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Zachary Stiness Obituary
Born in Providence, a beloved son of John H. and Kelley A. (Sweet) Stiness of Barrington, he lived in Barrington for the past 7 years.
Zachary was a member of the Barrington High School Football and Lacrosse Teams. He was inquisitive, gentle, kind, friendly, and outgoing.
Besides his parents, he leaves two brothers; Joshua Stiness and Samuel Stiness, both of Barrington, a sister; Aimee Stiness of Barrington, a paternal grandmother; Polly (Cudworth) Stiness of Barrington and maternal grandparents; Lois (LeBlanc) Sweet of Concord MA., and Herbert Sweet of Lakeland, FL. He was the grandson of the late John H. Stiness, Sr.
Calling Hours will be held Tuesday May 3, 2005 from 4-8pm in the W. RAYMOND WATSON FUNERAL HOME, 350 Willett Avenue, Riverside. A concelebrated Mass of Christian Burial will be held Wednesday May 4, 2005 at 12 noon in St. Luke Church Washington Road, Barrington. Private Burial will be held in Gate of Heaven Cemetery. Flowers are respectfully omitted. Contributions in Zachary's memory to the Zachary J. Stiness Memorial Fund c/o Barrington High School, Lincoln Avenue, Barrington RI 02806 would be deeply appreciated.
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Memories and Condolences
for Zachary Stiness
Pat Donovan
July 27, 2005
Dear John Kelly & family
Please allow me to introduce myself, my name is Pat Donovan. I am a friend of your mother's Kelly.
I just wanted you to know that you and your family are and have been in my thoughts and prayers.
It breaks my heart to think of the pain that you all are experiencing. Lois is devastated by the loss of her grandson Zach, she knows she doesn't have time to heal from this blow, she always speaks about him with such love. I know it hurts her beyond measure seeing her family suffering the way you are.
Losing a child is certainly one of the worst crosses to bear. But you know you were blessed to have had him even though the time was all to brief. He touched many people's lives. He made a difference. Isn't that what we are all here for?
Even though you don't know me I wanted to tell you how impressed I am with your courage and strength. The devotion you have to each other and your beautiful children. I know it doesn't fell like it but God is there walking with you and some day ( soon I hope ) you will enjoy the things you used to and Zach will be still there with you in a very special way. Hang in there!! Know that you are not forgotton, esp. on the darkest of days.
Much love,
Pat
Dan and Kim Duesler
May 16, 2005
John, Kelley, Josh, Aimee, and Sam,
Words cannot possibly express the sorrow we feel for your tragic loss of Zach. He was a great kid and we feel fortunate to have known him. His memory will remain in our hearts. Please find comfort in knowing that Zach is looking out for each of you from above. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you pass through this difficult time. If we can help you in any way please don't hesitate to ask. God Bless all of you.
With heartfelt sympathy and condolences,
Love,
Dan and Kim Duesler
kathy geer
May 15, 2005
I don't know your family personally,but i am very sorry for your loss.I have 4 teenage kids and couldn't imagine life without them.God bless all of you.
Brian Lehman
May 11, 2005
Blessings to the Stiness Family, I am so sorry to hear about your trajic loss, please be assured he is in good hands with a higher power. Me/my family is grieving with you forever. You are friends that I will always respect and love. With all our sympathy and Love from Brian, Brad, and Carolyn Lehman.
Darrel and Gloria Hinerman
May 10, 2005
To the family of Zachary Stiness. Please accept our deepest condolences on Zachary's passing. While we only met Zach briefly he made a wonderful impression on us along with Josh, Aimee, and Sam. John and Kelley we are thinking of you all and are here if you need anything at all.
Cindy Silvia
May 9, 2005
Dear John and Kelley,
I am so very sorry for the loss of your son Zach. He was an amazing person who everyone loved dearly. I feel as if we all watched Zach grow up in front of our very eyes. Between hanging out with the neighborhood boys or visiting Michelle, Zach always seemed to be around. Michelle and her friends will miss both Zach and Mike so greatly. I still hope to see Sammy around and would like to extend my deepest sympathy for your lose. If you ever need anything please do not hesitate to come over. God Bless. The Silvia Family
Carol Ann Sheehan/Ryan
May 7, 2005
Such a dreadful loss to you and your children, John and Kelley.I am so sorry and will keep you all in my prayers.
