, to enjoy the animals she cared for and all the comings and goings there. It was always a warm and vibrant place. She has the most infectious and bright spirit. She touched so many with her love and light. She will be forever remembered, honored, and missed. We pray we will all be reunited some day with her in heaven to enjoy her music, bagpiping, and laughter. May God bless and comfort you all at this difficult time.
Lisa, Bob, Rachel, Jason & Jennifer Lee
Mike McGinley
February 21, 2013
I had the pleasure of attending both grade and high school with "Griff". I also was forced to attend Sunday Religious Instruction @ St. Mary's RC Church in Kirkwood with her and our circle of friends from Bell and Windsor. May she RIP.
February 21, 2013
I met Griffin YEARS ago and fromd day one, she left an inpression of a wonderful person. She was fun and sweet -full of life. My deepest sympathy to you Jim and the family ... She was loved by many and the memories that so many have will live forever. Dawn Marie Walker
February 21, 2013
I had to share a story about Mrs. Cahill that still makes my family laugh to this day. When my sister was in 1st grade at GHN and I was in 3rd, Mrs. Cahill asked my sister what she got for Santa got her for Christmas? My sister, not believing in Santa, replied "nothing." Mrs. Cahill assumed that my parents didn't get us anything for Christmas, and she went out and bought us toys. When Mrs. Cahill presented them to me after class one day, I was very confused. She said "Your sister told me Santa didn't come to your house for Chrismas!?" It was then that I had to explain to her that my sister and I had the flu one year and watched our mother wrap all the presents on X-mas eve, so we knew that there wasn't a Santa, but we didn't want to spoil it for the other children who still believed. I don't know who was more embarrassed, me or her. It made for a really good laugh with my parents, who later called the school to confirm that we did in fact, receive gifts, probably too many.
Becky Spencer
GHN 1993
Alida Stahl Augen
February 21, 2013
I am devastated to learn of the passing of such a radiant light! My beloved father, Crawford Stahl, while he was Supervisor of Music in the Union-Endicott Schools, hired Griffin; and I remember what joy her exuberant, excellent teaching always brought to him and to so many! For a man who believed so deeply in music education, a shining star like Griffin was a true God-send. Our family sends its most loving sympathy to Griffin's family, and our great appreciation of her extraordinary gifts will continue always.
February 21, 2013
Jim, I just heard about your wife's death and wanted to let you know how very sorry I am for your loss. From reading the obituary and the comments that people have made, it is clear that she was an extraordinary woman. I'm sorry that I never got to meet her. You and your family are in my prayers. Marge Brunton
Barbara Zarzynski
February 21, 2013
Having taught with Griffin at both GHN and GFJ, I have many fond memories of her. The one that stands out in my mind occurred soon after I was hired by UE. My 5th grade classroom was right next to Griffin's music room on the second floor. Griffin was known to wear some "funky" outfits to work which I really appreciated. My first day at Nichols she came and welcomed me. She then commented about what I was wearing, broke out in a big smile, and said, "I'm so glad you are here. Now they will have someone else to talk about besides me."
I'll try to keep it going for you Griffin.
I will also never be able to hear "Don Gato" or smell eucalyptus(the music room was filled with vases of it) without thinking of you. Korey still remembers all the words to the retirement song for Mrs. Shimmelfing. You were truly one of a kind!
Terry Underwood
February 21, 2013
Jim: Roachie called late last night.
She leaves us with a sparkle that will never, NEVER, fade.
Given the 3000 mile distance, how fortunate we were to get together last summer @ the lake. Sorry I can't be there but for sure, will hoist one, straight up, for the fond, ever-lasting memories that we had.
Love, Terry
Gabi Sorensen
February 21, 2013
Tom and Family, so very sorry for your loss.My prayers are with you.
Pat Griffin
February 21, 2013
Linda would always tell her family stories of her teaching days with such humor and enthusiasm. We never realized just how many lives she touched as witnessed by the many students she taught who have signed this Guest Book. Our family gatherings will never be the same and her great nieces and nephew will miss her "smurkels".
