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Bruce E. Rameika

Bruce Rameika Obituary

RAMEIKA, BRUCE E., 43, of Fairview Drive, West Kingston passed away May 9, 2007. He was the beloved husband of 19 years of Anne Marie (Dunleavy) and loving father of Kristen, Kimberly and Eric. He was the son of the late Vincent and Jane Rameika.

Bruce was a Commercial Shell Fisherman which was his passion. He also was a Registered Nurse at Kent Hospital and previously employed by Rhode Island Hospital for 14 years where he made major contributions to the nursing field. Bruce graduated from Bishop Hendricken, CCRI, RIC and currently was attending URI for his Masters in Nursing. Bruce was a wrestling coach in South County and active in all of his children's sports.

He is survived also by his twin sister, Heidi Warner and Sheila DeNinno of Warwick and 16 nieces and nephews.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial on Tuesday at 10 AM in St. Francis of Assisi Church, 128 High Street, Wakefield and may call at the Nardolillo Funeral Home, SOUTH COUNTY CHAPEL, 1111 Boston Neck Road, (Rt. 1A) Narragansett Monday 4-8 p.m. Burial will be at New Fernwood Cemetery Kingston. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to: Bruce E. Rameika Memorial Fund, c/o Citizens Bank, 51 Main Street, Wakefield, RI 02879. www.nardolillo.com

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Published by The Providence Journal on May 13, 2007.

Memories and Condolences
for Bruce Rameika

Sponsored by Anne Marie ,Kristen, Kimberly and Eric.

149 Entries

May 28, 2012

Happy Birthday Bruce. You are missed by all of us so much. I love you, Anne

Tim Tria

February 14, 2012

Oh my. I am awfully sorry to see this. Was just looking through at people I knew growing up. We went to ST Mary' s church together. I know Heidi also. Thoughts and prayers are with your family

Beth Heaney

January 6, 2012

God bless you, Bruce. And you, too, Heidi. How lucky he was to have a sister like you. Family is everything.

Heidi Warner

January 1, 2012

2012 brings another year that you are not with us. The daily pain that we all feel just confirms how much you are loved and missed. We see you in each of your children, through their comments, actions and there facial expressions. That is a blessing to me and a reminder of your legacy. Your wife is an amazing woman keeping them safe and protected and close.I reflect on how you would always call mom where ever you and Anne were on News Years to wish her a Happy New Year. Mom always waited up for that call. We continue to love you. I take so much comfort in the pictures we have; they are precious. I trust God, so I know He is taking care of you, and by trusting Him, I gather strength. Psalm 121: 1 I lift up my eyes to the hills… where does my help come from? 2 My help comes from the LORD, the Maker of heaven and earth.

Ashley Bishop

May 9, 2011

4 years ago today I was with Kristen and we had AAU basketball practice that night so Mrs. Rameika was going to be taking Kristen and I to practice and my dad was going to be picking us up at 9 when practice was over. I remember the conversation on the way being about what the Rameika's were going to be doing that summer and how they also love going on their dads boat. After practice my dad got us and we were bringing Kristen back to her house. Kristen received a phone call from Kim at about 9:10 saying that their dad had had a heart attack. Immediately my heart sank and I was trying to console Kristen letting her know that everything is going to be okay. When we got back to their house the EMT's were there and Mr. Rameika was on his way to the hospital. I got a text later that night from Kristen telling me the final news about her dad. Even though I did not know Mr. Rameika that well I felt through the stories that Kristen always told about him that I did know him very well. Kristen and me have been very close since freshmen year of high school and there is not a day that goes by where I dont think about what happened on May 9, 2007. This day made me realize how important family is and how a family can completely change in the matter of seconds. I admire the strength of the Rameika family and you all are always in my prayers and thoughts. I believe that I was supposed to be there that night with Kristen for a reason and I will never ever forget that day from the moment I woke up until the moment I received that text. I love you Rameika family and I think of you all every day.

Lou Upham

December 11, 2010

To The Rameika Family,

I met Bruce Freshman year at URI in 1981. He was full of life and had more energy than a basket of kittens.
He loved his family and friends and had fun with everything he did. His passion for life was absolutely boundless.
He loved basketball, dancing and having fun. Bruce and I had a running pact to be together at 11:11 twice a day, every day for some sort of mischief....playing a prank, goofing on someone, going for a ride or just hanging out. We called it our bewitching hour....basically it was just an excuse to get up and "do something". Bruce had that much energy!
When I found this site today it was because I looked at the clock and it was 11:11. I think of Bruce every time I see the clock at that hour...and I see it most every day at least once. I wanted you to know that I loved him and always will. Every time I think of him, I say his name aloud and blow a kiss up to the sky...and I offer a quick blessing to you all. Just had to let you know.
God Bless.

Kellie Welsh

August 20, 2010

Dear Rameika family,

My thoughts and prayers are forever with each and every one of you. I love you all so much and admire your strength, courage, and love for one another.

Anne Marie

June 4, 2010

1-4-3

Heidi Warner

May 28, 2010

Today we were born. I before you. 2 mins apart. I miss you.

Heidi Warner

May 9, 2010

My Darling Brother,
Our lives changed in an instant. Through the midst of this, family and friends have stood by; helping, sharing, praying and caring. Their support has been a blessing. Wrapping our head around our loss will never happen because it never will make any sense to us. But today, on this third anniversary, we can remember your contagious laughter, your strong hands, your smile and the fact that your wife and children got to experience something rare; a soul mate and a father so deeply ingrained in his children. Time will never heal your passing, but through our Lord and Savior we gain strength and courage to face the day, not in our own strength, but in God’s. Every morning we take a deep breath and try to move forward. And I am captivated by the little things that remind me of you; a bird gracefully flying by, the morning sun on my face when I am walking into work, and the breeze off the ocean. And I feel your presence. You are missed and love daily by so many. We are all changed by your passing and your imprint will remain in our hearts. But one thing still remains true....the saying that hangs over your kitchen sink, “A fisherman lives here….with the best catch of his life.”

Beth Palumbo-Heaney

June 10, 2009

Heidi,

I just wanted to tell you that my brother, James Palumbo, passed away on May 12. He was one of Bruce's best friends when they were small. When your brother passed away, they had been working together at the hospital for several years and had rekindled their friendship. I have a photo of the two of them that I would love to share with you, now that they are together again. Please contact me and I will email it to you.

Heidi

May 28, 2009

Happy Birthday my beloved Brother. I miss your call on this day, and I miss all the memories we have shared on our birthdays. I love and miss you. Your loving twin

Heidi Warner

December 25, 2008

There are people who have inhabited my prayer life, who have made their home in me, who help me understand the Gospel message of love through the pages of the bible. People I have never met, stories in the bible that have helped pave the way to trust and faith. Their coming into my life has enriched my pilgrim journey. And you are a part of this. Every day you are present in some way. You are such a presence to all of us and your light continues to be a beacon for us. On the birth of Jesus, this day, I think about your birth, your walk and your message. The one left on your stone, the message of the lighthouse. The lighthouse is solid (to weather the storms), tall and strong overlooking the waters. At the top, a beacon of light provides direction and safety for those at sea. And the light never goes out. You were the light for the stranger, the needy, the weak and the thirsty. You are a light, to Anne, Kristen, Kim and Eric. You are a light to me. Seasons come and go, and life’s routines’ take place, but there is not a day that goes by that the sting of your presence of not being here, is felt. So we must trust the message you leave us, and we must trust our faith. Though the walk is hard without you, we can use your light to help light our way. In doing so, we keep you alive within ourselves and continue to be the Gospel message for others. You are always remembered in our hearts, because of you, I own a warmer heart.

