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Thomas Confer Obituary

Thomas R. Confer, 93, passed away August 2, 2023, in his Hamburg residence. He was the loving companion to Shirley M. Wilhelm for over 33 years. Born in Reading, he was a son of the late Thomas F. and Faye (Ritter) Confer. He and his family were direct descendants of Conrad Weiser. He was a graduate of Hamburg High School and later attended Mercersburg Academy until being called to military duty. Thomas was the co-owner and operator of Rau Brother's Appliances, Hamburg for many years. Thomas served our nation proudly and valiantly in the US Army during the Korean Conflict. Family and faith were most important to Thomas. He was a life-long member of First United Church of Christ of Hamburg where he held many offices and lastly served as a church elder. Thomas was a 32nd Degree Mason, a member of several Veteran's organizations, life member of the Moose, and proudly became an Eagle Scout and Troop Leader where he shared the knowledge of survival skills to the younger generation. A memorial service will be held Monday August 7, 2023, at 11 a.m. at First United Church of Christ, 76 South 3rd St, Hamburg, PA 19526 with burial to follow at St. John's Cemetery. A visitation will be Monday from 10 a.m. to 11 a.m., at the church. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to First United Church of Christ at the above address. Kuhn Funeral Home & Crematory, Inc., Hamburg is in charge of arrangements. Online condolences may be expressed at www.kuhnfuneralhomes.com.

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Published by Reading Eagle from Aug. 4 to Aug. 6, 2023.

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Boy Scout Troop 184

August 28, 2023

Mary Ellen (Starr) Letsche

August 7, 2023

Sending prayers and condolences to Shirley and family in this sad time. Remembering Tommy and his great sense of humor! Good life - RIP.

Robert J. Miklas, AT2AC, USN, 1963-1967.

August 6, 2023

"A soldier has passed away today." You are now relieved from your post. A job well done fellow veteran. America thanks you for your service to our country in the defense of freedom. We all are grateful for your stepping up to the plate when your country needed you the most. The final bugle has sounded and taps is about to sound ending a successful career as a nation“s defender. Farewell fellow veteran. A Navy Vietnam Veteran.

Sissy Russek

August 5, 2023

Very sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I remember him always smiling and quick to laugh. Such a nice man. Fond memories of his visits to my uncle's, Tom's business partner's home.

Scott Lutz

August 5, 2023

My sincere condolences go out to Tommy's family and friends. Tommy was a very great man my father and I did a lot of business with him and Steve at Ray Brothers RIP Tommy

Ken Merkel

August 5, 2023

Tom was my scout leader about 65 years ago. A great guy who did a lot for us scouts. I'll never forget him and all the fun times we had.

Jesse and Nancy Shrom -Florida

August 5, 2023

Sending our thoughts and prayers. Tim did so much for our community. Always a smile. So glad we got to know him.

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First United Church of Christ

76 South 3rd St, Hamburg, PA

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First United Church of Christ

76 South 3rd St, Hamburg, PA

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