Gudrun Santa-lucia
February 21, 2013
Jim , words can not express the deep sorrow we feel at the Passing of Linda. we have nothing but great memories of her. sorry we cannot be there to honor and celebrate her Life, but Jim is not doing well and cannot travel at this point, but we will be there in our minds and hold your Hand . just remember the glorious womwn she was and how she touched all of our Lifes. love Gudrun and Jim Santa-lucia
Gudrun Santa-lucia
February 21, 2013
Jim , we are at a loss for words, nobody can be moore sorry for your loss than Jim and i . we will keep you in our Prayers and remember Linda with much love.may god be with you in this terrible Time. Love always Jim and Gudrun Santa-lucia
Renee Roma
February 21, 2013
No question, pipes and pianos are making noise in the skies, glad to have such a vivacious, talented, loving person among the angels. She is missed by so many lives she touched.
Reading the messages in her guest book leaves no doubt how she affected the lives of so many, in many different ways. Griffin, keep playing on. I hope the angels were ready for her. She will undoubtedly stir things up, and brighten the environment where ever she goes as she did while she was with us. I will miss searching through the bag pipes for that beautiful red hair. I wish for strength, to her family to endure the grief of her sudden loss.
Mary Travis
February 21, 2013
Tom & Patricia
So sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.She sounds like a very special lady. She will forever be in your hearts
J (Lamb) Melville
February 20, 2013
I am so sad to hear this news! Miss Griffin was my music teacher at George H Nichols elementary school waaay back in the late 60's and early 70's...
She was one of those rare teachers that are in your life for such a short time, yet you remember them forever!!
I will always remember our George H Nichols chorus performace of the 12 days of
Christmas.....The choreography and costume design were really outstanding thanks to Miss Griiffin and her ability to engage the students, their parents and the PTA...
Our world lost a shining star but Heaven gained a true Angel...
My heartfelt sympathies to all of the family in your loss of this remarkable woman.
Brian Lucia
February 20, 2013
Tom,
Sorry to hear of your sisters passing.
Brian Lucia
John and Kris Duffy
February 20, 2013
Griffin's gifts were many and we were lucky to have her in our life. She made our wedding day the best and we will forever hold our Germany adventure and Griffin's matchmaking skills in our hearts. Our love to Jim.
Dorothea (Woods) Gaston
February 20, 2013
Mrs. Cahill was an incredible teacher and an inspiring person. I have such fond memories of her spunky style and infectious laughter at GHN. She had an amazing way about her that made each student feel special. I truly appreciated that as a shy, young kid. She was a wonderful person who will be missed. Wishing comfort and peace to her family.
Dar and Carol Tiffany
February 20, 2013
Jim and the Griffin family.
What a loss!! So many memories, so many great meals so many great wines, ( and some not so great), so many laughs, and joy, and some tears also, and we shed some now. wish we were closer to share your sorrow and toasting one more to Griff and sharing great stories.
Jimmy Zervos
February 20, 2013
Dear Jim and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. May she rest in peace, and shine down upon all of you.
I will miss her beautiful smile, as we march down Court St. for the Parade.
Mike Schnurbusch
February 20, 2013
Tom, sorry for your loss.. God Bless
J McGillick
February 20, 2013
God bless you Mrs Cahill <3 you will always be remembered. You were a lovely lady.
Caroline Coonick
February 20, 2013
Mrs Cahill, thank you for making learning so much fun! I always looked forward to music class. From guessing the composers on the wall and playing with Henry! Thank you for all of these great memories. You will be so missed! Thoughts and prayers to you and your family. RIP
Monroe and Pat Grassi
February 20, 2013
Jim,,, Just read the sad news about your loss., I could not believe it so I call Joe Greco and he confermed the sad news..
Pat and I are so sorry to hear that news, we will be keeping all of you in our prayers..
We will not ba albe to join you in the service, since we are in Stuart, Fl. for the winter... Hope to see you this summer at Joe's... God Bless You and the family... Love from Monroe and Pat
February 20, 2013
We will never forget the memories in GHN "Rest in Peace" The Cusano Family
Katie Moring
February 20, 2013
I have wonderful memories of Mrs. Cahill's music classes during my years at GHN. She was such a fun, kind woman and it's clear she made each of her students feel special. I thought it was so cool when I was younger and she would bring her poodle to school.
My thoughts are with her family...hope you may find comfort in knowing how many lives she brightened and people she inspired.
Jason Lin
February 20, 2013
We are very sadden to hear the news. Mrs. Cahill was a wonderful teacher and neighbor. She has also helped my family and I in ways we can't repay. Mrs. Cahill may you rest in peace and you will always, always be in our hearts.
Jerry Bachman
February 20, 2013
My sincere condolences to all of Griffin's family and friends. She was any extraordinarily talented musician and a superb educator. I wish I could make it to the Triple Cities to pay my respects, but, unfortunately, can not. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers.
