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Marilyn Buckner Obituary

Marilyn Louise Buckner Marilyn Louise Buckner passed away peacefully on October 22, 2023 at the age of 92, surrounded by her three sons. Lynn was precise and true in all that she did. Her accounts balanced to the penny and her seams were straight to the last stitch. Not ruled by the court of public opinion, and ever resistant to the confinements of housewife culture, she was a true pioneer for a woman born in 1931. Lynn was born on June 14, 1931, raised in Painesville, OH. Her family immigrated from Finland and she took great pride in her Finnish heritage. Lynn moved to California, attending college and serving as a majorette in the Fresno State Bulldog Marching Band. While attending Fresno State, she met Marshall Buckner (Doc) and they married in 1951. Lynn and Marshall settled in Lake County in 1968 after living in Southern California and Redding. Lynn was deeply spiritual and embraced meditation and yoga long before it was mainstream. She found a spiritual home in Eckankar and built beautiful friendships through her Eck worship. She was a founding member of the Clearlake Clikkers clogging group and came alive when dancing. In her later years, her hearing suffered but she still danced in perfect timing because she could, "feel the music". The greatest love of Lynn's life was her family. Any rough edges melted away when surrounded by family at the dinner table or playing with her great grandchildren. Lynn is survived by her three sons, Dan, Les (Heidi), David (Linda); granddaughters, Ashley Pasion (Glenn), Jamie Buckner-Bridges (Jake), Nicole Chen, Christie Moore (Jake); five great grandchildren and sister, Pat Thomas (Jim). Lynn's love, strength, and bold authenticity were deep and rare gifts that will be dearly missed. There will be no public service and at Lynn's request, her ashes will be spread over the Pacific Ocean. Please share your memories by signing the guest book at www.record-bee.com. In lieu of flowers, donations can be sent to the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation at www.jdrf.org. Arrangements by Chapel of the Lakes Mortuary 707-263-0357 or 994-5611 or visit chapelofthelakes.com.

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Published by Lake County Record-Bee from Nov. 4 to Nov. 10, 2023.

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Marilyn Guenther

November 20, 2023

Lynn was a great lady and I enjoyed getting to know her during our years of clogging together. We talked about diabetes and did share a first name. I will always remember her with a smile and appreciate her wonderful energy. Wishing peace and happiness to her family with their wonderful memories which will keep her always in their hearts.

Vivian and Harley

November 8, 2023

Aunt Marilyn was a true Finn through and through. SISU, that was her.
I´ll always cherish the summers I spent on the ranch as a teen. I looked forward to the cards and phone calls we shared over the years. I will always hold a special place in my heart for her. I´m so thankful Harley and I were able to come visit in the spring.
There is a void knowing she´s no longer with us, but I know we´ll meet again someday. Until then, prayers for her family as they travel through this difficult time. God Bless

Jennifer matsler

November 6, 2023

Sending our Condolences to Dave and Linda and all the family,Beautiful picture of Lynn just as I rememberd her,she lived a long life and loved her kids and grandbabies to the fullness and that there makes for a wonderful life,hugs to all the family in this sad time

Bob and Connie Crone

November 5, 2023

Extending our deepest condolences to Dave and Linda and the entire family. She was a very special lady. Love, Bob and Connie Crone

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