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Kyle Mather Obituary

MATHER, KYLE J., 15, a freshman student at Cranston East High School died Monday, March 16, 2009 at home. He was the beloved son of Belinda (Hudson) Anderson and Donald Mather; beloved brother of Nathan and Ashley Anderson and beloved grandson of John and Sandra Hudson.

His funeral service will be held Friday at 11 am in the Thomas & Walter Quinn Funeral Chapel, 2435 Warwick Ave. Warwick. Visiting hours Thursday 4-8 pm. In lieu of flowers, contributions to the Kyle J. Mather Memorial Fund, c/o 204 Negansett Ave., Warwick, RI 02888 will be appreciated. Information and guestbook, visit www.TheQuinnFuneralHome.com.

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Published by The Providence Journal on Mar. 18, 2009.

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Kelly Croom and Family (Harold and Nancy's granddaughter)

April 1, 2009

Our sympathies, thoughts and prayers are with you. We're sorry for your loss.

Kyle fishing with mom

March 29, 2009

Randell Pynne

March 27, 2009

to KYle's family,
i send my love to your enitire family
i am deeply sorry for your loss.

Tara

March 27, 2009

My heart go out to Kyle's mom and sister. Kyle and my son use to play together when I lived at Cranston Commons. He was a funny, nice kid. You are in our prayers.

Walter Gonet

March 27, 2009

I want to take this moment to express my deepest sorrow for the loss of your son Kyle. I will remember him and his family inmy daily prayers.

Remember that although you lost him he is now in Heaven with God enjoying eternal happiness where someday your whole family will be joined together with him forever.

Donna O

March 25, 2009

To Kyle's Mom,

There are no words... I never met you, but I lost my only son in February in a car accident. If you need someone to share your grief you may contact me. I keep you in prayer as I know how it hurts. I still mourn the loss of my own son, but I know he is in heaven with the angels and I am sure Kyle is there with him.

A Mom

March 24, 2009

On the day that he was born, the world rejoiced and he cried. When he left, the world cried and he rejoiced. May the knowledge that your beloved is now seated at the right hand of our heavenly father bring you a measure of comfort as you grieve.

Charles Abosamra

March 22, 2009

Dear Belinda-
I can not tell you how sorry I am at your loss. I remember Kyle from when you rented the house on West Shore Road from me. He was a wonderful boy, and I know how much you loved you children--You always were a loving and caring mother.
Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help.
Charles Abosamra

Laurie Cote

March 21, 2009

To Kyle's Family:

I've never met you. I am the mother of three teenage boys, and i have been and will continue to be heartbroken for your loss of Kyle. I hold my boys tight each day in the memory of your son, brother, nephew and grandson, as we never know how long the people we love so much will be with us. When you fall asleep at night, i hope you can feel his light and his love for you all. May God bless you through this very tragic and sad time.

Very Sincerely,

Jim Porraro

March 21, 2009

Dear Family,
I viewed this devastating tradgerty on the news. I did not know your family. I can't imagine what it must be like to lose a child. I express my deepest sympathy to you and your family. And I will keep you, your family, and Kyle in my prayes. May he rest in peace. God bless all of you!!

Jim Porraro

Lisa Johnson

March 21, 2009

I new Kyle from westwood Ymca. Iwork in the office. He was a great kid. My deepest sympathy to your family. God Bless

lrb.

March 20, 2009

so for english today, i had to write a poem. you were the first thing i thought of.
i miss the sound of your smile. the way you looked when you walked by. your smile made shivers go up and down my spine. but it's no more. your big t-shirt, your baggy jean shorts. but it's no more. i'll never be able to say good-bye. because i never said hello.

Barbara Smith

March 20, 2009

Please except my deepest symthany in the loss of your son, and grandson. My thoughts are with you.
Barbara

Stephanie Metcalfe

March 19, 2009

Kyle,
I miss you so much. Its hard to believe that such a happy kid who was always smiling is now gone. I'll always remember your amazing hugs. I love you and will think about you everyday. You'll never be forgotten. R.I.P 11.20.93-3.16.09

Local Mom

March 19, 2009

I can not begin to imagine what you are going through, but please know you and your family our in the thoughts and prayers of many people. To lose a child at such a young age has to be the most difficult thing to go through. Wishing you the strength to carry on through his memories. May God bless you and your family in this difficult time. May Kyle rest in peace.

Rachelle R

March 19, 2009

Kyle,
you always were so nice to me. you talked to me all the time and always made me laugh. you always put your arm around me and were so happy. I'm going to miss you buddy. I love you

Greg

March 19, 2009

There's nothing I can say to make this any better. All I can do is offer my prayers. I have fond babysitting memories of Kyle. I can only hope that his family will get through this. I'm so very sorry.

Greg Gilbault, Mary Daniels and Family

Chelsea Brunette

March 19, 2009

Kyle,
You were my Cartlin Denter and I am so upset that I can't call you my Cartlin Denter anymore. You made my art class at NKHS worth going to. I will miss you so very, very much Kyle. You were one of the coolest kids I had ever met. I love you ~ Rest In Peace Kyle Mather.

lyss.