Cheryl De Ninno

September 5, 2008

Dear Anne & Family
I had no idea your guest book was still open. I am in Fla with Sheila and she was showing me the most recent entries. Your girls are so cute, please have them write to Krisily if they have the time on face book, she would love to hear from them, I think it would be good for them both. She misses her family but loves Ca. I ask about you all the time. I hope all is well. I am sure Bruce and God are watching over you. You have a wonderful family. Please give everyone a hug and a special hug for your son. I love you all.
Cheryl

Eric Rameika

May 12, 2008

Its been oe year now since my father has passed away and all of my family and freinds have helpes me get through this i would just like to say thank you to everyone that has wrote in this and we love the support
I Lve You Dad

Mikael Deninno

May 3, 2008

Uncle Bruce its almost been a year since you left a beloved wife, 3 amazing children, your co captain of the seas(Sophie) and 2 sisters that cant fathom that you are not here for that big haven’t seen you in a long time hug or casual holiday drink at the Warner house hold. I treasure the times you and I shared from the first time you took me co hogging at 5:30 in the morning and used me as a decoy to sneak the little necks to the van while you chased in, to when I was helping you load in all the furniture down stairs in my basement while you were building the house in south county. And it just figures that the year you pass the Celtics are better than ever, having the best record in the pre-season to entering the playoffs with hope and support to do nothing but take it all, but I know you are watching down with grams and pops. It was just Christmas were still till this day I haven’t seen it done with anyone else but you, were you open a beer with your teeth, or those soft gentle but vice handling hands. Or how every time I visited, you had a new old car but for some reason it was in perfect condition, low miles but only lasted a year or less, but that was the greatness of it, you put your family first and you didn’t care what you drove as long as it either got you to the hospital were you care for those in need, or to the ocean were you could find yourself at rest and take it slow. Uncle Bruce I will always miss you and wonder when I will see you again, what will I be doing when that day comes, but for certain when we do meet again it will be a day of greatness, a day of celebration and a day of a new beginning. With love your Nephew, Mikael

Donna Ravo (Rodriguez)

April 24, 2008

Ann I think of you and the kids very often. We talk about Bruce all the time. All of his pranks. His knowledge that he pretened to have none. His hard back that gave him so much strength. With all being said; I know he has given to you and your children his strength to move onward but always keeping him in your heart and thoughts

Austin Oswinkle

April 14, 2008

For the past 11 months kristen has been my best friend and is now my girlfriend. Throughout the time me and kristen have been together Mrs.Rameika and I have developed a very close relationship and even though I only met him 2 or 3 times through the stories and other conversations I know that he was the biggest part of Eric, Kim, Kristen and Anne's lives.

You are loved and truly missed by everyone.

Liam Weir

April 8, 2008

Dear Rameika Family,

Words cannot explain how the loss of Bruce Rameika was so tradgic. I can remember when my mom recieved a phonecall from my grandparents telling her that Bruce has had a heatrattack. Everyone in our family gathered around the table in our family room and prayed for the entire Rmeika family.
My uncle was aloving husband , father, brother, and friend. He was truly an outstanding man. I have cherised so many memories with him that I will never forget.
Today is my dad's birthday. This made me realize that my threee cousins, Kristen, Kimberly, and Eric will never celebrate their dad's birthday with him. Also tommorow will be april 9, 11 months months after Bruce died.
I always think of the Rameika's and realize how strong they are. Recently we had an assembly at my school that talked about everyone's values. The man that presented the assembly to us explained to everyone how your parents arae your best friends. This made me stop and think. I immediately thought of Kristen, Kim and Eric, the three of them have lost their best friend.
We will always have wonderful memories of Bruce. He will always be in our Hearts.
Kristen, Kim, and Eric, please remember that I am here and are praying for you guys.

Love,
Liam Weir

Heidi

February 9, 2008

Your smile and memories give strength to us, for who you are and how you gave of yourself unconditionally. As each day passes it presents its own challenges. But it is through our faith and God’s Grace that we sustain each day; knowing with certainty; that in time we will be together for eternity. It is this light that I carry for you and your family.

And when I see the sun rise; I remember how you loved the water and how you felt close to God there. I think about how many sun rises’ you must have seen so early in the morning and how you gained strength by God’s warm light. And it is this saying that reminds me of you and I keep it close to my heart. “For I believe in God as I believe the sun has risen. Not because I can see it, but by way of it, I can see everything else.”

You are loved & missed

January 19, 2008

brother,
the patriots are playing this sunday and they have not lost a game all season.they are playing the charges and it will be a no brainer as they head for the superbowl. i think of you every time they play on sundays. i miss you.
love sheila (sis) 143

Beth Heaney (Palumbo)

January 1, 2008

My mom and dad were at my home today to visit and we were talking about when my dad was ill at Kent Hospital in February and March of last year. We talked about how Bruce took such good care of him and watched to be sure he was well treated. I wish he knew how much that meant to us all.

My heart goes out to all of you in Bruce's family. With twins of my own, I can't imagine how hard it must be to lose such a close friend, someone so close to your heart from the time you were born and even before.

sheila

January 1, 2008

happy new year brother. you are missed on a daily basis.love and miss you.
sis 1-4-3-

Brendan Haywood

December 29, 2007

Bruce I miss you so much this is probably the hardest time that your kids and wife have to go through because of holidays!
God Bless you Rameika Family
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year Bruce Eric Rameika

John Weir

December 26, 2007

To Aunt Anne and the kids,
It feels like yesterday when I was doing a project and got the tragic call that my Uncle Bruce had a heart attck. Moments later we recieved a call informing us that he had passed away. Everybody was devistated. It was the first time I lost a loved one. I cant imagine the pain my aunt and cousins are going through right now. I miss Uncle Bruce so much at family parties. He was always the life of the party and would play games with us. We all loved Bruce. Stay strong Ramieka faimly.

Giggles

November 18, 2007

I love you daddy

Heidi Warner

November 3, 2007

It’s hard to believe that you’re not here. It still does not seem real or make any sense. You were such a wonderful person Bruce. Your outreach and ministry was evident as people come forward to share wonderful stories with me and your family. You were so unique, and your life affected so many of us. You were the rock thrown into the water and showed the way for many by the ripples you left.

Today two people shared stories with me and so, I wanted to write them in this journal so they are not forgotten. A nursing instructor told me that when she would bring her students onto the floor you were working on, how you would really grill them. Making sure they were on top of things. I miss students coming in and telling me how they met you and worked with you. How wonderful of a teacher you were to them.

Another close friend of yours told me a story of how Anne bought you this really nice extra long snow cleaner to clean off your car (that any of us would be envious of). It was the really nice ones, not the cheap ones most of us buy. Anne was always being so thoughtful in making sure you had what you needed all the time. The woman said how you would kid around with her husband all the time and thus you through the snow scraper into her husband’s car saying with humor that a real man would not use this. It was tossed back and forth and ended up staying in her husband’s car. I asked her how then would he clean off his car then? She said that when she worked with him, before his shift ended, he would ask for the keys of the older nurses and would go outside and clean off their cars as well as his own. He would take a food tray and use that to clean of the car. This would just crack them all up.

