Laura Mae (Scanlan) Cagle, 38, Reading, formerly of Schuylkill Haven, passed away Aug. 15, 2008, after a lengthy illness. Her loving husband of 13 years, Steven, was by her side.
She was born Oct. 4, 1969, in Portsmouth, Va., to Bonnie J. Zimmerman, Pottsville; and the late Vincent C. Scanlan.
In addition to her mother and husband, she is survived by a brother, Patrick M. Scanlan, and his wife, Tricia, Clay, N.Y.; and a sister, Lisa M. Rossi, and her husband, Eugene, St. Clair.
She cherished her three godchildren: Malachi D. Lockhart, Kannapolis, N.C.; Sonja M. Rossi, St. Clair; and Elizabeth L. Scanlan, Clay.
She also leaves behind her two beloved parakeets, Captain Bamm-Bamm and Sergeant Pepper.
Laura was considered a daughter to Mary Ann Cagle, Concord, N.C.; and a sister to Cathleen Halterman, and her husband, Jay, Muncie, Ind.; Amy L. Palmier and David Dubowski, both of Clayton, N.C.; and Laura E. Fry, and her husband, Ken, Concord.
She had six nieces and four nephews: Carolyn, Julie, Sonja, Briana, Katie, Betsy, David, Joe, P.J. and Jack, all of whom she treasured along with five great-nephews: Malachi, Micah, Noah, Jackson and Desmond.
She was a proud and devoted member of Advent Lutheran Church, West Lawn, where she belonged to the choir, taught Sunday school, served on various committees and was a former council member.
She was employed for the past 14 years as a residential services aide by the Hamburg Center.
She had many friends, touched many hearts and will be sorely missed.
Donations in Laura's name may be made to the memorial fund of Advent Lutheran Church, 16 Telford Ave., West Lawn, PA 19609.
A memorial service will be Thursday at 7 p.m. in Advent Lutheran Church, West Lawn. A viewing will be held Friday 6 to 8 p.m. and Saturday 10 to 11 a.m., followed by a religious service at 11 a.m. in Robert A. Evans Jr. Funeral Home, 208 Pike St., Port Carbon. The Rev. William E. Zimmermann will officiate.
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Renee (Luckenbill) Keller
August 29, 2008
To Laura's Family,
I also graduated with Laura from Blue Mt. HS. Although I wasn't very close to her, I remember her being very friendly, quick witted, very intelligent and very upbeat!! I'm deeply sadened to hear of her passing!!!! My prayers are with your famliy at this time. May God be a comfort to you!
Stacey (Trotter)Sidella
August 27, 2008
To Laura's Family,
I was so sorry to hear about Laura's passing. I, too, graduated high school with her and remember several specific incidents where she had me cracking up laughing over something that was (at the time) supposed to be quite serious. World Cultures class wouldn't have the same excitement without her. I'm sure for those of you who knew her better than me her life was an adventure ... just knowing how she could roll her eyes makes me think of the funny situations she must have enjoyed in her life. I hope she kept her humor until the very end...it is after all our humor that sometimes relieves others' stress....peace to your family.
Jennifer (O'Rourke) Brueninghaus
August 26, 2008
To All in Laura's Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Laura's passing. I graduated from Blue Mt. High with her, and we were in the chorus and ensemble together. One year, we practiced to put on a "Disney Spectacular"--something that required us to sing AND dance. Neither one of us were very good at the latter, but Laura could at least remember all the moves! That's more than I can say for myself. Anyway, thanks to her sarcastic wit and good-natured laughter, I muddled through the ordeal and remember it and Laura fondly. My heart goes out to all of you. She was too young to leave you, but I'm sure she's in a better place.
Bob Hart
August 24, 2008
Bonnie,
Sorry to hear of your loss.
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Mara Haag
August 22, 2008
Steve, I was so saddened to hear of your loss.I picture Laura joining the angels in heaven adding her voice to a beautiful song. It seems like only a short time ago that we were in High School together singing and laughing toghether! She had such a great attitude and always made me laugh. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Karen Roeder
August 21, 2008
Steve, My thoughts are with you and my prayers are for you. May God keep you in His care.
beth rehrer
August 21, 2008
steve, words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.call me any time if you want to talk. beth rehrer & ellen weirich (jeff's mom)
Jody Brossman
August 21, 2008
Dear Bonnie,
I was very sorry to hear about your daughter Laura. I hope your memories of good times will help ease your pain.
