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Helen Kaferle Obituary

Helen Tobiczyk Kaferle
Helen Tobiczyk Kaferle, 99, of Chapel Hill, NC, formerly of Meriden, CT, passed away peacefully with her family by her side February 16, 2024, at the University of North Carolina Medical Center.
Born June 1, 1924, in Library, PA, to the late Joseph and Frances Tobiczyk she was predeceased by her husband of 70 years, John A. Kaferle.
"Tobi" as she was known by her close friends was a longtime resident of Meriden and a fixture at Meriden City Hall for many years where she worked in the Assessor's Office. She also worked in the Meriden Welfare Office and at the Napier Co.
She moved to Chapel Hill, NC in 2017 after her husband's passing.
To know Tobi was to know someone with near boundless energy and concern and love for her family and friends. She loved to travel, dance, watch the New York Yankees and Connecticut Huskies women's basketball team and most of all, be with her grandchildren. One of her grandsons confessed just recently that he loved going to her house because she and his grandfather let him get away with a lot more than his parents, like jumping from furniture piece to furniture piece with a cape on like Superman.
Besides her parents and husband, she was predeceased by her brothers, Joseph and Frederick and sister Adelaide. She also was predeceased by her lifelong friend and partner in fun Marie Gardiner.
She is survived by her sons John and his wife Marcia of Ridgefield, CT and Daniel and his wife Linda of Chapel Hill, NC. She also is survived by grandchildren Karl and his wife Colleen of Norwalk, CT, Anne of Helper, UT, Colin of Portland, OR, and Ian and his wife Annie of Berkeley, CA. Also, great-grandchildren Mette, Kelsey and Theo. She was very close to her niece, Tisha Mears of Yukon, PA.
A celebration of Helen's life will be held later this year.
Donations can be made in Helen's name to the Step Forward Scholarship Fund, PO Box 4631, Chapel Hill, NC, 27515-4631.
The family would like to thank the staff at Brookdale Meadowmont in Chapel Hill for their compassionate care in her last years.
Walker's Funeral Home of Chapel Hill, 11680 US Highway 15 501 N, Chapel Hill, North Carolina 27517 is in charge of arrangements.

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Published by The Record-Journal on Feb. 22, 2024.

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Bill Wallace

February 15, 2025

One year ago tomorrow we lost a very lovely woman. Helen became a good friend to many of us. Her beautiful smile is still missed. She was a very special person.

Steve Hodgetts

March 7, 2024

Helen was my secretary at the Assessor's Office in Meriden, but also a good friend/ She and her husband were at the wedding of myself and Diann/She was a wonderful lady. Too bad she didn't make it to 100 to get her "telegram from the Queen". We had joked about that.

Whit Gardiner

February 23, 2024

I was saddened to hear 'Tobi' had passed. She was a shining light to all of us and my Mom's best friend. I have a lifetime of memories of the good times we've had together. She made all of us smile with her sense of humor. Our families have been very close thru the years. My sincere condolences to the Kaferle family. We will all miss Tobi.

Bill Wallace

February 22, 2024

Rich Gibson

February 22, 2024

Dan,
My condolences on the passing of your Mom. May she Rest in Peace.
Rich Gibson. Class of 1970

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