March 19, 2009

you always smiled at me. i wish i had said hello. you're always in my thoughts. rest in peace.

Thai Suwityarat

March 19, 2009

Kyle i loved you like a brother. I cant believe that you are gone. Im gonna miss all of the good times that we had and shared together. Im sorry this happened and I will be thinking about you every day. I miss you. I love you.

marie/FRIEND FROM SCHOOL.

March 19, 2009

R.I.P Kyle. you will be missed!!! u were a great friend.

Renee Vargas (Davids Mom)

March 19, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

tammy and family suwityarat

March 19, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

tiffany macleod

March 19, 2009

i can not believe you are gone kyle, i didnt know you very well but i remember you were always the last one on the bus, and u sometimes would have to sit on the floor because the bus was so full. now i wish i would have let you sit with me, you were always smiling. RIP kyle. Hope your having fun in heaven!
my deepest sympathy to cynthia, missy, ashley and your parents.

a mom

March 19, 2009

so sorry for your loss, a parent should never lose a child especially one so young. i know kyle will be missed by alot of people. my prayers go to his sister and brother, and his mother as well. r.i.p kyle.

Aunty Michelle, Uncle John, Johnny & Jordan

March 19, 2009

Kyle,
We will miss the way your smile lit up the room, your corny jokes, and your goofy personality but most of all we will miss you! We can't imagine life without you or where we go from here but always remember how much you were loved! RIP baby boy!

Nikolas Pereira

March 19, 2009

Kyle,
You Were A Great Friend. Saying We Miss You Is An Understatment. Your Loss Hurt Us More Inside Then Anything Physical Object Could. My Love And Condolences Go Out To My Best Friend Ashley And Her Mom! Ashley- Keep Your Head Up. I'm Here For You 24/7. If You Ever Need Anything, Don't Hesitate To Let Me Know.
Mrs. Anderson-Kyle Was Like A Little Brother To Me. His Death Impacted Us All Very Hard. This Most Tragic Accident Will Have Reprecussions For A Very Long Time.

Love To Ashley, Mom, And Kyle.
May You Rest In Peace Forever Kyle!

lori souza

March 19, 2009

im so sorry for your loss, may god bless you and your family.

A Mom

March 19, 2009

May God rest his soul! Peace to his Mom and Sister! You now have an angel watching over you for the rest of your lives Peace be with you!!

nathan winsor

March 18, 2009

kyle u were a great person to be with allways made me happy. even though we didnt hang out to much we had a great time when we did. ill miss u and may you R.I.P.

Nicole Maron

March 18, 2009

No words can be expressed to let you know how truly sorry I am for your loss. He was a great kid who always had a smile on his face. My deepest prayers are with you and your family.

R.I.P. Kyle

God Bless You!!

Sheryl Bezak

March 18, 2009

Life is but a stopping place,
A pause in what's to be,
A resting place along the road,
to sweet eternity.

We all have different journeys,
Different paths along the way,
We all were meant to learn some things,
but never meant to stay...
Our destination is a place,
Far greater than we know.

For some the journey's quicker,
For some the journey's slow.

And when the journey finally ends,
We'll claim a great reward,
And find an everlasting peace,
Together with the lord

Stay strong for each other. You will all need each other and Kyle will be watching over each one of you everyday. Continue on and make your brother, son, nephew, grandson and friend proud. He will be missed by all.

A mom

March 18, 2009

My thoughts and prayers truly go out to Kyle's family at this very sad time. Words cannot express that enough.I did have a chance to meet Kyle and his personality and smile was larger than life. He was so bubbly, outgoing, and was clearly loved by many.He had such a gentle side to him, when I would see him interacting with younger children. In these tough times it is always best to look back, and remember that smile that could light up a room. May you find comfort in all the joys Kyle brought to you and your family.

Donna

March 18, 2009

I can't even say in words how sorry I am. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Donna Mallozzi

megan whittaker

March 18, 2009

my sincer prayers are with this family forever and i will always remeber kyle!!

r.i.p kyle!!

March 18, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with those who knew Kyle. You were such a nice friend and will never be forgotten. RIP Kyle. Forever Loved and Missed <3

The Wolfenden Family

March 18, 2009

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

patrick higginbotham

March 18, 2009

R.I.P Kyle. Even though i didnt really know you that well, i heard many good things about you! You will be missed!

Mother-of-Two

March 18, 2009

I would never pretend to understand what Kyle's mother is feeling right now... Loosing a child must be the most devastating experience one could ever endure. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Neighborhood Mom

March 18, 2009

Our deepest, most sincere condolences on the tragic loss of Kyle. My daughter has a lot of good memories of him and Veronica. I know nothing anyone says will ease your pain, but please know you have other parents in the neighborhood that will be thinking of you all the time.

aaron fontaine

March 18, 2009

kyle and i always had a fun time during school ,we always made jokes just for us to think that was funny . but there is one thing if he were here right now that i would say is be strong when the going gets rouph ,and that you can find a good friend in the most darkest chaptures of your life . ilove you man you will always be my best friend .

