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Memories and Condolences
for Christopher Phelps
Rick Lucas
May 25, 2020
I went to basic with Chris and we served in the same platoon for my entire time in the military including Desert Shield/Storm. He was one of the best soldiers and people I have ever met. He was dedicated to the Army and his family. Initially, we were very close since we went to basic together and were both from Louisville, Ky. After basic we drove to Ft. Hood, our first permanent party, in my POS 74' Monte Carlo. No AC and that V-8 blasting heat in the summer. Felt like driving an oven and we were the biscuits. I remember when he met Bobbi. He was in love from the very beginning and was more interested in spending time with her then any of us in the barracks acting like drunken teenagers. We did seem to drift apart but that was because I was more interested in partying and looking for ways around the rules and he was dedicated to Bobbi, family, and being a good soldier. I was a great tanker but not a great soldier. Phelps was both. I think about him often and was devastated to find out about death in Iraq. I always pictured him retired somewhere working part time and trying to keep up with Louisville Cardinals Basketball. If there is a heaven I am sure Phelps is in it. Rest in Peace my friend.
Tuki Tibbitts
November 30, 2015
Hey uncs..was thinking of you on my ride home today. Had baby and Jey with me, I know you are near when your name is mentioned or you are thought of..stay extra close to auntie, the kiddies and grand babies during the holidays. Miss you uncle Chris!
joel kirtley
November 25, 2015
i was in 1st cav at fort hood with chris and we drove many weekends back here to ky together we called him smurf there at hood was very lucky to have known you chris,never will forget you brother peace to all joel kirtley
Jeffrey Cropper
September 18, 2015
Sarg I'm just checking in letting you know that you are not forgotten. I'm always thinking about the brothers I lost while serving my country. You were not only an awesome NCO and leader but a wonderful friend and brother. Miss you...SCOUTS OUT!!
Toni Red Cloud
March 11, 2014
Happy Heavenly Birthday Chris.
Jason Horn
November 10, 2013
SFC Phelps was my drill while in basic training. I just found out he passed. I am very sorry for your loss. He was a great leader and trained many good soldiers. He will never be forgotten.
Phillip Richey
April 12, 2013
Platoon Daddy, It's been several years now since you were taken away from us. I know the world was a better place with you in it. I know I certainly think about you a lot and it only seems harder the more time goes by. Things never get easier when someone loses a true friend such as yourself. As another year goes by I just wanted to say your missed more and more each day and can't wait to see you on the other side my friend.
Bobbi Phelps
March 11, 2013
Got a text from Rae ~ Jey is trying to get ahold of you. So I call Jey and all I hear is our BabyGirl sobbing and crying. Had you been here to celebrate your birthday today it would have been smiles and not tears on her face. March 11th has been a sad day since you left us. But like I told Jey "lay down and pray and breathe then concentrate on all your good and happy memories of Daddy". So Chris today on your special day I hope and pray that all four of our kids feel your loving embrace because they miss you dearly! Happy Birthday and love you always man!
Bobbi Phelps
January 1, 2013
OMG! Where are you? Why aren't you here? I need you! The kids need you! This is not fair! Why? Why? Please God we need him!
November 13, 2012
In Loving Memory. Gone but never forgotten.
James Trout
May 26, 2012
You are thought of daily SFC Phelps. I'll never forget what a great NCO and friend you were while stationed together in Germany. You and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers brother!! Go Bless
Deirdre Iron Moccasin
May 25, 2012
Hey Uncle, I don't know why but I thought about you today. I admire you for being in the military for so many years and serving our country.
I ask a big favor today, can you give my dad a hug for me.
I can just picture you, my dad and GaGa arguing about what and where the flag will go this year. LOL
Love and miss you Uncle.