Stephanie Craig
February 20, 2013
I'm shocked and saddened to hear of Mrs. Cahill's passing. She was loving and kind; her classes were the highlight of my school week. I have fond memories of her exuberant passion for music and for life, chorus performances, the portraits of composers along the walls, Danse Macabre on Halloween, and “candy questions.” Mrs. Cahill fed my passion for music as I progressed through George H. Nichols, and she inspired me and many other young girls to become strong, confident women.
My heartfelt condolences to her family.
Kathleen Norton
February 20, 2013
Griffin was an inspiration for all...........Her beauty, both inside and out, her extraordinary talent on many levels, her zest for life, her deep love of family and friends, and her sincere interest in others will resonate in a myriad of ways in the days and years to come. No one who was touched by Griffin will ever forget how blessed they are because of her. This loss is unthinkable. I will miss our sing alongs in Phoenix, our chats in Parisian cafes and regret that we never made it to Ireland together. May God embrace you in his arms, cousin, and may you find peace, without pain, at last.
Paul Crane
February 20, 2013
Mrs. Cahill was my music teacher and was a great neighbor. I'll remember her for many things. I recall she had pictures of many composers on the wall - one guy with green hair. I'll remember her playing Danse Macabre every Halloween. Oh and every Halloween she would require the trick-or-treaters to sing a song to receive candy. I recall her stacking some fundraiser with 100 tickets so she could essentially guarantee she would win the Lou Holtz signed football. Thanks for the great memories! We'll miss you.
Donna Petras Foster
February 20, 2013
Tom, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My daughter was a student at George H Nichols many years ago and she loved Mrs. Cahill.
February 20, 2013
To the Griffin and Cahill families,our deepest sympathy for you loss.
Sorensens
Elaine Martinkovic
February 20, 2013
Tom,
I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. She will live on in your hearts, hold her near and dear. She sounded like a Great person. Wish I had met her.
Lisa Rodgers Blake
February 20, 2013
Having been in Miss Cahill's music class in the 1970's, she defined, and continues to define, the word "groovy" in my mind. My first encounter with grooviness.
Peggy Cheeseman
February 20, 2013
To the Cahill family, Griff was in my high school classes at Windsor and in my graduating class. I am shocked to read of her passing. May u find comfort in the coming days .She was a very talented person. So sorry for your loss
Pete & Andrea Patten
February 20, 2013
Jim,
We were so sorry to hear about Griff. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. No words can heal the pain or provide the needed comfort during this time of grief. Look to your family, your friends and your memories of happy times with Griff to help you through the pain. Griff will be truly missed by all those who knew her.
Nicole Gamache
February 20, 2013
I had Mrs. Cahill as a teacher at GHN 30 years ago. I can still remember the lyrics to the parody songs she taught us, and sometimes now sing them to my own children. She was a special person and a great teacher. I'm sorry for your loss.
Sara Rinde
February 20, 2013
I was fortunate to have Ms. Cahill as a music teacher at HBE & then GHN & I loved to sing her creative songs, but my favorite memory of her is from after having moved on to junior high school. My friend & I were walking through her neighborhood & decided to stop by & say hello. We were shy about it, but of course were warmly welcomed inside & after having a song played for us on her gorgeous piano, we forgot about our shyness. We had recently begun the awkward process of eyebrow plucking, and it showed ; )) She kindly gave us an impromptu lesson on the proper technique & sent us off with a piece of wisdom others may have been hesitant to offer two blossoming girls. So sweet of her & I will never forget that moment.
robert williams
February 19, 2013
This woman was loving and kind.I was a student of hers when I was 7 years old.she allways made my day better.she taught me how to play the recorder.
gail spera
February 19, 2013
YOU will be missed, my daughter was lucky enough to have her as a teacher and I was lucky enough to csll her friend
February 19, 2013
Mrs. Cahill was our daughters' music teacher at GHN. Our youngest daughter, Jamie, astounded us when she sang "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" at the retirement of one of the school personnel after Mrs. Cahill's coaching. We did not even know she could sing like that as we sat with our mouths hanging open. She was able to bring out the best in her students and instill a profound love of music at the same time. Our daughter still loves music and singing. What a wonderful teacher she was.
Nancy Corl
Matthew Julian
February 19, 2013
Going back many years at GHN in remembering the school Christmas play singing "I'll have a Blue Christmas", by Elvis. What great and fun times we all shared. Mrs. Cahill will be missed. Rest in Peace !
