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Ryan DePuy Obituary
Ryan S. DePuy
of Bothell, Washington
Loyal, loving, compassionate, supportive and clever are just a few words to describe Ryan DePuy, 17, who passed away April 10, 2008. A resident of Bothell, Washington, he was passionate about soccer and shared many personal victories in the sport, including earning a varsity letter during his sophomore year at Bothell High School. Ryan loved to travel and especially enjoyed spending time with his family and friends in Hawaii and Cabo. Loved by many, he had a vibrant personality and an uncanny ability to make people laugh. Ryan is survived by his parents, Scott and Charlene, Bothell, Wash.; and his sister, Tanya, also of Bothell; his grandparents, George and Sharon DePuy, Castle Creek, N.Y., and Margareta Ogurkow of Graham, Wash.; his great-grandmother, Margaret Finch, Binghamton, N.Y.; and many other loving family members.
A memorial service will be held at 4 p.m. on Wednesday, April 16, 2008, at Crosspointe Church at 19527 104th Ave. NE, Bothell, WA 98011. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Ryan DePuy fund at any Bank of America branch. Ryan's family would like to extend their gratitude to all involved for their love and support during this difficult time.
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Memories and Condolences
for Ryan DePuy
Carolyn Jones
May 12, 2008
Scott and Charlene: Earth has no sorrow that Heaven can't heal. Both of you are the most amazing friends I have ever known. I mourn with you in the lost of your equally gifted and amazing son. Know that through this tragic loss, God is strengthening you and created in you a passion to help others that will go beyond what either of you could ever imagine. Luv ya!
Joel and Julie Lengkeek
May 1, 2008
Scott and Charlene, I just found out last week about the loss of your son Ryan. No words can express how deeply saddened we are hearing of your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Marsha and Tim Price
May 1, 2008
Scott and Charlene - I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. I was terribly shocked when I hear the news. I cannot imagine the pain you are going through to lose a child. May God be with you and our prayers go out to you and you family.
andrea holmes
April 28, 2008
ryan was an amazing person. i could never forget him. every day at school isnt the same without him. i miss working with him in math and laughing the whole time. he had an incredible way of making everyone smile. ill miss all of the fun times we had. the pumpkin patch and bothell games, movies foose-ball and cookies:) ryan i could never forget you. you were a wonderful friend. thank you for the advice you have given me many times.
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Beth Lewis
April 28, 2008
Dear Scott,Charlene, and Tanya,
Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May strength and faith through God sustain you.
Love and hugs,
lisa downs
April 24, 2008
i honestly cannot find words to say how sorry i am. we love you ryan
naseem abbassi
April 24, 2008
i honestly cannot say how sorry i am that this had to happen to such an amazing guy and the amazing family that made him who he was. I did not get that close with ryan but i had seen him a few times on the weekends and all the time at school. Being in ryan's presense was one of the best things becuase you couldn't do anything but smile or laugh. His personality and compassion could not be bought and no one could make him doubt himself or his word which is one of the best qualities a person can possess. ryan i pray for you and your family everyday and words cannot express how much everyone misses you. Rest In Paradise Ryan Scott Depuy, you will never be forgotten.
Trish, Rob & Taylor Neiffer
April 24, 2008
Scott, Charlene, & Tanya,
Words and thoughts are not comforting enough for our wonderful friends who have lost an amazing son who brightened everyone's life around him, especially ours. We are here day in and day out to always listen, cry, hug, laugh, and carry on Ryan's spirit with us. We will see him again someday and he is resting in paradise waiting for the day we all will see him again. He would say "Dawg, what took you so long"!
We love you all so much and are so blessed to have shared in so many wonderful memories with both of our families, we will treasure them forever!
danny karalus
April 24, 2008
you touched all of us ryan anyone who met you or even came in contact with you was lucky cause of how happy and outgoing you were. i am glad i got to become good friends with you bro. you will never be forgotten and and we will always love you.