Toni Red Cloud
May 25, 2012
On this Memorial Day and always-Remembering you Chris-and the super cool and fun to joke with Brother in law that you were. It's so hard to keep that "WHY" question from being asked when I see my little sister struggle with things. I know you're in Heaven watching out for her and the kids but still...anyway, until we all meet again, you will always be remembered
James Courtney
March 29, 2012
My condolences to your family, and you will be forever missed SFC Phelps, May god bless, miss that smile during rough times
SSG Courtney, James
Bobbi Phelps
March 11, 2012
Happy Birthday in Heaven baby. Remember your last birthday right before you deployed? I'm happy that we have great pictures from that day. We love you and miss you on this day :(
Bobbi Phelps
December 25, 2011
Merry Christmas baby! All the kids are home from college. We spent the day together yesterday and it was wonderful. I love how their memories always include you. And the memories are always crazy and funny and never make us sad. I still hurt for them when I see young adults with their dad. I'm totally sad today, I thought I could do this and gave it my best try. Having a glass of champagne and regrouping my thoughts. The whole family is having dinner at Glos. I sent the ham and bbq ribs up but don't want them seeing my red nose and red eyes lol. But I'll be ok because I know you love us and are thinking of us. I love you and miss you!
Jeff Cropper
December 25, 2011
Merry Christmas Sarg...not a day goes by that I dont think about you and all my brothers and sisters who I served with. It was an honor to know you and I will always remember laughing and singing the oldies with you.
Bobbi Phelps
December 24, 2011
Hey Chris <3. My 6th Christmas Eve without you and it doesn't get easier. Nothing has changed~ I'm still a last minute shopper and I'll be a last second wrapper. Will things change? Will they get better? I don't know. I don't know what happened~ I think I lost a piece of my mind that horrible day. They say the war is over and that all the Soldiers will be coming home now. You too...........?.
Merry Christmas 2011
December 22, 2011
Remembering you this Christmas
Remembered this Christmas 2011
December 19, 2011
Chris,
The war is now over and the remaining troops will be home for Christmas. Know you will always be remembered as one of the nearly 4,500 American fighters that died before the last U.S. troops crossed the border into Kuwait. Thank you for your service. You will be remembered this Christmas in the hearts of those you left behind.
RIP
Peggy Childers
June 23, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class Christopher W. Phelps:
Please accept my remembrance of Christopher on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
May 30, 2011
Remembering you this Memorial Day. Thank you for your Service .
May 19, 2011
Bobbi please contact me I would love to present you and the kids a beautiful cross stitch sampler I have made in Christophers memory. [email protected]
MARY J YOUNG
May 13, 2011
THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE GOD BLESS
Anonymous Army Veteran
May 2, 2011
SFC Phelps: I am a free because you were brave. Thank you for your service. May you rest in peace. Your daughter will make a fine officer in the World's best Army. Thank you Mrs. Phelps for being an Army Wife and Mother.
Brian Parratt
March 14, 2011
Senior Drill Sgt Phelps, though it was small I thank you for the phone call you allowed me to make during a family emergency when I was in basic training at FT. Knox. Today I am im at Master Gunner School and my memory of that act though brief is still lasting. Thank You
bobbi phelps
March 11, 2011
Happy Birthday Chris~today, look down from Heaven and know that I celebrate your life and love you still. We can't go back in time and healing is a long time coming but its days like today, your birthday, when I get that lil feeling that I can continue to live and be reunited with you some day. On this special day, send extra healing powers down to your kids to help with their pain. We've been through a lot and wish you could be here today. We love you. I love you. Happy 45th birthday!
Happy New Year
A friend
January 2, 2011
Michael Shephard
December 25, 2010
Mrs. Bobbie this is SFC Ret. Michael C. Shephard. Many years ago at Fort Hood when Chris was just a Sgt, we all hung out in Killeen. Just letting you know that Phelps is not forgotten. God Bless. We are praying for your strength.
Bobbi Phelps
December 24, 2010
Chris~I love you and I miss you on this Christmas Eve~
~Remember how we always waited until this time to start wrapping the kids' presents?~Now I hate the holidays :( and only get through them because of the kids~
Merry Christmas
Gloria
December 23, 2010
James Trout
October 10, 2010
October 10, 2010
I just want you to know that even after 18 years we served together in the 3-77 Armor Bn, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. It was a Honor serving with you.God Bless You my Brother and your family..
