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Nancy
August 27, 2023
5 years ago God took you, because he always takes the best. I miss you calling me and trusting me to always being there when you needed to talk to me, and telling me how much you loved my niece. You are so missed and loved!!

Carol McFarlane
August 26, 2023
Rob,
I wish I could hug you one more time, tell you one more time how thankful and grateful I am for you and for what we built together. If people knew how much I missed you, they would wonder how am I still breathing. Living without you is numbing and I am struggling. Every day I wish you were here to give me a hug and tell me everything will be alright. Thank you for showing up in your favorite spot so that I see you when I needed to see you. Please show me more that you are with me. I am not the same since you left. It hurts even on a good day. Time will never make this pain go away. I love you and pray you are happy with what is going on down home. Love you forever, Carol.
Carol
August 26, 2020
Rob,
Not fair, without you. It hasn't gotten easier, it's gotten more and more difficult living without my best friend. I miss your smile, your hugs, your loudness even when you didn't think you were speaking that loud! I miss your hand holding mine, there are no words to describe the protection I felt from you. I miss your sweet words, compliments, reassurance, love. I miss your love, hugs and kisses. You are one of a kind. Your strength, love, stubbornness, sense of humor, when you would lean in to listen what I was saying because I was speaking so softly, you would tell me you can't hear because of your construction career. I miss your kindness, your love. Most of all, I miss your hugs. Thank you for our boys, I see you in them every single day. You would be so amazed at how many of Connor's mannerisms are so like yours! I don't want it to be 2 years tomorrow that you're gone because someday there will be more time without you then with you. Those times you asked me to just lay there with you while listening to that song...wish we did that so much more. I MISS YOU. I LOVE YOU.

Carol McFarlane
February 25, 2020
48 today, I miss you so much. I miss your amazing touch, your beautiful words, your thoughtfulness, you noticing something new I was wearing, your perfect cards, notes, driving with you to wherever, that GMC grill pulling in the driveway, you riding off for you time, your hands, your hugs, watching Hallmark movies with you, watching the Notebook with you....again and again. Happy Birthday to you, the best man ever. Gets more difficult everyday without you. I love you, hope you saw your ice cream cake, Connor picked out the color of writing Happy Birthday Daddy. Robert played you a tune on his recorder that he brought home yesterday from school. All my love forever, I LOVE YOU. Princess
Carol McFarlane
August 26, 2019
I would give everything to hear your voice again. It's been a year, I feel my heart breaking everyday. I miss your voice, your hands holding mine, your love notes, your encouragement, sound of your truck driving into the driveway after work. I miss you so much. I feel like it's just a nightmare and that it can't be real but then you're not there. I am grateful for our boys to push me through each minute. I just hope I will see you again. I love you so much. So much LOVE, friendship and simple moments we had. So angry you're not here anymore. I miss you and LOVE you so much. Please stay with me and guide me. Connor said to me yesterday, "ME go get Daddy and bring him home!" as we were playing on the kitchen floor. I said , "I wish." Rob, you truly are the best, most empathetic, most compassionate, most loving, most intelligent on all levels, person I've ever known. Thankful to have been the one you loved for the rest of your life.
denise Wisdom
August 26, 2019
so sorry you gone you will be missed Love the Wisdoms Carol and the boys I will always help them
Beverly Sawyer
November 6, 2018
Barbara, I just heard today of the loss of your son. I know there are no words that can help at a time like this so I am not going to even try. I lost my middle daugter on September 13th, not long after your loss. I am still barely making it through some days. Prayers coming your way from me to you...Bev Sawyer
Anne Marie Pinelli
September 25, 2018
Rest in peace Rob we your family love and miss you very much. Your wife Carol and my precious daughter your Mom and your beautiful boys Robert Jr. And Connor are broken hearted. Please pray for Carol and your Mom and the boys so that they can get through this terrible time together. I am always going to be there for them also I love and miss you too very much. Maria, Elena, David and Brian who is cutting the grass for Carol are trying so hard to keep it all together for the boys. Love and miss you and praying to you daily Carol is so lost without you you both have a lifetime of memories together. Please give them signs that you are ok they need that. Love your ma-in-law.

