Gerald H. Manlove
CUSTER | Gerald Halwood Manlove, 94, of Custer, SD, and Mesa, AZ, left this life Wednesday, Dec. 16, 2020 at Dobson House-Hospice of the Valley in Chandler, AZ.
Jerry moved to Custer in 1981, where he established himself as a horseman, land conservator, and active citizen. Allegedly this move was for him to retire from his position as director of camping for the American Lutheran Church. Joining him on this adventure were wife Carolyn "Linde" Lindekugel and daughter, Meggan Hannah. Peniel Valley Ranch (PVR) welcomed 84 guests the first summer of their residency. While adapting to western living, Jerry served as designer and teacher for Discipleship in Society, a program resulting in extensive travel in the United States and Europe.
In the Spring of 1987, Jerry became director of Outlaw, Atlantic Mountain, and Klein Ranches, the western camps of Lutherans Outdoors of South Dakota. He had begun his career as a YMCA camp director at 23, so he brought many skills and leadership to the position.
During this time, Jerry was working on creating a Habitat for Humanity Chapter in Rapid City. He served on the initial Wellspring Board and a community task force to address child sexual abuse. In his left-over time, Jerry ran some cattle, hiked, worked at restoring the land of PVR, took time to alpine ski, and followed the Boston Celtics and Minnesota Twins.
In 1991, Jerry resigned from Lutherans Outdoors, retiring again. However, in 1995 he began taking interim camp director calls in Minnesota, Wisconsin, Texas, Ohio, and California, often for a year or more at a time, and often with Linde.
The next decade was filled with leisure travel, biking adventures, Elderhostels, house-sitting, and wonderful months at the ranch. Because he treasured the written word, Jerry spent his seventies and eighties writing newsletters, historical narratives, and camping manuals, including a second edition of The Common Book of Camping with Mary Kettl.
Jerry was born Nov. 10, 1926, in Hibbing, MN, and grew up in St. Paul. He served in the U.S. Navy in the South Pacific during World Word II and later graduated from Macalester College. His career began with the YMCA of St. Paul in the Fall of 1949 and eventually led him to direct Camp St. Croix in Hudson, WI. These memorable years are still honored by staff who worked with him including a recent reunion of 85-plus alumni. From 1957-1962 he was Director of Camping and General Secretary of the YMCA of Metro Detroit. In the Fall of 1962, he undertook development of a 1200-acre property in Highland Lake, NY, creating a new Lutheran outdoor ministry: Koinonia. And in 1969, he was called to Minneapolis to design strategies for 65 American Lutheran Church camps across the U.S.
Pastor David Zellmer, retired bishop of the South Dakota Synod, ELCA, wrote, "Jerry was one of the foundational leaders in the new camping ministry of the Lutheran community in the 1960s. He shaped and molded generations of church leaders. He was a gift of rare proportions to the church."
Jerry was predeceased by his parents, Jenny Terhark and Howard Manlove; three older siblings; his first wife, Joanne Turner; his son, Mike; and his grandson, Seth. He will be sorely missed by his wife of 49 years, Linde; his children, Linda, Steve (Peggy Saunders), and Meggan; his daughter-in-law, Becca Brin; his seven grandchildren: Joy (Chris Armstrong), Kezia (Michael Lerch), Erin (George Henry), Joe (Leigh Spokas), Luke (Jami Erickson), and Celin (Sean Williams); three great-grandchildren; two sisters, Juanita and Marilyn; and the many nieces, nephews, and hundreds of friends who treasured his company over the years.
Due to COVID-19, a small funeral will be held at Love of Christ Lutheran Church in Mesa. The family hopes to have a memorial service in the Twin Cities in 2021.
Memorial gifts may be made to the Lutheran Outdoor Ministries Network, 1218 W. Addison St., Chicago, IL 60631 or the charity of your choice.
Final arrangements entrusted to Sonoran Skies Mortuary, Mesa, AZ.
Sponsored by Sunflower Cremation and Burial.
Laurie aka Blondie
July 9, 2024
Jerry Manlove changed my life when I worked for him at Outlaw Ranch as the Wrangler in Custer, South Dakota. He was the Best, tough but tender hearted. I loved listening to his stories & his love of life & our lord! He was a gentleman & mentor that I'll always remember his AMAZING BOLD LOUD LAUGH!!
Happy Trails Until We Meet Again...
Laurie aka Blondie

John Cross with Linde and Jerry Manlove at Love of Christ Lutheran Church, Mesa, Arizona, November 14, 2010
John Cross
December 29, 2020
Jerry's obituary was very complete and extremely well written. I met Jerry when I was 19 years old at a meeting of the American Lutheran Church Camp Directors in September, 1968. He was a camp leader extraordinaire, a consummate churchman, a trusted friend and an inspiration for everyone that he ever met. I loved how he laughed - with full gusto - just the way that he lived...
John Cross
December 29, 2020
I met Jerry back in 1969 when I was hired as a very young director of Camp Frederick, a brand new ALC camp near Negley, Ohio. The following two Septembers, I attended the National Camp Director's Workshop and Jerry was in charge. His laughter was infectious and the event was inspiring, fun, future-oriented, hands-on helpful, and filled with laughter, love and optimism for life and for helping children. I remember Jerry played a pretty mean game of basketball back in those days and was always very competitive!! I was 19 years old.
He helped launch me into a life of adventure and Ministry that included serving congregations, raising money for over 100 churches, and two epic bicycle trips, one in my twenties to Bolivia and one in my sixties in the USA, both in many ways inspired by the vision of Jerry.
He was the epitome of the Abundant Life. He never minced words and could be tough, but he loved people and he loved God. He was loyal to the church and did more for American Church camping than anyone I know. I owe so much to him and will always be grateful for the few times that I got to see him and to get to know him better.
It was appropriate that I last saw Jerry and Linde at Love Of Christ Lutheran Church in Mesa, Arizona in November of 2010. I was preaching on behalf of Kairos and met Jerry and Linde at the door afterwards. We had a long and delightful conversation. Three weeks later I took off on a 18-month bicycle journey across the country 2 and 1/2 half times. Again, my adventuresome Spirit really started when I met Jerry and I am so grateful for his incredible Spirit of joy.
He taught me that every life mattered and that we could be true Servants of God as leaders in the camping Ministry.
Linde, I don't know if you remember meeting me that day in Mesa, but I feel sadly I never saw you again after that. Please accept my sympathies and, even more than that, my joy in knowing that you shared almost 50 years with Jerry. You and Jerry were an amazing team in Ministry there in the Black Hills and all over the country. You were a integral part of his life and I know how much he loved you.
Many blessings to you.
John Cross
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Laiken Wiedmann
December 29, 2020
Condolences to this family. What an amazing person Mr. Manlove was.
Rollie & Peg Noem
December 24, 2020
Lindy - wow, a life well lived. Remembering Gerry and thinking of you with fond memories and much love Rollie & Peg
Thomas Patrick McGowan
December 23, 2020
Spring 1951, Jerry (with his friend Bob Nervig) dragged Roger Johnston and me into his downtown St. Paul YMCA office and convinced us we should get off the summer streets of St Paul and work for $50 at Camp St. Croix. We were there for three fascinating summers, and the memories are like yesterday. Jerry never understood the word NO. He was and will forever be in my mind a pinnacle of a fine, forceful, loving human being.
Ann Posner
December 23, 2020
I met and remember Jerry and Linde happily in Custer early 1980s...when they built a dream place there. A shining good man! Wonderful pair of humans!
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