Steve Keller
April 23, 2008
I enjoyed being Ryan's teacher. I remember him as being very bold and a very good athlete. He always looked me right in the eye and listened. He worked hard and was a good friend. I can't believe it. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Michael and Brenda Tjosvold
April 22, 2008
Scott...we are deeply sorry for the loss that you and your family have suffered. Our thoughts are with you in this time of greif. As part of your work family, we are here for you in whatever capacity you need...even if it is just for a hug.
-Mike And Brenda
Susan Freitas
April 22, 2008
Dear Charlene, Scott and Tanya,
Our thoughts and love go out to you- I froze when I heard and felt this rush of sadness, sorrow, and pain. I have been at a loss for words and have not reached out- just waiting to find the right words to say. The right words will never come my way. I can't imagine the pain and the loss you are feeling. As a family we barely connected with you- I do regret this. I have reminded Zach and Rachel of you all and Ryan. How much fun we had when we did get together those couple of times. I have fun and fond memories of those meetings. Charlene, Scott, Tanya, Grandma Sharon, Dad and Grandma Finch- my heart goes out to each of you. Please know you are in my prayers. Love, Susan
Mary,Michael,"Joe",Jaren & Lyndsey Hopper
April 21, 2008
Scott,Charlene & Tanya,
We will miss Ryan for Eternity & Cherish all our memories of Ryan and the time he spent with our family. Ryan and Joe were like Brothers and were always by each others side, In school ( Ryan was Joe's 1st friend @ LSMS) when we moved to as the boys would say "L-Town"/"Lake-Town" or the 425. They enjoyed Baseball, Lived for Soccer, Wrestling Team @ LSMS, Basketball and Loved the Lake during the Summer. I don't think there was a sport they didn't play, even chasing the girls. Joe went Snowboarding w/ Ryan about a month before his passing and Joe took a few pics of Ryan that he will cherish along with the many other Memories they shared. It meant the "World" to Joe to be a part of your family and Ryans Service. I just want to Thank You All, for in your time of Loss u made Joe feel Special. We miss Ryan Dearly and will always hold him near our Hearts and Thoughts. Take Care
Margi Finch
April 21, 2008
Scott, Charlene, and Tanya,
We have been thinking so much about you and sending you warm thoughts and peace. I wish there was something we could say or do to ease the difficulty.
I will call periodically to say hello; know you are in my thoughts all the time.
With lots of love,
Margi & Jon
Monica Hall
April 20, 2008
Tanya,
My thoughts are with you and I'm so sorry at the loss of your brother Ryan. Please know you have my deepest sympathy. My son Ryan (Pesce), is in Wyoming and I will share with him about your brother when I talk with him this week. Take care.
brandon weatherby
April 19, 2008
me sam deasy and geoff rocker were three of the first people to ever meet ryan when he first moved to bothell and ill never forget when we all first saw him he came into the skate park and was really friendly and just started talking to us. at the reception his skateboard was auctioned to sign and i looked at it and realized that i gave that skateboard to jacob and me must of given it to ryan and it just kinda shocked me since i gave him that board. but ryan was never shy and always fun to hang out with and thats why hell always be in my heart and ill never forget him.
Shayna Worley
April 19, 2008
Dear Charlene, Scott and Tanya,
Though we don't know each other well, the events of the past week have touched me deeply. I am so very sorry about Ryan's passing and the pain and anguish your family is feeling. There is no greater loss than that of one's child....
You will be on my mind and in my heart and I will ask God to hold you gently. Know that He never leaves us, even when we're convinced that He has. Ryan is in the best of hands.
sam deasy
April 19, 2008
ryan was a great friend and a amazing person. i cant explain how good of a person he was. It is a tragedy what has happened but he will forever be in memory and heart.
becky warnke(lampman)
April 18, 2008
charlene and family,i am so sorry to hear about your loss of ryan.what a beautiful boy!you all are in john and my thoughts and prayers.i wish you all peace.
Scott, Jody and Carly Gibbons
April 18, 2008
Scott, Charlene and Tanya,
Jody, Carly and I will always remember the wonderful times we had with your family while our girls played softball. Our thoughts will be with you forever and your loss is being felt by all of us!!