Sheila Johnson
October 8, 2010
Will the family of SFC Christopher Phelps please notify me in reference to a Kentucky Memorial in honor of our fallen heroes. We would like for family members to be in attendance. Email me for more information. Thanks
chris roberts
August 2, 2010
you are not forgotten I-97
Peggy Childers
June 23, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class Christopher W. Phelps:
Remembering Christopher on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Toni Red Cloud
June 23, 2010
In Loving Memory of Chris.
Always in our Memories and in our hearts.
Mark White
June 21, 2010
My friend you are greatly missed. Bobbi this news came as a great shock, as like most of us in the world we lose touch with many that have touched our lives in so many positive ways. I served with Chris in Mannheim Germany. My wife Michelle and I spent a New Years Eve with you and Chris and Little Foreman, as I recall we refered to your boy at the time. Watching him chew on the Chicken bone was something. LOL. Michelle and I still laugh about that night. The last night I spent in Germany again was on your couch. That is the kind of guy I remember Chris being. The kind of guy that opened his home to others. The last face I saw before coming back to the USA was Chris as he took me to the airport in Frankfort. I wish I had that moment again to truly express a greater apprecitiation for all he meant to me over the years we spent together. I spent many a night sleeping in the water bed we purchased from you two. I know it was long ago, but I truly feel it is just like yesterday. Bobbi if you or the kids need anything please contact Michelle or myself. We are currently living in Roanoke, Virginia. Charlie Mike. Chris you are always in our hearts and Bobbi you and the kids in our prayers. 540-719-1782.
Brian Scully
June 1, 2010
To the Phelps Family:
I was stationed with Chris in Ft. Lewis. He had the best personality and made sure he took care of all his men. He was a great soldier and a wonderful person. My prayers are with Chris and his family. May the Lord bless you always.
Toni Red Cloud
March 12, 2010
Bobbi and kids,
I know yesterday was Chris' birthday and along with that comes the memories that you all have.
I know Jey is playing in the state bb tournament in aberdeen and Rae is at West Point and Christian just finished his basketball season with RC. It is good to know that Chris is with each of them in spirit-so proud of each of them.
My memories of you guys as a family are so precious to me.
My prayers go out to you guys as this day passes, another birthday memory.
Love you guys so much.
Toni and boys
Lee Johnson
March 2, 2010
My first recallection of SFC Phelps was him about 2mm from my face screeming. Thats right, basic training. He paived the way for me to be a good Soldier and later the NCO I am today. Although I did not know him personaly, he will be missed because of what he gave me and his country.
December 26, 2009
A Belated Merry Christmas Chris.
Jeffrey Cropper
November 11, 2009
Another year has gone by my brother and I still miss you more than ever. I had the pleasure of serving with SFC Phelps. He not only was a great soldier but an outstanding friend. His loss will always be felt by me and anyone who knew him.
Toni Red Cloud
June 24, 2009
Seems like only yesterday I was teasing you about having hooves for feet. Remember that Bobbie? And here it is already 4 years since you left your loved ones. Memories are so precious and I am so glad for my memories, especially the ones where we got a good laugh.
Good Luck to Rey at West Point.
Love you guys so much.
Tone
Tuki
June 24, 2009
Well Uncle..it was another year gone by yesterday and yet feels like yesterday.You are missed so much by everyone,it's nice to see the many entries here to show what a great person you were to so many.Continue to watch down over auntie Bob and the kids,they are in my prayers everyday.And until we meet again Uncle..I will be watching for you and Gaga in the big beautiful sky.....
Peggy Childers
June 23, 2009
To the family of Sgt. 1st Class Christopher W. Phelps:
Christopher gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
June 19, 2009
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Shawn Cannon
May 19, 2009
SFC Phelps was my Platoon Sergeant when he was killed. Evryday since then I feel his loss. I don't know why I have'nt been to this site before. I still feel like it should have been me instead. I respect him more than any other soldier I have known. The hardest thing I have ever done in my life was his Memoriol, both in Iraq and at Fort Carson. After almost 3 years it is still fresh in my mind. "IronHawk Troop 3rd ACR" (Green 4)
ORLANDO LOVATO
January 20, 2009
SFC PHELPS was my DrillSgt at FT. KNOX 01/03 - and I served in the same Regament with him on my 2nd tour to Iraq with the 3ACR in 05".. before we left Iraq we talked for a while about basic stuff and family and told each other when we get back we will have a few cold beers together.