In our childhood years I remember how you would tease me till I almost cried; and how you rescued me throughout my life. I will miss your smile, your humor, and watching you love your family. You truly were the best dad any kid could have and both you and Anne where so lucky to have each other. Your dedication to them was wonderful. I will miss sharing Xmas with you the most and enjoying your cooking. I loved playing the secrete Santa game with you and how you tried your strategic moves in getting the best gift. I remember putting in grass seed in hopes you would get it. I will miss the bag a clams you would leave at my door. But mostly, and I mean mostly, my greatest loss is not growing old with you.

sheila deninno

September 24, 2007

DEAR BRUCE,
NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT I DON'T FEEL YOUR PRENSENCE AROUND ME, ESPECIALLY TODAY. I KNOW YOU ARE WITH MOM ON HER FIRST ANIVERSARY AND ARE LOOKING DOWN ON US, PROTECTING US. DAD IS ALSO BESIDE YOU. I LOVE AND MISS YOU DEARLY. EVERYTHING IS OK.
YOUR CRAZY SISTER
SHEILA 1-4-3

Gail Kelley

September 16, 2007

Dear Heidi,
I just want you to know - you have so very, many anchors - Bruce left the most important piece of himself here for you - his precious family, Anne, Kristen, Kimberly & Eric. When you hug them, he is smiling. If you knew how your friend's hearts ached for you; we will all always hold you up.
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

Elise Rinaldi

August 27, 2007

My Dear Friend Anne,

I can’t imagine the pain of your loss. I spent all night thinking about you and the kids. Then my thoughts turned to Bruce. The memories I have of him brought smiles and laughter. I remember the first time I met Bruce. It was freshman year and I had driven with Gregg from Oneonta to see you at URI and we went to the Squeeze concert. I don’t think you and Bruce were officially seeing each other, but it was obvious from the start he was so enamored with you. He just wanted to be near you. But the funniest and best memory I have is when Domenic and I came up to spend the weekend with you guys at your house in Warwick. It must have been the Fall of 1989. Patti and John also spent the weekend and we had a blast. Drove around in that boat of a car that had the police light. Bruce put the light on and pulled over a Domino’s pizza delivery man for speeding! I still crack up every time I think about it! And we still have this great picture of Domenic with that snake!

It is those wonderful memories to which we all hang on. It keeps Bruce close and allows him to live in our hearts. Anne, there probably isn’t anything that can heal your pain right now. I know your heart is broken and the piece that has been ripped away can never truly heal. But remember you are truly blessed. Although taken from this world way too soon, Bruce gave you the most precious gift. He shared his life and his love with you. Treasure and carry that gift with you the rest of your life. I offer my prayers to you, Kristin, Kimberly and Eric. I hope that you can find comfort in the love of your family, friends and memories.

With friendship and love,
Elise

Donna Ravo

August 11, 2007

Bruce I think of you daily. I think of your beautiful wife, Ann and the kids. How are they doing? Are they able to find their way to ease back into some sort of normality, I guess normality isn't there without you.
We all miss you here at the hospital.
I planted a beautiful hydrangea bush in my yard in remembrance of you. And I drove down to Gallee to purchase lobsters from the fishermen instead of the store.
Ann and the kids....always in my thoughts.

Heidi Warner

July 26, 2007

It is in the early morning I feel your presence around me. It is still dark; the light is trying to make its way through. There is a stillness in the air. Moments go by and I hear the dove. I look out my window and there are three; it is a sign of peace to me and to be open to a new day. And with that feeling, my heart gives gratitude to God that you were in my life, even for a short period of time.

Future things will not be the same without you. Yet, I know, deep in my heart, that you being you will manage to give us signs along the way that you are there. Like the dove that comes to me in the morning. My faith enables me to know that you are ok and in paradise as the Lord spoke about upon his own death.

I remember the words by Max Lucado in the book “In the Eye of the Storm.” To continue to anchor myself to Him who sustains me. And with that I carry a rope in my pocket in memory of you and where my strengths come from.

Lucado writes, First, I take the anchor and set it up near the bow. “That should steady the boat!” I shout. But, of course, it doesn’t. Next I carry the anchor to the stern, “Now we are secure!” But the bouncing continues. I hang the anchor on the mast, but it doesn’t help. Finally, in fear and frustration, I take the anchor and throw it out into the deep and scream. And then God tugs at my heart and I realize then, that I have to anchor to something other than myself!

Your Loving Sister

BRENDAN HAYWOOD

July 15, 2007

BRUCE I MISS YOU,
YOU WERE A GOOD MAN,HUSBAND,BROTHER FATHER,UNCLE,COUSIN AND A FRIEND.
YOU KNOW WHEN YOU PASSED AWAY A FEW DAYS LATER THE ONE THING I WISH I CAN DO WITH YOU ONE LAST TIME IS TO FISH WITH YOU.ANY KIND.
I NEVER HAD THE CHANCE TO EXPERIENCE IT WITH YOU.

GOD BLESS BRUCE ERIC RAMEIKA AND ESPECIALLY THE ONES THAT ARE LOVED BY HIM

BRENDAN J HAYWOOD

July 9, 2007

it has now been 2 months since you left us. you haven't left our minds and hearts. each day goes on and we miss you tremendously. you touched so many lives and so many people loved your smiling face. watch over us especially your wife and your kids. they need you and love you.
you are remembered always and forever 5-9-07

Brendan Haywood

June 17, 2007

Anne,Kristen,Kim,Eric

It's been over a month now, you guys and Bruce have been in my heart every moment. I was very shocked when my father picked up a call from Pat & Tom Dunleavy. Saying Bruce had a heart attack.
I was like back up a trillion miles. How no one knew? Next day I went to lacrosse practice and kept my mouth quiet for the day. Called my mom twice to see how the status was. Never responded so I had a feeling something bad happened. Then when we got in the car me and my mom cried in memory of Bruce. Next day I went to school my mom said I can stay home but I went to play my lacrosse game. From there on he is the only person I've been thinking about. Kim and Kristen he was always there for you no matter if you needed help with softball or anything else. Eric your father is probably looking down on you saying stick with wrestling make me proud. Anne he was like I can't describe. This coming Wrestling season I'm going to work hard in every practice and match for him. Because he was RI state champion at a young age. If you need a hand or anything you know where to find me. Email me or call me if you really need help [email protected] or 914-275-7018.

I hope you guys are doing good it is hard I know that. I'll see you in the future.

God bless your hearts and souls and especially BRUCE E. RAMEIKA.

LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAN HAYWOOD

Elizabeth Gomez

June 13, 2007

Keeping you in our thoughts and paryers. Daily.

ROSE PARKER

June 11, 2007

ANNE,
MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND THE CHILDREN ALWAYS,BRUCE WAS A WONDERFUL FATHER AND A WONDERFUL HUSBAND TO YOU.HE LOVED YOU VERY MUCH.HE IS NOW LOOKING DOWN ON YOU AND THE KIDS AND HE'LL ALWAYS BE BY YOUR SIDE.MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.AND BRUCE'S FAMILY ALSO

June 10, 2007

I love you, Anne

GeriCare

June 10, 2007

Dear Anne and the whole family,

Even though we never met Bruce, we heard stories about him from Anne that were always loving. He sounded like a good father, husband, son, brother, nurse, and more. We are truly sorry about your loss and hope that you know that he may be gone in body, but his love will be with you always.