Jake Koehnen
April 18, 2008
Depuy Family,
My wife and I are so very sorry for your loss. We have your family in our prayers and thoughts.
Josie Williams
April 18, 2008
Scott and Charlene:
Anyone who has children can identify with your loss, but never fully and completely understand your sorrow. Just know that our prayers and sincere thoughts are with you and your family. God Bless You.
Larry and Josie Williams
Jan Finch
April 18, 2008
Scott, Charlene and Tanya,
How does someone express their sorrow? I can hardly imagine what you're going through. But..I am praying for you. It is hard for me to grasp the things you are facing, I wish I knew secrets that could help you cope. I know that his Grandfather and Uncle will greet him with open arms. Our prayers, Jan Finch, Travis & Vance Fender.
brandon biancavilla
April 18, 2008
ryan depuy ill never forget the way you could brighten anyones day with your funny jokes and cool nicknames for me. bvilla straight vanilla killa, i cant believe i will never hear it again. ill see u soon, i pray for u bro i love and miss u so much already.
Bothell Resident
April 17, 2008
I did not know your son but a friend's daughter was a good friend to him. I am so sorry for your loss. As a parent, I cannot imagine a greater grief.
May God bless your family during this difficult time.
Makayla Thacker
April 17, 2008
Dear Charlene, Scott & Tauyna,
Cory and I are so sadened to hear of your loss. There are no words that can take away the pain you all have.
Please know you are in our prayers, and that Ryan is present with the lord. If we can do anything for you please give us a call.
Hugs,
Cory & Makayla Thacker
Tom Stapleton
April 17, 2008
Scott and family,
We are so very sorry for your loss of Ryan. We send our heartfelt condolences and our prayers are with you. The Stapletons
Liz Chaffin
April 17, 2008
DePuy Family,
My heart goes out to you during this time of loss. I can not imagine your grief. Although I never met Ryan, he touched many of the kids hearts that I love dearly. Jacob, Kennedy and of course my son Zach just to name a few. I commend you for facing his struggle head on. May it help others from having to endure the sorrow that you are experiencing. I offer any support that Zach and I can give. May you someday be able to rest in comfort of knowing that he is safe beside Jesus. God Bless you all.
Sarah Bechler
April 17, 2008
Ryan always had a smile on his face and was always there to bring up your spirits. He affected many of our lives with his love and personality. He will forever be missed by many and in our hearts FOREVER. My deepest condolences and prayers are with you as you and all of us go through this.
Kimberly Bainer
April 17, 2008
I was Ryan's Neighbor for a few...well 9 years.
he was my older brother's friend. i remember him really well. When i was younger we lived in a house like, a block away from his and
he would often times just drop by our door on hot summers and ask "hey, is it okay if i swim with you guys?"
we had a really big pool.
he enjoyed it.
well, i wish that things were different,
he was a good friend and a better person,
i will miss him very much.
Lindsey Rooks(swain)
April 17, 2008
scott.charlene and tanya,
im so sorry to hear about your loss.just know your in my thoughts and prayers everyday. i cant imagine what your going through. have a son of my own and another one on the way i dont know what i would do if i lost one of them. just keep your heads up know everyone is here for you guys during this diffcuilt time. god bless
Jill Wallace
April 17, 2008
When my daughter, Josie, told me about Ryan I could not believe her. Ryan was a wonderful guy who was very loved. He was smart, sweet, athletic and true blue. He will be sorely missed. God bless his family!
Robin Orwiler
April 17, 2008
Scott, Charlene & Tonya: Our family is so thankful that we were able to experience life with you and Ryan as a family. We enjoyed many hours on the soccer fields, baseball fields, beaches in Hawaii and time on the lake. We are so impressed with your generosity and caring for others even in your hours of grief. Coming to the high school and speaking to the team was so courageous and truly remarkable. It is our prayer that you were able to open the hearts of those that truly needed to hear your message. Ryan would have been extremely proud of you. We love you all and know that we will always be there for you.