February 19, 2013
I only shared a few brief moments with Griffin -her impact of joy, compassion, love...will always be memorable..with sympathy and love to Jim...Janet McKallor Beck
Holly Ceccherelli Ramsey
February 19, 2013
Miss Griffin taught me music in the '70s at George H. Nichols. She was the best. I remember her swiping on bright red lipstick with an exaggerated gesture and threatening to kiss the boys if they didn't sing louder. I learned Saint-Saens Danse Macabre on the piano in high school because I remembered it from the deliciously creepy filmstrip Miss Griffin showed us every Halloween. I know our country's folks music because Miss Griffin taught us This is Land is Your Land and the Erie Canal and so many others. I sing my own kids silly songs--The Underwear Song set to "Over There", "Mr. Jaws" set to "The Entertainer"--that I learned 35 years ago from Miss Griffin. I first learned what a round was and became fascinated by it in Miss Griffin's classroom. My life is enriched because Miss Griffin existed in it.
Rick Heatherman
February 19, 2013
My sincere condolences to the Griffin & Cahill familys. RIP Linda!
Eliese Besemer
February 19, 2013
37 years ago, I met a teacher like no other. Back then we knew her as Miss Griffin. I can't begin to imagine the number of children whose lives she changed with her passion, her vivacity, and her sheer force of will! I know she will be missed. So sorry for your loss.
Kathy (Aebli) Luparello
February 19, 2013
I echo many of the same sentiments of other former students here! Mrs. Cahill was one of a kind. I always looked forward to trick-or-treating to her house and singing for candy. She was such an inspiration and fostered a love for music in all her students. Prayers to her family as she will be missed by many.
February 19, 2013
Our children loved her! She was a great inspiration who instilled in all a love of music! The Hollenbecks
Carla Paccio
February 19, 2013
I was very saddened and shocked when I heard about 'Ms. Giffin'. It's been 40 plus years ago since GHN and she has clearly touched many lives as well as my own. I have so many fond memories~I will always remember her hearty laugh, super smile, all the silly songs,trick or treating (trying to think up the perfect song to sing), walking to the trailor to see her for music class in the lot of GHN, applying her bright red lipstick prior to get someone's cheek and walking her dog in the neighborhood...she made everyone feel so special! She remembered everyone's name- I know she kept me and my 5 sisters straight and of course my brother. I couldn't wait to sub so I could see her again. My heart is broken and may your family find some comfort while reading the many stories from her 'fans'. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Eternal memory, Ms. Griffin!
Andrea (Consol) Roberts
February 19, 2013
I will always remember Mrs. Cahill as one of my favorite teachers...I will never forget our 5th grade concert when technical difficulties forced a break in the show...Mrs. Cahill played poker in the cafeteria with all of us to help pass the time...its little things like that you never forget...she will be greatly missed!
Amanda Sullivan
February 19, 2013
When I was a little girl in Griffin Cahill's music class at HBE, I didn't just fall in love with music--I fell in love with HER. To me, she epitomized style and sophistication, playfulness and passion, and was exactly what I thought a real woman of the world should be-- she was my Audrey Hepburn. May her light continue to burn bright in the hearts of all those who were blessed enough to know her. She remains ever an inspiration in my life.
Anne (Coughlin) Romanowski
February 19, 2013
Wow, I had Ms. Griffen a good 36-38 years ago at GHN. She was an amazing music teacher, who made me look forward to music class. We sang plenty of show tunes, and she always made it interesting, telling the back-story of the musical, the songs, etc. Best-loved were the chorus musicals we put on. I just spent the day reminiscing with my fellow GHN grads about out musicals. What a joy she was and how lucky we were to have her as a teacher!
Philipp Schuessler
February 19, 2013
To say that she was a "saint" would be an understatement. God be with you Mrs. Cahill.
Stacy (Courtright) Mocarski
February 19, 2013
Dear Cahill Family,
I was a student of Mrs. Cahill's and I loved every minute of her class! She even held my hand as I was terrified of my 1st ever experience with a big school fire drill, being a young 1st grader, she was so sweet and comforting with her great smile. I am a better person for knowing and being taught by her. My favorite time in her class at GHN was Halloween because she showed that scary skeleton, movie with the awesome music! Years later, my college class and I heard her and her bagpipers play at our Graduation. I am so sorry for your loss, prayers for your comfort at this most difficult time.