Becky Redstone

March 18, 2009

he was an amazing boy and this is such a tragedy and should have never happened .. he will be forever missed .. parents are not supposed to burry their kids .. hes in a better place now lookin over his family and friends .. only the good die young

R.I.P baby boy =(

kelsi anderson

March 18, 2009

dear kyle you will forever be remembered all your funny jokes and good times we all shared with you
R.I.P

Korinne Amelian

March 18, 2009

I am not sure what to say, knowing that nothing that I do say will make any of the recent events disappear. Honestly, I did not know Kyle. But what I do know is that he had an amazing big brother that loved him so much. Just by seeing pictures of him, I know that he was an inimitable young man. I just saw a picture of him last night that made me smile from ear to ear just because. Not a lot of people can throw off that kind of energy. I am so sorry for your loss…But just remember that Kyle has left such an implausible impression on this world and on me!

Cranston Teacher

March 18, 2009

My toughts and prayers are with the family of Kyle. May God help you through this difficult time and may the support of friends and family bring you strength.

Gary Carlow

March 18, 2009

?? I'm sorry for what happend to Kyle. Kyle was a caring and loving kid. He was there when you needed him. If you were ever sad he would cheer you up.?? Kyle i'll miss you buddy (11-20-93)-(3-16-09)??you will always be in my heart buddy ??

Christine Mazzei/Healey

March 18, 2009

kyle, you will be forever missed. Now your in a better place watching down.I can still remember your mother being pregnate with you and then 15 years went by so fast... Cant beleave your gone.you will always be in my prayers.And Belinda,Nathan ,and Ashley will aslo be in my prayers.

A MOTHER

March 18, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. I wish nobody had to go thru things like this.

Carol Satterthwaite

March 18, 2009

The loss of a child is the hardest thing in the world to endure. I too have experienced a loss like this. May God give you and your loved ones the strength to get through this very difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

karen[mobil] youngs

March 18, 2009

kyle,you were a great kid and always a friendly customer,we will all miss you.

Melissa D'Agostino

March 18, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss, I know there is nothing anyone could say to help you through this, but your in our thoughts.

With our Deepest Sympathy,
Melissa and Al D'Agostino

Diana Cataldi-Scribner

March 18, 2009

Tammy & Family,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Kyle was a very nice young man that I had the pleasure of meeting last year. Nothing can be said to relieve the pain you all are going through, but know that Kyle's memory will forever be in your hearts and in the hearts of those who knew him. If there is anything I can do, please let me know.
God Bless you all,

Elizabeth Ochs

March 18, 2009

The Street Sights and RI Coalition for the Homeless send our sincere sympathy to Kyle's parents, family and friends. Our thoughts are with you and we are here for you.

molly higginbotham

March 18, 2009

R.I.P Kyle. you will be missed!!! you were a good kid. everyone is going to miss you!!! you were loved by many people!!!

Cathy Morrow

March 18, 2009

Kyle we will miss you greatly .You were a joy to watch roller blading on Bayview .We will miss your smiling face. Thank you for being there for justin.
Love The Morrows

Michelle Whittaker

March 18, 2009

Kyle you will be missed so very much
we loved you and loved having you at the house. Steven loves you and will miss you. My heart goes out to Belinda, Ashley, and Nathan. I'm so sorry for you loss my prayers are with you and your family. We will miss Kyles so very much.

Matt

March 18, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss

alexandria brehmer, his best friend

March 18, 2009

kyle you were the nicest person ever and a good friend but your in a better place so i hope your watching over your family and new and old friends. may god bless yours and your familys soul. i love you forever as a best friend. amen

Victoria LaValley

March 18, 2009

kyle you were an amazing friend and you always made everyone happy. we're all trying to stay strong and we're all helping each other, you were a great loss and you will never be forgotten. in our hearts forever we all love and miss you so much [11.20.93-3.16.09]

a mother

March 18, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Heather Calci

March 18, 2009

Hey, You are going to be missed greatly. Sorry I stopped communicating with you an your family. Kyle you was grat kid, an funny....I do miss you.

Ali Black

March 18, 2009

Im so sorry to hear about Kyle.
As many of us here at North Kingstown High School
we miss him so much, and are so sorry.
I never saw Kyle without a smile on his face going threw school
When ever some one was down Kyle would be there
With his bright smile and kind heart.
I love this kid so much
I miss you Kyle!!!

Melissa Bezak-Corey

March 18, 2009

Kyle,
I have so many memories from watching you grow up that I cant believe you are really gone. This feels like a bad dream that I can't seem to wake up from. You were loved by everyone and will be missed so much. Your passing has left a big void in our lives, one that can never be filled and I want you to know that you will forever be loved and remembered. I LOVE YOU KYLE!!

Missy

lataille family

March 18, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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