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Anthony Michael "Tony" Sheppard

Anthony Sheppard Obituary

Formerly of Santa Rosa, died quietly at his home in Hidden Valley Lake with his dog Chino by his side. He was 45 years old. Tony is survived by his two sons: Nicholas and Derek; his parents Bobby and Margaret; and his wife Judy. He also leaves behind his sister Leah "Kristi" (Craig) Balderson and their son Joey; as well as his brother Jeremy (Andrea) Sheppard and their daughter Kayren. Tony was predeceased by his long-time friend John Herbst, and is further survived by a vast array of aunts, uncles, and cousins. Tony was born in San Jose, CA, and graduated from La Sierra Academy in Riverside, CA. After he moved back to Northern California, he worked many years for the County of Sonoma. Bilingual because of time spent living in Lima, Peru, Tony was able to use those skills in his work, serving the community through the departments of DA Family Support and Transportation and Public Works, where he leaves many friends bereft at his loss. Tony was a die-hard Dodgers fan (despite the unpopularity of that position here), an avid golfer, an enthusiastic guitarist, and a man in love with his sons, who were the light of his life. A big teddy bear of a man, he was known for his devotion to his family, work, and for always having a smile on his face. He leaves many feeling cheated that he couldn't be here longer. He will be dearly missed. A memorial service and reception will be held on Sunday, January 24th at 11:30 a.m. at the Santa Rosa Veteran's Memorial Building, located at 1351 Maple Drive in Santa Rosa. Trust funds have also been established for each of Tony's sons at Wells Fargo Bank.

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Published by Press Democrat from Jan. 17 to Jan. 24, 2010.

Memories and Condolences
for Anthony Sheppard

25 Entries

Donna Lighthill

January 15, 2025

Still miss you my sweet nephew. Love always

Nick

June 22, 2020

Hey Dad, Its currently midnight on Fathers Day. I dont even now what im doing here. But i've been thinking of you a lot recently and i miss you like crazy everyday. I feel like you coul've taught me so much these past years but without you some things have been a struggle. Just wanted to read this over again and wish you a Happy Fathers Day. I love you.

January 26, 2010

As you share this time of sorrow as a family, may you draw strength and hope from one another remembering your loved one's life together. We are praying that Tony is at peace in our Lord's Heavenly Home.
Jillian, Bob & Brittany Barnard

Jim and Myrtle Bates

January 25, 2010

Bobby and Margaret: We were so sorry to hear about your son. We want you to know that our hearts go out to you and your family and you are in our prayers for God to grant you peace and comfort knowing he is in a peaceful and kind place.

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sherree sheppard

January 22, 2010

Hello my Love Hello: I'm just sitting here and don't know what to say to you or your Dear Dear Family. I guess memories are the best - when you came to stay with Art & I and we told you we were going sailing on or Yacht - you were so excited until we got to the dock and it was a raft that you had to paddle. When our Yacht did come in you would not fall for it - but you were my Dear our first passenger and I will never forget when you said to us the raft was easier and you were right. I loved when you came to San Francisco and stayed with me - we had lunch everyday and went to see Moonraker. I miss you already and told your Dear Mother & Dad this world will not seem the same without your kindness and gentleness that you inheritited from your Parents. Sleep well My Love until we see you again. I do know in my heart that Grandmother, Mrs Shepherd, Mother & Dad will take such good care of you until we all meet again. I love you Tony and Rest - it's your turn. Love, Cousin Sherree

Orval, David, Suzie Sheppard

January 22, 2010

We are so saddened by your loss. the love and support of your wonderful family will help you through this difficult time. We will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers.

joeline,jeremy,and jamie Mcnutt

January 22, 2010

I'm saddened to read of an old friend passing, I met Tony in the late eighties we lived in the same apartment bulding, right before Tony went to work at the D.A.s office he bought a 1974 ugly black "pinto pony" car he paid $400. for ,he loved it. He would drive me to work in it so i would let him use it to look for a job. my then boyfriend ,tony and other neighbors played many hands of poker around the only table he owned the coffee table. When a muatul friend and i went to a rolling stones consert we called Tony so he could listen he did love those stones. When i think of Tony his Laugh is what i always enjoyed boy did we all laugh. I'm so sorry for his families lost when i know him my own boys were about 4 and 8 the oldest played little league he loved talking baseball with Tony and Tony loved it to.my boys remember him and are also saddened. we didnt see each other for many years but buddy you will be missed.

Patti Davis

January 21, 2010

Tony's incredible love of life will never be diminished in our hearts. The encouragement he gave to others will always be appreciated. His gift of self, will be remembered.