He was the best soldier I have ever met!
You are missed greatly from your family, friends and counrty.
GOD be with you and your loved ones...
See you when its my time, till than you and your family will be in my prayers.
Dont forget I still owe you that drink when we meet again...
SGT LOVATO (RETIRED)
Bobbi Phelps
January 1, 2009
Well Chris HAPPY NEW YEAR up there in heaven! Im happy and sad myself right now. Why? Because I dreamt about you last night and the good part was it was a long dream and I actually got to see you! Ive had short dreams about you or dreams where I know your there but I cant see you. To me dreams have hidden meanings so I have to ponder this one a bit lol. Daddy Mom Glo and Tone were in the dream too. I woke up and had a good cry.
Anyway as you know I was finally ready to begin some type of healing process for myself then all this sickness with Glo and Barb kinda put me into a shock. Glo is still having problems here and there but she is kindof ok for now. You probably know better than me how Barb is... I cant handle it I cant deal with it Chris! Call it denial shock a cold heart whatever.... How can I go thru this all again when I havent even begun to heal from you leaving me?
Anyway the kids are great as you know.
Tay still going thru her own difficulties but gotta love her!
Rae is all grown and ready to put this nest behind her and get out there!
Jey is a lil basketball wonder! Just like her dad! She gets many compliments on her playing.
And Big C well getting bigger! Not only in height but his afro too! LOL
So husband of mine up there in heaven....thank you for coming to me in my dreams last night It has provided me with a great start to this New Year!!! Love ya man!!!
Michael Shephard
August 13, 2008
SFC Phelps and I were stationed together several times. I was the mechanic that worked on his tank on many occassions in 1st Squadron 3ACR and at Fort Hood. It was painful for read that he lost his life in Iraq. It brought back memories of the times that we shared together on and off duty at Fort Hood and Fort Bliss. I miss him and will never forget the conversations that we shared. To his wife and children, you were very important to him. He made the ultimate sacrifice for his country and he really enjoyed his job. He was always very approachable and an awesome friend. God Bless my brother and his family. SFC Shephard, Michael C. Retired (2006) US Army.
Bobbi Phelps
June 24, 2008
Well Chris this wasnt written until the day after your anniversary of being taken from us but you know the kind of day I had...... Tay and I went to breakfast early in the morn, I guess as she gets older we will do these things...I like that we began the morning remembering you that way. Of course we both couldnt sleep the night before from the day we had in front of us. The kids and I went to pick out plants and flowers later that morn from this wonderful lady who lives wayyy out in the country. I actually let them choose and you know how that was hard for me lol Then we went after bricks soil a tree and a bench and angel. Once at home we created a Memorial flowerbed for you. As you look down from Heaven upon us I know you see our lil creation. Its beautiful. Then we all went out to eat. In between all that I almost had a breakdown. Finally after all this time Im allowing myself some tears and emotions. Its hard to do this but getting harder to hold it in. We love you and miss you but just read the poem on the bench and you will know...........Love ya!!!!
Toni Red Cloud
June 24, 2008
Bobbie and kids,
What more can I say after reading the two poems below. Only that I love you all and will always be here for you. We all know, we all have that faith, that faith that says, Yes, Chris is on the other side, that beautiful other side, that faith that says, Yes, he is watching over you.
We will always remember you, Chris. June 23, 2005 will always be one of those days that I can remember like it was just yesterday.
As always Bob and kids, you are in my prayers.
Your big sis, Tone
In Memory of Christopher Wade ~ (Debra Estep)
June 23, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Christopher, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Gloria
May 27, 2008
Remembering you and your family this Memorial Day.
Toni Red Cloud
May 26, 2008
In Loving Memory of Chris on this Memorial Day 2008.
Phillip Richey
May 20, 2008
Platoon daddy I miss ya man. I'm sure we will meet up again someday.