The thoughts and prayers of many are with you at this difficult time.

Auntie Heidi

June 9, 2007

Dear Kristen, Kim, Eric

It is so difficult to understand the loss of your Dad. Even with the passing of time, we only learn to manage the pain, for the loss is great. It is in remembering that we can strengthen ourselves which will hold us together. I will take comfort in so many memories. Like the Xmas when we did the swap and he ended up with the Barbie doll. He was so eager to swap in case he got a better gift. I remember the wonderful Easter dinner he made. I was so proud of him. I remember when he cut down the trees in my yard and then we shared a glass of wine together under the big oak tree. He liked this one tree because it was so solid and rooted in the dirt. Mostly I will remember his hands. They themselves tell the story of his life. How he helped people, how he was strong.

He would want you to continue the path he and your mom set forth by being the wonderful well rounded children that you are. Continue to do good in his honor. There are signs in him in each of you. Your compassion, your understanding, and you’re giving of yourself. May you know that I am always here for you and totally understand how you are feeling.

When you hear the rustling of the trees you will know Bruce is there watching over you. Open yourself to the breath of the wind and be filled with comfort our God sends forth.

And if I go,
while you're still here...
Know that I live on,
vibrating to a different measure
--behind a thin veil you cannot see through.
You will not see me,
so you must have faith.
I wait for the time when we can soar together again,
--both aware of each other.
Until then, live your lives to its fullest.
And when you need me,
Just whisper my name in your heart,
...I will be there.

Praying for you

Carolyn Dauray

June 8, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Lori-ann Haughton

June 7, 2007

Dear Anne, Kristin, Kimberly & Eric,

There are some people that come into this world and fill it with good things. They are genuine and passionate, and it shows in everything they do... with everyone they meet and everything they touch. Bruce was one of these people. He embraced the world around him and made it his own, and in return... gave back more than he received.

I pray that his Spirit continues to abide in each one of you... that you are strenthened by the power of prayer through his memory and his Love for each of you.

Warmest Sympathies...Lori-ann Haughton

Thomas J Dunleavy

June 3, 2007

Dear Anne,
We have lost a Son but for you the great love of your life has moved on to his eternal reward. He has left you and the children far to soon, but he is not gone. Life for Bruce and all of us is changed, but it goes on.
In life, we are lucky if we have one great love. Such is the love of you and Bruce for each other and your children. As a parent, you only want the best for your children and you want them to find happiness and success in their lives. The happiness that radiated from you and Bruce for each other was infectious and truly beautiful. Anyone who knew Bruce and who knows you or whoever met the two of you were touched and changed by it.
Anne, in these next difficult days and weeks, try to find solace that you had the most wonderful life with Bruce and the children for the past 19 years. Find solace that you were the wife of a Giant of a man in every sense possible. He has left an indelible mark on all who had the privilege of knowing him. His compassion and caring for people was truly amazing and he was truly:” the best Christian we ever met”
Bruce felt things deeply and loved deeply. His greatest treasure in life was his wonderful wife and his three beautiful children. The fondest memories we have of Bruce are seeing the joy and love in his eyes for all of you.
He was a wonderful Husband, Father, Son, Uncle, Brother and Friend. He was accomplished in so many things, especially nursing, shell fishing, teaching, coaching athletics, student and, of course, willing and able to fix anything. For all of his abilities and accomplishments, he was the best Father and Husband any child and wife could ever hope for.
Life going forward will be different. It is changed forever but it will go on in the glow of his love for you and the children. He used to say to us that the best thing that ever happened to him was marrying Anne. The best thing that ever happened to you was marrying Bruce.
Anne, we can never replace your loss but we will try with all that is in us to be there for you and the children whenever you need us. We will pray that God, in his infinite love, will guide and protect you and keep you in his care. Bruce will always be there with you as you take the next steps on your journey of life.

Love forever,

Mon and Dad

Donald Vespia Rn

June 2, 2007

To the Rameika family.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. Bruce is a man who will be sadly missed by all.

Thomas J Dunleavy

June 1, 2007

Dear Kristin, Kimberly and Eric,
We loved your Dad like he was our own son. He had so many admirable and loving qualities. He was always trying to help others, many times at his own expense of time and resources. He was the kindest person, soft hearted yet the strongest person we have ever met.
For all of his worldly accomplishments and he had many, he approached each day with an open innocence and love of life and everything in it. His greatest accomplishment was the three of you and how much he loved you. He only saw the best in people and would never utter an unkind word about anyone or to anyone. His love of the sea and nature was inspiring.
We see all of your Dad’s marvelous traits in each of you, Cherish them and nurture them He gave you a great example to follow in love, respect and responsibility.
As you go through these difficult and trying days, remember that he is at the very center of your lives. A” spark” has gone out in the world, but the light of his love for you will light the rest of your lives.
Dad was a Husband, Father, Son, Brother, Uncle and Friend. He was a Nurse, a Shell Fisherman, a Student, a Teacher, Coach and Athlete. Above all these he was The Finest Christian we ever knew. He had a deep and abiding faith and he lived it every day. He truly was a person, thought whom and in whom Christ lived.
Now he has gone to his eternal reward. It is our destiny too and he will help us all to make it and enjoy eternal happiness with him and Our Lord. He will help and guide you and your wonderful Mom. Stay close to Mom and help her as she now has the task of caring for the family and providing the worldly necessities of every day life. She is a remarkable person, but she will need your full support and cooperation.
Be the best children and young adults you can be. Be the best students, athletes, friend and Christians you can be. Live life, as Dad would have wanted you to live it and make him proud. The road will not be easy and it may have a few bumps, but with faith in God, in Mom, your extended family your teachers, priests, friends and most importantly, Dad, you will travel the high road to success and happiness.
We love you so very much and will do anything for you and Mom. Never hesitate to call, ask or just sit and talk. We will always be there for you as will your extended family of Aunts, Uncles and cousins. You are not alone and never will be.
God bless you all and keep your faith in our Risen Lord who is out there fishing with Dad.

I AM ALWAYS WITH YOU

As you hold me close in memory,
Even though we are apart,
My spirit will live on.
there within your heart.
I am with you always

When you lean on trusted friends
And their caring hugs enfold you
Within their loving arms,
I’ll be there to hold you.
I am always with you.

And beyond the far horizon
When we’ll finally be together,
Where love will be eternal
And life will last forever.
I am with you always.

Love forever,

Grandma and Grandpa

Thomas J Dunleavy

June 1, 2007

pedro basilio

June 1, 2007

He was a good guy ,he love sport ,he used to go to he car to hear sport station on lunch time .he be miss at r.i.h at lot...

Robin Angell

May 31, 2007

Kent is not the same without you Bruce. Everytime you worked, you always brought a smile to someones face. You would come into the office and lean on the desk and ask "where am I going today"? You never complained about going to any particular units - you would just say - "I'll check back with you to see where I'm going at 3"? Anne, I never had the opportunity to meet you prior to Bruce's passing but did speak with you on the phone on several occasions. Bruce always spoke of you and the kids. In my last conversation with Bruce, he spoke of going on the boat the next day - he was filled with passion as he spoke. It was devastating the next morning to learn he had passed - to everyone he worked with. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. I consider myself lucky for knowing your husband - he brought inspiration to many people. Bruce you will always be a part of Kent...and many people's lives. Bruce was one of the kindest people I ever had the opportunity to meet - my prayers are with you and your family.