Elizabeth Sousa
May 5, 2005
Kelley & family-
Just thinking of you guys during this most difficult time. You are a strong and loving family, and your love & memories of Zach will help you through this time. Liz Sousa
JoAnn Besozzi
May 5, 2005
Dear Kelly & Family,
I hope that you can find comfort in knowing that Zach is at peace with the Lord.
With our deepest sympathy,
JoAnn & Ken Besozzi
Kathleen Williams
May 5, 2005
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families with the great loss of your son. May he always be in the thoughts of all of his fellow classmates and members of the Barrington Community.
J Taylor
May 5, 2005
As a parent of a teenager,I can only imagine the sadness at the loss of your son.My heart goes out to all of you.
Bob Altomonte
May 5, 2005
My deepest condolences and regrets on the loss of your son Zachary. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Cherylanne Russell
May 5, 2005
To the Stiness Family,
Your son was a great friend to my daughter Jacki Rodrigues. She has so many wonderful memories of their good times together. I can not begin to express how sorry I am for the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless You and Your Family.
Nicole Trafford
May 5, 2005
Dear Stiness family,
I am very, very sorry for your loss. Zach was one of my brothers closest friends. We all have been effected by this tragedy. My prays, and my families prays are with you. I have great memories of Zach and his smiling face will truely be missed. Chris and myself have been sharing memories of Zach and all the silly things the boys would do when they hung out. This never should have happened and i'm very sorry that its happening to you. My heart felt condolences on this unfortunate loss.
May God Bless you and be with you in this time of mourning.
Love,
The Trafford family.
Kristen Silva
May 5, 2005
I dont you son, But i know how it feels to lose someone you love and care for. My deepest sympathy and sorrows. for you and your family
God Bless
Kristen Silva
Madeline M
May 5, 2005
My son and I read this story and we are deeply sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in the arms of your family & friends..
Lucy Ferreira
May 5, 2005
Dear Stiness Family,
Please remember that love lives forever. May you find contentment in your heartfelt memories of Zachary. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Ferreira Family
Bob and Pam Starr
May 5, 2005
While we did not know your son, our son Jason did. We have all been touched deeply by his untimely passing. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Major & Mrs. Leo McGonagle
May 4, 2005
Our deepest condolences and regrets on the loss of your son Zachary. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Major & Mrs. Leo McGonagle and family.
Fort Carson, Colorado
Allison, Alexa and Maggie Coleman
May 4, 2005
Dear John,Kel,Aimee,Josh and Sam
Being with you these past couple of days and enduring your pain has touched us all. The mass was beautiful along with the wake, burial and gatherings. Our deepest sympathy is with you during your time of need. We will be by your side every step of the way. Zach lives within us all and will never be forgotten. Alexa and Maggie have so many memories of meschivious Zach that we all have been reflecting on. We all loved him he will be missed by all
RIP Zachary John Stiness December 17, 1988-May 1, 2005
By: Alexa Coleman
Brenton Medeiros
May 4, 2005
I was friends with zach when he lived in seekonk and i am deeply saddened by his death my prayers are with your family
Sara Tahir
May 4, 2005
Dear Stiness Family,
I send to you my sympathies and my deepest sorrow on the loss of your son, Zachary. I am a junior at Barrington High School, and although I did not know Zachary, I see my friends praise him so highly that I know he must have been a wonderful person. The school has been rocked by this tragic loss, and we all miss your son and Mike Neubauer immensely. I am so sorry once again for your pain.
May 4, 2005
Im very sorry for your loss. Zach was a great kid. God bless.
Sean O'
May 4, 2005
John and Kelly-
Zach will be missed beyond belief, he will always be remembered. He was such a great kid. I know Riley, as well as many others will miss him greatly. My deepest condolences go out to Sammy, Amy, Josh, and all of the family and friends left behind. My family will always be there for you. We will love you and miss you forever Zach.