Bobby and kids I hope all is well with you.
James Trout
May 19, 2008
I was stationed with SFC Phelps in Germany with the 3/77 Ar Bn. He was a great man and a dear person. I have great memories of this (Hero).I wish his family the very best. May God Bless him and All men and women serving this great nation.
May 4, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt 1st Class Phelps!
larry phelps
April 30, 2008
i remember meeting you at ft knox when you had your soldiers at the rifle range i was the range instructor/oic this was 03/04 people teased us and asked if we were related as my last name is also phelps but i am caucason when they ask i said yes but you have to go way back my blessings
Bobbi Phelps
March 13, 2008
Hey Chris! Well this year your birthday was a tough one for the kids but we tried to get thru it. We all went out to dinner and had a "Remember when" time. I gave them the story of when we met and then the stories just flowed. You were one crazy, funny, loving, mean dad! LOL They miss you so much but I am trying my best to keep their spirits up. My spirit? Well it will be ok one day..... Love ya man and miss you so much!!!!
Toni RC
March 10, 2008
A Happy Birthday to you today Chris. You may be with the angels and not with us, but you will never be forgotten.
Bobbie and kids, you are in my thoughts and prayers everyday.
Bobbi Phelps
December 26, 2007
Hey ChrisAngel in Heaven! Well its the day after Christmas and guess where we are?? We are in PRSD with the whole family!! We had a snowy snowy Christmas and the kids enjoyed themselves so much and the family was happy we finally made it back home. Tay is still in KY cuz she is finally loving her job. Keep an eye on her. We miss you and love you!
Joan Blueshield-Little
December 25, 2007
Bobbi. i was thinking about you and your children this morning, when i awoke.I remebered this site~and thought i would let you know, that you are always, in my prayers.Ok?...be strong. merry christmas!!
Gloria
December 24, 2007
Merry Christmas
Gloria Childers
November 11, 2007
Sgt.1st Class Christopher W. Phelps
Remembering you this Memorial day.
Your legacy will live on through those whos life you touched.
Toni Red Cloud
November 11, 2007
On this Veterans Day 2007, I would like to say to Chris, Thank you. You are in my thoughts and prayers every day. I know that you are sitting with Daddy and the uncles watching over us. Time does not erase the memories-we still miss you. I look out for
Bobbie and the kids as much As I can-I know you would want that. So until we meet again brother-in-law, wopila tanka for all that you have given.
Michael Johnson
November 4, 2007
My heart goes out to Sgt. 1st Class Christopher W. Phelps. I don't know him but he will be miss.
Althea B
July 27, 2007
Thank you for your willingness to defend the United States of America and all that we hold sacred. Though tears can never bring you back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that you made and our sorrow at your passing. You are truly a hero and your sacrifice will never be forgotten. Your mission on earth is complete. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the heroes who have passed before.
July 20, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt 1st Class Phelps and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Unci's Takoja
June 23, 2007
Chris,
Remembering you and your family today as they gather to celebrate your life and morn your departure.
You are not forgotten.
Most Sincerely
Garnet Jenkins
June 22, 2007
In tribute to Sgt. 1st Class Christopher W. Phelps, with a Multitude of Thanks, for this Brave Soldier's Courage, Dedication and Many Years of Service to our Country and for Freedom.
May Christopher Rest Safely, in God's Loving Care and may the Peace of God continue to be with the Phelps family.
Those who Made this Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall Never Be Forgotten, my brother among them. Killed in action Vietnam in 1967.
"I will lift up my eyes to the hills- from whence comes my help?
My help comes from the Lord, Who made heaven and earth."
~ Psalm 121:1-2 ~
I am sincerely hoping that you continue to feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you each day, as this Grateful Country Remembers Someone Very Precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.
I am So Deeply Sorry for your loss.
