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Kenneth Harold Barnes

1939 - 2021

Kenneth Harold Barnes obituary, 1939-2021, Kensington, CA

Kenneth Barnes Obituary

Kenneth Harold Barnes

Beloved pastor, Kenneth Harold Barnes, passed away in his home on December 3, 2021. Kenneth Harold Hoberg was born on January 5, 1939, to Marion and Harold Hoberg in Oakland, CA. After losing Harold to heart disease in 1944,
Marion remarried a WWII veteran, William Barnes, who adopted Ken and his brother, David, at which point they also adopted the name Barnes. Shortly after, Ken's sister Elaine was born and they all lived in Kelseyville, CA.
As vital members of the agricultural tight-knit community, Ken grew to become a force in athletics. Playing football, basketball and running track for Kelseyville High, Ken established several records, at least one of which still stands to this day. He was also valedictorian for his high school class.
From Kelseyville, Ken first went to Redlands College in Southern California on a part-time football scholarship then transferred to the University of California at Berkeley to finish his degree in political science. He was a lifelong Cal Bear. We are happy to report, his last game to watch his beloved bears, resulted in their overwhelming defeat of the arch-rival Stanford University.
After graduating UC Berkeley, he trained at the S.F. Theological Seminary. During his time in Seminary, he and a bus load of ministers drove from the Bay Area to Selma, Alabama, to March with Dr. Martin Luther King after the Selma massacre. Ken was ordained by the Presbyterian Church in 1965, later transferring his credentials to the United Church of Christ. He served a Presbyterian parish in Scotland before beginning a legacy of service to Local Churches in NCNC-UCC. His settled pastoral ministry included Orinda Community Church, United Church of Hayward, and Arlington Community Church for 22 years before serving churches nationwide as an interim minister (including First Congregational Church of Sonoma, Community Congregational Church in
Tiburon, and First Congregational Church of San Rafael). His final interim position was at his childhood church, Kelseyville Presbyterian Church.
In the summer of 1968, Ken proposed to
Donna Brazzi and the two were married on September 15. The couple had met a decade earlier when they were both working at Hoberg's Resort and fell in love on the dance floor. In 1973, they became the proud parents of a little girl, Monica. The family spent their summer vacations in Lake County and visited often to see family and swim in Clear Lake. Their last visit was this past August and the two photos above are from this time in Lake County.
Ken is survived by his wife Donna, daughter Monica, son-in-law David, brother David, sister Elaine and an enormous cadre of cousins, nieces, and nephews. Ken was a proud member of Alcoholics Anonymous, a role model within the community with 48 years of sobriety. He was a lifelong Cal Bear and joked that he still had a few years of eligible play if the UC Berkeley football team ever needed him. The family is happy to report that in one of the last games he watched, his beloved team defeated their arch-rival Stanford University. Ken was an amazing spirit whose open heart and devout Christian faith allowed him to touch the lives of all with whom he came into contact. He will be deeply missed
Memorial: Sunday, December 19, at 2 p.m., the Arlington Community Church, Kensington. Proof of vaccination and mask required to attend.

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Published by Lake County Record-Bee from Dec. 17 to Dec. 23, 2021.

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Dick Loveall

February 28, 2024

Dear Donna, please know that I saddened by your loss. Both of us were SAEs at Cal and he was a valued and respected fraternity member. One summer, while still in college, I had the good fortune to meet his family in Lake County, very nice people. Please keep writing. I enjoyed your book which had much to say about your full marriage. Fondly,
Dick Loveall

Carolyn Whalen

August 12, 2023

We just learned of Ken's passing. Donna, and Monica, please accept our late condolences. Tom, Holly, Jenny, and I have many happy memories of our days with Ken and the South Hayward UCC family.

Gregg and May Remsing

March 30, 2022

We met Ken in Hayward in 1979. He officiated at our backyard wedding. This April we will celebrate our 43rd anniversary. Even though our contact was brief we enjoyed our time with him. We even held his pet tarantula. Of course the years have gone by and I wondered how he was doing. I Googled his name and found this obituary. We are sorry to learn of his passing. He was a special person.

Ann Means

December 24, 2021

Condolences to his family . I remember him teaching swim lessons at Clear Lake State park many many years ago. He was a good man.

Mark and Margaret Marshall ( Meagan too!)

December 18, 2021

We offer our condolences to Donna, Monica, Dave and their extended family. It was a pleasure to know Ken through his support of Monica's many performances. He was a friendly soul and touched us in ways we will never forget. xxoo

Terry Provance

December 17, 2021

Donna and Monica, I am so sorry to learn of Ken's passing and will always remember his bright spirit and smile. I regret that we lost contact but certainly wish you well during this special moment. Love to you, Terry

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Lydia Martin

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Roger Tharp

December 17, 2021

When in grammar school, I remember watching Ken play sports for the Kelseyville Indians, most notably football.
Last time I talked with him was when he spoke at Ray Kennedy's funeral in Kelseyville.
What a great career he had. RIP Ken.

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