Jody
Kathy O'Connor
August 21, 2008
Dear Steve, Bonnie, Pat, and Lisa
I am trying to find the words… I can’t find any that would adequately express to you the emptiness that I feel, though I am sure you know how my heart is aching! Laura started out my cousin, and became my friend and soul sister. We knew and shared things about each other and ourselves that we shared with no others. So many times we knew what the other was thinking before it was said. I wish we had spent more time together! I am thankful that whenever we were together, it was always so full of laughter and memorable moments. No one knew how to make us laugh like Laura did! No one else but she and I could have had so much fun breaking down in a place called Beaufort, South Carolina!
Steve,
No one knows better than you, how everyday ordinary activities could become an adventure when it was done with Laura.
As kids Laura and I were separated by distance and when distance no longer separated us, work schedules, or our own obligations did. But whenever together, it was as if our last meeting had been just the day before. Though death separates us now, I know we will meet again; but it is still so damn hard to let her go! I think of her, see her face and hear her laugh and wish that I could somehow bring her back!
You two were so truly perfect for each other. I know for a fact that meeting you was the best thing that ever happened to Laura. She had never been happier than she was with you. So thank you for making Laura’s life complete! For helping her experience TRUE LOVE! Thank you for putting Laura ahead of all else! And thank you for ALL you did for her! But most of all thank you for honoring those words for better or worse, in sickness and health, till death do us part. She could not have gone through all that she had without you by her side!
You will always be a part of our family, we love you, will keep in touch with you, our doors are always open to you and your family, if you need us anytime, day or night, you know where we are and how to get in touch with us.
Love Ya,
Deb & John Banaszewski
August 20, 2008
Steve, Our words cannot not express how deeply we feel your loss. Laura was so special.....her light will always shine.. our heartfelt sympathy
Debbie and Kevin Kocher
August 20, 2008
Dearest Bonnie: God loves Laura. God loves Steve. God loves your family. God loves you. Prayers and condolences to you and yours. Love, Debbie and Kevin and family, (Joey too, of course!)
Kathy & Barb
August 19, 2008
Steve,
We are deeply saddened by Laura's death and we are holding you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. Barb and I will always cherish the memories we have of time spent with you and Laura. What an incredible person she is! You are her perfect mate. We will welcome the time when we can be with her again as well. Take care of yourself. God's blessings...
Sandra & Patrick Murray
August 19, 2008
To my dear cousin, Bonnie, and her son-in-law, Steve: Please know we feel your pain and send our love and prayers your way. Your Aunt Anna also sends her prayers and love.
Good night sweet Laura, and may angels wing you on your way.
John & Jana Fedoriska Jr.
August 19, 2008
Steve,
My wife and I never met Laura, but we knew she was special because of the devotion and love you have for her. Though we have prayed many times for her recovery , the Lord wanted her by HIS side. He called her home, out of the pain and misery of this life, into a world that we ourselves could never imagine. She went to prepare a place for you by His side also. Grieve, but despair not; for she is with you always.
sincerely, John & Jana
Ed & Sandy Bair
August 19, 2008
Dear Bonnie and family . . .
May God’s blessings and the memories of your loved one support you forever.
Sharon Rutledge
August 19, 2008
Steve,
Lydia let me know about the passing of your dear wife. I'm sorry I never got to meet her.
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Vicki Thomas
August 19, 2008
Steve, I was so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time.
Joyce Miechowski DiCello
August 19, 2008
Bonnie, with great saddness I read your emails about Laura's passing into Heavan. God is holding her in His hands.
May God hold you and her family and give you comfort and peace.
Steven Cagle
August 19, 2008
To Laura Mae,
My sweetheart, my best friend. We had the best 14+ years. I can't believe you are gone, my world is not the same without you by my side, though i know you are always an angel on my shoulder til we meet again. You were the best wife a man could ask for. I am a better person for having you in my life. You are my rock and my salvation I love you more than words can express. Always in my heart, Steven
Bob & Grace Calhoun
August 19, 2008
Dear Steve,
We pray for peace and comfort from our Lord for you and your family.