Geoff, Robin & Jake
Elenjo Schaff
April 17, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Doug & Teresa Swain
April 17, 2008
Scott, Charlene & Tanya,
We were so sorry to hear about Ryan. As parents we can not even imagine the magnitude of your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
The Melton Family
April 17, 2008
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Kathy Davis
April 17, 2008
Search Light Mom's wants to tell you how sorry we for the passing of your Ryan. If there is anything that we can do for you please let us know. We as mothers understand the day to day pain as we search for answers.
Love and Blessings,
Search Light Mom's
Trey Burwick
April 17, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I went to school with Ryan at Bothell and didn't know him on a personal level until this year. We started to hang out and talk when he would come over to my house with all of the other guys. My mom would always say how nice and polite of a kid he was. He would always talk with my sister and her boyfriend. My family thought he was a really caring kid. Ryan was a great man and made everyone smile. You did a wonderful job raising him. We will always remember him
Serina Smith
April 16, 2008
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Michelle Pieper
April 16, 2008
Dear DePuy Family,
I just recently met Ryan as his new hygienist, but I was totally impressed with this nice young man. After reading the entries, I am very saddened that I didn't have the privilege to get to know him better. I just found out today and I am so sorry for your loss. God must have missed Ryan dearly himself. It is obvious that Ryan touched many people here on Earth. May God keep you and heal your hearts. My prayers are with you.
Chuck Anderson
April 16, 2008
Scott & Charlene, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Ryan. I pray that God will surround you with the love of family and friends at this difficult time and the great memories you have of Ryan God Bless you.
stephanie walker
April 16, 2008
Tanya, Scott, Charlene.
i wanted you to know that my prayers are with you all and Ryan. I'm so sorry for your lost.
when i think About ryan i see him as a lil guy bugging me and tanya while we were trying to play basketball.
he will be missed by us all.
i send my love hoping it will help you mend in time.
Diana Borges
April 16, 2008
Scott, I remember volunteering on the LSJAA basketball board with you and how proud you were of your beautiful son. I didn't know Ryan well, but I know by the outpouring of shock, grief and tears (mixed with smiles brought on by great memories) here in Lake Stevens that he was a very special kid. I am so very sorry for your loss. May God Bless you and your family with peace and comfort.
Ashley w
April 16, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. God's blessing be with you.
Scott Ashforth
April 16, 2008
I'm so sorry to hear about Ryan i will miss him. It had been along time since i had seen him. I will always remember the good times i had playing baseball and super nintendo with little Ryan.
Walden Corpuz
April 16, 2008
I am so sorry to hear the lost of your son. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Stay strong and keep your heads up. Take care and God Bless!
Brad and Diane Ashforth
April 16, 2008
We're so sorry to hear of this. We only just heard a few minutes ago otherwise we would have attended the service. Our hearts go out to Scott, Charlene and Tanya.
Brad and Diane Ashforth and Family
Brian, Lhu, Nick, & Nichole Jones
April 16, 2008
Scott, Charlene & Tanya,
Our deepest condolences go out to you and your family. We will always remember Ryan as the happy-go baseball star that he was. Our prayers are with you.
Stephen, Rowena, Alex and Amber Wirth
April 16, 2008
Scott and Family,
My family and I are praying for you and your family during these trying times. My daughters were friends of Ryan, and enjoyed his company. We continue to pray for your loss. God Bless.
Gina Hatfield
April 16, 2008
Depuy family,
I attend Bothell high school and i am a junior this year. I met Ryan last year and had him in my 6th period english class and this year in my world history and racket sports class. I didnt know him at all on a personal level but there was this one time in racket sports when my friend wouldnt help me up from sitting on the ground and after she didnt Ryan came over and helped me up. He was always very outgoing and outspoken and had an amazing personality and i wish i couldve taken the time to get to know him better. Im so sorry for your loss. He will be missed by everyone.
Rick Scriven
April 16, 2008
Dear Scott & Charlene,
My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Chris Myers
April 16, 2008
Scott and Family,
My condolences as you cope with your loss. May the prayers of your friends and family help you through tough times.