Bobbi Phelps
June 17, 2007
Well Chris it will be 2 years since you've been gone. We did not get to visit you on Memorial Day since we were busy with our move back to Kentucky. But I know my family stopped by for a visit with you and Daddy. We will be back in South Dakota for your 2 yr anniversary Memorial Dinner. Today is Fathers Day and the kids miss you greatly but living here in KY seems to be a good thing for them. Please continue to watch over us and guide me daily in decisions I make for myself and the kids. Happy Fathers Day!!! Love and miss you, Bobbi and kids
Linda Flannery
June 7, 2007
Remembering one of America's heros. My sincere condolences to the family of Sgt Phelps. Please take comfort in knowing that all of America shares in your sorrow and in your pride.
My flag flies in honor of Sgt Phelps.
Tuki T
May 28, 2007
Uncle Chris,
Seems like just yesterday we were all at Joe's Crab Shack in the Springs. If I had known then that,that would be the last time I would talk to you I would have said so much. You were the best,I never had an uncle who was also like a father figure to me,other than my gaga,"Thank you" for all you have said and done for me and my kids,not a day goes by that I don't look up to the sky and know you are there watching out for all of us. You will never be forgotten. Continue to send Anti Bob and the kids your love,I know they can sense it. Till we meet again uncle.........
Suzette Prince
May 28, 2007
To the family of SFC Phelps. I did not know him, but I know how you hurt and grief. Take one day at a time and hold on to your memories and love. God bless and comfort you all that you will see your loved one in heaven when the time comes. Keep strong! I know you all miss him.(I lost my husband in Iraq also).
Chloe
May 17, 2007
God bless you, rest in peace.
Paul Reyes
April 13, 2007
Chris,
You'd be proud of Bobbi and the kids. The new house looks great and best of all, they're KY bound!!
Love and miss you, Bro.
SPC Mike Balcom
March 28, 2007
A great soldier. A man who taught me how to be a man. My heart goes out to his friends and family. He will be missed by everyone who knew him.
Bette Iron Moccasin
March 4, 2007
It is still very hard to believe that Chris is gone and I miss my brother in law so much. Bobbi, you and the kids are in my prayers. I love you all. Betz
March 2, 2007
Bobbi,
You are not, and will never be alone. Faith, I think, is defined as something you belive in, yet you still can't see. I try to understand the presence of grace in my life every day.
Eyes up,
John W.
Bobbi Phelps
March 1, 2007
Chris, I miss you so much and I am so lost right now. It is so hard doing this all alone.....
1SG Eddie Holley
January 20, 2007
Bobbi and Family, I just wanted to say that I still miss Christopher. When we were in IRAQ, he and I went to the gym together in the morning and after missions so that he could motivate me and I could motivate him. I miss him so much, that I have named my newborn son after him, so that he may always live on in my memories and in my thoughts. If you ever need anything just let me know, the soldiers of Ironhawk will always be here and have him in our hearts.
December 22, 2006
Chris,
You're not forgotten and are very much with us. You, Bobbi and the kids are in our prayers.
Love you bro,
Paul Reyes
Bobbi Phelps
December 2, 2006
We just celebrated our 2nd Thanksgiving without Chris. Last year we tried to avoid that day and the memories we had when Chris had been with us.
That last Thanksgiving Chris made a very prophetic statement.
We had gone home to SD to be with the "whole" family of Red Clouds, celebrating Thanksgiving at the local church. It was great! We had many memories that day.
But on the way home to CO we encountered a terrible winter storm and on that day Chris said "I will never come here for Thanksgiving again". Due at that time to the storm but how true those words later became.
So this year we all went back to the same church and tried to recreate that last holiday and also create some new memories to carry us forward.
Everybody knew that Chris was there with us in spirit and that made the day much more memorable. We miss you Chris....
Gloria Childers
November 23, 2006
Remembering you this Thanksgiving day.
jeffrey cropper
November 10, 2006
hey big sarg,
i just wanted you to know that i'm always thinking about you and all the great times we had laughing about everything and listening to oldies. take care brother i'll write you again soon.
Toni Red Cloud
October 16, 2006
Each and every morning, from the first day we heard about Chris' death I say a prayer for Bobbie and the kids. A prayer for comfort and strength during this difficult time. Bobbie is my little sister, I went to stay with her and the kids when Chris was leaving for Iraq. It was hard for them to see him go at that time-I remember how it almost seemed surreal-it was something as a military family, that they knew he had to go-but it was new to me and I wanted to hold them all together for as long as I could. Never in a million years did our family think that Chris would not come back. The one thing that I can't do for them is to bring him back-but I have always tried to be here for them in every other way.