Darlene Larue

May 30, 2007

Dear Ann and Family,I met Bruce at Kent County Hospital and worked with him in the emergency rom. I think he got tired of me asking questions about Prout because Ann he said you did all that and he never had to worry. Since he has been gone, Kent has not been the same. He always had a smile on his face and he helped everyone. This hit close to home for me because i lost my dad when I was five, but Bruce and yourself left them memories and a great foundation to build on. Please know that all your friends are praying for you and there to help when needed. God Bless you all and he will. Bruce have a beer up there for me.

Heather Preuit

May 25, 2007

To the Rameika Family- I met Bruce while working in the ER at Kent. I was a brand new RN and whenever Bruce came down to the ER he would always share his knowledge along with a little humor with all of us. I was very sad to hear that we lost such a wonderful, caring person like Bruce so early in his life. He had many accomplishments to be proud of and he will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult and sad time.

Nicole Nappe

May 24, 2007

Anne,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. You will see your husband every day through the faces of your children. Your huband was a special person who touched the lives of many. God bless you and your family.

Virginia Wilcox

May 23, 2007

Anne, I am so sorry to hear about Bruce! It was always a pleasure to have Bruce work with us in ICU. The patients loved him as did his colleagues. He was always sharing stories about you and the children. Please know how much he loved all of you!
Ginny Wilcox - Kent ICU

A nurse at RIH

May 23, 2007

I am so sorry to hear of Bruce's passing. I worked with him at RIH & he was a great guy. My husband also knew Bruce from shellfishing. He will be missed.

Maritza Lopez

May 22, 2007

I am so sorry to hear about Bruce's passing, when I spent the day with him in Kent's ER as a Nursing I student, he made me so comfortable and made sure I got to experience everything. He made me feel so confident and made me laugh the whole day. I could see why such a great lady like Anne was married to him. They both have the kind of spirits that just light up and make you feel as if you are family. I'll never forget that day in the ER with Bruce, his optimism and joy for his work, invigorated me to be the best nurse I can be! Anne, as my first nursing professor, you know how special you are to me, my deepest condolences to you and your children. Thank you for sending me down that day to learn from your wonderful husband!
Maritza Lopez (CCRI Nursing Student).

Rose Del Ricci

May 21, 2007

Dear Mrs Rameika and Family,

I just wanted to let you know how saddened I was to hear of the loss of your husband. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Donna Ravo (RICU)

May 21, 2007

Ann, I know all too well with my own children's loss of their father that the road is going to be long and painful, but Bruce has left his wonderful spirit beyond to guide you and the children through this difficult time and the times to come.
At work when we talk of Bruce and at first it starts as such sadness and angier for another young co-worker and friend's life cut short. But then someone would recall one of the stunts he pulled on a fellow nurse or patient and you can't help but smile and laugh for the rest of the shift. It's as though he's saying don't cry for me laugh for me. And I try to do that each time I think of Bruce lately. I think of those damn wooden tooth he put in his mouth and introduced himself to his patients as their nurse for the evening and the look, the look on those poor patients' faces who were tring so hard to not laugh at this overly bucked toothed man. IT WAS PRICELESS. Every nursing student he would preach a crazed diangnosis to. Priceless.The ill jokes he would tell to Mr. Dickson who just loved the hell out of Bruce. PRICELESS. His laughter. PRICELESS. His friendship.....ONE OF A KIND. Bruce was simply one of a kind. God Bless.

Lisa Cronin-Gleva (Former IRCU nurse).

May 21, 2007

To the Rameika family:
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Bruce and I worked together on the IRCU several years. He always knew what to say and how to say it to make me, any many others, laugh! I'll never forget the day sevral of ua on the IRCU were waitring to hear about whether or not we passed our nursing boards. He caught me off guard when he asked me: "Do you live on Douglas Ave in N. prov? (yeah). Well, they'll be sending you your nusring license there." That was one of the best days of my life...and what a great way tio get the news.

Bruce was a very special person. He had a very special way about him that made him so unique. I am honored to have had him be a part of my life. He will NEVER be forgotten. I hope you can find comofrt in knowing that he will always be watching you and will lways be a part of you in heart and spirit. My deepst sympathy goes out to you and your family. My thoughts are with you.

Heidi

May 20, 2007

“In their poverty, of money and spirit, whatever you do to the least of these you do to me.” If you asked Bruce for $10 he gave you $20, if you ask him for a bag of clams he gave you two. You always got more than you expected with Bruce.

One of the things I admired most about Bruce was his generosity. Not to the people he knew, but to the people he did not know; his non judgmental way of giving of himself.

When Bruce would come in from digging clams he would stop at the local store to get a drink. There would always be someone hanging outside the store asking for money. He would always stick his hand in is pocket and give them something. He didn’t even think about it. First, lesson….He didn’t even have to think about it.

Before he would go digging, he would put his wedding ring in his ashtray of the car. One particular day he was rushing to get to RI Hospital for the 3pm shift. He did not have time to sell out his clams, thus he only had change for a soda at the local store. When exiting the store he was confronted by woman who asked him for money. In typical fashion Bruce was willing to give, checked his pockets but he hand nothing. He told the woman to come to the car and he would check what he had. He pulled out his ashtray that was filled with coins and emptied it into her hand saying, “This is all that he had.” When he got to RI Hospital he reached into his ashtray to get his wedding ring to put it on…… and his heart sank. He realized just then, his wedding band was in the ashtray.

He did not have time to go back or the next day as he was working the 7am shift. A couple of days later he did go to find the woman but she was no where. He found out that the woman had a drug problem and that she probably sold it. He checked a couple of local pawn shops to see if she sold it but no luck.

A month later, he was down the docks and saw the woman. He asked her if she remembered him, she said no, he ask her if she still had her ring, she said she knew nothing about what he was talking about. As he turned to walk away, she asked him if he had any money. He reached in his pocket and gave her money and proceeded to his boat and spent the afternoon on the water.

I am not sure what kind of church service he had on the water that day, but when he returned, on top of his car he saw something shiny. It was his wedding ring. This story struck me so deeply to the core because he knew that this woman at some point had his ring and probably sold it, yet he still reached out to her; so freely, with no judgment, just compassion. And maybe this woman did not turn her life around, and maybe she did, but I know one thing for sure; she saw the Christ that he severed in him that day.

Bruce lived the greatest commandment we are called to “love our neighbors as ourselves” and this is the example he left for us and his children. The Gospel calls Christians to put the needs of the poor first. A common moral test of a society is how it treats its most vulnerable people and outcasts. Those with the greatest need require the greatest response. We proclaim Christ not merely by speaking the Gospel or telling someone about Jesus but by the actions we amplify. I did not know that Bruce’s favorite Saint was St. Francis of Assisi until Anne told me. But I can see why, it is so fitting. Saint Francis said, “Preach the Gospel at all times; …………………when necessary use words.” This was my brother.