Kevin Stride
April 16, 2008
DePuy Family,
I am terribly sorry to hear about your lost. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.
Kevin Stride
Dave Stocker
April 16, 2008
Scott, Charlene and Tanya
My deepest sympathies go out to you on the loss of your son. May the Lord comfort you in this difficult time, and may you find happiness in the memories you have of the time that Ryan blessed you during his life.
Allan Hall
April 16, 2008
Scott & family,
Words seem so inadequate. We did not know Ryan directly, but knew him through his cousin Kyle and my daughter. We have thought of and prayed for him over the recent months and will continue to do so for your family. May God sooth and comfort you through these times.
Allan Hall & famly
Kathy Kurisu
April 16, 2008
DePuy Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss of Ryan. Although we haven't seen Ryan in a few years, Kyle and I will never forget the many years we were able to enjoy watching our sons play baseball together. He will be deeply missed.
Our prayers are with you in this difficult time.
Kathy, Kyle, Kelly and Kaitlyn Kurisu
Tim Castner
April 16, 2008
Scott, Charlene and Tanya
I had the very fortunate opportunity to meet your son and brother Ryan. His zest for life was real and his character was warm, kind and friendly (and funny). I am so very sorry for the loss of Ryan, and though I cannot feel the depth of sadness that envelops you today my heart too is heavy with sadness for the passing of Ryan and for the pain I know you must feel. I know that Ryan left us as a very happy, loving and loved Son, Brother, Grandchild and Friend. His needs were more then met and his plate was always full of the good things you have done for him. Any child would be fortunate and blessed to have such good parents. I know you were always there for him and the many stories will serve as fond memories and bring much joy and laughter in time. My prayers are now with you “The Family”, knowing that Ryan is in God’s hands and that God is capable of loving him as much as you do. I pray that your hearts will mend and that should you have questions, you will find the answers that you need to bring your hearts peace and understanding. As always, I offer my love, support, my shoulder and my friendship. I am with you through the fire. God Bless you and keep you in his unending love.
Don McKinney
April 16, 2008
Scott and family;
I never had the opportunity to meet Ryan, but getting to know and work with Scott as a basketball official over the past 5 years, I know that he must have been a wonderful and caring person. We have an 18 year old son and I can not immagine the pain you must feel. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.
Jim Palzer
April 16, 2008
Charlene, Scott and Tanya . . .
No words that I could write could express to you the deep sorrow my family and I feel for each of you and your family with the loss of Ryan Scott DePuy. Having known Ryan since he was a small child, I had the opportunity to see him grow into a handsome, outgoing and generous young man. You should be proud of Ryan for his earthly accomplishments, and of yourselves for always sticking by his side and walking through his short life on earth with him. Being a parent myself of three children (the oldest being Ryan’s age), I simply fail to fully comprehend what you, your family and close friends must be feeling right now during this great loss. Knowing you as I do, I know that each of you as parents, and Tanya as a sister, had, and still have, a great love for Ryan. The four of you, as a family, have always, and continue to have high integrity towards your family and others around you. That is a special gift that each of you have always given to each of us.
It’s times like these, when we continuously ask the question “why” that we need to turn our eyes up to our savior Jesus Christ and ask for direction and guidance to help us through these unimaginable times. This is also a time to allow yourselves to let family and friends surround you and to support you in any way that we can, as this is our way of showing you our love that we hold in our hearts for you and Ryan.
As an associate and friend of mine said the other day, there is something we all can do for Char, Scott, Tanya and their family, those of us with faith, can join each other with an offer of silent prayer to ease the suffering for all family and friends.
Our prayers and thoughts are with each of you during this time of great loss of Ryan in your lives.
Michael LaMarche,DDS
April 16, 2008
Dear Scott, Charlene and Tanya,
I can only pretend to imagine the deep pain in your hearts at the loss of Ryan. At this difficult time, the only comfort you may have is momentary; when the stories are told by each of the many people that knew and loved Ryan, as they share with you their happy memories of their times with him. As Ryan’s first dentist, I recall entering the treatment room to begin his exam and he would have a grin on his face, waiting for me to greet him with the nickname, I began calling him when he was just a little person, “Ryano.” Words fall so far short of expressing my sorrow and sympathy for this painful time in your lives. Please know that along with all of the others who care for you, my thoughts and wishes for healing are with you.
