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Patrick Lupo Obituary

LUPO, PATRICK J.
66, of Narragansett passed away peacefully on June 21, 2021. He was the beloved husband of Catalina M. (Diaz) Lupo for 37 years; they had been together for 44 years and shared a wonderful life.
Born in Providence, he was a son of the late William D. and Rose (Moretta) Lupo.
Mr. Lupo received a BA in Political Science from the University of Rhode Island and an MBA from Western Connecticut State University.
An accomplished bass guitar player, playing music since he was 14 years old, Pat was a founding member of the John Cafferty & the Beaver Brown Band, recording the soundtrack for the movie Eddie and the Cruisers.
He also had a successful career, holding several Executive positions at Dell for over two decades as well as with HP and APC.
Aside from spending time with his family, he enjoyed playing his bass guitar, going to Narragansett Town Beach and riding his Harley Davidson motorcycle. He loved curling up on the couch and watching movies with his wife and puppies.
He was the father of Dylan Patrick Lupo of Hoboken, NJ, the late Adam Patrick Lupo and Mia Anna Rose Lupo of Fairfield, CT. He was the brother of the late William D. Lupo, Jr. He also leaves many nieces and nephews including Angelica Taskin of Coventry; and Billy Lupo of Cranston.
Relatives and friends are invited to attend his Mass of Christian Burial, Monday June 28, 2021 at 11am in St. Mary Star of the Sea Church, 864 Point Judith Road, Narragansett. Burial will follow in St. Ann Cemetery, Cranston. VISITING HOURS Sunday, June 27, 2021 from 2-5pm in the NARDOLILLO FUNERAL HOME & Crematory – SOUTH COUNTY CHAPEL, 1111 Boston Neck Road, (Rt. 1A), Narragansett. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the North Providence Animal Shelter, 900 Smithfield Road, North Providence, RI 02904. Visit NardolilloFH.com for online condolences.

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Published by The Providence Journal on Jun. 25, 2021.

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Armand

June 21, 2022

Armand

June 21, 2022

Armand

June 21, 2022

A year has gone by, 365 days and not ONE of them when I didn't think about you and the friendship that we shared.
I miss you so much my old friend.

Dan Gerard

September 14, 2021

I couldn't believe this when I heard of Pat's passing. I was a fan who mustered up the courage to talk with Pat at the Stone Pony. What a genuinely nice person! He talked with us like he knew us forever! This was well before Eddie and the Cruisers, and everytime we would see him either at the Pony or the Boathouse, or even at shows in NYC he would also stop to say high and shake hands. When Eddie and the Cruisers hit it big we went to see Beaver Brown at the Roadhouse in NYC. The place was packed, but he mad eye contact with me and waved! After the show he made his way out to the crowd to say hi. Wow, just wow. Godspeed Pat Lupo, you are a good person with a good heart. Watch over us keep us safe. My condolences to his family

STEPHEN A CARCERI

July 25, 2021

I enjoyed your music at La SALLE Academy, where we graduated

Mikey K

July 5, 2021

I am very sad to learn that Pat has passed. Even though its been years, it seems like it was just yesterday that we were on the road with the band. Those were great times. I've always admired Pat. He was fun to be with, he was smart, and always made well balanced decisions. He had great powers of discernment and wisdom. Whenever a problem would arise, Pat always seemed to have an intelligent solution. My deepest condolences to Cathy and family.

Gary King-Scorpio Sound

June 28, 2021

He always had a smile. I miss the days working with the band.

Karen puerini

June 26, 2021

I was shocked and saddened to hear of the loss of Pat. Such a sincere, funny loving family man. My condolences to cat and the kids. So so sorry. He´ll always be secret squirrel to me.

Cathie (Lyons) Hartkopf

June 26, 2021

I´m so sorry to hear of Pat´s passing. My heat just breaks for you Cathy. I have great memories of spending time with you.

Danielle Kern

June 25, 2021

I was so sorry to learn of Pat´s passing. I worked with him at Dell - he was such a great colleague.
By far, my favorite memory with Pat is running around NYC seeing customers and we jumped on the subway, and there was Cyndi Lauper! We just stopped and couldn´t believe our own eyes. We´d always laugh about that.
He was just so genuine and kind. My condolences to his family and friends.

Linda Passarelli Jones

June 25, 2021

Fond memories of our summer homes in Bristol, RI. Rest In Peace.

Stephen Grant

June 25, 2021

Oh Pat, We are losing each of us one at a time. We were children together and then grown men. You RIP Buddy as we shall all meet up once again.

Armand

June 25, 2021

Requiem for a Lost friend

We grew like apples
Clinging to the Same branch
Through thick and thin
When the rain came we both were drenched
We radiated in the Sun´s Rays
We swayed when the breeze was strong
We turned red and ripe
Embracing Life
Matching color and glow
Sunrises and sunsets
Our lives entwined and diverged
Bumps and joy along the way
Time and distance
Could not Break our bond
Our souls entwined and knowing
Your path soared
You carried me along
Sharing your triumph and good fortune
We were the same
And so very unique
Influencing each other in different ways
From the days when nuns rattled
At the head of class
I admired your wisdom and charm
You influenced my character
In so many ways as
I hope I did for you
Don´t know what drove the wedge
How we drifted apart
But I missed you every day
And now you´re gone
I´ll never feel again
That lifelong bond
Rest in peace


Pat Lupo 1954 - 2021 Godspeed my friend

Eddy Rotella

June 25, 2021

My Sincere Condolences and, Deepest Sympathy to the Family. Pat was a great bass player, a wonderful friend and, a well-respected musician. I remember going to see Beaver Brown many times and, I also shared the stage several times at JR's Fastlane and other venues with Pat, he was always a gentleman! Rest In Peace my Friend and Bass Brother. Much Respect, Eddy

nat sisco

June 25, 2021

Hearing about Pat's passing was a punch in the gut. Back in the Beaver Brown days, Pat was so approachable and down to earth. He was responsible for introducing our forming band to our lead singer, a band of brothers that lasted over a decade. And who could forget NuSkin! It was a business opportunity (not long lasting) that brought us even closer. Words cannot convey how much we all loved this guy. A gentle, talented soul. Cat & Family, my deepest sympathies...he's with Adam now, and he'll be in my prayers always.

Mary McDonald

June 24, 2021

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

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