Rachel Dunleavy

May 18, 2007

Dear Anne, Kristen, Kimberly and Eric,

As you all know, I have known Bruce my entire life and there are no words that can express how saddened I am by this sudden, tragic loss of such a wonderful brother-in-law. Ever since I can remember, Bruce has filled my life with laughter, wonder, happy memories and he has taught me many life lessons. He always encouraged me to try new things; whether it was my first clam, my first up-side down roller coaster ride on the Cyclone at Rocky Point with him next to me the whole time or even to jump into the bay when I was scared because I was convinced a shark was going to get me. I, of course, then learned that it was highly unlikely that there was a shark in those waters because he also educated me about nature. I felt like I was on the top of the world when he would have me up on his shoulders when I was younger. I was there when Kristen, Kimberly and Eric were born as he tearfully came out of the delivery room with such utter joy to tell us about the birth of his daughters and son. All of these memories and countless more are etched in my memory forever and they will continue to play through my mind always. It will no longer be possible for me to see the ocean, the beach, a boat, a clam or any sort of bird without thinking of Bruce. Thinking of him gives me comfort and although, my heart is aching, I smile because I can still see him so full of life. I know that he would want me and all of us to fully embrace life.

The services earlier this week were such a true testament and an amazing tribute to the incredible person he was throughout his life. He touched so many people everyday and his life is an inspiration to us all. The way Bruce lived his life inspires me to want to be a better person. He has made me want to cherish my family and friends more, hug a little tighter, be more understanding, appreciate my blessings and reach out to people more. As I spend time with Anne, Kristen, Kimberly and Eric, I realize that Bruce is still a part of all of them. His sincerity, honesty, compassion, sense of humor, sensitivity, athletic talents, determination and strength emanate from all of them; even in these most difficult of times. Anne, Kristen, Kimberly and Eric, please know that I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers daily and I pray that you will find the strength and support you need to help you during this difficult time.

I think too often, people underestimate the power of a smile, a helping hand or an act of caring. Here’s to Bruce, the wonderful person who never underestimated the power he could have on everyone he came in contact with every single day; whether it was one of his patients, his beautiful children, his amazing wife, his family or even a complete stranger. You are going to be greatly missed and I thank you for all you have taught me and countless others.

Love Always,
Rachel

May 18, 2007

Dear Anne & kids
I am so sorry for the loss of your husband and dad. Bruce and I were in a couple classes together at URI as we worked our way towards a Masters. Bruce was the kind, funny, thoughtful guy who was a great nurse and obviously a natural on the waters. He could talk about a research subject, refer to his wife a couple times then try to skip out early from class to take his kids to a URI basketball game. His kids were his life....we heard lots of stories about you all and it was obvious how much he loved and adored all of you. We had to do a presentation on the last day of class & Bruce made it very clear that his kids helped him with it...
I wish you all the strength and love
to get through this very hard time.
My thoughts & prayers are with you.
Lisa Lima-Tessier (Middletown,RI)

Susan Seidel-Haberle

May 17, 2007

Ann and family:
I am truly sorry to hear of your loss today. It is very hard for me to understand why such a young guy, full of life and with a great family had to pass. Bruce and I went to URI together. Last year I had the pleasure to meet up again with Bruce, Ann and his children. Stay strong My prayers are with you all. Remember Bruce would want you all to smile for him.

Keith Wahl

May 17, 2007

I was absolutely shocked to read of Bruce's passing in the local newspaper this evening. I grew up with Bruce and Heidi (along with a few other people mentioned in this guest book... Jim Palumbo... Randi Potvin). I cannot possibly say how sorry I am to hear of Bruce's passing for all involved... he sounds like he touched many lives. I can only offer my deepest sympathies and prayers.

Jean Gulas

May 17, 2007

Cousin Ann & Family~
Yours was the family in the beautiful family photo you sent to my parents every year at Christmas year. They never could figure out who the Rameika's were until your Dad {a fellow genealogist-in-training} told me one day during an email correspondence. I looked forward to that card every year & reading through these heartfelt entries in the guestbook, I came to realize how much I wish I had met Bruce in person. And I wanted to tell you how much of Bruce those family photos captured each year: you felt the love washing over you just looking at it - and the warmth came through at a touch. My thoughts & prayers go out to you. May the Lord hold you tightly in His embrace. God Bless - with love always,

Trish & Bob Giordano

May 17, 2007

Dear Ann & family: News of Bruce's death came to us as a great shock and disbelief. We are deeply saddened by the news. Even at this moment it is hard to fathom that he is no longer with us to share his smile which always seemed to light his face.
No words we can offer can ease the pain that you and your children are feeling. All we can do is assure you that all of you have and will be in our thoughts and prayers and we will pray for Bruce and ask the Lord to welcome him into his kingdom.
This morning we attended Mass in Key West where a young Polish priest was the celebrant. We then spent some time in the chapel of the Divine Mercy in quiet prayer. We left a prayer request for Bruce at the altar in front of the Blessed Sacrament.
Even in pain, Jesus is with us always. May he comfort and watch over you in your time of grief.

Love & Peace, Trish & Bob Giordano

May 16, 2007

what the catapillar calls the end, the Master calls the butterfly.

A fellow R.N. at RIH

May 16, 2007

I am very shocked to hear of Bruce's passing when I came into work tonight. The first thing I said was He was so full of life" It just doesn't seem possible. I've worked with Bruce for many yrs on different floors. Bruce was always good natured, a prankster, hard working and a very compassionate human being. He will be sorely missed b;y all of us in the nursing profession who were so blessed to have the opportunity to know him.. God Bless you all My prayers are with you.

ray warner

May 16, 2007

Dear Anne,Kristen,Kimberly and Eric:I have no words to express the sorrow I feel for you at this time for your loss.Bruce is a person that you will meet once in a lifetime and that is if you are lucky.He walked the path of our Lord Jesus Christ in that every day he gave of himself without every expecting anything in return.He made people believe in themselves when they otherwise wouldnt and always had an aura around him that was always positive and upbeat,you wanted to be around him.Bruce lived a full life in the short 43 years he did live and when he left this earth to be with our Lord the world was a better place because of Bruce.
You will be in my prayers everyday.
Love ya Ray.

Debra Peloso

May 16, 2007

I am very saddened and shocked to hear of Bruce's sudden passing. I've worked with him many times at RIH, on a variety of floors. Always I remember Bruce's good natured smile and humor. He was a stellar nurse and a great human being. Heaven has gained an angel. I am praying for all of his family (and especially his children)
to find the strength to continue in this life without him. God Bless

May 16, 2007

What a huge loss...we will miss you. Bruce, please put in a good word for me.

Nicole Marcoccia R.N. RIH

May 16, 2007

I was shocked and saddened to hear of bruce passing. He was such a warm kind soul. He will be greatly missed by many. God Bless you and your family.