Rob Zahn
April 16, 2008
Depuy Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. May God Bless you so that you may find peace.
My deepest sympathy.
Kathleen Yencich
April 16, 2008
Scott and Charlene
I am a parent of an 11th grade student at BHS that had Ryan in his class. When I heard the news about Ryan, my heart sank. I don't know your family, but I wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Jeff and Jennifer Monteleone
April 16, 2008
DePuy Family,
In knowing Scott and how good of a man he is, Ryan must have touched many people as well. From what others have written about him, you have been blessed with a special son.Our prayers are with you. God Bless
Ray and Kay Jones
April 16, 2008
Scott and Charlene,
We are so very sorry for your loss.
We are Trish's parents. We loved
Ryan. He was a great kid and we we were blessed to have known him.
We are praying for your entire family.
Sincerely, Ray & Kay
Jeff and Terri Anyan
April 16, 2008
Dear Scott, Charlene and Tanya,
We were shocked and deeply saddened to read about Ryan in the paper today. Our thoughts, prayers and love go out to you at this most difficult time. We are so very sorry--
Douglas & Denise Mcconkey
April 16, 2008
Our deepest condolences to your family.Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Alisha Berg
April 16, 2008
It's been a while since i last spoke with ryan, but i will never ever forget the times he made me laugh on the bus. He was the highlight of my day, looking forward to getting on the bus just to listen to him talk. Sometimes we would hang out after school..leaving me good memories. He had a great sense of humor. I just wish he could have been given another chance. I think it was good for me to see him at the viewing, but at the same time it was very hard to bare. My heart goes out to his family members, and all his close friends. I miss you ryan, and it will take a while to accept this loss.
We love you.
Nathan Murphy
April 16, 2008
Scott and family,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The entire SCBOA community grieves with you, and my thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find peace.
in deepest sympathy,
Trent & Kristi Harwood
April 16, 2008
Scott and Charlene:
We are so sorry to hear of your loss of your son Ryan. Even though we did not have a chance to meet him, we have read what a great person he was. I lost my brother last year and I know some of your feelings. As you are both part of the Referring Association family we will pray for you and your family. God Bless
Trent Harwood
Bob and Lauren Venera
April 16, 2008
Scott and family, our condolences go out to you. You and your family are in our thoughts.
The Barnard Family
April 16, 2008
Much love and prayers to your family. We will always remember his smile and sense of humor, and especially his loving heart.
Jordan, Karen, Olivia, and Sofia Simmonds
April 16, 2008
Our deepest condolences to your family. As your fire service brother and friend, my family and I mourn your loss with you. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Dane Stow
April 16, 2008
Dear Scott and Charlene:
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son Ryan. I didn't know Ryan personally but he sounded like a great kid. I know that in this time of diffuculty you are asking many questions in regards to the loss of your son, and your greiving is hard for this loss. I can only say I do know how and what you are feeling as we experienced the loss of our child a few years ago ourselves. With these life tragedies our individual character and lives are formed and changed. I only pray that you and your family come into the grace of God for direction and peace even if we may not understand the meaning of this terrible event in your life. I wish you love and compassion for you and your family in your time of greif. Gods Bless you.
Dane & Lynda Stow
Rob Manahan
April 16, 2008
Scott, Charlene and Tanya,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Ryan. Having had contact off and on with your family and Ryan for the last 12 years, I have seen him grow up and know what a wonderful young man he is! We will miss him and want you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Please don't hesitate to ask if there is anything we can do to support and help heal.
