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Paul J. Abrams

1948 - 2020

Paul J. Abrams obituary, 1948-2020, Vineland, NJ

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Paul Abrams Obituary

Abrams, Paul J, - 72, of Vineland, passed away peacefully on December 4, 2020 surrounded by his loving family after an extended illness. Paul was born on February 11, 1948 in Bridgeton, NJ to Louis and Rita Abrams. Paul and his four sisters were raised in Bridgeton. He attended Immaculate Conception Grammar School, and then Sacred Heart High School where he met Kathryn Zucca, his future wife. After graduating in 1966, Paul continued his education at Cumberland County College (CCC). He was the eighth student to enroll at CCC and a member of the first graduating class in 1968. Because diplomas were issued alphabetically, Paul was the very first person to graduate from this newly established institution. He continued his education earning his BS from Monmouth College, and Master's degree in business administration from Glassboro State College (Rowan University). Paul served six years in the United States National Guard. During this time, he was selected to drive the Colonel and spent many years in this role. He was a proud of our country and cherished the opportunity to serve the nation. Paul began his career at Cumberland County College in 1970 which spanned over 34 years, retiring in 2005 as the Vice President of Finance and Administrative Services. During his tenure, Paul served as past Vice Chairperson, Secretary, and Charter Member of NJ County College Business Officers Association. Paul worked tirelessly to ensure the residents of the county had access to a quality college education at an affordable price. His intense focus on fiscal solvency resulted in multiple accolades and recognitions. In late 1999, The Daily Journal honored Paul as one of the Century's Top 100 Citizens of Cumberland County for achieving his goals. In addition, Paul was named a Cumberland County College Distinguished Alumni in 2005. After retirement, Paul worked as a consultant for CCC overseeing construction projects, and then part-time for his friends at Martini and Martini CPA until 2010. Aside from his professional career, Paul was a member of Sacred Heart Church and then Padre Pio Parish. He was actively involved with Sacred Heart Parish Council, Sacred Heart Grammar School Board, and served as a Fourth Degree Knight in the Knights of Columbus. Paul served as a past member of the Vineland Lions Club and the Vineland Chamber of Commerce. Paul enjoyed cooking, entertaining, woodworking, traveling to Lancaster, Cape Cod, and the beach with his family. Summer was a special time for Paul, hosting family poolside, barbequing, and being surrounded by the people he loved most. Above all things, Paul most enjoyed spending time with his cherished family, especially his grandsons. Paul was predeceased by his parents, Louis and Rita (Murphy) Abrams; step-mother, Florence; sister, Ann Suprano; brother-in-law, Jack Urban; and grandson, Paul Angelo Abrams. Paul is survived by his loving wife of 51 years, Kathy; his beloved son, Paul P. Abrams and wife, Kim (Magolda); grandsons Nicholas and Anthony Abrams; sisters Mary Abrams, Bernadette Urban, Jeanne and brother-in-law Bob Labuz; brother-in-law Ken Suprano; sister-in-law Pat Gosbin; sister-in-law Joyce Pierantozzi and brother-in-law Tony Pierantozzi; special cousins Frank and Cindy Saffioti; along with many nieces and nephews. The family is eternally grateful for the wonderful nursing care provided by Darlene Durham and Monica Thomas. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Mary School, 735 Union Rd., Vineland, NJ 08361 or St. Padre Pio Parish, 4680 Dante Ave., Vineland, NJ. 08361. The religious service and burial will be private.

ARRANGEMENTS are under the supervision of Rone Funeral Service, 1110 East Chestnut Avenue, Vineland, NJ 08360. To send online condolences please visit our website at www.RONEFUNERALSERVICE.com

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Published by The Press of Atlantic City on Dec. 7, 2020.

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JOANNE DAUBENSPECK

November 29, 2023

Kathy, thinking of you and your family today. Stay strong & keep the faith.
Joanne Gallo Daubenspeck

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Robert E. Hancox, Ph.D.

December 13, 2020

I had the privilege to work with Paul at Cumberland County College and travel with him to various conferences. Paul was a wonderful friend and colleague. I especially enjoyed his extremely dry sense of humor. His outstanding contributions to the College will never be forgotten.

Georgeann Courtright Strabuk

December 12, 2020

Kathy and family,
Although it´s been years and years, still smile at the memory of you and Paul. I especially cherish memories of Paul´s dad, Lou. He was my first boss and I adored him. I´m sure he and Paul are smiling down on their beautiful family. Stay safe.

Lorraine Dandrea

December 10, 2020

Our sincere sympathy to you, Kathy, and your family. Hoping that your happy memories of Paul will help you get through this difficult time.

Rococo and Lorraine Dandrea

Dennis & Becky Del Fava

December 9, 2020

Kathy, Paul & family,
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Paul was a kind, generous man who along with Kathy raised a wonderful son with all those same traits. Kathy, I will always remember how crazy he thought you & I were on our way to our Aerosmith concerts. Sending our deepest sympathy & prayers.

Patricia Olive

December 9, 2020

Kathy & Paul,
All my love & prayers!
Patty Olive

Kim Lebron

December 8, 2020

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Denise Stretch

December 8, 2020

Kathy, I am so sorry for your loss. My Deepest Sympathy to you and your family during this time.

Pete Polmonari

December 7, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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Carol Grusemeyer

December 7, 2020

Dear Kathy, I was sorry to learn of Paul's passing. He was such a good person and I have fond memories of all of the fun we had so many years ago. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Carol Grusemeyer

Joyce Bernardini

December 7, 2020

Dear Kathy. I was so sad to read of Paul’s passing. I remember how sweet he was. My thoughts are with you. Joyce Fixler bernardini

Joanne Daubenspeck

December 6, 2020

Dear Kathy,
This is Joanne Gallo Daubenspeck. Just looking through the Daily Jounal Obituaries and was very much surprised to see Paul's photo. I live in SW FL, so I try to keep up with news from my hometown. So sorry for your loss. I have been down that road, too almost 37 years ago. I just remember you and Paul being high school sweethearts and made such a cute couple. Cherish all the beautiful memories and know that one day you will be reunited. Take care and God Bless you and your family. Love Peace, Joanne

K McGarvey

December 6, 2020

It was a real privilege to work with Paul for almost two decades. He was Old School in all the best ways: Hard working, honest, intuitive, completely dedicated to pretty much everything that was important to him—or to the college. Paul never saw a problem that he couldn’t solve. He has a wonderful family and I send them my very best wishes.

Mark Sockwell

December 6, 2020

So sad to hear the news of Paul's passing. A very talented person in many ways. I enjoyed working with Paul for over 28 years at Cumberland County College and over a year at Martini & Martini, CPA. Many fond memories. I loved his clams casino that he made for his parties. We've lost another good man.....RIP.

Dr. Timothy Tirrell

December 5, 2020

I had the pleasure of working with Paul at CCC for many years where he was a tireless worker for the college in general and the students in particular. He always found a solution no matter the challenge or circumstance. A reliable friend and terrific family man, he will surely be missed. Deepest sympathies to Kathy and Pauley

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