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Frederick Filbert Obituary


Former Reading resident Frederick L. Filbert, 63, died April 24, 2010, at the Compassionate Care Hospice in Dover, N.J., after a brave fight with cancer. He was a resident of Morris Plains, N.J.

Fred was born Jan. 9, 1947, the only son of Florence and Leroy W. Filbert of Birdsboro. He was a descendant of noted Birdsboro residents Frank and Mary Salvati, who immigrated to America from Rome, Italy.

Fred attended Birdsboro Elementary School from 1952 to 1958 and Northwest Junior High School in Reading from 1958 to 1961. He graduated from Reading Senior High in 1964 with honors and awards for his artistic talent. He was a member of the Workshop Players theatrical group and the activities committee. His lively personality and humor are vividly remembered by his colleagues.

Following high school graduation, Fred entered the United States Navy in 1964. During his six years in the Navy, he served at Great Lakes, San Diego, Bethesda Naval Hospital, Twenty-Nine Palms and Okinawa. His naval experience brought him to the level of an accomplished medical illustrator. He was trained under the tutelage of Naval Corpsman R.A. Rydberg, who created the Kennedy assassination graphics. Fred was honorably discharged from the Navy in 1970.

Returning to Reading in 1970, Fred began a 32-year career with General Public Utilities, where he was active in graphics, training and managed GPU's first Web site. Fred was a well-known member of GPU's golf leagues and winner of many company tournament events. In 1993, Fred relocated to Morris Plains, N.J., where he continued his career with GPU subsidiary New Jersey Central Power & Light until his retirement in 2002.

In 1975, Fred met his lifelong partner of 35 years, Stephen Norris. On May 4, 2007, they were united in a civil union ceremony in Morristown, N.J. Over the years of their life together, Fred and Steve shared in the enjoyment of friends and family, home life and extensive travel. They often entertained at home, showcasing Fred's love and talent for cooking and hilarious mimicry of Julia Child.

Fred was celebrated for his talent as a watercolorist and his paintings reflect an appreciation for American Colonial architecture, Renaissance detail and, above all, the grandeur of the French Court of Louis XVI. Indeed, one of his favorite films was the 1938 version of "Marie Antoinette." He could quote many lines and witticisms from the film at will. His skill as a conversationalist and raconteur of history and anecdotes is well remembered by all who knew him.

Fred is survived by his civil union spouse, Stephen Norris, Morris Plains, N.J. He is also survived by his aunt, Jenny Seifert, and her son, Eugene, and his family, all of Birdsboro.

Gratitude and thanks to close friends Margaret Yevics, Philip Mangiafridda, Michael Alois, Douglas Howe, Richard Depippo, David Green, John Behr, Carolyn, Robert and Ilya Roberts, Mr. & Mrs C.A. Norris, Cindi and Kevin Caddell, Scott and Milli Norris, Cherrye Small, Glenn Ratkowski, Dennis Biehl, Rachel Fogel and Karen Walsh.

Trusting, loving, kind and endearing, Fred leaves his handprint on our hearts. He lives on within us all.

A funeral Mass was celebrated on Thursday, April 29, 2010, at Immaculate Conception Church in Montclair, N.J., where Fred was a parishioner.

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Published by Reading Eagle from Apr. 27 to May 2, 2010.

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Darlene Heffner

April 28, 2010

Dear Steve and Fred's Family,
To know Fred was to love him. He was like a brother to me. I worked with him for many years and we shared many talks about our lives, about you Steve and his Aunt. He loved you both very much.
He was a lovable and talented man.
He was always upbeat. I love his picture, as that was how I think of him, smiling. Dear Fred will be missed. I am so glad I got to know him and you Steve. Deepest Condolences. May all your wonderful times you shared together help you get thru this sad time. Love, Darlene

Pete Culshaw

April 28, 2010

Steve,
You have my deepest sympathy. Fred and I worked together in the IT Education Department at GPU and he was a really fun guy. He will be missed.

Camille DeMarco

April 28, 2010

Steve,
Fred was such a wonderful person. I will never forget the hours of fun we had together when you lived in Reading. The holiday dinners, mass at Holy Rosary, shopping at KOP, dinners at your house, the bon voyage at the dock in NYC .... Those memories will live with me forever. Please keep in touch and take of yourself.

Barbara Shields

April 27, 2010

Steve,
I was so sorry to hear of Fred's passing. I worked with him for many years at Jersey Central and have many fond memories. He always made me laugh and I can remember him trying to find the best Rice Pudding in New Jersey.

Rob & Robin Lozinski

April 27, 2010

Steve,
You both have been such wonderful friends to us. We share your love and sorrow in the loss of Fred. He will truly be missed and fondly remembered. All our love to you.

April 27, 2010

Steve, My sincere condolance on Fred's passing. I always enjoyed working with him at GPU Service. He will be sorely missed. Charlie Black

Pat Yevics

April 27, 2010

Dear Steve,
My deepest sympathy. I can still remember the time we went to Annapolis on the ship. I still have the ridiculous picture. The obit was wonderful. He will surely be missed.

Pat Yevics-Eisenberg

Michael Alois

April 27, 2010

Fred, You were true to our hearts, we will remember you always for your kind and loving ways. Steve, Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Michael & Phil

Glenn Gratkowski

April 27, 2010

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Dennis Bielskie

April 27, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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