With love,
Rob, Gail and Casey Manahan
Serina Smith
April 15, 2008
Charlene & Scott,
I am sorry to hear of your loss. I know you are all dear people and this is a very hard time. Please stay strong with faith and family and friends
Nick O'mahen
April 15, 2008
It makes me nervous to mention to people that had strong friendships with Ryan that I have spent a couple of days feeling really really depressed because of what happened, because Ryan and I never hung out after school or really spent time just chillin' but I sat next to him as a new student in bothell...knowing no one and Ryan not hesitating to tell me that he wanted to steal my shirt because it was cool (keep in mind i had been at bothell for 2 days) and sitting next to him for a semster the kid was awesome. He was a touchy feely kinda guy and he wouldn't let me not say hi to him in the hall. I remember one time i walked passed him without saying anything and he hadn't got more than a few feet behind me before he came up and pushed me and was like what? you're not gonna say hi?...i wish there were more people like Ryan and i want his family to know that there are kids that got a smile from Ryan every day and that they did a good job. I have written way to much for someone who barely knew Ryan but it's not my fault he was so rad.
Devin Nakahara
April 15, 2008
To the DePuy Family,
Ryan was a good friend of mine. We had 2 classes together, and we sat next to each other for a good part of the year in both our ASL and math class. We where also teammates as i was on the varsity soccer team with him. Ryan was beyond words and i know he will be missed by many. Ryan was a true friend and he will forever be in my memories and my heart.
Michael Yoakum
April 15, 2008
May God's peace be with you through these times.
maurien (mo) salter-waid
April 15, 2008
i am a manager of the bhs soccer team and was also a sophmore in his math class. i just want to let you know that he was an amazing guy!! and i will miss him alot. The viewing was beautiful and it was very comferting to see him again. i want you to know that you have all of my suport at this time. god bless
Pete & Carolyn Brummel
April 15, 2008
Our heartfelt condolences and thoughts for your loss. The DePuy family is in our prayers.
Patrick and Jamie LeDoux
April 15, 2008
Dear DePuy family,
We never had the pleasure of spending time with Ryan, but in the fire service all our families are close to my heart. While reading what others have written about your amazing Son, Brother, Grandson, and Friend, what remained constant and clear throughout was that amidst this tragety shines the very bright and vivid light that Ryan's life left in this world. He meant so much to so many. He made a difference in people's lives. His purpose on this earth was meaningful and important. He left his legacy in so many ways from his simple encouraging words at work, his passion on the field, his lasting impression on neighbors, co-workers, and teammates. He played a vital role in so many lives and he will be very missed. His unique fingerprint was given to him for this reason, and he will continue to leave those prints on our lives from heaven. Our prayers will not cease for you during this time and all our love goes out to you.
Erin Moody
April 15, 2008
It was a pleasure to teach Ryan at Bothell. I will always remember the change that came over Ryan in February 07, the smile on his face, the drive to do well, his sincere heart. I will miss his familiar "Hi Ms. Moody" as we passed in the hall. He will be greatly missed and you are all in my prayers.
Karina Woodruff
April 15, 2008
Mr. and Mrs. Depuy and Tanya,
I attend Bothell High School as a junior. To be honest, I didn't have the opportunity to get to know Ryan on a personal level, but whenever I saw him on campus or at a school event he always had a smile on his face and friends by his side. He is forever loved at Bothell High School. We will all miss him dearly.
You all are in my prayers daily.
God Bless You, Love, Karina Woodruff
Missy, Wade, Dade & Kurt Holt Honeywell
April 15, 2008
Scott, Charlene & Tanya... I just can't imagine the loss. I've always looked at your family as being loving, caring, affectionate and full of grace. Even in grief, your tremendous strength & grace continues. Our hearts are absoluately broken for your family. We loved Ryan- always so funny and unique in his quotes. "AwwBuddy"... Sweet, sweet boy. We will miss him with all of our hearts. The sadness will take a long, long, time to get past, but it will only fade. He will always be in our hearts.
Kevin and Jennifer Erickson
April 15, 2008
Scott and Charlene,
Our hearts go out to you in this difficult time. My God comfort you and all your grieving friends and family.
Patrick LeDoux
April 15, 2008
Scott and family, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May your memories bring you comfort.
