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MENZ, ROBERT C. - of Cape May, passed away suddenly on September 3, 2012. Bob was born in Wildwood on March 23, 1931. He was the loving husband of 52 years to Darcy M. Menz, who predeceased him in June 2004. Bob was a father, grandfather, and great-grandfather. For many years, Bob and his family owned and operated the Marquis de Lafayette Hotel, the Top of the Marq and the Gold Whale Restaurants in Cape May. Since 1986, the Menz family has operated the Inn of Cape May and Aleathea's Restaurant. Bob resided in Cape May and spent the winters in Palm Beach Gardens, Florida. Bob is survived by daughters, Beth Eastman and Thea Peterson; son, Derwin "Duck" (and Carol) Menz; his grandchildren, Keri (and Terk) Gindville, Tai (and Julie) Menz, Ami Menz, Cody Menz, Phil Peterson and Tori Peterson; great grandson, Gavin Gindville and great grand-daughter, Piper Menz. A memorial service will be held on Thursday (September 13th) at 12:30PM at Tabernacle United Methodist Church, 702 Seashore Road, Erma where friends will be received from 11AM until 12:30PM. Interment will be private in Tabernacle Cemetery, Erma. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions would be appreciated and can be made to Cape May Volunteer Fire Company, PO Box 375, Cape May, NJ 08204. Bob will be greatly missed by his family, his many friends, and co-workers. "We don't yet see things clearly…but it won't be long before the weather clears and the sun shines bright…" 1 Corinthians 13:12 (the Message) (Spilker Funeral Home, Cape May) info and condolences: www.spilkerfuneralhome.com

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Published by The Press of Atlantic City on Sep. 7, 2012.

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Ernest Decina

October 1, 2012

Hi Der, I'm sorry for your lose. We had fun at the Carriage Stop, and Ft. Apache in the 60s. Ern from the Apollo.

Lorraine Pickrell

September 10, 2012

Dear Beth, Thea & Duck,
My deepst sympathy. Your dad was so much fun, young & old. Even though I'm so far away, Beth you are in my heart.

Susan (Deaver) Simmons

September 10, 2012

Sorry to hear of your dads passing. I remember him as being a really fun dad when we were growing up. Thinking of you all. Sue

Linda Williamson

September 9, 2012

Beth and Thea, I am so sorry to learn of your father's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of sorrow.
Linda (Liebau) Williamson

Donald Anderson

September 7, 2012

I worked at the Marquis in 1972 when I was a kid. Mr. (and Mrs for that matter)Menz were always very nice to me, though I was only a dishwasher.
I am sure they are in heaven.

Dolly Finocchiaro

September 7, 2012

Dear Beth,Thea&Ducky
So sorry to hear of your dads passing. Our prayers are with you & your families.
Dolly & Sam Jr

George Christofely

September 7, 2012

Dear Carol and Ami,
My deepest condolences to you and your family on the loss of your father-in-law and grandfather. My thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult times.

Peggy Keleshian

September 7, 2012

Please accept my deepest and heartfelt sympathy on the passing of your father. He will be remembered always and fondly!

Linda & Bruce Pelham

September 7, 2012

The Menz Family
Sorry for the loss of your Father,Grandfather,etc.Only talked to him once, but enjoyed our conversation.
(Cape May Tea Party)Our thoughts & prayers are with all of you at this
difficult time.

September 7, 2012

My thoughts and prayers to Beth & Thea and entire Menz Family.
Pattie Baird

Karen Bohme

September 7, 2012

Beth, Thea, Ducky and family:

So sorry to learn of your dad's passing. I remember him from when we were all much, much younger at the Methodist Church in Wildwood.

Cherish all the wonderful memories you share. You are in my thoughts and prayers

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