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David Cooley Obituary


David J. Cooley "DJ" suddenly left this earth, bound for heaven on Nov. 25, 2012. He is survived by his mother, Jennifer Durso; his grandmother, Joan Cooley; his uncles, Eric Cooley and Don Cooley; his aunt, Kate Brunelle; his brother, Scott Durso; his sister, Rebecca Maslar; and many friends who will greatly miss him.
Services were held Dec. 1, 2012 at the North Haven Funeral Home.

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Published by North Haven Citizen on Dec. 7, 2012.

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Jacob urban

March 7, 2025

I knew David when we were both young around 1997ish.
He knew me as DJ and we both lived in the same apartment complex on cherry Street in Wallingford we were friends for a summer and I remember him and prolly will till I'm not on this world any more .

We did run into each other through our our life's so when I heard of his passing I truly was saddened that he is not going to grow up and have kids and to do the things we all take for granted.

I'm sorry Dave

Colleen Moses Neligon

November 23, 2022

Wow Dave it's been 10 years now. You had a such a big heart and were such a good friend to Russell. I need a favor from you. Can you just take a look around and see if you run into Russell up there. Grab him by the hair and send me a sign. He vanished almost 1 year ago now. The hole that is left in a mom's heart will never heal from the loss of a child. Maybe send me a patch to stop the bleeding. I always got to see the happy and smiling side of you. You are loved and missed by many Dave. God bless you and your family

Jeff Herkner

June 25, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. -love

Jeff Herkner

June 25, 2020

Dave Cooley was a free spirt with the heart of a lion. Him and I had some of the coolest times throwing parties and even though he spiked my yagermister with god knows what, his extremely caring and loving mother had to drive me home. Dave if you can hear me you were truly a bestfriend of mine. Even thought I am just learning of him passing away I wish to pay my respects to his family and his mother. Jen please text 2039807477 or call 2032480124 I wish to pay tribute and express my deepest condolences. God bless you dave cooley you were loyal, passionate and caring friend. I miss ya brother. God bless -

December 14, 2012

You have my deepest sympathy. May good memories provide solace for your family during this challenging time; and may God provide you with the assurance that you will see your loved one again in Paradise. John 17:3

valerie poland

December 12, 2012

Rip Dave only the good die young. I can't believe your really gone... Watch over your loved ones you will always be in our hearts AND will never be forgotten. Rest easy dave. I'll miss you. Rock the heavens baby boy.

CHRISTA VERA

December 12, 2012

R.I.P DAVE IT'S TERRIBLY SAD THAT U WERE GIVIN SUCH A SHORT TIME HERE ON EARTH BUT UP THERE.U HAVE ETERNAL PEACE SO ENJOY MY FRIEND!!!

December 5, 2012

Dear Joan and Family,
I was so shocked to learn of your grandson's sudden and tragic death. My thoughts and prayers go to you at this most difficult time.

With deepest sympathy,
Fran Cole

Neil Kennedy Sr

November 30, 2012

So very sorry to learn of Davids passing

Lisa, Jessica & Lindsey

November 30, 2012

Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your beloved family member.

Colleen Moses

November 30, 2012

D ay turns to night
A nd burns away the light
V oices are heard from above
I nto the sky
D ave now you can fly
J ust watch from above
C ause I'm sending a dove
O n its way with love
O nly for you!!
L ight that sky up
E verything will be ok
Y our in our hearts each day

November 30, 2012

I was saddened to learn of David's passing.I watched him grow from a child to a wonderful young man who was always respectful to me. My prayers go out to you and your family. God bless you. Elaine Silengo.

Boh Rousseau

November 30, 2012

I am so so sorry for your loss. I was so saddened by the news. I was a para at Clintonville and was in class with David for two years and then saw him at the MS in Guidance. I will always remember him with fondness.

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