I go to this site daily-I guess as part of the healing process for myself. And to see my nephews entry this morning was almost too much for me to read. Christian is absolutely a huggable, lovable bear of a kid. He is the spitting image of Chris and we wish he could spend more time with us on the rez in South Dakota.
We love our neices and nephew and of course Bobbi with all our hearts and wish there was a way through this that was easy but there is no way except to go through it with them and be here for them.
I look at Chris' photo that is posted here and he looks so serious. He was a part of our family for so long, our dad (Daddy) who passed away 6 years ago loved Chris like a son. And of course this brother-in-law was in no way immune from a LOT of hell raising from Bobbi's 4 sisters. We have so many, many good memories and stories of Chris. We will never forget him and the ultimate sacriface he made for his country.
My prayers to the many other families in this situation and to the brave soldiers in Iraq and other countries who are fighting in the war.
Pila miya
Love to you Bobbie, Tay, Rae, Jey and Christian.
Christian Phelps
October 13, 2006
as much as i would like to have my dad back i know he died helping people he didn't even know whitch was a good thing
ROBYN GARSIDE
July 31, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOUR CHILDREN. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
June 28, 2006
To the Phelps family. I previously signed Christopher's guest book. Christopher my heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. It has been a year since you were taken. You are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
Kevin Wigginton
June 4, 2006
Bobbi,
Your tribute to Chris was both moving and beautiful and spoke volumes to the dedication that you both had for one another and your children.
My you and the family continue to be in God's loving arms stay prayful and steadfast. Although we all miss Chris (NUTS), we know he is in a better place.
June 1, 2006
Chris,
You're not forgotten my brother! We miss you and we all are keeping you and the family in our prayers. Bobbi and family- thank you for giving us a hero.
Very respectfully,
SFC Reyes (Germany)
Mrs Bobbi Phelps
May 29, 2006
A heartfelt thank you once again to the many caring people and soldiers who submitted entries into Chris' guest book.
This has been an especially trying time with his unit and his soldiers returning from Iraq. But the guys have been great, looking out for the kids and I and keeping us in their lives. Thank you 4th Plt Ironhawk, you know who you are, and Chris would be proud of you guys knowing that you are here for the kids and I.
A thank you to Larry from the Louisville Courier Journal for his article. My blessings go out to those of you who have taken the time to read Chris' guest book and sign it.
As a family we are fine, individually we are all struggling and I ask that you keep our kids in your prayers. We know we have our own Special Angel watching over us everyday and that is a comfort.
Thank you, on this Memorial Day! Bobbi and kids
John Wilson
May 29, 2006
I knew Chris very well at Male. He was as excellent athlete, a strong student and a good friend. When his passing was published locally, I was touched deeply. I am sure that Chris died with Honor, and resides peacefully with our Blessed Father.
See you when it's all said and done.
Joaquin melendez
April 28, 2006
hey there big poppa well in just sitting at home looking at your picture thinking about everytime you put a smile on my face i miss u so much tears run down my cheek, i just want to see you smile one more time, you are and always will be a father figure to me, when u saw me sad you pulled me aside and talked to me and lifted my spirits up i Love you and you will always be in my heart, my heart goes out to your family
Robert Luna
April 20, 2006
Hi,Bobbi me and Chrystal and the Kids are saying Hi and wishing your family the best. I dream and think of Chris everyday. You know being A Native myself it sticks with you alot longer, I miss and think of him alot. SSG Robert j. Luna
Pat Canfall
April 9, 2006
My condolences to the Phelps family.
Christopher may you rest in peace. Thank you for making the ultimate sacrifice in the name of freedom. You have earned your golden halo and wings. May you continue to soar in the heavenly clouds up above.
Spc. Smith
March 16, 2006
I will never forget the day SFC Phelps arrived at our hospital in Baghdad. The Phelps family and America, has lost an amazing soldier. I think about and pray for your family everyday.
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