January 20, 2010

Tony will always be remembered for his unforgettable smile, his compassion, and his great sense of humor. He touched the lives of so many at DA Family Support. Judy, Nicholas, and Derek we offer our sincere condolences and share in your loss. With much sadness, I say good bye my friend – Jean Alves and family

ALEXANDER DUFFIELD

January 20, 2010

TONY, I WILL MISS YOU. WE HAD FUN TOGETHER AND YOU WERE A GREAT FATHER FIGURE. YOU ARE IN A SAFE PLACE WHERE YOU CAN WATCH OVER YOUR LOVED ONES AND GREET US ON ARRIVAL, I LOOK FORWARD TO SEEING YOU AT THE CROSSROADS! MUCH LOVE!! -ALEX D

Kris ------

January 19, 2010

Tony I miss you.

Kris

January 19, 2010

Tony I miss you.

Erika Cole

January 19, 2010

Tony was a father figure to me and I can remember him listening to music and smiling. Tony we know you spirit is still with us but your presence will be missed. Much love, and sympathy to his family. Erika

January 18, 2010

JUDY,DEREK,NICK & HILMA!
SO SORRY TO HERE OF THIS SAD NEWS!
MAY LOVE,PEACE & HAPPINESS COMFORT YOU THROUGH THIS!
TAKE CARE!
SEE YOU SOON!
LOVE FROM YOUR DOWNSTAIRS NEIGHBOR
MARY

January 18, 2010

JUDY,DEREK,NICK & HILMA!
SO SORRY TO HERE OF THIS SAD NEWS!
MAY LOVE,PEACE & HAPPINESS COMFORT YOU THROUGH THIS!
TAKE CARE!
SEE YOU SOON!
LOVE FROM YOUR DOWNSTAIRS NEIGHBOR
MARY

Dennis & Marnie Schallert

January 18, 2010

Judy, Nick and Derek,

You are all in our prayers at this time. I will never forget Tony's big laugh and his big heart. He was always willing to come over and lend a hand no mater what. I will never forget the chocolate dipped strawberries that he would bring to our family when he made them. Tony you will be missed by everyone that ever crossed your path rest in peace.

All our love

Hardies

January 18, 2010

Tony was one of kind. Gentle in spirit - a sparkle in his eyes - an unforgettable smile & laughter. You were a light Tony. Those in your life could not find a better friend. You will be missed deeply. There are not enough Tony's in this World. You were an Angel here on Earth & now in Heaven. I pray that God comforts your family during this difficult time. Rest in peace my friend. With much love & sadness - Jeff and Erin Hardie

Ken & Donna Lighthill

January 18, 2010

Judy, Nick and Derek
Our thoughts and prayers are with the three of you at this most difficult time. Tony was loved and will be missed by all the family. Take care and remember all the happy times over the past years. We love you all.

Aunt Donna & Uncle Ken

Patty Moakler (Duhamel)

January 17, 2010

Judy, Nicholas, and Derek,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this very difficult time. I was one of the fortunate people to have known Tony. I worked with Tony at the DA Family Support office. He always had a big smile on his face and a great sense of humor to go with it. He was loved by everyone. He will be surely missed. I will always rmember him calling me "Duey". I am just so saddened by his passing. Tony, rest in peace. We all love you.

Diantha Okrepkie

January 17, 2010

Judy, Derek and Nicholas,
May the love and kindness of friends and family help you through this difficult time. Tony interviewed me for my position at Child Support Services and he put me at ease right away. Through the years of working with him I have many memories of his laugh, his kindnesses and his great sense of humor. I remember him as a great Santa Claus at the Christmas party. Rest in peace, Tony.

Eryn Strickland

January 17, 2010

My condolences go out to Tony's family. I was one of the fortunate people who worked with Tony at Child Support. It was a shock to hear of his untimely passing. Tony, you will be missed. You are loved very much and you leave a legacy of a beautiful family to carry on in your absence.

Ken & Donna Lighthill

January 17, 2010

Bob, Margaret, Kristi & Jeremy
Tony will be greatly missed by everyone. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We know Tony is resting in peace with Dad, Mom, and Ronnie and he will be looked after with them. Think of all the good times over the past years and of the sons he left behind for you all to love and cherish.

Love you all

Donna & Ken

Laura Larrow

January 17, 2010

What a heartsick feeling to learn of Tony's passing. He could find the humor in any situation and had a personal presence that lit up any room. How sensitive he was to child support clients, and how fair he was to the employees he supervised. I will remember his great big smile that added joy to the world, and his love of family. Condolences to his family as they experience this difficult time.

Elissa Seals

January 17, 2010

ANOTHNY WAS A GREAT TEACHER. HE GAVE ME CONFIDENCE TO DO A VERY COMPLEX AND MEANINGFUL JOB. I LAUGHED AND SOMETIMES CRIED BUT, ALWAYS ENJOYED THE TIME I SPENT WORKING WITH MY FRIEND, ANTHONY. HE WILL BE MISSED. GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY DURING THIS TIME.

Elizabeth Koetke

January 17, 2010

My heart goes out to Tony's family. He was a big man with a huge heart. He made an effort to make everyone feel comfortable in any situation, and could make his friends laugh with his keen wit. I will remember him as someone who was funny and kind and loved his family, especially his precious sons. Rest in peace Tony, we love you.

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