Lance G. Hill
February 19, 2013
For me, this is the biggest shock I have encountered in a long time. Griffin was a long-time family friend. I made her first organ recital recording and knew her mother and family well. I took care of her beloved Steinway piano for many years. Griffin was one of the most positive and life-loving people I have ever known. It is like a very bright light has been extinguished. My wife was her first piano teacher. We all have such wonderful memories of parties and events, and never will we forget Griffin and friends, with their bagpipes, coming down the street when my daughter graduated from Vestal. The memories are warm and sweeet and we extend to the Cahill family our sincere sadness in their loss - and our loss. Griffin is not replaceable as she was one of a kind. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kristie Savage
February 19, 2013
I am terribly saddened by the news of Miss Griffin's passing. I, as many others, have fond memories of her wonderful musical teachings throughout my years at GHN. I remember her music room at the end of the hall and how much I loved going to class as she was ALWAYS happy and full of life and put everything into her time with the students.
I pray that peace will surround her family and that God's love will shine on all who loved her.
Teresa Aker
February 19, 2013
All three of our children, Chanda, Jocelyn and Eric were fortunate to have Mrs. Cahill for music at GHN. She was a talented teacher with the gift of laughter and music. We were all blessed to have had her in our lives. In our family she will always be remembered for her bagpipes filling the halls of GHN. She will be sorely missed.
The Aker Family, Manorville, NY
Cassandra Croce
February 19, 2013
She was my teacher and my next door neighbor. She would let me ride my bike up and down her driveway. I remember making wine with her husband. I will never forget hearing her play the bagpipes outside on a warm summer day. Her classes were what every student looked forward to. I even remember the class pet! Oh my! I even "ran away from home" and went to go live with her, haha. I looked up to her. She was so sweet, she would sit in the bathroom with her dog on the 4th of July since he was afarid of the fireworks. There are things she told me I will NEVER forget. I can remember full conversations with her. I am truely saddened. She will be remembered.
Joy Ousterout
February 19, 2013
There are no words it feels that can provide comfort at a time like this - but please know the thoughts and prayers of the Ousterout family are with you. I am so honored to have had Mrs. Cahill be the first to escort my husband and I out of the church on the day of our wedding. I wish I could have thanked her more for the countless gardening tips, bags of herbs, and training advice for our dog that she gave to me. Know that she was loved and will be missed. My heart will remember her fondly each time I hear those bagpipes play...
Tim Ward
February 19, 2013
I will miss her deeply, I joined the pipe band shortly after forming, Griff was always a huge personality for us, endless jokes, that were Good! She was a gifted instructor, especially for us adults. Griff was a riot no matter what the topic of discussion, usually with no filter. I will miss that alot. She made me laugh every week for decades! Her ability to be so precise on the music alwasy impressed me, if we couldn't understand, she would find a piano and demostrate it. Beautiful person that will be missed a great deal.
February 19, 2013
Dear Justin,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss! She was a very special person and one of the most gifted teachers I have ever known. Please share my condolences with your entire family. Sincerely, Jane Shear
Jay Fanara
February 19, 2013
A vibrant, intelligent, charming, and utterly delightful woman... Rest in Peace Mrs. Cahill, and may Mr. Cahill find solace in the endless wonderful memories that you've undoubtedly left behind.
Penned and David Zandy
February 19, 2013
We are shocked and saddened to hear of the passing of Linda Griffin Cahill. We are lucky enough to have had her as a colleague and teacher of our children. Whenever any of our three sons came home on "music" day there was a smile on his face and a story to tell. Linda loved her world of music and you were part of it whenever she was near. Our world is a much better place for having had her in it. We can hear her "bagpipe" band starting already.
Jennifer Hover Gunerman
February 19, 2013
I have such wonderful memories of Mrs. Cahill's music class at AGM. She opened my ears and my heart to all new kinds of music, dance, and dramatic arts. When I became a teacher myself, I contacted Mrs.Cahill to ask for a copy of a certain song she had introduced to me in fourth grade and I wanted to share it with my own students. In reply, she sent me a 90 minute tape full of the silliest, funniest, most amazing songs. I was, and still am, so grateful for the love of music she instilled in me. She will definitely be missed.
Alexandra Bouillon
February 19, 2013
I will always appreciate Mrs. Cahill as our kind, thoughtful and musically gifted neighbor and mentor.
Dionna Berry
February 19, 2013
I was privileged to be a student of Mrs.Cahill. I was fortunate enough to live within proximity of the sound of her bagpipes and to see her pass by on walks with her beautiful dog. She will be missed and remembered.
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