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Carolyn Belle Anstead

1941 - 2025

Carolyn Belle Anstead obituary, 1941-2025, Sebastopol, CA

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1941

DIED

2025

Carolyn Anstead Obituary

Carolyn Belle Anstead
September 13, 1941 - February 1, 2025
Our dear Carolyn (Cara) Anstead passed away Saturday, February 1st, 2025. Cara was the daughter of Norma "Polly" Rawles and Jacob L Frye. She and her loving husband William "Bill" Anstead are the parents of three children. Keli Hanson (Tim), Jill Smith (Richard), and Billy Anstead (Janelle, deceased). 8 grandchildren, and 19 great grandchildren.

Cara grew up in Sonoma, CA where she met and married her husband of 67 years. She and her husband were partners not only in a loving marriage, but also in fresh produce markets, having owned and operated 4 businesses, the most notable being Bill's Farm Basket located on Bodega Highway, just west of Sebastopol. Cara was known for her keen sense of operating the financial side of the business as well as creating and operating extremely high quality deli departments. Cara loved everyone she met and extended kindness and compassion to friends and strangers alike.

Cara is a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She loves the gospel of Jesus Christ and always helped and loved the missionaries of the Church. (Her wonderful meals and comforting words will be remembered by missionaries from all corners of the earth) Although she will be extremely missed, we are comforted by the fact that she is now in her heavenly home, surrounded by her loving family and friends. We love you mom!

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Published by Press Democrat on Feb. 6, 2025.

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Steve Holman

March 8, 2025

I am so sorry to hear Cara has past. My memories of her are faint but I remember her as a very loving and caring person. Love and condolences to everyone she touched.

Catharine Davis

March 2, 2025

Wonderful memories growing up with the Anstead Family. Jill has been one of my longest and closest friends. Love them all.

Ken Aggio

February 26, 2025

Sorry for your loss Bill. She was a wonderful lady.
The Aggio family

Loreena Hester

February 13, 2025

My Heart was always soo happy to see her! She could look into my eyes... and see my Heart. I never will forget the memory of their 66th Anniversary! Cara was Radiant and Bill soo sweet recalling their stories together! Seeing Cara´s Tiny Wedding Dress and seeing all their Beautiful Family of Grandchildren & Great Grandchildren was a True Blessing to my heart.
She remains in my Heart for a Lifetime and I will miss her at our next Rawles Family Reunion. Heartfelt prayers to Bill and their Beautiful Family.

Susan Hughes

February 7, 2025

The memories I have from years ago and on will be held close to my heart!

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Diana Mendoza

February 6, 2025

Cara was a sweet person, one of the nicest person I met. She will be missed, but not forgotten

Sandy Hayward

February 6, 2025

Just seen this, so sorry to the family, my condolences, she always was very loving to my parents, they thought the world of her.

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