Les Fredrickson
April 15, 2008
Scott, Charlene & Tanya,
I'm sure words cannot express the sorrow you feel for your loss of Ryan. Please know his loss is heart felt by many, including my family. If you need a hug, shoulder or a good cry, I am here for you all. I'll always remember Ryan's smile and enthusiasm.
Frank & Courtney Dahlquist
April 15, 2008
We are praying over your family.
Barb & Pat McQuade
April 15, 2008
Scott & Charlene,
Our deepest condolences at our loss. Ryan will be missed by all that knew him.
All of us with Mukilteo Fire Depart. will keep you in our prayers.
Fiske
April 15, 2008
Dear Scott, Charlene, and Tanya,
We are so so sorry to hear about Ryan. Our hearts sank when we heard the sad news. Ryan touched many lives and he will be missed by all... He was such a little cutie!! I remember him in elementary school waiting for the school bus, donning his Red Sox baseball jacket. He would always fill us in on how the game at Bond Field went the night before. His infectious smile will never be forgotten. You are a wonderful family! We will keep you in our prayers. May God grant you peace in knowing that Ryan is safely home with him.
Love,
Cary, Susann, Karrie-Ann, Tyler, & Brandon Fiske
Mark and Shannon Myers
April 15, 2008
No words can comfort but the support of family and friends can help to ease some pain. We extend a hand, a hug or a shoulder to the DePuy family. Bless your family during this very difficult time.
Jenn Lewis & Joanna Brown
April 15, 2008
Ryan was such a talented person,and you couldn't help but love him.Our thoughts and prayers go out to you Charlene,Scott,& Tanya.May we remember the great times we all had with ryan.His Beautiful Smile and Eyes always would light up the room.We'll always remember the days of "The Rockies" and the team dinners at McDonalds.
Thinking of you everyday Ry.Please be shining down on us.Miss you!and we love you!!
Laura Padgett
April 15, 2008
Scott, Charlene & Tanya, Words cannot express the love that never dies. Ryan will be remembered in our hearts until we see him again. Those that love Ryan love you and will surround you with wings of peace & understanding in the days ahead. A boy & his dog enter into eternity healed.
Jason Nadeau
April 15, 2008
I played soccer with Ryan on FC Alliance for quite some time this past year. I remember he brought so much joy and optimism to every single practice. I truly enjoyed being around him, and looked forward to being cheered up by his smile and personality each practice. He was an amazing player, and brought so much to the team both physically and emotionally. The last time I saw him, he sold me a pair of ski goggles at Woodinville Ski. He was an amazing, dedicated and passionate employee, and I vividly remember his excitement: "dude those goggles are sick!". I will never forget the experiences I shared with ryan, and he will forever remain one of my true friends. I love you man!
Dennis Papka
April 15, 2008
Scott and Charlene,
Your family is in my prayers.
I am so sorry for your loss.
We will always remember the baseball years together with your family.
Take care and God Bless all of you.
Tiffany Cleveland
April 15, 2008
Scott, Charlene and Tanya:
My heart sank when I heard the news. I can still hear Joey, Stephen and Ryan playing outside like it was yesterday. He will be greatly missed by all the lives that he touched with his smile. Stay strong.
Lisa Barker
April 15, 2008
Charlene, Scott and Tanya,
I don't know if you remember me Charlene but I worked for you at Deer Creek 4 years ago. I wanted to express my deepest sympathies and that my thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
Lisa Barker and Family
Jennie and Rusty Fenrich
April 15, 2008
Scott, Charlene and Tanya,
I recently saw a picture of Ryan holding our newborn baby(5 years ago). My son's middle name is Ryan-Paul named after your special son. We will have a forever reminder of him. His wonderful, happy dispositon will always be in my heart. God Bless all of you.
Christan Seitz
April 15, 2008
Charlene, Scott, & Tanya –
The loss of Ryan is heartfelt by many. Our prayers, thoughts, tears, and hearts go out to you all at this most difficult time. Sadly, the loss of Ryan reminds us just how fragile life is, and as Scott requested we will cherish each day even more than we cherished it before.
Our deepest sympathy, love, and friendship always.
Chris and Tristan
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