Heidi Warner

May 16, 2007

I can't help but write again about Bruce. When you asked Bruce what he did for a living he always said he was a shell fisherman. Often people would say, I thought you were a Nurse, he would tell them Oh that is just something extra that helps pay the bills. Bruce was 15 when we got his first boat. He loved everything that went with shell fishing; the big rake, going out into the depths of the ocean, the morning smell of the bay, and the light of God that shined over him. He must have loved it because he went when it was raining and cold. It was in his blood. He loved the community of friends he encountered there. They became his brothers. It was a group of friends who would do anything for one another and their families in a moments notice. And then of course, his nursing career that ran almost two decades. I have been overwhelmed with emails from people I don’t even know expressing what a loss this is the nursing profession. I got to witness first hand after the station fire in West Warwick. Bruce took care of many of burned victims. I would visits him and try to bring lunch to him. He and I would cry in a corner and pray for the families. He wore his heart on his sleeve. Then he would walk always like a pillar of strength that he was and uplift those patients with compassion and hope that I had never seen before. I was in awe of his nursing abilities. His extension of Christ to them was evident. And Anne, how lucky he was to have a woman like you. You accepted my brother on his playing field. From really dirty stinky cloths from digging clams to snakes and reptiles in the house. His home was filled with treasures from the sea, and when there was no more room, Ann somehow cleared another area for him.

And then of course it was his vast array of transportation. Bruce typically would not spend more than $900 on a car, and then of course never fill the tanks up incase he had to get rid of it. He figured if it lasted him a year, he got his moneys worth. He changed his on only and fixed what needed to be fixed. And perhaps, duck tape may have been a good friend to him at times.

He relied on Anne for strengthen. There 19 years of marriage together is a testament to us. Not a day went by that Bruce did not tell Anne how much he loved her. I admired the father he was to his children and the passion he had for his family. He was always available to them. If you knew Bruce you knew his family. He was crazy about his kids and their accomplishments. Being twins growing up Bruce would tease me to no end as siblings often do. I would always remind him that I was three minutes older than him so that gave me a little power. He was both brother and father to me over the years of my life, protecting me throughout high school and watching over me just making sure I was ok. Bruce and Anne helped me through some rough time in my life even getting me back on my feet again. Bruce also became a better cook than I, and I was so fortunate to spend Easter with him and his family where he cooked an incredible meal for all of us that I will never forget. My heart aches for you always. Your loving sister.

Lexie Riggs

May 16, 2007

Anne, It seems like yesterday that we were all at URI learning to become Nurses. I always loved running into you throughout the years. You were one of my postpartum nurses and so helpful after I delivered my son. Then, I met Heidi and discovered that she was Bruce's sister and twin. I remember the last time I ran into you this Winter. You were so proud of Bruce getting his Master's degree. Bruce accomplished so much and gave so much back to the world. Now he's in an even better place and will live forever in your heart. My prayers are with you and your family.

Thomas Haughney

May 16, 2007

Dear Anne, Kristen, Kim, and the Viking,

Services for one of the truly special people who ever lived are past, and I find myself thinking of nothing else; as I am sure, are you. Thoughts of remembrances race in my head, far faster than I can capture in words, yet I feel a need to express them. We were all so proud of you for you courage, dignity, and strength in paying tribute to Bruce these past few days. Meeting and greeting, literally thousands of mourners, and making them feel better, while they were trying to console you, was inspirational. That inherent compassion doesn't just happen. It speaks volumes about the people you are, and the life you live. My feelings of overwhelming grief are balanced with good feelings from fond memories. You have a wonderful family, both immediate and extented, and so many friends that love and care about you. That too, doesn't just happen. The family foundation you have built could seemingly support the weight of any burden placed upon it.
I was bereaved as I entered the funeral home on Monday, and stopped to look at the memorial montage of photos and thoughts of Bruce. All of them immediately made me smile. Many made me laugh out loud. I thought to myself,'Stop it, get a hold of yourself. How can I be laughing at this sad occasion? This isn't right'. Then I thought,'Yes it is, this is Bruce'. WWBD
To try and describe this wonderful man to others is impossible, but I will try for the rest of my life. I cannot begin to tell anyone what he has taught me about living and enjoying life. He has made me more of a man; more adventurous, more compassionate, more appeciative of the things I have in my life. We are blessed for having had him in our lives while we did.
I have no regrets about my relationship with him; no unfinished business that I need to settle. We were always very upfront with each other about how we felt. I know he is looking down on us, because he is in heaven, and I just want to say,'Goodbye, my Brother. I love you. I miss you. God willing, until we meet again'.
Annie, Kristen, Kim, and the Viking, my love, thoughts, and prayers will be with you always.
The Hawk

marilyn njoes

May 16, 2007

Ann & Family:
I only knew Bruce through a stay at Kent Hospital. He made a special effort to see me and ask if I had a daughter named "Jayme, mother of grace". He really made me laugh at a time I needed it! He is an angel!
Marilyn Njoes

Kathy Quirk

May 16, 2007

Dear Ann and family,

Please know we are thinking of you all at this time. It is very obvious by reading all these beautiful tributes, that there are several common themes.....Bruce was an honorable man, devoted and loving husband, loving and proud father, and a compassionate nurse. It was obvious he was proud of you all, and his loved shined onto others easily. Our prayers are with you.
warmly, Kathy, Ray, Caitlyn, and Kerry Quirk

Cynthia Krapf

May 16, 2007

Dear Mrs. Rameika and family,
I was so heartsick to hear of the passing of your husband Bruce last night at the pinning rehearsal-I just wanted you to know that you and your children are in my thoughts and prayer. As an instructor you were always so warm and kind to me, which is something I will never forget. I remember you speaking of your husband with such love-he must have been a great man. Someone said this to me once and it seemed to help--If you believe as I do, that we are on earth briefly on our journey to eternal life...He just went first.
Sincerely,

cathy card-reid

May 16, 2007

Dear Ann and family.
Ann I am so sorry to hear of you loss. I worked with Bruce for many years on the RICU he also precepted me when I finally accepted a position on the unit. He was a great nurse and a very funny guy. He would often lighten up the atmosphere with his jokes. I could also count on Bruce in the summer time to get me my fresh clams. Just know that you and the kids was his world he lived for all of you and loved you very deeply. I was unable to attend service but know my prayers are with you and your family. He will always be watching over you for ever.

May 16, 2007

graduated from CCRI Nursing program with Bruce. later, was pleased to work with him at RIH. one of the world's truly good people. we will all miss him.

Karen Cutting

May 15, 2007

To the Rameika family,
My deepest sympathies in this time of sorrow. I met Bruce on the RICU at RIH while in clinicals a few years back. Last summer, I had the pleasure of getting reaquainted with him in the ER at Kent. Although I knew him for a short period of time, I'm thankful for having met and worked with such a professional, compassionate role model. Bruce shared his nursing knowledge, always wore a smile, and you could count on him for a good joke! One of our last conversations was about how much fun his Florida vacation was with his wife and kids. Bruce will be greatly missed! My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Erika Fenn-Villella, RNP

May 15, 2007

Ann Marie,
I am so sorry to hear about your husband. He was a wonderful nurse, and friend. I remember meeting you at URI in class and discovering that I worked with you husband many years ago at RIH. He taught me so much. He was a great big guy with a huge heart. My prayers are with you and your family.