You and Laura have always been dear to us.
with love,
Bob,Grace, Tommy,and Bobby
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next.
Amen.
August 18, 2008
Bonnie My heart goes out to you.I didn't know laura personally but in my heart i felt like i did.just by the wonderful things you told me about her and the beautiful voice she had Bonnie every day i see you and all i see is the hurt in your eyes my prayers are with you always.(Your Aide)Brenda Shivelhood
Stephanie Giannini
August 18, 2008
Pat, Tricia, & Family,
We're so sorry to hear about your sister. She was a great person and she will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time.
Rob, Steph, and family
Corrina Willier
August 18, 2008
Steve,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss but never forget she will always be with you. I will never forget all the memories I have of her. Let your memories of her bring you comfort in the upcoming days. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Patti & Jim Mansfield
August 18, 2008
Bonnie, Steve and all family,
We were sorry to hear of Laura's passing; however, she is always with you in Spirit and now she is at peace in the loving arms of her Lord and her trial is over in this lifetime.
We send you all our love and prayers for your comfort in this time.
Craig & Rhonda Muthersbaugh
August 18, 2008
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cathy Heim
August 18, 2008
Steve,
So sorry to hear about Laura.
A beautiful voice and a beautiful person!
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless...
Kathleen Bortz
August 18, 2008
Steve, I extend my deepest sympathy to you during this very difficult time. May your memories of Laura and your life together bring you strength and comfort in the coming days.
Rob and Steph Giannini
August 18, 2008
Steve,
We are so sad to hear about Laura. She was such a sweet person. Please accept our sincere condolences during this difficult time. Stay strong and take good care.
God Bless,
Robert, Stephanie, Robby, John, and Victoria Giannini
mell edwards
August 18, 2008
Steve,
so sorry for your loss
kathy james
August 18, 2008
dear
Steve,
So very sorry to hear about Laura.You're in my thoughts & prayers.
Donette Gagliardi
August 18, 2008
Bonnie, Pat, and Lisa, I was shocked and saddened to see of Laura's death. I did not realize she was in ill health for some time. Now she is at peace with no more pain or suffering. Please accept our sincere condolences. Donette and Joe
Tracey Reichert
August 18, 2008
To Steve and family,
My heartfelt prayers and sympathy go to you all at this time. May God grant you peace and comfort. Laura was one of the nicest and most genuine people I have ever met. God Bless you all.
Lydia Rieger (Walmsley)
August 17, 2008
Dear Steve,
I am so sorry to hear about Laura. I have been wanting to get in touch with you for so long. I am sorry that it took this to finally reach out to you again. I hope we can connect soon. I live in my mother's old house so I am close by. I hope to see you soon. You and your family and Laura's family are in my heart and prayers!
Howard Rohrbach
August 17, 2008
Steve, I wish to express my most heartfelt Sympathy for your loss. May God be with you at this most difficult time.
Kathleen Cooper
August 17, 2008
Bonnie I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and her husband.
Ron and Darlene Fross
August 17, 2008
We wish to add our heart felt sympathy to the messages you have received. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Michelle Curran and Gerald Pavlishin
August 17, 2008
Steve, Gerry and I are so sorry for your loss. It should be some comfort to you knowing that she is free of her pain. Laura will be sadly missed by everyone.
Ruth Davis
August 17, 2008
Sorry to get this sad news.I know she will be missed. She is loved deeply by family. Aunt Ruth
Nancy Arnold
August 17, 2008
Bonnie -
I'm so sorry to learn of Laura's passing. Know that she is at peace, out of pain and in a much better place. May God give you the strength you need during this time. Remember the beautiful memories you have of your daughter.
Newton and Lynn Mull
August 17, 2008
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Gary & Donna Moyer
August 17, 2008
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Regina & Joe Marmer
August 17, 2008
Steve, Our condolences to you at this difficult time.
Robert Giannini family
August 17, 2008
Steve, Bonnie, Pat, Lisa, and family,
We are so saddened to learn about Laura's passing. We will always remember her as a wonderful, caring and sweet aunt to all of our grandchildren, and to all of our family here in Philadelphia. Laura will be deeply missed but lovingly remembered by us and all who had the honor of knowing her. May the peace of God be with you and your family at this so very sad time. God Bless, and our deepest sympathy. Bob, Pat Giannini and family
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