George & Carol Brennan
May 4, 2005
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family
melissa Wilson
May 4, 2005
Dear Stiness Family,
i did not kno your son but i knew people from barrington who will miss him very much. i send my heart out to your family and hope you can cope with your loss...
Ellen & Chuck Kellner
May 4, 2005
Dear Kelley & John - our hearts and prayers are with you.
Maria Gunson
May 4, 2005
Dear Kelly and family,
I am sure there are no words to describe the pain and sorrow you and your family are enduring. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and Zachary.
Remember his spirit will live on eternally and his soul will shine forever. God Bless.
Maria Gunson
Justin Golden
May 4, 2005
John & Kelly: my deepest sympathy for your tragic loss. Zach was a great kid and will be greatly missed.
Justin
May 4, 2005
Dear Friends and Family of Zach,
I did not know Zach. However, this has obviously been a huge loss to our community. I lost my 17 year old cousin last month and my family will always love and miss him. To the parents, be strong you will be able to get through this. Hold your dearest memories close to your heart and never let them go. My deepest condolences.
Fr. John Soares
May 4, 2005
Please be assured of my prayers for all of you at this most difficult of times. I will offer the Noon Mass today for your son. May the God of all Consolation hold you now in the Palm of His Hand.
Dave & Rosemary Richardson
May 4, 2005
To the Stiness Family:
Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. God bless.
Marlene Gonçalves
May 3, 2005
My deepest heartfelt sympathy to you and your family at this very
sad and difficult time.
God Bless you all.
Denise Little
May 3, 2005
DearJohn And Kelly,
My deepest condolescences. I don't knowwhat else to say. Knowing you and Zach, this is a devastating loss. Tonight i kissed my own children good night and cried when they went to bed. My heart goes out to you in your time of need. Love, Denise
Jo-Ann DeSousa
May 3, 2005
I am terribly sorry for the loss of your child. Although, we did not know your son, our family has been praying for all the families and friends. Our deepest sympathy to you all.
The Desousa Family
Steven Trotter
May 3, 2005
John & Kelley,
I'm very sorry for the loss of your son Zach. God Bless your family. Steve Trotter
Cris Gravel
May 3, 2005
John, Kelley and family
My deepest sympathies. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Dan Trotter
May 3, 2005
John & Kelley,
We are so sorry for the loss of Zach. He was such a great person. I remember when I would come home we use to play football up at Chinese Feild with all the kids. Zach we will miss you. I know you are in a wonderful place with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. God Bless
Deb Cahir
May 3, 2005
John & Kelley:
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time. Remember your friends are here to lean on to give you strength and love you very much.
(J.C.'s Sister)
Yvonne Perrotta-Miner
May 3, 2005
With heartfelt sympathy for you and your family. You are not alone, as sorrow comes your way. May the love of friends bring you comfort, may God's love give you peace, and bring your sorrowing heart relief.
Eric White
May 3, 2005
I am so very sorry for your loss.
Ronni & Al Lake
May 3, 2005
John, Kelly and Family
You will always be in our hearts and prayers, Words cannot express our deepest sympathy to all of you.
Carol Thibault (Cunningham)
May 3, 2005
My son Sean was a friend of Zachary's and Please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Cindy Ventura
May 3, 2005
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
With Deepest Sympathy,
The Ventura Family
Bob Manning
May 3, 2005
"For us this is the end of all the stories ... But for them it was only the beginning of the real story. All their life in this world ... had only been the cover and title page: now at last they were beginning Chapter One of the Great Story, which no one on earth has read, which goes on forever and in which every chapter is better than the one before."
C.S. Lewis
May you find comfort in the knowledge that Zach is in the care of our Lord. With deepest sympathies.
Janet Cormier
May 3, 2005
Kelly, John and family,
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Janet
Rosemary DeVeer
May 3, 2005
I am so sorry for your loss and pray that God will help you all.
Deb Freeman
May 3, 2005
You have my heartfelt sympathies. I have been praying for you and your family.
Deb Freeman
The Mansi Family
May 3, 2005
Our thoughts & prayers are with you.
Lori Souza
May 3, 2005
I am terribly sorry for this tragic loss all the families and friends have suffered. I did not know Zachary , but my heart breaks for his parents , siblings , family and friends. W/SYMPATHY,
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