Denise Transport(Kent)

May 15, 2007

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Sara Tibbitts

May 15, 2007

Dear Ann,Kristen,Kimberly and never last Eric- My name is Sara Tibbitts and I am a Social Worker on the In Patient Psych Unit at RIH. I met Bruce the first day we opened this unit. He was a huge part in making this unit successful. He brought a new sense of energy and sense of humor to this unit that has and will continue to be missed. I remember Bruce telling us the story of him losing his wedding band and how it was returned that his sister described today. I cannot explain the shock we all felt at hearing the news of Bruce's passing. My thoughts were immediately of you and your children. It is never easy to experience such a great loss. Bruce was a wonderful person, so generous with his time and knowledge. He taught me more about being a nurse than I can begin to describe but his generosity did not end there. My grandfather lived in the same Nursing Home as Bruce's mother and he would take the kids and the dog by to say hello to him on occassion simply because he knew it would make my grandfather happy. It did make him happy he would beam when he told me how my friend from work came to see him with his beautiful children. I was also amaized at how similarly everyone described Bruce when speaking of him today. That is a true tribute to his strength of character and how real he was with everyone he knew. I am proud to have known him. I am a better person for having known him. I know there is nothing I could say to make any of this any easier for all of you but please know we all are thinking of all of you at this time. Bruce will not be forgotten.

Mike Force

May 15, 2007

Dear Ann and family, I am very sorry for your loss. Bruce was a great person and an excellent nurse. He was one of my preceptors when I was a new nurse on the ricu back in 1997. He always spoke so highly of his wife and family. When you worked with Bruce, the workday seemed to fly by. He had the best stories and played the best jokes. I remember helping him take his car door apart on our lunch break because the electric windows wouldn't work. I'll always appreciate the books he gave me to read. A perfect storm (years before the movie came out) and my favorite book to this day, Into the wild. Ill always remember the espn, wwf wrestling and springer we watched together. The things i'll remember most about Bruce is how much he loved his wife and kids. Ill remember how he could talk to anyone from any walk of life about anything. I'll remember how much his patients liked him and how he would do anything for them. The world is a better place because Bruce was in it. Ill miss you and never forget you. your friend, Mike Force

Nicole Crossman RN (CCRI '05)

May 15, 2007

Mrs. Rameika,
I am so sorry for your loss, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Patty Kelling

May 15, 2007

Ann & children: My thoughts and prayers are with you. Bruce was such great guy. Patty Kelling

Diana Skidmore

May 15, 2007

Dearest Anne,
When Austin came home from school and told me of your loss my heart dropped to the floor for you and your children. When we first moved here from PA your family opened your arms out to us. You made us feel so welcomed but that is what your family is all about. Your love to each other and your children were obvious. Austin put it in perfect words he said "Mommy, Mr. Rameika always believed in me" like the time we arm wrestled and he wanted the other boys to know how strong I was. He always encourgaged me and made me feel good about myself. He remembered the time you guys took him to watch hill and what a wonderful time he had with your family and how funny Mr. Rameika was. David remembers Bruce making him eat his first ever raw oyster before he would give him a cooked one. He was a wonderful, funny man and admired by many for his caring ways. You are a strong, beautiful woman and for some reason beyond our control God needed him way too soon but through love and support from all of your friends and family everyone is here to help you even if it is just a hug. Your children are a perfect picture of you and Bruce's wonderful committment to family and love. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers daily.
Sincerey,
David,Diana,Leah,& Austin Skidmore

Carol Paiva

May 15, 2007

Heidi and Family,
You are in my thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. May you find comfort in your precious memories and know your brother is with you always.

May 15, 2007

Anne,Kristen,Kim & Eric,
We are so sorry for your loss. You
are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Harrington Family

Al Fantasia

May 15, 2007

I will always remember bumping into Bruce while doing my rounds at RIH and the conversations that would ensue. Whenever I worked with him, the time flew by. He always had a positive attitude; smiling, joking. It's sad to see someone so full of life leave. I'm glad I got to know him. My heart goes out to his family.

Debra Polce

May 15, 2007

Ann and children, My prayers are with all of you-you have lost such a wonderful and special person in your lives, but I know he will always be watching over all of you. He was an extraordinary Nurse just as you are Ann. God Bless all of you.

Melissa Desjardin-Seel

May 15, 2007

Anne and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I worked with Bruce for many years on the RICU at RIH, and because of him it was one of the funnest places to be. Practical jokes, million dollar bets,and just his fun loving personality made my job a whole lot easier.
The one thing I will always remember him telling me when I was getting divorced was...."IF he doesn't tell you how special you are at least once a day, bag him." If he did not tell you..... never question or let your kids question how much he loves you all.
Please be strong and know that he is at peace, and be comforted to know he touched so many lives, and is loved by anyone who met him.
Melissa Desjardin- Seel
former RICU nurse

Karen Ford

May 15, 2007

Dear Rameika family,
I am so sorry for your loss.
I first met Bruce 14 years ago when I was a brand new CNA at RIH. I worked with him several times on the RICU. He was so much fun to work with and so inspiring the way he cared for his patients. I saw him several years later when I was a RN on another floor and he remembered me and still made me laugh. He always had such a great personality and love of life. He will be missed.

Rose & George Parker

May 15, 2007

TO ANNMARIE,KRISTEN,KIMBERLY & ERIC
Bruce was a great person and a great friend to our daughter Donna Ravo(rodriguez)who he worked with at RIH.He took great care of our son Tom at RIH & Kent County.
We had heard so much about him.what
a kind and gentle man he was.and we
seen what kind of gentle person with our own eyes.He also spoke of
his family who he adored and loved
very much,
May god be with you and your family
you will remain in our prayers always.God Bless

Evelyn Rodriguez

May 14, 2007

To The Rameika Family,
I am in such shock to hear of Bruce's passing. I worked with him at RIH for a couple of years. Like all the other nurses, I agree, he truly made work enjoyable. Often he would lighten up the day, when things were difficult. Until this day there are certain songs that remind me on him, because he sang them in his special way. My thoughts and prayers are with his entire family.

Kathie Hogan

May 14, 2007

Dear Anne & family,
I have had the pleasure of knowing Bruce for many years working on the RICU at RIH. He was a funny,kind,sympathetic wonderful man. I always admired him for his love of life and his family. I can still hear him talking to his children on the phone when he worked pm's with us. He would check their homeowrk with them via telephone and tuck them in at night. How much he loved you and the kids! I had such a deep respect for him. I feel proud that I can say that i knew him and he was a friend. Though he was taken from us way too soon he left his gifts behind in the eyes of his children. Bruce will be greatly missed but not forgotten.

Rick Bedard R.N.

May 14, 2007

Dear Anne,
Words cannot express the sadness I feel for your loss, I did not meet Bruce but I remember how your face would light up when you talked about him. You were so kind to me when I was going through a difficult time I wish I had heard sooner so I could have said this in person. My praryers are with you and your family. God Bless

Carol Garcia

May 14, 2007

Dear Rameika family,

I only had the pleasure of knowing Bruce as a classmate for this past semester, but my heart is still broken for him and for all of you. Bruce was such a smart and funny guy who was obviously very proud of his family and loved them tremendously. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you in this difficult time.

Linda Pappola

May 14, 2007

To the Rameika Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Bruce was a wonderful nurse. He was great with patients and staff. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Joan Wilson

May 14, 2007

It is a sad time for all of Bruce's family and friends. I have been a friend for many years. I remember the day he was born, what a blessing. I watched him grow through the years to a fine man. I will share with you one memory, I have so many. I remember the first day of school all dressed up in his cute suit, walking hand and hand with his sister to the bus. So precious. He has accomplised so much in and has given so much of himself. God Bless. My prayer are with you now and always.

Laura Weinert

May 14, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you Ann and your children.
I thank Bruce for the fun times we shared when Mary and I came up to visit in Rhode Island.
A man with a great smile and enjoyed those special moments.

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