Elena Muldowney
September 23, 2018
Uncle Rob, I can't believe this happened to you. Your not gone, your looking down and I'm looking up. I miss and love you with all my heart and soul I love your passion with Harley-Davidson motorcycles,and I miss you beyond words. I remember how much you loved that pool. I loved everything about you. You will never be forgotten and I will never feel better that you are gone or at least that I can't hug you in person. I love you.
Love,
Elena ♥❤
Laila A
September 4, 2018
Carol, I am deeply sorry for the loss of your lovely husband. I am having a hard time processing Bob's death. I am still numb from hearing this bad news today. My heart aches for you. Bod was a wonderful husband and father. Sending my prayers and thoughts to you and to your family.
Rest in Peace Bob.
Laila.

Daddy helping Connor with craft at holiday bazaar, St. Joseph's.
Carol McFarlane
September 3, 2018

Helping Connor with craft, holiday bazaar St. Joseph's.
September 3, 2018

Nummy
September 3, 2018
Carol McFarlane
September 3, 2018
Rob,
I truly do not believe you are gone. I miss you more than words can say. My heart hurts so bad, it is broken. Our memories, so many amazing memories, are what I think about constantly. I will do the best job I can raising our boys. They will always know what a great Daddy they have. Looking back, 29 years really flew by. I wish I could press pause on so many moments. I love you, us and am so proud to have been your wife! Thank you for all your handwritten notes and cards!! The outpouring of love and support shown from all the people that came to your wake and funeral is humbling. You have made relationships with great people that will look after your family. Again, always taking care of us. You are loved by so many because of the person you are. Truly humbled.
I LOVE YOU, I MISS YOU.

Simple moments I miss!!
Carol McFarlane
September 2, 2018

Easter 2018
Carol McFarlane
September 2, 2018

My favorite people.
Carol McFarlane
September 2, 2018

Dinner with my best friend.
Carol McFarlane
September 2, 2018

We love Pinkberry.
Carol McFarlane
September 2, 2018
Claudia Zanni
September 1, 2018
With heartfelt sympathy
Diane Graham
September 1, 2018
Carol , I am so sorry for your lost . My heart and prayers go out to you and your boys ..
Felicia DiMeglio-Wallace
August 31, 2018
Heartfelt condolences to the family. Rob and I both attended Blessed Sacrament for eight years together. I can't understand how something like this happens to people our age and I never will. Rest in Peace my friend....
Mary Ann
August 31, 2018
Heartfelt sympathy to all the McFarlane family for your loss.
jim andreozzi
August 31, 2018
I wish you guys the deepest sympathy in this hard time, I was a child friend of Rob, we used to live 3-4 houses away from one another.
Our prayers are with you.
Paula Iannucci
August 31, 2018
Carol, Robert, Connor and Barbara, please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. He will always be watching over you and may all of your memories bring you peace.
Christopher Fiore
August 31, 2018
My heart goes out to Robs wife and boys. His family and his Mom. I am so sorry for your loss. We go back to grade school. May God bless you and keep you safe. Rest easy my friend.
Judy Vieira
August 30, 2018
Deepest sympathies to entire McFarlane family and mom Barbara and his relatives. Rest in peace. Judy and Tony Vieira
Julie Johnson
August 30, 2018
Our deepest condolences to Carol, Robert, Connor and to the rest of your loved ones. If you need a shoulder I am only down the street. RIP Rob.
The Johnson Family
Stephanie Baccaire
August 30, 2018
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
Tom Paolantonio
August 30, 2018
You were a good man and a great friend you will be missed by all at bishop hill tavern our condolences to your family. I'm gonna miss those firm hand shakes rip brother
Nancy Argenti
August 30, 2018
We love you Rob, and miss you!!
Aunt Nancy, Uncle Steve, and Nicole
Denise Wisdom
August 30, 2018
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
August 30, 2018
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
August 29, 2018
Rest In Peace Rob!
Kristin Clark
August 29, 2018
Too soon, always will be in my heart. My deepest sympathies to Carol, Barbara, Robert Jr and Conner.
Maria Muldowney
August 29, 2018
Rest in Peace Rob.
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